Choose Your Partner Like You Choose Chocolate… Carefully 😏

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Oh my god, I just totally got catfished.

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He looks absolutely nothing like his picture.

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So I found out the guy that I've been dating is married with kids.

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His wife just reached out to me.

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Welcome to the meat market.

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The single scene is a slaughterhouse, and we are here to devour it.

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We are your hosts.

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I'm Lindsay.

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I'm Jess.

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And today's sizzling single is Courtney.

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Welcome.

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Thank you.

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It's called Meat Market.

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And ET, like you're meeting people.

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That's so funny.

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So you are a self-proclaimed beverage connoisseur tell us about that.

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How did that start?

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Functional beverage connoisseurs.

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So it's actually really funny that you're drinking a Celsius.

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When you offered me an energy drink, I looked at it.

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That's designed to kill you, sister.

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Is it really?

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Oh my god, it's so bad for you.

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Um, but um that's crazy because I read that that's the healthiest of all energy drinks.

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Where did you read it?

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I think I like ChatGBT on Celsius' website.

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Right, Celsius.

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It actually wasn't.

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I was it was like of all the, and maybe it's healthier compared to the rest.

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Okay, maybe like compared to like the monster and the gas station.

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That is possibly right.

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So, first things first that I'm gonna have you do on your phone, and I can show it to you afterwards.

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There's an app called Yuka, Y-U-K-A, and it looks like this like little carrot, like that's the icon.

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So you can scan.

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Actually, can I see it really quick?

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Yeah, so you can scan anything that has a barcode, and it'll tell you why it's bad for you.

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Like, this is a 39 out of 100.

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I was gonna say it gives it a score, right?

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It gives it a manual score.

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Yeah, I've used this app before.

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But it tells you why.

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Like this one has seven additives in it, and when you click it, yeah, you're not gonna want to hear this, but I'm gonna tell you.

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Um, so let's just look at like the most high-risk additive.

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Sucralose.

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Okay.

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That one's not super bad, but essentially a lot of the additives in here, they are they're like carcinogens and crazy stuff, long-term effects, cells accumulating in the body.

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But a lot of them too will have effects on fertility, and that's usually kind of where I'm like, I don't want that.

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Um, but it'll tell you exactly why.

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So that's what you do when it comes to reviewing drinks, you're reviewing for content.

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Um, I'm also just very real.

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Like, I'll never do anything with a brand or I have tons of people that reach out for tons of stuff all day long, especially in like the health and wellness and fitness area.

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You have to be really specific of what's in it, what's the purpose of it, what does it actually do?

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Is it placebo or not?

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There's so much like BS gummies out there that tell you that they do everything for you.

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But is it good?

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Is it designed to kill you?

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And does it taste okay?

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Is usually what I have in there.

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But then with like functional beverages, you have all the adaptogens like lion's mane, ashwagandha, raishi, some of them are having like protein in them now.

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So if it has an added benefit, I am all for like doubling maxing down on health and brain work.

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And is it good for the brain?

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Is it actually gonna help you instead of just like raising your cortisol and making you super anxious?

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You know what I mean?

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It is crazy how you hear girls are starting their periods way earlier now, and a lot of it is because of what we're consuming, all the additives and the hormone disruptors in the food.

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That's why, you know, in the past women started periods at what, I don't know, 12, 13.

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Now you hear of them starting at like eight or nine.

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It's crazy.

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It's crazy.

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Yeah.

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I didn't know that, but it makes a ton of sense how we were just kind of talking about everything that's in our food.

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That's why we have all of these like health places.

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I mean, you guys, we could go down a rabbit hole all day long, but essentially the sicker you are, the more beneficial you are to America.

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And if you care about your health, you are the one who's in charge of it.

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You have to see what you're eating, where your stuff is from.

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I even saw a TikTok the other day that's saying don't buy like meats and proteins from grocery stores, because even that is still like they claim that, oh, this is natural, this is here, but you know, maybe they have them out for longer than they should, or just things like that.

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And it's a full-time job trying to stay on healthy and trying to stay on top of it.

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I feel like in a lot of other countries, things are illegal if they're gonna kill you.

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Here it's like, oh hell no, they're not illegal because we're gonna big pharma's gonna be ching, ching, bing, bing, making money off of you.

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Correct.

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Uh where are you from?

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What's your accent?

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London, England.

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Okay.

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Have you been there?

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I haven't.

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I need to though.

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Um, but I feel like you get that.

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You've obviously and experienced a different way and a different culture and how they run things.

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And so, I mean, there's a lot of beauty to having and being in America, but you just gotta watch out for the bullshit too.

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It's true.

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Is it important to you, like if a guy that you're dating is also health conscious?

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I mean, I feel like when you're dating somebody, the more alike they are to you is usually ideal.

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Um, I don't need him to be as insane as I am, but I want him to be, I would want him to be aware.

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Like ideally, I come across a guy who's already kind of, he's got a butcher, he's got the Amish meats, he's he goes here for the markets on the weekends to get his produce.

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I'd be like that would that would include it.

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Ideally, yeah.

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Because when you're a working person and you have kids, do you have time to go to the butcher, the farmer's market?

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The I mean in England I remember when I was little, my mom would go to the baker, she would go to the fishmongers, the butcher, but she was a stay-at-home mom.

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But if you don't have that time, it's difficult, you know?

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It's exhausting.

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It is.

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I see a lot of kids at the farmers market though.

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The farmers markets now have stuff that's geared specifically to kids.

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They have like food trucks that are like icy's and they have like stuff that's pet, like pet products and things like that.

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I'm just talking about time to do all the different stuff.

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Fishmongers, butchers, markets.

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Most farmers markets you can most farmers markets one have bakeries.

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Oh, they have everything.

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They have everything.

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They have meats too.

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Like I the the Scottsdale farmers market's actually really good.

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You can get a lot of your stuff necessities for the like your cooking for the week at the one farmers market because there's different different tables.

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I mean, even like your flower, like fresh flowers, like you have flower vendors, you have like all of the different different vendors there.

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Yeah.

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And you guys are like super spoiled because it's nice like most of the most of the year.

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So you get that all the time.

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Plus, sidebar onto that, and I don't know because I don't have kids, but I have friends that have kids.

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I'm one of four, so I still kind of like see what that's like.

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I've watched my mom, she was a stay-at-home mom.

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The more you can like systemize your life, the better.

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So it's really just kind of like finding it, and then you can place an order with your butcher once a month.

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Yeah, that's true.

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A lot of places, especially nowadays, they have the ship to you, they have the order, they have the pickup.

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So that's actually I bet I could find somewhere online you can order the meat and they have it shipped to you.

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Yeah, that's true.

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Well, and a lot of even like the supplements and stuff like I do the subscribe and save or like a month, like a monthly subscription for things like that, or even like my Amazon subscribe and save is like my monthly things.

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Like I, yeah, I don't have time.

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I don't have time to go all the different places, and so the just the having it shipped to me automatically on auto ship is ideal.

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Perfect.

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So, question I went through your Instagram and TikTok, and I'm unclear what you do.

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Are you an influencer?

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You're an actor, are you a model?

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None of the above.

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Um, that's so funny.

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Because you seem to do a bit of everything, and you're so good at what you do.

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Your videos are great.

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Thanks.

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Um, to be honest with you, first off, I love that you saw my TikTok and my Instagram because I am such a big proponent of TikTok.

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Before, for the longest time, I'm like, ooh, just one more thing I will get addicted to.

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I know it, so I never went on there.

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And then I did, and I was like, wait a minute, this is like what it should be.

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Like, this is fun.

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People are real.

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Like, I laugh, I cry, I get pointers and tips, but it's like I've never once looked at it and been like, oh, okay, this girl's so like full of it.

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It's so authentic to me.

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And so I'm like, you know what?

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I would just kind of post the videos that I post on my TikTok like for years on my Snapchat.

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And my sister's fiance actually, he's like, Court, why don't you just like put him on TikTok?

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So I started just effing around and having fun with it.

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I actually don't do any of the above.

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I really just do that for fun.

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And obviously for like opportunities like this, because I also feel like it's a really cool way for people to get to know you without having to have a huge bio or to show off something fake.

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Like my Instagram sucks compared to my TikTok.

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Um, but yeah, I don't really do it.

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I kind of just like do it for fun.

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Um, I'll work with occasional brands that reach out because I feel like if you're moderately decent on TikTok, they will.

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Um, but I'm in I'm in the medical field, which is funny.

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I'm in medical sales.

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So that's so random.

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I would have never looking at your TikTok and your Instagram, I would have never thought that.

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To be honest with you, and that's why I laughed when I found out this was called Meat Market.

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Um, my last name looks like meat.

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It's M-E-A-T-T-E Miette.

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And it gets messed up because it's French.

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It gets messed up so many times that people would always just be like, Courtney, meaty meat.

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So now I kind of just like ran with it.

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Plus, like, I don't want to use the term vulgar, but I'm very just like completely utterly myself, no filter on TikTok, to where I don't want someone searching my full name.

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And like, if they're gonna hire me for a job, be like, okay, this girl's a little crazy, you know.

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So it's kind of like that as like a little bit of a disguise, but like nothing crazy.

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But to be honest with you, I just don't think that I've found a way to monetize it enough to where I could have it as a job full time.

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So, do you do YouTube?

