Giddy Up, Boys: A Cowgirl’s Rules for Ridin’ Solo 💅🔥

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Oh my god, I just totally got catfished.

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He looks absolutely nothing like his picture.

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So I found out, the guy that I've been dating is married with kids.

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His wife just reached out to me.

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Welcome to the Meat Market.

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The single scene is a slaughterhouse and we are here to devour it.

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We are your hosts.

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I'm Lindsay, I'm Jess and today's sizzling single is Cowgirl Ali.

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Welcome.

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Thanks for being here.

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Happy to be here.

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So you're a cowgirl.

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Are you looking for a cowboy?

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You looking to save a horse rat a cowboy.

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Honestly, I want to find somebody that's interested in that lifestyle but isn't necessarily like completely involved in it, because I like to do other things too.

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I mean, I like to hike, I want to travel some more.

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I didn't get to travel a lot when I was younger, um.

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I work out um pretty frequently, uh, and I just I want to go do other things, and usually if it's like a rodeo style that's your life and that's all you do, really, yeah yeah, they're very, very involved it's a sport and that there's a lot of money in it.

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Yes, expense it's expensive to do, yeah, but it's also like the purses are.

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You can make money doing it too, no or no?

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you can.

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You can if you're good, yeah, so when you say riding horses, do you like ride in a rodeo?

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do you, you.

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So I don't anymore.

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When I was younger I did like barrel club stuff back in Washington State and then here I haven't really had a horse.

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That's competitive.

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I had a bunch of young ones and would just work with them for fun and do trail rides because I didn't know a ton of people.

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Everybody that I'm friends with now ropes.

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I have not roped, I do not rope.

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That was not a thing where I grew up.

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It was all rough stock cowboys out there.

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So everybody here ropes.

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A whole different world for me and I prefer to keep all of my limbs intact, so I have not attempted.

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I'll rope a dummy on the ground.

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How do you feel about the rodeo clowns?

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What are?

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rodeo clowns you don't know what a rodeo clown.

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That's what they're called right, rodeo clowns.

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There's like the clowns and then there's like the bullfighters.

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So there's a little bit.

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They all dress up, all fun and stuff.

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The clowns are the ones that go out and like do all crazy to ring the bull back in, right or the bullfighters.

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The clowns will do it too, but the clowns are more there to entertain the crowd oh, they are.

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Get your shit together, jess and the the bullfighters will be out there like getting in the way and and taking the hit so that the cowboy doesn't okay yeah it's a dangerous sport, can't you get hurt?

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oh god, yeah, like why would people put themselves through that?

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I don't know the adrenaline.

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Yeah, the thrill Adrenaline junkies.

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You see them, the thrill.

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They must be getting bed, oh.

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God, they're like what One more time?

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As I break the couch.

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We need to get a mechanical bull.

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We need to do a singles event.

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Like does the Buffalo Chip have a bull?

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Do we need to do a singles event, like that would be?

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where does the buffalo chip have a bowl.

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Did they have a mechanical ball, girls?

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I have been there one time.

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I don't know, you don't know, have a mechanical and I didn't go hang out in the back with all the young crowd, I hung out with all the old men in the front who can't dance with?

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so remember saddle ranch.

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They had a mechanical ball there and they made you sign that waiver.

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I, I guess someone got severely hurt.

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I knew someone that knew someone that got severely hurt and sued them.

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And I guess there are loopholes when you sign those waivers, and one like millions of dollars.

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So that's why they had to shut down.

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Oh my gosh.

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That's crazy.

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I rode the bull there.

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And I rode the bull the night after I got home.

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I'm totally kidding.

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So, anyways, what are?

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buckle bunnies.

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What are buckle bunnies?

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Um, so if you are kind of like the cowboy chaser girl and you dress up all I, I kind of like have the image in my head of they dress up all fancy and stuff and they don't actually like know a whole lot and but they want that cowboy and so they'll be like, um, their little side piece that just hangs on them like their shit kickers don't actually have any shit on them yeah, yeah, they just like dress the cutesy part and uh, fawn over the cowboys, the ones that win or the ones that act like they win and are actually pieces of shit.

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So they're like cowboy groupies.

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They're basically yeah, Okay.

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And so are cowboys.

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Do they have a bad reputation?

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Are they kind of dicks?

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Are they players?

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Some of them.

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I feel like there's not a whole lot of middle ground.

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I feel like there's the ones that are like super family oriented, super kind, super, um honest, loyal, religious, whatever.

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And then you have the ones that are like I can get anything I want because I and I'm traveling on the road.

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So nobody's gonna know, like that type they'll never know they'll never know, because I always thought cowboys were very respectful and, you know, gentlemanly.

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But then I heard from people that know the inn and they're like no, they can be kind of dicks, it depends on what category of cowboy we're going with.

