Beyond Borders: Henry’s Take on International Dating, Short Kings & Hot Dogs

Dating in today’s digital world can feel like a minefield. But what happens when you take your search global? In our latest podcast episode, guest Henry opened up about his adventures with international dating, entrepreneurship, and life as a proud “Short King.”

Swiping Across the Atlantic

Frustrated with the American dating scene, Henry changed his Hinge location to London—and the results were instant. Within three days he had more matches than he’d had in four months locally. That bold move even led to a New Year’s Eve first date that required a transatlantic flight.

What He Noticed About European Women

Henry found European dating culture refreshingly direct. Women were clear about their expectations, separating physical intimacy from emotional commitment and making their intentions known early. This straightforwardness cut through the ambiguity that so often clouds dating in the U.S.

The Rise of the Short King

TikTok’s term “Short King” celebrates men under six feet tall—and Henry embodies the trend. Data backs it up: shorter men are statistically more likely to stay married, earn more, pitch in with household chores, and even have more stamina in the bedroom. It’s a challenge to the idea that height should top anyone’s dating criteria.

From Banking to Hot Dogs

After three layoffs in banking, Henry pivoted to a long-held dream: running a hot dog food truck. His chili dogs and Chicago-style creations now draw crowds outside bars and breweries. That same resilience and risk-taking shape his approach to relationships too.

An Unexpected Past

In one of the episode’s funniest reveals, Henry shared his stint as a dancer in Dallas—tear-away pants, choreographed routines, the whole Magic Mike vibe. It’s a reminder that dating profiles barely scratch the surface of people’s stories.

Honesty on Dating Apps

Henry estimates that about 80% of his online dates misrepresented their appearance. His solution? A quick video call before meeting. His motto—“see the movie before reading the book”—encourages skipping endless messaging and meeting in real life sooner.

Takeaway

Henry’s story shows how breaking out of your comfort zone, embracing authenticity, and taking bold risks—whether in dating or business—can lead to unexpected adventures (and maybe even love).