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Do you post your videos on YouTube as well?

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No.

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So I initially started just doing TikTok and Instagram, you know, because I eventually would like to monetize my account.

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Right.

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But then I saw this video of this lady that was saying that she's just a regular lawyer.

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She never did TikTok, but then the whole Blake Lively thing, she started to give her opinions and she's got so many followers now.

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She said the same video that she posts on TikTok and Instagram will pay her pennies.

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Then she showed a picture of her YouTube and it paid her$2,500.

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She said YouTube is where all the they pay the most.

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So I started posting shorts on YouTube, and not only did I get more views, more followers quicker than TikTok, but the people are way nicer.

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Like I get a lot of hate on TikTok.

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I don't know if you know some people are negative natural.

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Sure, yeah, yeah.

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But YouTube, everyone is way more welcoming, more positive, more kind.

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And so I would recommend if you're looking to monetize, try YouTube.

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I think you have to have like 10,000 followers to begin whatever.

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But I you do from from what she was showing, you make significantly more, or you can make significantly more on YouTube.

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Noted.

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So I'll try it.

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Noted.

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Okay.

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Anyways.

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So I've noticed that your profile said Jesus is king.

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Is that important when you're dating?

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Do you have to you require someone to be religious?

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Um before I think I would have been more laid back, but I am recently 30, I turned 30 in October.

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I'm just taking dating so much more seriously now to the point where I'm like not really dating, even because I have a criteria.

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I know exactly, not exactly, but I have an idea of what my husband is going to be like.

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The characteristics he'll have, how he views a family, how he views being a father.

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And faith is important to me.

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Um, like I've dated Jewish guys in the past.

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I would I don't even think I could do it now anymore because a certain type of faith is important.

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And I know how I want to raise my family, and I also know, and this is just my personal thing, I kind of applaud people to do whatever the heck they want, but the next man that I'm going to seriously date, seriously be intimate with, like, is a man that I would genuinely consider raising kids with.

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And that's just, I think, probably the epiphany that I had when I turned 30 is I want to take my life seriously, I want to take my goals seriously, because I want to be popping out kids come 35.

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And I want to also be with the man for enough time to know that this is it.

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This is who I feel confident with, this is who I'm gonna create a foundation with.

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Family is very, very important to me.

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And you get to choose.

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This is like the one person that you get to choose.

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I heard that choosing your partner is like the most relevant choice you'll probably make in your whole life.

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And marriage is a very long time, and I really intend to just do it once.

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And so, yeah, faith.

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How many kids do you want?

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I I kind of want a lot.

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I kind of want like four to five.

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You seem those just the way that you talk, you seem like you want a lot of kids.

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I'm from four though.

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It's fun, it's so much fun.

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Yeah.

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Um, it might change once I have kids and like I start going through it, but I also I see the genes and the genetic makeup of the women in my family.

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I don't think I'm gonna have a had hard time having kids.

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I don't think I'm gonna have a hard time being pregnant.

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I they do it and they do it well.

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So also I I know that prioritizing your health and also your husband's health will also create a fairly easier pregnancy and usually like kind of put your put you out on the better end.

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So yeah, I want like a stampede.

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Do you live here?

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No, I live so I currently technically live in Michigan, but I'm starting a new role in Florida in February.

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So you're gonna be moving to Florida?

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Okay, yeah.

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I love Florida.

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Where in Florida?

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Like Fort Lauderdale area.

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Oh no, I love Fort Lauderdale.

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I'm so excited.

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Jealous.

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I'm so excited.

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Why?

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This is like a gorgeous place to be too.

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The summers.

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I hate the summers here.

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I'm you're close to the beach.

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Yeah, I I kind of want to learn how to surf.

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I that's like on my 2026 because I'm terrified of it.

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Surfing's fun.

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Oh, surfing's fun.

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It's like a lot of work.

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You can do that at once.

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Yeah, yeah.

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I've been surfing, it's fun.

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I can you snowboard or ski?

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I so we were a snowmobiling family growing up.

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And so I've been skiing and I didn't like it.

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Okay.

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But I like to be on a snowmobile.

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Okay.

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But I think I would like snowboarding more.

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I just never, but we and we also water skied and weightboarded and did all of the water sports too.

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And so I just I like water skiing.

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I just I didn't love snow skiing.

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But I never but I never tried snowboarding.

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I only asked that because I I can ski, I can snowboard.

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I haven't water skied because we just never were like a boat pulling family, but I feel like I could.

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But I feel like to have like the physical ergonomics.

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Yeah, you'll be able, you'll be able to surf.

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You'll be able to learn.

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Okay.

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Yeah.

00:14:36.639 --> 00:14:36.879
Yeah.

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Have you ever been paddleboarding?

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Oh uh not really.

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No, no.

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You'll be able, you'll be able to do it.

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Okay.

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Yeah.

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I remember I went surfing one time and my knees got like all bloody from like, you know, from like getting up and rubbing my knees against the surfboard.

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They were like covered in scabs for like weeks.

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And the amount of comments from guys, oh, you like to spend a lot of time on your knees, don't you?

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Oh my god, it was so lame.

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That's funny.

00:15:01.519 --> 00:15:02.559
So, what are your hobbies?

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You seem very active.

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I see in your videos, like you work out.

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Do you require that in a man too to be fit and active?

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I mean, again, requirement, kind of a little bit, because you want somebody who's like you.

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You want somebody who cares about the things you care about.

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And I also feel like it's kind of basic.

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And you guys can probably, you both seem very active and healthy as well.

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You can just see it in somebody's eyes and their face, how they carry themselves.

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Health is wealth at the end of the day.

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Health is wealth.

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If you aren't taking care of your body, which means moving it, I don't care how you do it.

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You could hike, you could snowboard, you could bike, but if you are not prioritizing your health, that is probably not somebody I see with being long-term.

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Um, especially nowadays, like we're so lucky.

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We are in like the best age to be the ages that we are because we're getting all of these like biohacks and all of these, these 50-year-olds are looking 30.

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That's true, and these 80-year-olds are looking 40.

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And so we're at a really awesome time to be healthy and to make it easier to be healthy.

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Like, you know, those vibrational plates.

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So I have one.

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I'm obsessed with it.

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I also suggest literally anybody on earth to go and try it.

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I've been wanting my cousin because she's also very health fitness focused.

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She's she does her Theragun every day.

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I'm like a Brito, you gotta get one.

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And she tried it for the first time today, has a massive knot in her back because she I think did something when we were out of class today.

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And she got on and she goes, Oh my god, it feels so much better already.

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And I'm just like, see, we have like the best devices and the best technology that like it makes being healthy almost like easier than it was 20 years ago.

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So, what is the intention of that?

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I've seen those, the vibration things like so many things, but like I think number one is like lymphatic drainage.

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So it vibrates you at like a certain frequency to where it is just moving all of your liquids, it's helping with all of your muscle tension, it helps with cellulite, it helps with all that stuff.

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And it provides um joint compression, and so it helps with osteoarthritis.

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Oh, I think I need to.

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Yeah, my mom's so it's funny, my mom's had one for years, years.

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Okay.

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And so my sister and I, we well, all of us, we were back home last week, and so we were at in Iowa at the farm, and all of her, the treadmill and all of the workout stuff is in the basement.

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So the vibration plate is in the basement too.

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And we were giving my mom a hard time because we were like, You are like a trendsetter, mom.

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Like you didn't even know this.

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Like, this has been down here for years, and now it's like we're like, if you watch like the morning routine TikToks, it's like it's all the rage.

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Like, and so like both of my sister's kids were standing.

00:17:32.799 --> 00:17:38.559
So my sister was standing on it, and then she had one kid like on one side and the other, and they're both going, Good morning.

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Like that was like saying things because it was so fun.

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But we were laughing because we were like, You didn't even know that you were trendy five years ago when you bought this.

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Like now it's a big thing.

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That's ultimate trends that are they're they're super fun though.

00:17:51.359 --> 00:17:52.400
Yeah, yeah, they're cool.

00:17:52.640 --> 00:17:57.119
I kind of like when stuff like that becomes trendy though, because it also gets so much cheaper.

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Like she probably bought it when it was in the thousands.

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No, you I that's that's the thing, is so then my sister's like, Well, where did she get this one?

00:18:04.480 --> 00:18:07.920
And we looked up the brand, and they barely even make the brand anymore.

00:18:08.000 --> 00:18:16.160
But the brand that she has is like three times the price of the ones that we're seeing on like Amazon, like, and so it does that is true.

00:18:16.319 --> 00:18:17.599
They've gotten a lot cheaper.

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Yeah, yeah.

00:18:18.559 --> 00:18:19.279
She's legit, miss.

00:18:19.759 --> 00:18:20.000
Yeah.

00:18:20.960 --> 00:18:23.759
So have you dated many Scottsdale men men?

00:18:24.480 --> 00:18:26.160
Actually, no.

00:18:26.960 --> 00:18:30.319
Um, because to be honest with you guys, I got banned from Hinge.

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What?

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I know um, I think it was because I commented, you guys have probably seen her, this super cute blonde girl.

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She always talks about dating in her TikToks, and she was just talking about Hinge and how Hinge kind of sucks.

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And I all have thought that for a very long time, but I commented on her post.

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I was like, yeah, designed to be deleted my ass.

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And I swear to God, they saw it.