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So um, I guess my description right.

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There was like rodeo cowboys that's traveling rodeo like PRCA type.

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But then you have um, like the ones I hang out with that rope for fun.

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On the weekends they have everybody over to have some beers and goof off, and all the kids in Junior Rodeo and the community come over.

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They're all good people.

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I feel like the country cowboys are good.

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Where I grew up in Iowa the country boys are really good, good solid quality guys and even down in the Florida band southern yeah kind of country boys are really good quality guys too.

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So I think it does.

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It kind of depends on what the background is well, they have that family thing going on.

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They actually like have a other job for a living right, so they're not just traveling on the rodeo circuit.

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So so they're with their buddies, with their childhood friends, their families, their neighbors, whatever, and so it's a little bit more of a wholesome environment.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, so where do you live?

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Don't you live a bit out of town?

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Yeah, so about an hour from this location, but in a little tiny town we have a few blocks worth of everybody's got about three acres.

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Oh wow, Everybody's got a roping arena.

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It's my little Mayberry and I love it.

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I live with friends out there, but it has to be hard to date.

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Yeah, there's not a whole lot of options out there.

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Is there like a downtown, or local bars or local restaurants?

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We have the Cowtown Tavern.

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Is that what it's called?

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That's what it's called.

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That's hilarious.

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You know what the bars in?

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small towns are the best.

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So, I grew up in a town that's 600 people, okay, and our bar was called Boxcar Billy's.

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Hell yeah, there you go, boxcar Billy's.

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Okay, and our bar was called boxcar billies.

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Hell yeah, there you go boxcar billies.

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That's hilarious, they've shortened it now.

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Now it's just boxcars, boxcars, but all right.

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But it's like small town bars have the funniest names, I feel like and I love this and and our little town is popular, there's like less than 400 population um, which is similar to the town I came from, so totally fine.

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But yeah, those little towns you don't meet a lot of people so you have to go out and be active.

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But like I go out um every weekend dancing, so do country swing.

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Uh, where do you do that?

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The stillery and chandler, oh, okay, and it's my favorite.

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I love it.

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I've made some fantastic friends there.

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Um meeting, meeting men is hit and miss there's some interesting things there, but, um, I have to like go into town right to meet new people.

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So are you a good dancer?

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I am told by many of them that I am one of the um, one of the favorite, follows.

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So I can't even get two drinks down because I don't rest enough to drink.

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So yeah, oh wow, which is great, because I have to drive anyway.

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So by the time the second one's so watered down, I don't finish it have you ever had any like dance floor drama, like like someone tries to cut in on you or you're dancing with someone and it's like she's trying to steal my man.

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No, no, uh-uh, no, um the the group I'm with is fantastic, but we have observed other people having that and we're just like, oh my god.

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So, um, a lot of that group is very.

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The bar in itself is very much like protect the women, respect the women which is awesome.

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Um, they do a great job managing and that's like I love going there.

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And people will get kicked out.

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If they're like grabbing a girl and the girl obviously doesn't like it, the bouncers are like no, no, no, second chance.

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Oh, wow, you're out of here.

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Um, there was one guy that was coming through and being kind of like we knew I've only met him a couple times because he got kicked out shortly after but would come in and like slap our ass and stuff like that or like grab us, and we obviously didn't want it.

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And finally it was like no, you're, you've gone too far you need to leave and he is not allowed back.

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So I like that, yeah, um, so if anybody's needing to go meet some respectful people they're all the ones that don't get kicked out go to the stillery and go find them so you're from Washington, originally eastern Washington state.

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Okay, and then how long have you been here for?

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Uh, since 2021 okay, so about four, four years now yeah, and when you lived in Washington did you live on a lot of land and uh, no.

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So we had a couple acres is all and we had our little you know hobby farm.

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Uh, goats, sheep, horses did you date some cattle back there?

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Yeah, so, um, yes, I had like my high school boyfriend right who we ended up I moved down here with divorced and, um, I dated like through college we had we were not together then um, and like some great people, but just nothing that stuck.

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Yeah, um, and while that divorce occurred, I'm so happy I'm down here.

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This is definitely home for me and the people I've met, but um, so, if you don't mind us asking why did you get divorced?

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did you just grow apart um?

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yeah, I liked to go be more active and all he really wanted to do was go to the bar and like that's cool and all, but I want to go do other things right there.

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To be honest, there was some like physical abuses as well.

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Um, a lot of financial problems that I had to um accommodate for, um, just a lot of anger sounds like you're better off without him.

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I'm so much better yeah yeah, so you have.

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So you have a degree in agriculture.

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Is that right agricultural?

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education okay yeah, um so teaching uh high school ag science classes metal fabrication, animal science, soil sciences oh, wow basic biologies there's, I guess.

