Episodes

Your dating life might improve the second you stop treating every swipe like a job interview. Big Beauner joins us for a hilarious conversation about dating apps, first dates, and why having a personality might actually get you further than having perfect profile pics. We talk mini golf dates, profile photo catfishing, power couples, and that awkward space between “just having fun” and “okay, so what are we?” Then things get a little messier when we get into open relationships, honesty, conse...

A backwards full-court shot sounds like something you try once at a party and immediately blame on the lighting. Jeremy did it enough times to become a three-time Guinness World Record holder. We get into the crazy discipline behind trick shots, chasing records, and what happens when the cameras turn off. Then things take a hard left into dating and divorce, including betrayal, dating apps, and discovering your relationship has way more secrets than you thought. And then there’s the identi...

A glow up can really scramble the dating algorithm. Ivy, 23, joins us to talk weight loss, new hair, suddenly getting way more attention, and the hilarious moment when guys go from “you’re so fun” to “I want something serious” like they just discovered LinkedIn. We get into dating without apps, meeting people through pickleball, soccer, run clubs, and random community events, plus why real-life flirting beats collecting 47 “hey” messages from men you will never meet. Ivy shares what actually ...

A Halloween party, a Roger Rabbit costume, and one random stranger saying, “You’d be perfect for a male review show.” Somehow, Ali ends up dancing at a Scottsdale nightclub and discovering that confidence pays the bills. We get into male stripper life, dating app chaos, OnlyFans, going viral, and getting stood up because someone Googled him. Ali also opens up about a near-death experience that changed everything, leading to sobriety, meditation, and a full life reset. Plus, breakup drama, ...

Hinge, Bumble, or just hoping someone hot makes eye contact at a bar? April has tried enough dating options to know that finding someone is easy. Finding someone who actually wants a relationship? Different story. Our Scottsdale bartender spills on dating in your 30s, situationships, catfishing, creepy “friends,” and the classic “I’m just having fun” line that nobody asked for. We get into dating with intention, spotting mixed signals, and why seeing someone back on Hinge is basically a jump ...

Dating without apps sounds impossible. Add no alcohol and no hookups, and somehow Gabe still makes it work. We had to find out how. Gabe is a natural bodybuilder and fitness coach who shares why he ditched swipe culture, what he actually looks for in a relationship, and why compatibility starts with shared habits, not just chemistry. We also get into fitness dating, Christian values, steroids, GLP-1s, and the standards people expect from a partner but rarely expect from themselves. If you've e...

You know those dating stories that make your friends yell, "THERE'S NO WAY"? Emily somehow has one every week. Just when you think she's hit peak chaos, another guy shows up and somehow makes the last one look normal. Emily is back, and now she's navigating dating while going viral on TikTok. We get into creepy DMs, guys shooting their shot in the worst ways possible, bar disasters, situationships that should've stayed in the group chat, and the unemployed guy promising a stay-at-home wife li...

Want to date a pro athlete? Paige has spent years around the NFL, and she knows what actually gets their attention and what sends you straight to the bench. As the CEO of The Draft Network, Paige shares what it's really like working in football, dealing with internet trolls, and earning respect in one of the most male-dominated industries. We also get into athlete dating, cheating stereotypes, groupie culture, and whether fame actually makes relationships harder. Plus, we answer a listener...

Dating apps or run clubs? Which one actually leads to better dates? Martin, a marathon runner and fitness coach, joins us to settle the debate and explain why the best match is not always the one with the best profile. We get into meeting people at the gym, dating app burnout, first-date disasters, and the little red flags that end relationships before they even start. We also talk healthy habits, why lifestyle compatibility matters, and the phone clues that can expose a cheater faster than ...

Would you date a woman who makes more money than you? For some guys, that's a deal breaker. Heather, host of Dear Heather, joins us to unpack why success, confidence, and changing gender roles still make people weird when it comes to dating. We get into people pleasing, boundaries, self-worth, and the dating habits that quietly ruin good relationships. Heather also shares one of the scariest first-date stories we've ever heard, plus practical advice on spotting red flags before you're ...

Turns out dating has patterns... and our guest literally studies patterns for a living. Celine is an Arizona epidemiologist, so spotting red flags is basically in her job description. She helps us figure out why people get ghosted, catfished, and stuck chasing someone who was never serious. We get into dating app detective work, first-date disasters, and the ER doctor who somehow made tiki drinks awkward. We also talk about reverse phone lookups, getting unmatched after a date that felt grea...

You know that viral cheating story everyone swears happened to their friend? This one comes with a makeout video, dating apps, Ring camera footage, and enough receipts to make a detective quit their job. Abby joins us to break down the chaos, from catching a cheater to surviving modern dating, catfishes, height lies, creepy DMs, and the kind of red flags that look pink when you're attracted to someone. We also get into dating as a travel nurse, wild relationship stories, getting "heaven zone...