00:18:52.160 --> 00:18:55.519
Because it was shortly after that that I was like, what the hell?

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Because I didn't even use it.

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I used hinge appropriately.

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I did not date in Michigan really, because Gene Pool there is kind of garbage.

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But I would date and I would use Hinge whenever I would travel, which is I think is that exactly like not a bad play to use.

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You know, travel, meet guys, see if something actually works.

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Because I was also knowing that I was going to leave Michigan.

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So it was kind of like, let's see what where might I want to go?

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Where might I want might want to be?

00:19:20.799 --> 00:19:23.519
Like, where are there good tools?

00:19:23.839 --> 00:19:24.079
Exactly.

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Yes.

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Um, and it was like the creme de la creme.

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It worked well.

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I met great guys.

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Um, but and I don't like to be cynical when it comes to dating, because like what you expect is usually what you're gonna get.

00:19:38.799 --> 00:19:46.400
Um, but my cousin has been starting to slowly date here, so I'm starting to kind of see it through her, like what the guys are like.

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I'm hearing things as she's making friends.

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I have not been here long, but I also can kind of see that I heard the ratio is kind of screwed where it's like you have 10 hot girls to one hot guy.

00:19:59.039 --> 00:20:03.359
And I mean, we go to some pretty cool spots, and I feel like I'd kind of vouch for that.

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I'm like, dude, where are they?

00:20:05.440 --> 00:20:07.759
And if they are hot, they're probably married.

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If they're single and hot and attractive with a good job, they're usually not taking anything seriously.

00:20:15.359 --> 00:20:18.720
So dating here, I haven't really done too much.

00:20:18.960 --> 00:20:21.920
And if I did, I would probably find a good church.

00:20:22.720 --> 00:20:24.000
Yeah, you're not missing out.

00:20:24.160 --> 00:20:24.480
Yeah.

00:20:25.359 --> 00:20:26.720
How long have you been here?

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Um, like for this trip around, like two weeks.

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But I visit her in those kind of like stunts.

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Like, I'll come for two weeks, I'll come back in a month and stay for a week, week and a half.

00:20:37.599 --> 00:20:37.759
Okay.

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Have you ever walked out mid-date?

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Left today, or found an excuse to leave.

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It wasn't a first date.

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Um but the thing is, again, when you were I was living in Michigan, so I wasn't taking really any guy seriously, but you get bored a little bit.

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And so maybe you go out with guys where you know they're not endgame, but you're a little bit bored and you could kind of just use a cute face at the other side of the table.

00:21:03.119 --> 00:21:08.720
Um, I knew this guy, it was not gonna work, but he was kind of he was hot, he was just very hot.

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And so I was hanging out with him.

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It was very casual, but there was one day where actually I'll just I'll give you guys the whole story.

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So he and him and I are different, right?

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We come from kind of different areas.

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I don't come from like super hoity-toity, like I'm very like hard-working family type situation.

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He has the same, but I now have worked and achieved certain goals, and I know the kind of level of life that I want to give myself, life that I want for my family.

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I think we differ in that preference.

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And I'm so pro if a man is man has to step up to certain man areas and certain man guidelines.

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I you shouldn't be asking me where to park.

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Like you figure it out, just how I'm gonna figure it out.

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I'll meet you inside.

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Don't ask me for parking.

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I don't know, especially at it's a pet peeve.

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This Is a personal thing.

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When I'm on the way to something, that is crunch time for me as a female, as a woman.

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I'm doing my eyelashes in the car.

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I have my radio.

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I'm getting in my vibe.

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Do not call me.

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Do not call me unless you say, hey, I have a C for us.

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Come on in whenever you're ready.

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Don't call me asking for instructions.

00:22:16.880 --> 00:22:18.960
So I was already irritated that he did that.

00:22:19.119 --> 00:22:23.039
And so I'm walking into the bar, we're hanging out, we're talking, we're shooting the shit.

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He says like two or three things that really irritate me.

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And then I try to like brush it off.

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I try to like, okay, let's just have a good rest of the day.

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I got good news about work.

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Like I closed the deal and I kind of vocalized it to him.

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And he just responded in like the least way that I wanted him to respond.

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And I was like, you know what?

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I'm gonna get out of here.

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And I literally left my beer half full.

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I grabbed my jacket, I'm like, goodbye.

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And that, and I left.

00:22:48.720 --> 00:22:49.680
So what did he say that?

00:22:49.839 --> 00:22:50.559
Ugh, gee.

00:22:51.200 --> 00:22:55.359
I think he said, like, no, you need to like celebrate like this.

00:22:55.519 --> 00:22:56.960
Like, no, you should be saying this.

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I think I like said something, and he's like, no, you should do this.

00:23:00.079 --> 00:23:06.559
And I did improv in a past life, and you never say no in any kind of conversation.

00:23:06.640 --> 00:23:07.920
It's always yes and.

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Don't ever like cut something off or tell something, so tell somebody they did something wrong if you want it to be a pleasurable experience, right?

00:23:16.640 --> 00:23:19.440
And he should probably want that to be a pleasurable experience.

00:23:19.519 --> 00:23:21.200
He should hype me up, he should agree.

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And he just said no.

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And I was like, you know what?

00:23:24.480 --> 00:23:25.119
Goodbye.

00:23:25.759 --> 00:23:30.319
I'm gonna, I'm gonna you can you couldn't even figure out the parking for yourself and now you're doing this?

00:23:30.799 --> 00:23:31.359
Sorry, buddy.

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You guys, it was, and that was the last he heard of me.

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I blocked him.

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I was like, that was my ultimate sign.

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Like, I'm done with whatever I was doing with this.

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I'm completely done.

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That was that.

00:23:43.519 --> 00:23:45.039
Do some people say you look like a celebrity?

00:23:45.279 --> 00:23:45.839
I get a couple.

00:23:45.920 --> 00:23:46.799
You want me to give you the list?

00:23:46.960 --> 00:23:48.400
Do you do you think she looks like someone?

00:23:48.640 --> 00:23:49.920
Yeah, but I'm terrible with names.

00:23:50.160 --> 00:23:51.440
Scarlett Johansson, do you get that?

00:23:51.599 --> 00:23:52.480
I bet you get that all the time.

00:23:53.359 --> 00:23:55.279
Um, I get Lady Gaga sometimes.

00:23:55.440 --> 00:23:57.680
I get Alex Earl every once in a blue moon.

00:23:57.839 --> 00:23:58.160
Oh, I can't.

00:23:58.240 --> 00:23:58.480
I see that.

00:23:58.559 --> 00:23:59.200
I can see that too.

00:23:59.440 --> 00:24:03.519
Um, I don't even, I'm not even gonna say the one, but she's a porn star and I don't like it.

00:24:03.680 --> 00:24:11.359
Oh my god, Bonnie Blue! Bonnie blue! Actually, you're way prettier than her, but I can see that because it's the hair and the blue eyes.

00:24:11.599 --> 00:24:11.759
Yeah.

00:24:12.079 --> 00:24:14.480
And I talk about Bonnie Blue a lot on this podcast.

00:24:15.759 --> 00:24:17.680
She's I pray for her, she's sad.

00:24:17.839 --> 00:24:18.559
I pray for her too.

00:24:18.720 --> 00:24:20.319
And I'm not even religious.

00:24:20.640 --> 00:24:24.720
Um, speaking of Alex Earl, how do we feel about Alex Earl and Tom Brady?

00:24:25.279 --> 00:24:26.559
I just love Alex Earle.

00:24:26.720 --> 00:24:27.119
I do too.

00:24:27.279 --> 00:24:28.640
Dude, I think she can do no wrong.

00:24:28.799 --> 00:24:29.359
I agree.

00:24:29.519 --> 00:24:35.039
I think she is like the best version of like a celebrity influencer.

00:24:35.119 --> 00:24:36.559
Like, she is my favorite kind.

00:24:37.119 --> 00:24:39.839
She's real, she's authentic, she's cute, she's nice.

00:24:40.000 --> 00:24:48.319
Even when I see like the random kind of someone recording her in a bar, she's cute and she's fun and she's never like uppity about it.

00:24:49.039 --> 00:24:53.359
And how, like, imagine how what's it, Braxton Barrios or whatever his name is.

00:24:53.440 --> 00:25:03.440
Imagine how he feels like as an NFL player, they break up and then it's like the next weekend she's on a yacht with Tom Brady.

00:25:03.839 --> 00:25:10.400
I if he's smart at all, if he has a head on his shoulders, which I think he does, I think he knew that she was outgrowing him.

00:25:10.559 --> 00:25:11.119
Yeah, probably.

00:25:11.440 --> 00:25:12.720
I think I think she knew.

00:25:12.799 --> 00:25:13.920
Um, or he knew.

00:25:14.079 --> 00:25:19.279
And so I feel like they ended amicably, which is cool, but she was, dude.

00:25:19.359 --> 00:25:19.839
I'm sorry.

00:25:19.920 --> 00:25:22.960
She hit dancing with the stars, and now the world is truly her oyster.

00:25:23.359 --> 00:25:29.920
Now she is, she's leveling up, she's outgrowing her cute little NFL man, and she wants a real, she needs a titan.

00:25:30.000 --> 00:25:30.319
Yeah.

00:25:30.559 --> 00:25:34.960
So is she just because I don't know anything about her besides the Tom Brady thing, was she just an influencer?