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I mean I'm used to that in Iowa, where I grew up yeah, I'm sure it's all over the place right here yeah, the high schools teach that here some do yeah, there's um, so, like the um high school in the area I'm from, they have a FFA program, okay, so they've got all the ag science courses, but I don't feel like the courses here are as strong as the ones I came from Right and we have just a ton of farm families up there and I know that they do here too, but I feel like it's a different dynamic, maybe just less People frequent moving to and from Arizona.

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Yeah, right, and like up there it's all established.

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It's like generational.

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It's so generational, yeah, yeah and like each family member or whatever marries, like the other farming family members, and they all are intertwined somehow and I don't feel like that's the case down here, but I haven't been here very long so I don't know yeah, but it's also a much bigger.

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It's also a much bigger city here than it is in those small towns, that's.

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That's that's sort of what the small town lends itself to, because the dating pool is so small.

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So it's like, oh yeah we had to do like two hours to Spokane.

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Yeah, to do anything?

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yeah, I always had to do like a genealogy before I went out with anybody, because my dad was one of nine, so I'm like am I related to this person or not.

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That would be important to get out of here.

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That would be important to know.

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So you said you had an ex-boyfriend, that his mom would do his laundry.

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Yeah, so that was a hinge thing.

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I'll never do that again.

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It wasn't bad.

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I mean, like the first hinge date was the guy was super nice but totally not.

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It was more of a like figure out how this works, but we had a great time.

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And then the second one totally was an alcoholic.

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Oh no.

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Very fun, definitely drank a lot um.

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And then that third one I actually was in a relationship with for like six months, but a lot of it was like depended on his mom, um, just was kind of like a child forever type thing and then was super weird about anytime it was talking um in regards to like future stuff.

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He'd kind of test me and be like, if this were to happen, what would you take from me?

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What I wouldn't take anything.

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I, I'm divorced and I took nothing.

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Wow, are you kidding me?

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Like I gave him back money when we sold the house.

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What?

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wow, a little paranoid are we like yeah and also did.

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Did he have a lot to be?

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took like um no, he lived with his parents and like, honestly, right now we all live with somebody, probably because it's really hard to afford anywhere to live these days yeah, I.

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I myself live in a fifth wheel, so party um.

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My dogs love it, so it doesn't.

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But you know what?

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you can have some really nice fifth wheels.

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There are some nice fifth wheels out there, oh yeah, there are.

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There are, um, unfortunately, those are really expensive.

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So but my best friend lives like 10 feet from me.

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It's great, oh, in her house, but but oh, hold on Backtracking, okay, yeah, so he lives with his folks and like I don't know what he had for being all paranoid about money.

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It seems the ones who are most concerned about gold diggers have no actual gold to be dug.

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You know what I mean.

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So it's like like what was he worried about you taking from him?

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driving over an hour to see you every weekend.

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And um, like when he invited me on a trip to to Moab which was super fun, he's a thrill seeker he liked he wanted to go do the cliff jump thing, awesome to watch, great.

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Um, we went on this.

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He invited me on this trip and then on the way there it was like you know, stop for road snacks, whatever.

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I always bought my own.

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And then we split the stay in a koa and I'm like, okay, like what you invited me, sir, I'm okay with splitting stuff, but like more, maybe offer at least would be cool.

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And then after the first time he was like that was a test to see if, if you would make me buy it for you are you serious?

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oh, deal breaker, I'm done, it's like I have my own job.

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Thanks, you shouldn't be testing people no, not on the first or not, like when it's a really so new first trip.

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Yeah, like we had, it was a really fun trip.

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I was just kind of like that's dumb, but whatever.

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Um, it was interesting.

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It was interesting and yeah, he had he had like all the toys, like he had his pickup that he spent a bunch of money on and his uh like side by side buggy carinam thing that he would go spend a bunch of money on and I don like side by side buggy carinam thing that he would go spend a bunch of money on and I don't know, maybe that's what he was worried about you taking this truck yeah, yeah, because I don't have my own.

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So what do you do for work now?

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uh for work.

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I am a technical writer for a like global nutritional company oh, that sounds fun.

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Technical writer yeah, it's not fun, but yeah, my co-workers are fantastic some of them but you're not using your teaching.

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You're not using your teaching degree.

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I have like progressively gotten further away from the ag stuff, just by default I don't want to and I'm trying to find my way back, or at least into something um that keeps me meeting people or active and like, just like I'm okay with desk work, but I'm sitting here with desk work and my expectations change every day and I'm like I can't, yeah, bring on the lexa pro are you looking to get married again?

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are you looking to have kids?

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um, so that's part of one of the things.

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That's really hard for me to find somebody is I'm at the age where you either do or do not end up having a family right 32 and I have never really wanted, I've never wanted kids.

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So a lot of the people I meet are a little bit younger and they still want the family, or they're older and they have a family, which is tough because little kids are not my deal.