Low maintenance dating signs, Chili’s test debates, and “am I settling or just chill” confusion kick this one off because modern dating loves turning a casual dinner into a full personality evaluation. We’re joined by Madison, a 911 dispatcher, who has heard enough real-life chaos to know when something is actually a red flag versus just bad vibes. We get into why people judge compatibility off one low effort date, why a Chili’s dinner is not a relationship diagnosis, and how everyone turns i...

A guy shows up nothing like his photos, admits he catfished you, then tries to smooth it over with $100 under the table. That is where we start, because it perfectly sums up modern dating chaos and the weird things people think will still count as a win. We sit down with Megan, a med spa owner and injector, to talk dating confessions she hears all day, Botox for men, and what “natural results” actually means in real life. We also get into where care turns into control when partners start payi...

Getting catfished is annoying. Finding out he has a wife and kids is a full system reset. We kick off with the dating chaos nobody posts about, then Lindsay and Jess sit down with Crystal for a very real, slightly chaotic guide to dating without losing your mind or your standards. Crystal breaks down love bombing, why “too good to be true” usually is, and how to stop doing FBI-level research on someone who is already acting suspicious. We get into dating app burnout, trying to meet people in...

Someone says they’ll take you home, then “just makes a quick stop” at 1:30am. Do you stay polite or trust your gut and get out of the car? That story kicks off a very real talk on modern dating, boundaries, and how fast a vibe can flip. We’re Lindsay and Jess, and our guest Emily brings a blunt, funny take on dating in Scottsdale versus California, bisexual dating, and why status chasing is an instant turnoff. She opens up about a TikTok-started four year relationship that turned toxic, and ...

He shows up late, checks you out like a menu, then flirts with the waitress right in front of you. Nicole joins us to break down dating as a single mom, dark romance books, and why her standards are not here for lazy first-date energy. We get into what she will not tolerate, how she approaches introducing someone to her kids, and the subtle behaviors that instantly feel off. Then we dive into Scottsdale dating chaos, including dates so bad she left without looking back. We also cover moder...

So you want to date a Russian hottie? First rule: survive the honesty. Because Julia is about to tell you exactly how it works, no filter, no soft landing. We also start with dating chaos, catfishing, and finding out the guy is married with kids, and his wife is in your DMs. Julia joins us as our “sizzling single” Russian hottie and breaks down what dating looks like when apps, nightlife, and high standards all collide. We get into growing up Russian in the US, the “Slavic stare,” direct com...

Her DMs exploded after one viral reel, a few celebrities slid in, and suddenly every guy thinks he is next in line. Haley, a newly divorced single mom, joins us to break down who actually has a shot and who gets left on read in under ten seconds. We get into the chaos of viral attention, comment-section weirdos, and the confidence some men have for no reason. Then we talk her glow-up era, leaving the Mormon church, stepping into DJ life, and what the nightlife scene really looks like when you...

Dating is already a mess, so we brought in an OnlyFans creator, actor, and women’s bikini coach to reveal everything you need to know about women. Kim lives in all three worlds, and yes, it gets complicated fast. He breaks down how that mix affects trust, triggers jealousy, and makes people judge you before they even know you. We get into coaching beyond the gym, blurred lines with clients, and the one boundary mistake that forced him to tighten everything up. He shares how he keeps his relat...

This waitress has seen every first-date fail, and she is calling men out. Jocelyn is 25, a Scottsdale native, and a single mom, so her standards are high and her time is not getting wasted. She shares what dating looks like when you lead with honesty, protect your peace, and expect real effort. We get into Old Town chaos, app burnout, bachelor party energy, and the ultimate test: how someone treats the server. Plus red flags, listener drama, and takes you will definitely argue about. If yo...

He said body count matters and compared it to a key situation, like you do not want a lock that has been “opened too many times.” That alone is enough to start fights in group chats and TikTok comments, so we brought John in to unpack it before the internet explodes. We get into body count debates, dating rules that sound logical until real humans get involved, sugar mama dreams, and what 50-50 actually means when someone still wants princess treatment. He also breaks down his dating “game,” ...

Serena joins us to decode the messiest part of modern dating: figuring out if it’s a situationship or a full-blown humiliationship. Two months of weekend dates, sweet texts, green flags, and then one simple question gets left on read forever. She spills on why independence can look like disinterest, commitment fear, and how social media makes it feel like someone better is always a swipe away. Things get chaotic fast: rage texts over parking, disappearing acts, a food truck detour, awkward p...

Reily joins the show, and the dating stories immediately go off the rails! She spent ten years in the Army, lived in Bangkok as a foreign exchange student, and has seen enough chaos to make modern dating feel almost predictable. From boot camp drama to learning how confidence becomes a survival skill, her life path makes the dating world look like just another obstacle course. Then we get into the real topic: Dating, the stereotypes, the jealous partners, the disappearing acts, and the red f...