00:25:35.359 --> 00:25:37.039
Did she kind of make it big on TikTok?

00:25:37.599 --> 00:25:41.200
Well, no, she's like the wasn't she the original like outfit of the day?

00:25:41.440 --> 00:25:43.200
Wasn't that or get ready with me?

00:25:43.359 --> 00:25:48.319
I don't think I think she was the one who originally started like the get ready with me videos.

00:25:48.480 --> 00:25:50.640
And she also had like crazy acne.

00:25:50.720 --> 00:25:53.519
And so she like got recorded that journey.

00:25:53.680 --> 00:26:03.119
And I think just like being a really cute girl, authentic, does cute TikTok stuff, but then she recorded like this really raw, transparent, like not cute relatable.

00:26:03.680 --> 00:26:05.279
And that was part of her get ready with me.

00:26:05.440 --> 00:26:16.400
Okay, was because it was like watch my morning routine, and I think she was the first one of the first ones, I think I'm not sure, to do the hashtag G R W M.

00:26:16.720 --> 00:26:16.960
I think.

00:26:17.200 --> 00:26:18.160
Like the get ready with me.

00:26:18.480 --> 00:26:19.039
You're probably right.

00:26:19.200 --> 00:26:20.079
I think, I think.

00:26:20.160 --> 00:26:21.200
It was one of those.

00:26:21.519 --> 00:26:25.440
It was either like the O O T D or the G R W M.

00:26:25.680 --> 00:26:27.119
Whatever it is, like the hashtags are.

00:26:27.200 --> 00:26:31.119
I think, but I think she was the get ready with me like original.

00:26:31.440 --> 00:26:33.119
Do you have any crazy first date stories?

00:26:33.759 --> 00:26:35.119
Crazy first date stories.

00:26:35.680 --> 00:26:39.519
Um off the top of my head, no.

00:26:39.839 --> 00:26:43.359
But I do have, it's not even a worse first date.

00:26:43.440 --> 00:26:50.799
It's just because I think when I was like asking about like what the topics would be here, they're like, I don't know, worse first dates, for bad dates, whatever.

00:26:50.880 --> 00:26:53.440
And I thought I'm like, do I even have any of those?

00:26:53.680 --> 00:26:55.519
And I thought about one.

00:26:56.000 --> 00:26:58.319
And it wasn't even like that bad.

00:26:58.400 --> 00:27:02.559
But you know how sometimes when you're on a date, you're like, I'm never talking to this person again.

00:27:03.039 --> 00:27:04.319
It was kind of like that.

00:27:04.480 --> 00:27:12.160
And it was when I was living in Chicago, he wasn't my traditional type, but but I was also kind of like looking at him sideways, I'm like, could I do this?

00:27:12.319 --> 00:27:14.160
Well, maybe let's go out of our comfort zone a little.

00:27:14.240 --> 00:27:16.000
And so like I was like, F it, let's go.

00:27:16.079 --> 00:27:17.200
We'll go have sushi.

00:27:17.359 --> 00:27:18.400
We went to a sushi place.

00:27:18.480 --> 00:27:20.240
The guy never used chopsticks before.00:27:20.480 --> 00:27:25.279


Not that it was like a bad thing, I thought it was kind of funny, but I'm like, that's crazy that we're gonna be here.00:27:25.359 --> 00:27:26.720


He's like, Yeah, you said you like sushi.00:27:26.799 --> 00:27:28.640


I'm like, yeah, but you've never used chopsticks.00:27:28.799 --> 00:27:31.680


And then I find out his birthday was on the exact same day of mine.00:27:31.839 --> 00:27:38.160


And like it's weird, the conversation was decent, but like I had that realization of I'm never talking to him again.00:27:38.319 --> 00:27:41.519


And it was so beautiful because he did the exact same thing to me.00:27:41.599 --> 00:27:43.440


Like, we just never spoke again.00:27:43.680 --> 00:27:52.319


And that was the most beautiful thing ever because it sucks when it's on the other side and they're like, hey, and you're like, dude, take my silence.00:27:52.480 --> 00:27:54.160


My silence is speaking as well.00:27:54.319 --> 00:27:55.680


Please don't make me say it.00:27:55.839 --> 00:27:57.039


Please don't make me say it.00:27:57.200 --> 00:27:58.880


Just get you in.00:27:59.279 --> 00:28:08.640


Do you think, okay, so if it was like his sort of inexperience was a little bit of an ick to you, do you think there was any icks about you that he was thinking?00:28:08.880 --> 00:28:09.440


I'm sure.00:28:09.680 --> 00:28:13.839


Because if not, he would have said, like, hey, like reaching, let's let's do something.00:28:14.079 --> 00:28:19.119


But we both kind of at some point found something where we're like, we're we're good.00:28:19.440 --> 00:28:21.359


Or unless he thought, oh, I'm not good enough for her.00:28:21.440 --> 00:28:25.839


You know, she's very cultured, she knows how to use chopsticks and I know she's never gonna want to bother.00:28:26.880 --> 00:28:30.559


That's not a bad idea either, but it's still in that site then.00:28:30.799 --> 00:28:31.279


Thank you.00:28:31.440 --> 00:28:32.559


Yeah, okay.00:28:32.880 --> 00:28:33.440


That's funny.00:28:33.519 --> 00:28:37.680


So if you're not on Hinge, are you on any of the other dating apps or how are you meeting guys?00:28:38.079 --> 00:28:39.200


I love this question too.00:28:39.279 --> 00:28:41.359


So unfortunately, yeah, I'm on the dating apps.00:28:41.440 --> 00:28:42.079


They don't work.00:28:42.240 --> 00:28:43.920


I'm on Bumble, I'm on Raya.00:28:44.160 --> 00:28:44.880


Neither does it.00:28:44.960 --> 00:28:45.440


How's Raya?00:28:45.519 --> 00:28:46.319


How are the guys on Raya?00:28:46.400 --> 00:28:47.759


I would love to tell you Raya sucks.00:28:48.400 --> 00:28:51.359


Everyone says that because isn't it supposed to be like the creme de la creme?00:28:51.839 --> 00:28:52.400


Exclusive.00:28:52.559 --> 00:28:52.799


Yeah.00:28:53.359 --> 00:28:55.440


So a couple things now with Raya.00:28:55.680 --> 00:29:06.160


Um, Raya, in my personal opinion, I think you have to pay through the nose to be handed eligible people that you are actually in a near vicinity of.00:29:06.400 --> 00:29:13.759


Um, because with with all the different tiers, the most you're paying, they're gonna send you people that are closer to you probably.00:29:14.000 --> 00:29:17.039


And then you can also plug in like travel, right?00:29:17.119 --> 00:29:24.000


So like on your on your bio, it'll say going from Miami from this state to this date, going to Scottsdale from this state to this to this state.00:29:24.079 --> 00:29:32.160


And then they'll typically give you people that live in those areas so that you can match with them and kind of maybe get together or do something while you're in town.00:29:32.240 --> 00:29:35.839


Because a lot of people like kind of travel routinely for their work on that app.00:29:36.000 --> 00:29:43.759


Um, but the thing is, ladies, is for most of the time for a very basic membership, you are seeing hot guys that live in Milan.00:29:43.920 --> 00:29:54.240


So this is what I've heard also from a friend here that uses it that she's like, I get all these great guys in other cities or in other countries.00:29:54.400 --> 00:30:02.480


And she's like, So I'll swipe like on like 10 super hot guys that aren't here, and then I'll finally get to a Scottsdale guy.00:30:02.559 --> 00:30:05.839


And he's like, not very good looking.00:30:06.079 --> 00:30:06.720


Yeah.00:30:07.279 --> 00:30:09.279


And this is me personally.00:30:09.440 --> 00:30:12.799


They give me, I see the same people over and over and over and over.00:30:12.960 --> 00:30:14.799


I see the same people over and over and over.00:30:14.880 --> 00:30:20.160


And the thing is, I don't know what it's like for other people, but I'm I'm already seeing you.00:30:20.319 --> 00:30:22.559


I already know what it is, I'm set on it.00:30:22.799 --> 00:30:25.680


The seeing him for the 15th time isn't gonna make me think differently.00:30:26.880 --> 00:30:27.039


Right.00:30:27.119 --> 00:30:27.279


Yeah.00:30:27.440 --> 00:30:30.319


Um and this is my personal preference.00:30:30.480 --> 00:30:34.720


I don't really love when a guy's like active on social media.00:30:35.200 --> 00:30:40.079


Like if you have one to have one for connections, for reach out, for business, that's one thing.00:30:40.319 --> 00:30:48.160


Like, even like a professional athlete, like if you are constantly posting on your social media, I'm kind of like, okay, girlfriend, go ahead.00:30:48.319 --> 00:30:49.519


I just think it's girly.00:30:49.920 --> 00:30:52.559


I think social media is for the girls and for the gays.00:30:52.640 --> 00:30:57.119


And again, unless you are utilizing it for business, for brand deals, for things like that.00:30:57.200 --> 00:30:59.519


Like, I like a reserved man.00:30:59.759 --> 00:31:06.799


But isn't it funny how all of the biggest trolls and haters on social media are men?00:31:06.960 --> 00:31:08.319


They are like middle-aged men.00:31:08.559 --> 00:31:08.960


It's true.00:31:09.119 --> 00:31:14.720


It's like all of them, like all of the hate comments always are always from men.00:31:14.960 --> 00:31:18.799