00:17:48.286 --> 00:17:55.922
I love my nieces and my nephews and a few of my friends' kids, but I don't want to be responsible for them.

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That is not.

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So, if a guy has older kids.

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Would you be okay with that?

00:18:02.106 --> 00:18:06.046
Yeah, maybe like 10 years and up would be okay.

00:18:06.154 --> 00:18:18.747
I feel like at that age they can almost fend for themselves and they're still fun, right, you can still establish a relationship instead of heading straight to it, like maybe the mid-teens, where it's like I hate you, you're not my mother.

00:18:19.557 --> 00:18:20.589
You're not my mother.

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They're all going to be bigger than me, because I'm like this this tall so, um, so that that would be fine, but at the same time, I I feel like a lot of the older guys um are kind of creepy, yeah, or like they're trying to go find the younger girls or it's like to say that they can't, or it's like a kink thing where they want the daddy.

00:18:42.644 --> 00:18:44.689
Yeah, it's really uncomfortable.

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Yeah, that's one thing I don't get sexually, when people want to use the word daddy, you know, or they want to be called daddy, like is that attractive at all?

00:18:54.096 --> 00:19:04.688
yes, daddy, daddy, I don't know, I don't get that, it's weird, it's kind of weird it's weird, but I've been, I've, I've dated guys that want to be called daddy In the bedroom.

00:19:04.688 --> 00:19:06.510
And how was that for you?

00:19:06.510 --> 00:19:08.481
My ex liked to be called daddy.

00:19:09.036 --> 00:19:13.060
And you called him daddy, call me daddy, that laugh was a yes.

00:19:13.060 --> 00:19:15.278
You liked it.

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Oh my God.

00:19:16.765 --> 00:19:18.179
Different horses, different courses.

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Different horses, different courses.

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I haven't heard that I like that.

00:19:20.557 --> 00:19:23.898
So describe your ideal partner different courses I haven't heard that.

00:19:23.919 --> 00:19:24.140
I like that.

00:19:24.140 --> 00:19:24.981
So describe your ideal partner.

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Um, also a gym enthusiast?

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Um, because I mean I want somebody that's that wants to be healthy and wants to do all that.

00:19:30.898 --> 00:19:37.160
Um, somebody that's interested in the western lifestyle but also has other things in their life that they want to do.

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Um, or maybe honestly, ideally, somebody who wants to learn about it and has been in it a little bit.

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But not um, and I like I like to help people and teach people right Part of the teaching thing.

00:19:49.919 --> 00:19:57.981
So like if I can see the joy on their face while I share my passion with them, that would make me so much happier.

00:19:57.981 --> 00:20:02.326
Um, whereas I feel like a lot, of, a lot of guys get that ego.

00:20:02.326 --> 00:20:10.125
If they feel like they know more than you and like I don't want the ego, guys like just put it away, nobody gives a shit.

00:20:10.125 --> 00:20:18.385
And um, as far as like physical things, I like a little bit, not super tall.

00:20:18.385 --> 00:20:21.820
A lot of women are like wow, that's three.

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No, no, I no, I'm good.

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I'm good with like slightly taller than me.

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How tall are you?

00:20:26.701 --> 00:20:27.082
5'2".

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Wow, are you wearing heels?

00:20:29.326 --> 00:20:31.950
Because you seem taller, well, I Just a little boot.

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I got an extra half an inch maybe.

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So you're cool with 5'8", 5'9".

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That's fine for you.

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Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, absolutely.

00:20:42.684 --> 00:20:46.471
And maybe kind of lean.

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I like beards, but just like kind and uh can match my energy, cause sometimes I can be just a little, you know, a little weirdo um out there tons of energy, um being obnoxious and somebody who is like, yep, that's my girl and I'm super fucking weird, would be fantastic or can go be weird with me.

00:21:07.903 --> 00:21:16.474
Can go be weird with me and then like calm down and just like, let me do my thing with my other little ADHD friends and have a great time.

00:21:16.796 --> 00:21:17.758
So are you still on Hinge?

00:21:18.420 --> 00:21:19.702
after those experiences no.

00:21:19.809 --> 00:21:20.877
Are you on any of the apps?

00:21:20.877 --> 00:21:21.905
No, no.

00:21:22.189 --> 00:21:24.557
No, I just kind of don't look right now.

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If it happens, it happens.

00:21:28.738 --> 00:21:43.872
I mean, I would rather meet people organically, right, and so I've had people talk to me a few places and I've turned some of them down because I need to be pickier, I'm I'm the type that's like oh, everybody gets a chance because they were nice to me.

00:21:43.872 --> 00:21:46.016
Why?

00:21:46.196 --> 00:21:46.698
boundaries.

