Don't Date Broke Men Who Judge You

This week on The Meet Market podcast, Lindsay and Jess sit down with the one and only Alli from the Valley, who’s lived a life full of twists, turns, and a whole lot of resilience. From living in her car as a kid to running her own successful business today, Alli’s story is anything but typical. If you're tired of the same old dating advice, trust us, this episode’s about to shake up your perspective.

Now, let's talk Scottsdale dating. Alli describes it as the absolute worst. And after hearing some of her stories, we can’t blame her. Picture this: dates where men are literally selling drugs in the bathroom or pretending to be something they’re not. Alli’s been there, done that, and still managed to keep her sense of humor about it. Her experiences give us a hilarious—and slightly terrifying—look into the modern dating world, where authenticity is sometimes harder to find than a decent guy at a bar.

But despite all the chaos, Alli has learned a thing or two about navigating relationships. Her biggest takeaway? Know yourself first. She’s all about being clear on who you are before getting into anything serious. In fact, she believes that the more you know about yourself, the faster you’ll spot those red flags when they pop up in a relationship. Sounds like good advice to us!

Alli’s got some strong opinions on gender roles, too. As a successful business owner and a woman who’s had to step into traditionally “masculine” roles (hello, boss lady!), she’s tired of being the only one making decisions. She doesn’t want to stress over what to have for dinner after making 25 business decisions that day. She’s not looking for someone to take over, but she does want a partner who can balance out her energy and lighten the load. Is that too much to ask? Apparently not, but a lot of men seem to think it is.

Oh, and let’s talk money for a minute. Alli’s no stranger to being the higher earner in a relationship, and she’s not afraid to admit that it impacts things. She’s got high standards, and if her partner can’t show up for themselves, they definitely won’t be able to show up for her. Can we get a hell yeah for knowing your worth?

What’s refreshing about Alli’s perspective is that she’s not just surviving the dating world—she’s thriving. She knows what she brings to the table, and she’s looking for someone who adds value, not drama. She’s not about to settle for someone who’s only halfway in, and that’s the kind of energy we need more of in the dating game.

So, if you’re out there swiping left and right, dealing with the messiness of modern dating, or just looking for a good laugh, this episode is for you. Alli’s stories, wisdom, and real talk will leave you questioning your own relationship standards—and maybe even help you up your dating game in the process.

Tune in, laugh, and learn from Alli, the woman who’s not just surviving in the dating world but crushing it. Trust us, this is one ride you don’t want to miss.