Yeah, it's probably probably poor men because how are you?00:31:18.960 --> 00:31:20.400


How do you have time in the day to do that?00:31:20.559 --> 00:31:20.720


Right?00:31:20.799 --> 00:31:22.720


So just like you shouldn't have time for that.00:31:22.960 --> 00:31:26.079


So I wonder how much rye it is to get to the top tier.00:31:26.240 --> 00:31:27.599


Like how much you have to pay per month?00:31:27.759 --> 00:31:32.880


Um, and then up from there.00:31:33.200 --> 00:31:34.240


They also have like chunks.00:31:34.319 --> 00:31:36.799


I think I've bought in like a full year because it was cheap.00:31:36.960 --> 00:31:39.839


I think basic package for a full year is like$350.00:31:40.000 --> 00:31:44.160


But if you break it down into the months like that, it's like it's the cheapest option you can get.00:31:44.799 --> 00:31:48.720


But I just like at this point, I have it as a cool card.00:31:49.039 --> 00:31:55.680


I I have my membership because the year hasn't ended yet, but it's it's a card where people can be like, Oh, I saw you on Raya, and you're like, all right, sweet.00:31:56.160 --> 00:32:03.440


But yeah, I think I've gone on maybe like four dates from Raya, and disappointing.00:32:03.759 --> 00:32:07.759


Nothing, just like nothing serious, nothing serious, nothing crazy.00:32:07.839 --> 00:32:10.640


And at this point, like I don't really care to date an athlete.00:32:10.720 --> 00:32:12.000


Like, I'm trying to find a husband.00:32:12.240 --> 00:32:15.359


If you're looking to find a wife, like we can have a conversation.00:32:15.680 --> 00:32:20.160


But usually it's just like a buffet for the guys, anyways.00:32:20.240 --> 00:32:23.839


It's just like a buffet of women, so it's like they're not that serious.00:32:24.160 --> 00:32:25.440


Again, it's the ratio too.00:32:25.599 --> 00:32:25.920


Yeah.00:32:26.160 --> 00:32:34.079


Like, I don't know what your guys' types are, but I like I lean towards a man who kind of looks like he can protect a family.00:32:34.720 --> 00:32:38.880


So kind of bigger, kind of you know, that stature.00:32:38.960 --> 00:32:40.400


But I'm also more flexible too.00:32:40.480 --> 00:32:43.279


Like, if you can mentally protect a family, like that works as well.00:32:44.160 --> 00:32:44.960


Are you ready for it?00:32:45.279 --> 00:32:45.839


I'm ready for it.00:32:46.000 --> 00:32:48.640


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So we have a listener question.00:32:57.839 --> 00:32:58.240


All right.00:32:58.480 --> 00:33:02.319


Someone says, I think my boyfriend is going to propose over Christmas.00:33:02.559 --> 00:33:09.759


For some reason, this really annoys me that he is not making it our own special thing and is using it as a Christmas gift.00:33:10.000 --> 00:33:11.039


Am I wrong?00:33:12.160 --> 00:33:12.400


No.00:33:12.720 --> 00:33:13.519


I'm confused.00:33:13.680 --> 00:33:17.119


So she wants a Christmas gift as well as a ring.00:33:17.200 --> 00:33:18.720


She doesn't want the ring to be the Christmas gift.00:33:18.799 --> 00:33:19.680


Is that the issue here?00:33:20.000 --> 00:33:20.240


Wow.00:33:20.799 --> 00:33:21.519


Are you kidding me?00:33:21.839 --> 00:33:26.000


She wants her proposal to be a special moment separate from Christmas.00:33:26.160 --> 00:33:27.359


And I kind of agree with her.00:33:27.519 --> 00:33:28.240


I'm pro with that.00:33:28.400 --> 00:33:29.039


I am too.00:33:29.279 --> 00:33:34.720


Okay, so so she is it because she wants it just to be between them and not with the family?00:33:35.200 --> 00:33:36.480


Like what is what is her issue?00:33:36.799 --> 00:33:43.599


Her issue is that he's using Christmas as an excuse to propose instead of making the proposal its own special thing.00:33:43.920 --> 00:33:45.920


Like using the glitz and glam of the Christmas.00:33:46.400 --> 00:33:47.200


I don't get what's the deal.00:33:47.279 --> 00:33:47.839


I don't get it.00:33:48.079 --> 00:33:50.079


I would want my proposal to be separate from Christmas.00:33:50.640 --> 00:33:50.880


Why?00:33:51.039 --> 00:33:51.599


Like why?00:33:51.839 --> 00:33:52.000


Yeah.00:33:52.240 --> 00:33:53.359


It seems like a cap-out.00:33:53.680 --> 00:33:55.119


It seems like a little bit.00:33:55.200 --> 00:33:56.000


It's a little easy.00:33:56.160 --> 00:33:56.559


Yeah.00:33:56.799 --> 00:33:57.599


Oh, how funny.00:33:58.720 --> 00:34:00.160


It seems a little low effort.00:34:00.319 --> 00:34:00.720


Yeah.00:34:00.960 --> 00:34:01.359


What?00:34:01.440 --> 00:34:03.359


But maybe he's just so he loves Christmas.00:34:03.440 --> 00:34:04.319


He loves the holidays.00:34:04.400 --> 00:34:05.359


The family's together.00:34:05.519 --> 00:34:06.400


Everyone's there.00:34:06.559 --> 00:34:09.280


It's like the perfect time if you want everyone to be there, right?00:34:09.360 --> 00:34:10.719


And everyone to be included.00:34:11.039 --> 00:34:12.639


I love your thought on that.00:34:12.800 --> 00:34:13.119


Maybe.00:34:13.360 --> 00:34:19.039


I look at it like, yeah, you want everyone there, then do it on in February and make sure everybody's there.00:34:19.280 --> 00:34:20.480


Yeah, and then invite everybody.00:34:20.719 --> 00:34:22.559


You want him to go above and beyond.00:34:22.719 --> 00:34:25.199


You want him to do the work, not just do it in.00:34:25.519 --> 00:34:27.360


Just to put in a little more effort, I think.00:34:28.239 --> 00:34:29.280


I think to make it special.00:34:29.440 --> 00:34:35.360


Like you want your proposal, unless, like, because clearly Christmas isn't super special to her.00:34:35.440 --> 00:34:35.599


Right.00:34:35.760 --> 00:34:42.400


Like I could see it if it was like Christmas was your favorite time of the year and you loved Christmas and you love having everybody around you.00:34:42.480 --> 00:34:44.079


And then he chooses to do it at Christmas time.00:34:44.719 --> 00:34:45.519


Because it's special.00:34:46.079 --> 00:34:47.920


But the question isn't worded that way.00:34:48.079 --> 00:34:52.960


She doesn't, she's saying that she wants her proposal to be its own separate special thing.00:34:53.280 --> 00:35:02.400


And that he's using Christmas as sort of like a way to be low effort because everything is already decorated, everything is already pretty, everyone's already together.00:35:02.800 --> 00:35:03.760


Might as well just propose.00:35:03.840 --> 00:35:06.000


It's like proposing to someone at someone else's wedding.00:35:06.159 --> 00:35:13.360


Like I'm I'm taking the celebration because everything's done, everything is decorated, everyone's around, and I'm gonna propose to you here.00:35:13.760 --> 00:35:15.119


You don't get your own hype.00:35:15.440 --> 00:35:16.639


You don't get your own excitement.00:35:16.800 --> 00:35:20.880


I I think attaching it to any holiday is a little bit of a cop out.00:35:21.039 --> 00:35:22.159


Yeah, I do too.00:35:22.960 --> 00:35:26.159


Unless the holiday is your special time.00:35:26.480 --> 00:35:27.119


Special favorite time.00:35:27.199 --> 00:35:27.360


Yes.00:35:27.519 --> 00:35:28.320


Then that's one thing.00:35:28.400 --> 00:35:32.239


Then yes, do it over Christmas if Christmas is is your thing.00:35:32.400 --> 00:35:32.639


Yeah.00:35:32.800 --> 00:35:36.559


But I wouldn't, I wouldn't want, I wouldn't want a proposal at Christmas.00:35:37.360 --> 00:35:40.079


So funny, not funny story, nice story.00:35:40.159 --> 00:35:43.280


My husband really surprised me when he proposed to me, like I had no clue.00:35:43.440 --> 00:35:49.840


So my husband flies for the airlines and he it was around Mother's Day and he prefaced it, hey, I'm gonna rent this small plane.00:35:50.000 --> 00:35:51.599


I've never flown your parents before.00:35:51.679 --> 00:35:53.679


Why don't we take them to brunch in Sedona?00:35:53.840 --> 00:35:55.760


We'll fly them to Sedona.00:35:56.559 --> 00:36:01.039


So we get on the plane, and as we're about to land, he's like, Oh, what's that over there?00:36:01.199 --> 00:36:07.840


And it was people like holding this big sign, and I thought it was people like, shame on Sedona Airport, you know, protesters.00:36:08.159 --> 00:36:09.519


So I kind of just ignored it.00:36:09.599 --> 00:36:14.400


And as we land, it was two of my friends holding up a sign that said, LJ, will you marry me?00:36:14.800 --> 00:36:15.760