00:21:46.778 --> 00:21:50.692
It's time to set some boundaries yes, I get lectured on it by my friends all the time.

00:21:50.771 --> 00:21:54.398
I love you, cara um have you had any disaster dates?

00:21:55.721 --> 00:21:56.923
disaster dates?

00:21:56.923 --> 00:22:22.598
No, not really, but there was one that potentially could have been a disaster and it was one that a guy I met at the stillery and we kind of like had a good we danced and then we had a good conversation, because it was one of those times where we were both keeping eye on a girl that was clearly uncomfortable with somebody Right, and so we kind of like bonded over that he went in and like he danced with her to get her away, type thing.

00:22:22.640 --> 00:22:23.442
And the guy got mad.

00:22:23.470 --> 00:22:28.059
And I was like, hey, will you dance with me, all acting fucking stupid, and it was great and it worked OK.

00:22:28.059 --> 00:22:39.192
So we kind of bonded over that and then asked for my number Fantastic, fantastic, wanted to go on a date.

00:22:39.192 --> 00:22:40.615
And um, I was like, yeah, like that, that would be fun, right.

00:22:40.615 --> 00:22:42.298
Like just, I like to meet people, I like to talk to people, why not?

00:22:42.298 --> 00:22:46.675
And then he invited me to dinner to his house for a first date.

00:22:48.920 --> 00:23:10.913
I don't know you, sir I'm gonna go to your house, okay, and so obviously we, as women, um creep on people on social media so I was like I need to know what I need to know about this guy before I continue that, because when I said like oh, I don't know, and he kind of pushed like, oh, I'm not expecting anything or did he think that because he met you in person?

00:23:11.296 --> 00:23:16.593
at a bar it was appropriate to ask you to his house could maybe we'll give him that benefit of the?

00:23:16.613 --> 00:23:16.712
doubt.

00:23:16.732 --> 00:23:25.382
Maybe he wanted to show off his house, maybe, maybe, okay, so we like we deemed the nickname of this one baseball guy because he played baseball and um.

00:23:25.382 --> 00:23:27.329
So I looked on his social media and I was like that's weird.

00:23:27.329 --> 00:23:31.318
Like a week ago he's got a picture of like happy anniversary with this girl.

00:23:31.318 --> 00:23:36.636
That was my phase too and I was like kara to my friend and she goes what fuck?

00:23:36.636 --> 00:23:40.263
So we I hope it's okay to say that on the show oh, absolutely You're good, great.

00:23:43.431 --> 00:23:48.342
And so I immediately was like I'm not doing this.

00:23:48.342 --> 00:23:55.579
So I told them like hey, like my gut feeling says, no, I just I don't think that this is something I'm going to follow through with.

00:23:55.579 --> 00:23:57.357
Thank you so much for the opportunity.

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You know, maybe I'll see you dancing again, not a problem.

00:24:01.539 --> 00:24:09.858
And he got super, super upset about it and there was no like phone calls or anything, but it was all text messages and it was like I can't believe that you're going to turn me down.

00:24:09.858 --> 00:24:12.433
And I thought that we were.

00:24:12.433 --> 00:24:17.663
I thought that we had a really good time when we met and we were.

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I thought that we had a really good time when we met.

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And it's just dinner and it's.

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And like I'm not going to do anything, I don't want anything from you, I just want to have some alone time, like stuff like that.

00:24:24.099 --> 00:24:27.560
And I'm like that's, you're just making it worse buddy.

00:24:28.090 --> 00:24:29.616
Don't push me towards it.

00:24:29.616 --> 00:24:35.817
A respectful thing would have been like hey would you feel more comfortable if we went out in public or as a group?

00:24:35.817 --> 00:24:37.968
Or would you feel more comfortable if we went out in public or right, as a group?

00:24:37.968 --> 00:24:42.219
Or would you like to go meet dancing again and just talk while we're in your comfortable area?

00:24:42.219 --> 00:24:43.522
No none of that.

00:24:43.522 --> 00:24:55.482
So then a couple weeks later, go back to the distillery and I was like, oh my god, it's baseball guy and the girl he was with his girlfriend yes, and I was like, was she just out of town?

00:24:57.022 --> 00:24:57.808
I bet she was.

00:24:57.970 --> 00:25:04.717
Like part of me wants to be like I don't want any part of this, but the other part of me is like if I were her, I would want to know Absolutely.

00:25:04.737 --> 00:25:06.300
I am a petty Betty, so I hope that she hears this.

00:25:06.300 --> 00:25:07.102
I would have gone up.

00:25:07.603 --> 00:25:44.223
Yeah, the nerve that he would bring her to somewhere that he knew you, you would be at yes, and he had been like in in our like text chain, whatever had been like oh, I don't want it to be weird when, um, when I see you again, because I'll probably see you there and I was like that's, I'm, I'm, I'm cool with it, right, and so, like, when I saw him, I was like okay, and he just like side glanced me with that, with his girlfriend there, wow and I'm like oh, she doesn't know that you're a little hoe you dodged a bullet, for sure, yeah and I was like check works.

