FROM DATING APPS TO DTF (DOWN TO FEELINGS)

In a world ruled by swipes and algorithms, Justin is a rarity—he's never used a dating app. Instead, he meets women the old-fashioned way: in person, at gyms, banks, and grocery stores. This episode offers a refreshing look at how real-world interaction still holds power in forming meaningful connections.

A divorced father of four, including an MMA world champion and a state wrestling champ, Justin leads a full life centered around family, fitness, and a successful construction business. He’s built a lifestyle he loves, which means he’s not looking to fill a void—any potential partner would have to genuinely enhance his already rich life.

“I’m so happy with my life now. If I meet a woman, she’s going to have to be super spectacular,” he says. That clarity came after a marriage from 2009 to 2021 and a later relationship that fell apart over value differences, especially political ones. Justin describes himself as conservative and learned the hard way that alignment in core beliefs matters more than chemistry in the long run.

He also speaks candidly about the appeal of maturity and stability, noting that many women in their twenties are drawn to older men who offer confidence, direction, and leadership—traits that younger guys often haven’t developed yet.

Justin’s standards in a partner are clear: smart, fit, and supportive of his goals. “Someone who encourages success and doesn’t get freaked out by it,” he says. While his dating preferences used to skew toward Hispanic and Asian women, he shares that his tastes have evolved with time.

Social media is another topic he doesn’t shy away from. He finds overly revealing posts to be a turnoff, calling them a sign of “lack of class.” But he also acknowledges its usefulness and has recently started embracing platforms more for business and staying in touch.

Above all, Justin champions the value of real connection over trends. He respects successful women, embraces traditional gender roles without being rigid, and believes that high standards are a sign of self-respect, not arrogance. His story is a powerful reminder that while dating has changed, the foundations of trust, shared values, and mutual respect are still what matter most.