It was so cute.00:36:16.159 --> 00:36:25.519


And so we get there, and then my sister, so it was his friend who had flown another small plane and had flown my siblings there, and my sister is definitely afraid of small planes.00:36:25.679 --> 00:36:31.760


But she got in this small plane to fly to Sedona to be there when he proposed and went to have brunch and everything.00:36:31.840 --> 00:36:33.119


But I totally didn't expect it.00:36:33.199 --> 00:36:34.400


It was very much a surprise.00:36:34.559 --> 00:36:36.079


I thought it was a Mother's Day brunch.00:36:36.239 --> 00:36:36.639


Yeah, yeah.00:36:36.880 --> 00:36:38.239


And it's like that's effort.00:36:38.400 --> 00:36:39.519


That's like a lot of effort.00:36:39.760 --> 00:36:47.360


It's a like a very intentional effort, planning, just using a holiday to make it easier on himself.00:36:47.599 --> 00:36:48.000


That makes sense.00:36:48.239 --> 00:36:48.719


You know what I mean?00:36:48.880 --> 00:36:50.000


Yeah, that's a great proposal.00:36:50.239 --> 00:36:51.760


It was a really good job, it is.00:36:52.000 --> 00:36:52.960


I was proud of it.00:36:53.119 --> 00:36:55.280


So we're gonna discuss this uh article.00:36:55.519 --> 00:37:07.360


There was a divorce lawyer that came out, it was a TikTok, that came out saying a lot of celebrity couples stay together, and I think we know this for branding, timing, money, business, all that stuff.00:37:07.519 --> 00:37:13.760


And there are these couples that pretty much everyone is in agreement that this is the situation with them.00:37:13.840 --> 00:37:16.079


So Beyoncé and Jay-Z came up a lot.00:37:16.239 --> 00:37:22.719


Everyone is convinced that Beyoncé and Jay-Z are together, not for love, but for branding, business, all that stuff.00:37:22.800 --> 00:37:25.039


Do you do you what do you how you do how do you feel about that?00:37:26.239 --> 00:37:27.519


I'd say there's maybe some.00:37:28.079 --> 00:37:30.880


Didn't he cheat on her or wasn't there drama between the two of them?00:37:31.199 --> 00:37:33.280


Well, she made has made a couple songs about it.00:37:33.519 --> 00:37:36.400


Because wasn't her did wasn't she the one who did Becky with a good hair?00:37:36.639 --> 00:37:36.960


I think so.00:37:37.119 --> 00:37:37.840


Wasn't that Beyonce?00:37:38.400 --> 00:37:38.480


Yeah.00:37:38.719 --> 00:37:38.880


Funny.00:37:39.119 --> 00:37:39.840


So yeah, that one.00:37:40.000 --> 00:37:43.119


Gigi Hadid and Bradley Cooper, a lot of people said that.00:37:43.679 --> 00:37:45.440


I don't that seem genuine to me.00:37:45.599 --> 00:37:46.239


I'm with you.00:37:46.559 --> 00:37:47.199


I don't think so.00:37:47.360 --> 00:37:50.800


I just think that she she has a she has a kid now.00:37:50.880 --> 00:37:53.440


So I feel like she looks at things a little bit more differently.00:37:53.519 --> 00:37:56.079


And I also feel like she respects her privacy more.00:37:56.320 --> 00:38:00.639


And I don't think that she would just be with somebody to to for that.00:38:00.960 --> 00:38:03.519


And here's the thing: she's already rich and successful.00:38:03.679 --> 00:38:06.159


She doesn't need a man, he's already rich and successful.00:38:06.239 --> 00:38:07.440


Like, why would they fake it?00:38:07.519 --> 00:38:08.480


Why would they force it?00:38:08.559 --> 00:38:09.679


Is it because of the age difference?00:38:09.760 --> 00:38:10.800


Is that why people say that?00:38:11.119 --> 00:38:11.760


A lot of people said that.00:38:11.840 --> 00:38:15.440


A lot of people said Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco, which I think they seem genuine.00:38:15.519 --> 00:38:17.039


No, I think they seem genuine.00:38:17.440 --> 00:38:17.840


You do?00:38:18.000 --> 00:38:18.400


A little bit.00:38:18.480 --> 00:38:18.719


You do.00:38:19.519 --> 00:38:21.360


I don't, I feel like there's something weird with it.00:38:21.599 --> 00:38:21.840


Really?00:38:22.000 --> 00:38:23.679


I think that there's something a little weird with it.00:38:23.760 --> 00:38:27.920


But also, like, he ain't that cute, so you gotta really like him to marry him.00:38:28.079 --> 00:38:28.480


Yeah, right.00:38:28.639 --> 00:38:30.159


I mean, he does make good music and loaded.00:38:30.960 --> 00:38:32.400


He's he's money.00:38:32.719 --> 00:38:33.360


He's got money money.00:38:33.679 --> 00:38:34.159


But so does she.00:38:34.480 --> 00:38:35.360


He's got her own too.00:38:35.519 --> 00:38:35.840


Yeah.00:38:36.159 --> 00:38:43.679


But I think when you compare, I've read things when you like look at the comparison of like she makes good money.00:38:43.760 --> 00:38:46.960


It's sort of like the Taylor Trip, Taylor Swift, Travis Kelsey thing.00:38:47.119 --> 00:38:50.639


Like, he makes good money, but he doesn't make Taylor Swift crunch.00:38:51.920 --> 00:38:52.079


Yeah.00:38:52.239 --> 00:38:52.480


Yeah.00:38:52.719 --> 00:38:55.599


And I think it's the same thing with Benny Blanco and Selena Gomez.00:38:55.760 --> 00:38:58.480


Like, she makes good money, but she doesn't make Benny Blanco money.00:38:58.719 --> 00:39:01.760


So Big Lively and Ryan Reynolds, I completely agree with that.00:39:02.000 --> 00:39:03.039


I've read many.00:39:03.199 --> 00:39:05.840


Apparently, they're in a lavender marriage.00:39:06.079 --> 00:39:07.119


What's that?00:39:07.440 --> 00:39:14.480


So it's when basically one of the members in the marriage is gay, but they they get married to kind of cover up.00:39:14.800 --> 00:39:16.159


Do we think Brian Reynolds is gay?00:39:16.400 --> 00:39:22.239


A lot of rumors are saying that he's gay with um Hugh Jackman, or they have that romance.00:39:22.639 --> 00:39:25.920


I do think that there's a secret thing where they irritate each other a lot.00:39:26.079 --> 00:39:26.239


Yeah.00:39:26.480 --> 00:39:29.199


Like Tom Cruise apparently is in a lot of lavender marriages.00:39:29.519 --> 00:39:30.000


Really?00:39:30.239 --> 00:39:30.880


I believe that.00:39:30.960 --> 00:39:31.280


100%.00:39:31.599 --> 00:39:34.800


Like apparently John Travolta was in a lavender marriage with Kelly Preston.00:39:34.960 --> 00:39:35.440


I don't know.00:39:35.599 --> 00:39:36.719


I can see that.00:39:36.960 --> 00:39:42.079


So Trump and Melania, I can see that's a business transaction for sure.00:39:42.559 --> 00:39:43.119


Especially now.00:39:43.199 --> 00:39:47.599


Maybe in the beginning they were together for love, but I feel like now it's a business transaction.00:39:47.920 --> 00:39:48.480


I don't know.00:39:48.559 --> 00:39:52.079


I could see it being a business transaction from the start and now and now she's stuck.00:39:52.639 --> 00:39:53.039


That's true.00:39:53.119 --> 00:39:53.679


Now she's stuck.00:39:53.840 --> 00:39:56.000


Taylor Swift and Travis Kelsey came up a lot.00:39:56.239 --> 00:39:58.079


No, I think I think they're genuine.00:39:58.320 --> 00:39:58.880


I think it's genuine.00:39:59.280 --> 00:39:59.360


Yeah.00:39:59.519 --> 00:40:00.079


I think that's genuine.00:40:00.320 --> 00:40:06.000


Bieber and Haley, I don't think either of them need to be in a relationship for any reason but love, right?00:40:06.559 --> 00:40:08.320


I think that's genuine.00:40:08.639 --> 00:40:09.119


I do too.00:40:09.280 --> 00:40:16.400


Because with his like mental health stuff, why would you stay with someone if you didn't truly love them?00:40:16.719 --> 00:40:16.960


Yeah.00:40:17.199 --> 00:40:19.840


Like because their relationship seems like it would be hard.00:40:20.239 --> 00:40:21.760


Will and Jada Pinkett Smith.00:40:22.000 --> 00:40:23.599


I can see that being a business transaction.00:40:23.840 --> 00:40:24.079


Yeah.00:40:24.559 --> 00:40:24.880


For sure.00:40:25.039 --> 00:40:28.239


Um John Travolta, I was thinking John Travolta and Kelly Preston.00:40:28.400 --> 00:40:30.400


I for sure think that was a lavender marriage.00:40:30.559 --> 00:40:33.440


Michael Jackson and Priscilla Presley, no shit, Sherlock.00:40:33.679 --> 00:40:35.440


Like, do you really think they were in love?00:40:36.239 --> 00:40:36.559


No.00:40:36.880 --> 00:40:37.679


Not at all, right?00:40:38.000 --> 00:40:38.079


No.00:40:38.239 --> 00:40:41.840


And then the last one is Tom Cruise, was hit Nicole Kidman, Katie Holmes.00:40:41.920 --> 00:40:49.199