00:25:44.484 --> 00:25:45.248
You should have been like.

00:25:45.307 --> 00:25:45.970
I'm so sorry.

00:25:45.970 --> 00:25:52.453
I couldn't come over for dinner the other weekend so my friend, I was like Kara baseball guy because she was there that night.

00:25:52.895 --> 00:25:58.420
But I told her afterwards and she's like why didn't you tell me I would have gone up and be like oh, my name's Katarina.

00:25:58.420 --> 00:26:00.405
I'm so sorry, do you remember me?

00:26:00.405 --> 00:26:01.892
I'm so sorry I didn't get to go to your house.

00:26:01.932 --> 00:26:04.765
I like just right and I'm like thank you so much for the invite.

00:26:04.905 --> 00:26:07.192
I don't want to start anything.

00:26:07.192 --> 00:26:08.534
I don't like that.

00:26:09.694 --> 00:26:12.138
But I feel bad for her and I hope she finds out at some point.

00:26:12.278 --> 00:26:13.520
I hope she finds out too.

00:26:13.520 --> 00:26:14.521
I do too shady.

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are youady?

00:26:15.143 --> 00:26:16.044
Are you ready for it?

00:26:16.044 --> 00:26:17.086
I'm ready for it.

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00:26:29.060 --> 00:26:32.834
Hey, meat market gals Love your show.

00:26:32.834 --> 00:26:37.820
By the way, I am a 6 am, green juice and yoga kind of gal.

00:26:37.820 --> 00:26:43.202
My boyfriend is a midnight pizza pre-roll and video game kind of guy.

00:26:43.202 --> 00:26:47.260
We click like magic and the sex is mind-blowing.

00:26:47.260 --> 00:26:50.720
Our lifestyles, though, are totally out of sync.

00:26:50.720 --> 00:26:57.680
I feel he'll never join me on my morning jog and I can never join him on his all-night netflix bingers.

00:26:57.680 --> 00:26:58.912
Are we doomed?

00:27:00.336 --> 00:27:00.876
what do you think?

00:27:02.260 --> 00:27:02.321
I.

00:27:02.321 --> 00:27:07.455
I think that's a really personal thing, whether you want somebody included in your life or not and how much like for me.

00:27:07.455 --> 00:27:10.291
I want to do this I want to do all the things with my person.

00:27:10.291 --> 00:27:18.951
I don't want to be apart from them yeah like, but some people like that alone time so I feel like that, just if it's working, it's working.

00:27:19.051 --> 00:27:22.961
But if she's having feelings of like, I don't like this.

00:27:22.961 --> 00:27:24.010
I really wish she was there.

00:27:24.010 --> 00:27:25.334
That's going to get worse.

00:27:25.334 --> 00:27:36.460
I've, like I've seen it in a lot of relationships in growing up where it's like the, you know, one person likes to go do these things and the other person is maybe a homebody or whatever they're like I.

00:27:36.460 --> 00:27:38.323
They always say oh, I wish they would go.

00:27:38.323 --> 00:27:43.940
Or the other person says I wish they would stay home with me and if you're always wishing that somebody would do something else, why would you?

00:27:44.180 --> 00:27:45.553
yeah why would you stay there?

00:27:45.573 --> 00:27:55.118
because you're not having those memorable experiences with your partner it would be tough for me, like if I was to date someone that wanted to sleep till 2 pm.

00:27:55.118 --> 00:28:02.419
I couldn't do that, no, and for me too like I'm up at five every morning, sometimes earlier.

00:28:02.539 --> 00:28:09.911
So it's like, if you want me to watch a movie with you at 8 pm, like I am going to be sleeping, like I will be sleeping, I will not be watching a movie.

00:28:09.911 --> 00:28:18.265
So it's like, eh, I don't know, I, I don't think I could date someone who had such a total opposite lifestyle to me.

00:28:19.049 --> 00:28:20.877
Yeah, I think in the long run it's probably not going to work out.

00:28:21.772 --> 00:28:27.621
So save your time, yeah that would be like if I tried to date a hip-hop singer.

00:28:28.682 --> 00:28:30.914
No Just not going to work out.

00:28:33.290 --> 00:28:48.955
So I wanted to discuss this article because we on our last episode we talked about the most unattractive male hobbies that I saw on the news, okay, and I posted a social clip of this and we got so much hate from men that just reamed us like, oh, I guess it's not okay for men to have hobbies.

00:28:48.955 --> 00:28:54.075
Then Huh, oh, okay, if we can't do this, then you're not allowed to have pets, like we just got slammed.

00:28:54.496 --> 00:28:56.962
So this article is not approved.

00:28:56.962 --> 00:28:58.989
I was just gonna say I don't think.

00:28:59.009 --> 00:29:01.895
I don't think pets are hobbies necessarily.

00:29:01.935 --> 00:29:07.256
Someone said that someone said if we're not allowed to play video games, you're not allowed to have any pets.

00:29:07.256 --> 00:29:07.978
What?

00:29:07.978 --> 00:29:17.523
Okay, I hope my dog eats your remote so I googled the most unattractive female hobbies and, yes, there was an article.

00:29:17.523 --> 00:29:19.777
So number one is snakes.

00:29:19.777 --> 00:29:22.528
Do many women collect snakes or have snakes as pets?

00:29:22.528 --> 00:29:26.057
I think snakes are so cool, yeah but is that a hobby?

00:29:26.530 --> 00:29:27.403
I don't think that's a hobby.

00:29:27.403 --> 00:29:30.097
Or is it like a hobby like being a snake?

00:29:30.097 --> 00:29:32.268
Is your hobby Like being a like?

00:29:32.268 --> 00:29:36.020
I think it'd be like collecting snakes or having snakes as pets.

00:29:36.535 --> 00:29:45.144
I used to collect snakes all my ex-boyfriends there they can be snakes being a swifty was one which I can kind of see.

00:29:45.144 --> 00:29:46.715
Sure, if you're obsessed.

00:29:46.715 --> 00:29:50.732
Be a little young and maybe I can imagine men would look at it as being a little immature.

00:29:50.732 --> 00:29:51.295
What do you think?

00:29:51.717 --> 00:29:54.589
yeah, I guess I think, they're like I don't want to be direct.

00:29:54.589 --> 00:29:57.057
I think they're also intimidated by like I'm.

00:29:57.057 --> 00:30:00.355
I'm not a super big Taylor Swift fan, but I know she's very like feminine power.

00:30:00.790 --> 00:30:00.871
And.

00:30:00.891 --> 00:30:02.656
I feel like a lot of men are intimidated by that.

00:30:03.138 --> 00:30:04.795
Maybe and each to their own.

00:30:04.795 --> 00:30:11.217
Well, and they're very angry about the Travis Kelsey thing because they feel like Taylor Swift took over football and how dare she?

00:30:11.217 --> 00:30:18.290
You know so.

00:30:18.310 --> 00:30:20.557
I feel like maybe there's some like bitterness and resentment by just like the men.

00:30:20.557 --> 00:30:21.519
Yeah, in america against taylor.

00:30:21.519 --> 00:30:25.873
Yeah, that's true, because she's infiltrated their like little click or whatever.

00:30:25.913 --> 00:30:37.297
Yeah, it's like our dutch friends that have been here for the last month why we rescheduled the um, like they are taylor swift fans and they love to watch american football, right, so they love all of it.

00:30:37.336 --> 00:30:41.588
That's funny, I think, her music's great, it's catchy, it's fun, it's uplifting.

00:30:41.588 --> 00:30:42.919
Sassy, I have nothing against Taylor.

00:30:42.939 --> 00:30:43.039
Swift.

00:30:43.039 --> 00:30:46.396
I have nothing against Taylor Swift and she seems like a good person right how she tips.

00:30:46.436 --> 00:30:48.551
She's very generous, she donates a lot of money.

00:30:48.551 --> 00:30:50.074
She's a great person.

00:30:50.234 --> 00:30:55.763
I kind of agree with this, women that are obsessed with astrology, that are obsessed with it.

00:30:55.763 --> 00:30:56.324
Obsessed with it.

00:30:56.324 --> 00:30:56.884
It's hilarious.

00:30:57.029 --> 00:31:02.615
Women that and I know women that say oh, I could never date someone that's Sartorius, or I will only date a Sagittarius.

00:31:02.875 --> 00:31:03.979
Yeah, I like it.

00:31:03.979 --> 00:31:08.180
I find it interesting, I will read about it and I will like.

00:31:08.180 --> 00:31:10.496
It is interesting.

00:31:10.496 --> 00:31:12.401
But you also.

00:31:18.490 --> 00:31:20.554
I also know people who make it their entire personality, and that, I think is too much.

00:31:20.554 --> 00:31:25.023
We had a guest that said he went on a first date with a woman who started to talk about astrology and wouldn't stop, so he just left.

00:31:25.912 --> 00:31:28.814
Oh, therefore, not, I didn't pay the bill, but I just left.

00:31:31.359 --> 00:31:35.729
Pyramid schemes when they sell products and host parties to do this.

00:31:35.869 --> 00:31:37.497
Oh, my God, I have a friend that does this.

00:31:37.497 --> 00:31:40.337
This is the only thing that she does you've invited me to this.