So they they were married for the exact same time, time frame, and he divorced both women when they turned the exact same age.00:40:49.920 --> 00:40:50.239


Interesting.00:40:51.039 --> 00:40:54.400


Wasn't he the one jumping on Oprah's couch, like saying how in love he was?00:40:54.559 --> 00:40:57.360


I feel like if you're doing that kind of stuff, you're like doing too much.00:40:57.440 --> 00:40:58.079


It's too much of a show.00:40:58.320 --> 00:40:58.719


Theatrical.00:40:58.960 --> 00:40:59.920


It's yeah.00:41:00.000 --> 00:41:00.400


Uh-huh.00:41:00.800 --> 00:41:08.159


There was a show, I was on MTV, I forget what channel, but it was loosely based on Tom Cruise and all his lavender marriages.00:41:08.320 --> 00:41:09.199


Did you remember that show?00:41:09.519 --> 00:41:11.280


And Scientology was in the show as well.00:41:11.360 --> 00:41:11.519


Okay.00:41:11.760 --> 00:41:13.679


And he gets married to this actress.00:41:13.840 --> 00:41:17.760


It's a contract, and she's set to get X amount of money when they'd get divorced.00:41:17.840 --> 00:41:18.239


Do you remember that?00:41:18.400 --> 00:41:19.760


And then they actually do fall in love.00:41:20.000 --> 00:41:22.000


It was a really good show, and then it abruptly ended.00:41:22.480 --> 00:41:23.840


Was it was it a reality show?00:41:24.000 --> 00:41:26.000


No, it was a like a like a series?00:41:26.159 --> 00:41:27.119


Yeah, like a series, yeah.00:41:27.360 --> 00:41:30.639


And it was just it was supposed to be based off of his love life.00:41:31.199 --> 00:41:32.239


No, I know I don't know.00:41:32.400 --> 00:41:35.519


And Scientology was hugely involved, and it kind of shows the corruption of Scientology.00:41:36.719 --> 00:41:36.800


Yeah.00:41:37.039 --> 00:41:38.320


What's on that topic?00:41:38.480 --> 00:41:45.039


The one relationship right now that I don't think is for any kind of deal is Kylie and Timothy.00:41:45.199 --> 00:41:46.320


Oh my god, that's right.00:41:46.639 --> 00:41:47.119


I love them.00:41:47.199 --> 00:41:47.440


Yeah.00:41:47.599 --> 00:41:53.039


I love them, and I think that they're in love with each other, and they're a little bit weird together, and I think that's why it goes so well.00:41:53.199 --> 00:41:55.119


But like it's such an odd match, though.00:41:55.199 --> 00:41:56.719


I would have never put them together.00:41:56.880 --> 00:41:57.119


Ever.00:41:57.360 --> 00:41:58.079


But I love it.00:41:58.239 --> 00:41:58.480


I know.00:41:58.639 --> 00:41:59.519


I can't get enough of them.00:41:59.599 --> 00:42:00.800


I know, but they've been together for a long time.00:42:01.119 --> 00:42:01.360


Three years.00:42:01.519 --> 00:42:02.800


And he gave her that shout out.00:42:03.039 --> 00:42:03.840


That was kind of sweet.00:42:03.920 --> 00:42:04.159


Yeah.00:42:04.320 --> 00:42:05.199


And they're low-key.00:42:05.280 --> 00:42:05.360


Yeah.00:42:05.519 --> 00:42:08.239


And anytime a couple is low-key, I'm like, oh, that's real.00:42:08.400 --> 00:42:08.559


Yeah.00:42:08.719 --> 00:42:10.960


But haven't they broken up quite a few times?00:42:11.280 --> 00:42:12.639


I think I don't think so.00:42:12.960 --> 00:42:14.719


I think that was just in the media.00:42:14.960 --> 00:42:19.519


And I think it's rumors when one of them sort of goes a little dark.00:42:19.679 --> 00:42:31.440


Like if they if there's if one of them stops sort of posting the like the subposts of each other, it's like if Kylie doesn't post him for a while, people are like, oh, they must have broken up.00:42:31.840 --> 00:42:32.079


Yeah.00:42:32.320 --> 00:42:35.119


I think that's more speculation that they've broken up a bunch of times.00:42:35.360 --> 00:42:45.920


What I do think that they do strategically, because this is they they had this trick fall on me, is right before the Marty Supreme stuff started really rolling out and he was doing all that marketing, there was a rumor that they broke up.00:42:46.000 --> 00:42:46.800


I fully believed it.00:42:46.880 --> 00:42:48.400


I'm like, damn, do you guys hear that?00:42:48.639 --> 00:42:51.119


And then all the Marty Supreme stuff started happening.00:42:51.199 --> 00:42:56.239


I'm like, oh, they did their cute little breakup stunt stunt to launch that.00:42:56.400 --> 00:42:59.199


So that's the only time I think that they probably ever do stuff like that.00:42:59.360 --> 00:42:59.679


Yeah.00:43:00.000 --> 00:43:03.360


Now it's time for the celebrity cut where we marinate in the juices of the celebrities.00:43:03.519 --> 00:43:08.079


So I'm gonna give you guys the most expensive celebrity divorces.00:43:08.239 --> 00:43:10.559


So I'm sure you can guess which ones are on the list.00:43:10.639 --> 00:43:17.119


So Bill Gates and Melinda Gates, she got$76 billion when they got divorced.00:43:17.760 --> 00:43:22.079


$76 billion because they were worth a combined amount of$130 billion.00:43:22.239 --> 00:43:23.840


She was with him for 27 years.00:43:24.480 --> 00:43:25.360


Isn't that crazy?00:43:26.000 --> 00:43:26.239


Wow.00:43:26.480 --> 00:43:26.880


Dang.00:43:27.039 --> 00:43:30.239


Then you have Jeff Bezos and his ex, Mackenzie Scott.00:43:30.320 --> 00:43:34.800


She got$38 billion plus 25% of 25% of Amazon stock.00:43:34.880 --> 00:43:36.480


Isn't she the one that gave billions away?00:43:36.719 --> 00:43:38.079


She's always just giving billions away.00:43:38.480 --> 00:43:42.480


And didn't she marry one of her kids' biology teachers, high school biology teachers?00:43:42.960 --> 00:43:45.599


They're divorced now, but he hit the frickin jackpot, right?00:43:45.760 --> 00:43:46.400


Yeah.00:43:46.880 --> 00:43:50.480


And then Mel Gibson, his ex got 425 million.00:43:50.559 --> 00:43:51.920


I didn't know he was worth so much money.00:43:52.400 --> 00:43:52.960


Me either.00:43:53.199 --> 00:43:53.519


Right?00:43:53.920 --> 00:43:56.719


Well, he's not only an actor, he's a producer.00:43:57.840 --> 00:43:58.639


Director, right?00:43:58.800 --> 00:43:59.599


And I think he's done some.00:44:00.159 --> 00:44:01.599


Really big, big movies.00:44:01.840 --> 00:44:02.079


Yeah.00:44:02.159 --> 00:44:02.400


Yeah.00:44:02.639 --> 00:44:07.840


Then there was a Swiss socialite who married an art dealer, Alec Wildenstein.00:44:08.000 --> 00:44:09.519


She got 2.5 billion.00:44:10.559 --> 00:44:13.599


Um, Steven Spielberg, his ex got 100 million.00:44:13.840 --> 00:44:16.960


Michael Jordan, his ex got 168 million.00:44:17.039 --> 00:44:17.679


I didn't know he was.00:44:17.840 --> 00:44:20.239


I mean, he has Jordan Air, so I guess that's probably worth a lot.00:44:20.639 --> 00:44:22.400


He and I think he owns a lot of businesses too.00:44:22.800 --> 00:44:25.679


I think he's he was pretty successful with his investments.00:44:25.920 --> 00:44:26.159


Yeah.00:44:26.559 --> 00:44:30.159


And then last but not least, Tiger Woods, his ex got a hundred million.00:44:30.480 --> 00:44:30.800


Damn.00:44:31.199 --> 00:44:41.840


It's funny, when I first moved to Scotstarles, like early 20s, I told you the story, and I met this one very, very wealthy older lady, and she said to me, The best advice I can give you is marry twice.00:44:42.000 --> 00:44:48.239


The first time, marry solely for money, make all your millions, leave, and then marry for love, and you'll be set.00:44:48.320 --> 00:44:49.760


You'll never rely on a man again.00:44:50.079 --> 00:44:50.400


So funny.00:44:50.639 --> 00:44:53.760


I never took your advice, but it's not a bad approach.00:44:54.000 --> 00:44:57.840


Because in today's day and age, like you're likely going to be married more than once.00:44:58.000 --> 00:45:04.239


Like if you're not intentional with who you marry and super, you know, super choosy about it.00:45:04.480 --> 00:45:05.679


So it's like, yeah.00:45:06.079 --> 00:45:07.519


What is your ideal first date?00:45:07.679 --> 00:45:08.880


Are you a dinner and drinks girl?00:45:08.960 --> 00:45:10.480


Are you an activity girl?00:45:10.880 --> 00:45:17.039


The older I get, and the more I realize I want my life to be less focused around alcohol.00:45:17.360 --> 00:45:19.599


Um, not that your girl doesn't love a good drink.00:45:19.679 --> 00:45:26.320


I just feel like on a first date, it's important to like genuinely see them for what it is.00:45:26.400 --> 00:45:32.400


So I haven't done it yet, but I would be super open to like, and I want to try this more in 2026, like sober first dates.00:45:32.719 --> 00:45:39.599


And so an ideal one would be what do you I like to I like him to kind of have a repertoire, an idea in his head.00:45:39.760 --> 00:45:41.039


I want to go here, I wanna do this.00:45:41.119 --> 00:45:43.840


I actually saw a TikTok and I'm like, this is a super cute idea.00:45:44.079 --> 00:45:45.519


He's like, 10 a.m.00:45:45.760 --> 00:45:58.800


Tell her to wear like the comfiest sweater or sweatshirt she has, take her to the 7-Eleven, buy some snacks, you're gonna load up on coffee, get a big coffee, get an energy drink, load up on coffee, get your caffeine fixed, then you're going to the bingo hall.00:45:59.039 --> 00:46:02.000


You guys are gonna go and play bingo for two hours.00:46:02.239 --> 00:46:03.599


All the older people are there.00:46:03.760 --> 00:46:06.159


Older people are the best people to talk to, and I kind of agree with that.00:46:06.239 --> 00:46:07.360


I love old people.00:46:07.679 --> 00:46:12.559


But you're sober, you're doing an activity, and you're kind of like socializing.00:46:12.639 --> 00:46:20.960


So you're seeing so many different aspects and attributes of this person without having to like go through the questionnaire of so what do you do when you're like this?00:46:21.119 --> 00:46:21.599


Are you like this?00:46:21.760 --> 00:46:22.400


Blah, blah, blah.00:46:22.480 --> 00:46:23.440


So you can get to know them.00:46:23.519 --> 00:46:26.800


It's very casual, but it's also sober and you're doing an activity.00:46:26.880 --> 00:46:29.119


And so I would say something like that.00:46:29.519 --> 00:46:30.320


I like that idea.00:46:30.400 --> 00:46:35.039


And it's a good way to see how good of a person they are, like how they treat the elderly people, right?00:46:35.360 --> 00:46:40.320


And how they converse with them and if they're kind of judgy, or it's a good way to kind of gauge how great they are.00:46:40.639 --> 00:46:41.039


Right.00:46:41.280 --> 00:46:42.800


And it's in a different environment.00:46:42.960 --> 00:46:45.039


When's the last time you guys went and played bingo?00:46:45.199 --> 00:46:45.280


Right.00:46:45.360 --> 00:46:48.239


It's never played bingo, like out and socially.00:46:48.480 --> 00:46:49.360


I played bingo.00:46:50.320 --> 00:46:51.199


They were bingo.00:46:51.519 --> 00:46:54.159


They had yeah, when I was home in Iowa, they had bingo night.00:46:54.559 --> 00:46:54.800


Fun.00:46:55.360 --> 00:46:55.519


Yeah.00:46:55.679 --> 00:46:57.360


When we were out for dinner on Saturday night.00:46:57.599 --> 00:46:58.800


It's so random and so fun.00:46:59.039 --> 00:46:59.280


Yeah.00:46:59.440 --> 00:46:59.679


Yeah.00:46:59.840 --> 00:47:01.920


Although it was, it was called Mingo.00:47:02.000 --> 00:47:03.039


It was music bingo.00:47:03.119 --> 00:47:04.559


So it was a different type of bingo.00:47:04.639 --> 00:47:09.119


So it was the same bingo board, but there was song titles.00:47:09.840 --> 00:47:14.320


And the DJ played a clip, like a 10-second clip of a song.00:47:14.559 --> 00:47:16.719


And it was all genres, all years.00:47:16.800 --> 00:47:18.880


Like there was 70s and 80s rock songs.00:47:19.039 --> 00:47:20.719


There was like today's country.00:47:20.880 --> 00:47:22.320


There was like EDM songs.00:47:22.639 --> 00:47:25.280


There was like it was all across the board.00:47:25.599 --> 00:47:29.119


And then you had to, you had to recognize the song and know the the name of the song.00:47:30.239 --> 00:47:31.119


Yeah, it was really cute.00:47:31.360 --> 00:47:31.840


It was cool.00:47:32.239 --> 00:47:35.920


Now it's time to get to know you with Zoyo, sponsored by Zoeo, your neighborhood yogurt.00:47:36.079 --> 00:47:37.440


We're gonna read you rapid fire questions.00:47:37.519 --> 00:47:38.000


Okay, go ahead.00:47:38.159 --> 00:47:39.679


Your favorite body part on a man.00:47:39.840 --> 00:47:40.559


Oh, tough.00:47:40.719 --> 00:47:41.119


Neck.00:47:41.360 --> 00:47:41.760


Neck.00:47:42.000 --> 00:47:44.480


What should someone not do on a first date?00:47:45.840 --> 00:47:47.199


Talk negatively.00:47:47.920 --> 00:47:50.719


What should some where should someone not take you on a first date?00:47:52.639 --> 00:47:53.280


Dive bar.00:47:53.920 --> 00:47:55.199


What is your go-to pickup line?00:47:55.360 --> 00:47:56.400


Do you have a pickup line?00:47:56.639 --> 00:48:03.039


Um when they say something about like I actually just answered this yesterday, so I know it's not rapid fire.00:48:03.199 --> 00:48:07.519


Um, something where like them being around me makes them wanna make more money.00:48:08.880 --> 00:48:11.199


Like I wanna I wanna give you everything you deserve.00:48:11.360 --> 00:48:15.760


Your dreams are too small, I wanna give you the world, I wanna work harder, like that'll m make me melt.00:48:16.800 --> 00:48:18.960


Is watching porn considered cheating?00:48:19.679 --> 00:48:22.960


Not necessarily, but I don't think it's necessary in a relationship.00:48:23.360 --> 00:48:26.960


Before you're intimate, is it appropriate to ask your date how many people they've been with?00:48:27.199 --> 00:48:27.440


No.00:48:27.760 --> 00:48:29.920


Is it acceptable to have sex on the first date?00:48:30.239 --> 00:48:30.639


Yeah.00:48:31.280 --> 00:48:36.239


And do you have a special talent or unique fact about you that not many people know?00:48:37.280 --> 00:48:39.360


I'm pretty good with accents.00:48:39.599 --> 00:48:40.320


Oh, really?00:48:40.480 --> 00:48:41.679


Yeah, yeah, pretty good.00:48:42.159 --> 00:48:43.280


She can talk like Bonnie Blue.00:48:43.360 --> 00:48:44.800


No, you really do look like Bonnie Blue.00:48:44.960 --> 00:48:46.079


Does she have an accent?00:48:47.519 --> 00:48:48.079


That's awesome.00:48:48.159 --> 00:48:50.000


Can you do like Scottish and Australian?00:48:50.159 --> 00:48:50.880


D and under.00:48:52.239 --> 00:48:54.000


Australian's kind of tough.00:48:54.639 --> 00:48:56.800


Australian's like my hardest one to get into.00:48:57.039 --> 00:48:57.519


I can go.00:48:57.760 --> 00:48:58.159


It is hard.00:48:58.320 --> 00:48:58.800


It's so hard.00:48:59.119 --> 00:49:00.480


And it's hard to switch between accents.00:49:01.360 --> 00:49:05.519


Because once you get started doing one, it's really hard to flip and do another one.00:49:05.840 --> 00:49:08.719


My favorite though is uh is Joisy.00:49:09.119 --> 00:49:15.199


It's like Joisy, but it's also like the the old Jewish lady that she lives in New Jersey.00:49:15.280 --> 00:49:15.760


You know what I mean?00:49:15.840 --> 00:49:17.280


Like Maudi's coming over.00:49:17.519 --> 00:49:18.000


So good.00:49:18.159 --> 00:49:19.519


But I got sauce on the stove.00:49:19.840 --> 00:49:20.559


Make a cheesecake.00:49:20.719 --> 00:49:21.360


You know what I mean?00:49:21.440 --> 00:49:23.360


But oh, that's a he's a very nice man.00:49:23.679 --> 00:49:24.719


Have you ever thought of acting?00:49:24.880 --> 00:49:26.400


I feel like you'd be such a good actress.00:49:26.559 --> 00:49:32.159


I think I'd probably be decent, but I also feel like I couldn't remember lines like that.00:49:32.320 --> 00:49:33.840


I feel like I would struggle with that.00:49:34.079 --> 00:49:35.199


You need a teleprompter.00:49:35.360 --> 00:49:35.760


Maybe.00:49:35.920 --> 00:49:38.639


Maybe we that's what would give me anxiety about acting.00:49:38.719 --> 00:49:41.760


I don't I'd be scared that I'm gonna forget the lines, you know?00:49:43.760 --> 00:49:47.280


Thank you so much for joining us this week at the Meat Market, and thank you so much, Courtney.00:49:47.360 --> 00:49:52.000


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Oh my god, I just totally got catfished.00:50:05.920 --> 00:50:08.000


He looks absolutely nothing like his picture.00:50:08.239 --> 00:50:12.960


So I found out the guy that I've been dating is married with kids.00:50:13.119 --> 00:50:15.599


His wife just reached out to me.