00:31:40.377 --> 00:31:42.271
I'm like why do you go to these chess every?

00:31:42.311 --> 00:31:44.998
week and it's not every week.

00:31:44.998 --> 00:31:46.300
No, I stopped going.

00:31:46.300 --> 00:31:51.661
It's been years since I've gone to one of hers, but it's yeah have you had friends that you haven't seen for years?

00:31:51.721 --> 00:31:52.290
and they reach out.

00:31:52.290 --> 00:31:53.192
Let's catch up.

00:31:53.512 --> 00:32:02.273
There's so much to talk about and you go to meet them, excited to hear from them, and I'm like, oh well, and then they meet you and it's a pyramid scheme and they want to have you sign up under them.

00:32:02.374 --> 00:32:03.037
I hate that.

00:32:03.096 --> 00:32:10.097
Yeah, yeah, I even have like a girl at the gym who, like I, have tattoos down my leg right and she was like oh my gosh, those are so cool.

00:32:10.097 --> 00:32:16.440
And started um talking with me, whatever, and then tried to like rope me into some signing up for something.

00:32:16.440 --> 00:32:21.366
I'm like what, we're in the gym locker room girl, let me change.

00:32:21.426 --> 00:32:22.150
They are savage.

00:32:22.150 --> 00:32:30.174
Another one is social media being obsessed with posting and more interested in getting likes than enjoying the experience.

00:32:30.174 --> 00:32:35.132
There are some girls that just spend hours posing when they're on vacation or take pictures of their food.

00:32:35.132 --> 00:32:36.634
It's kind of annoying to me too.

00:32:36.654 --> 00:32:45.836
Yeah, yeah, that's too much disney adults, like adult women that are obsessed with disney how do you guys put on a disney song and I'm gonna rock the fuck out.

00:32:45.836 --> 00:32:51.557
Okay, my friend karen, I uh, we, we sing disney songs but do you know what her husband gets?

00:32:51.557 --> 00:32:54.692
Into it in this passenger seat while she's driving and I'm just, but are you?

00:32:54.752 --> 00:32:55.536
obsessed with disney.

00:32:55.536 --> 00:32:57.701
Do you go to disneyland all the time and I?

00:32:57.741 --> 00:33:00.067
have friends, adult friends that are obsessed.

00:33:00.107 --> 00:33:01.893
They go to disneyland multiple times a year.

00:33:01.893 --> 00:33:03.698
They have their frequent membership.

00:33:03.738 --> 00:33:28.178
They go on disney cruises just as adults without kids I have some disney adults also, but they find each other, like they seem to find each other, and so it's like I feel like disney adult men find disney adult women and they end up being together because it's like a shared because it's like a shared interest yeah so I read an article about how there's a theory that adults that are obsessed with disney it's due to some kind of childhood trauma.

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Do you think that, or do you think they just like disney?

00:33:30.307 --> 00:33:31.190
I don't know.

00:33:31.310 --> 00:33:34.395
I don't know that's interesting, I'd be interested, I don't know.

00:33:34.415 --> 00:33:35.498
I hope, hope I get to go to Harry.

00:33:35.518 --> 00:33:36.799
Potter World someday.

00:33:36.799 --> 00:33:38.423
I just want to go to the Wizarding World guys.

00:33:40.269 --> 00:33:42.955
So this one, I disagree with Horses equestrians.

00:33:44.330 --> 00:33:47.401
Like well, yeah, some of them are kind of crazy.

00:33:47.401 --> 00:33:49.316
A lot of horse people are insane Really.

00:33:49.316 --> 00:34:07.567
Yeah, I mean, I feel like the crowd I'm in has enough other things going on that they're pretty moderate more normal but you can get to some of the hobbies where I'm going to classify it as more of the English writers and they're more like hoity-toity or barrel racers are crazy, yeah, crazy.

00:34:07.667 --> 00:34:22.427
They're all going around with their little chowinis everywhere like hopped up on Red Bull and cocaine no, like they have like a reputation for being kind of crazy and and they can be, but they're like on the road, go, go, go.

00:34:22.427 --> 00:34:26.460
High energy a lot of them, not all of them well, I didn't understand.

00:34:26.561 --> 00:34:28.291
So I did some research and there was some quotes.

00:34:28.291 --> 00:34:31.239
Someone once told me never date a woman with a horse.

00:34:31.239 --> 00:34:39.775
She will never love you as much as she loves that horse so maybe it's a jealousy thing another quote is you better be into horses if you're gonna date a horse gal.

00:34:39.855 --> 00:34:46.061
It's a lifestyle, and an expensive lifestyle I was gonna say that about the expense of having horses.

00:34:46.161 --> 00:34:49.831
It's very expensive yeah, yeah, don't buy me a purse, buy me a horse.

00:34:50.012 --> 00:34:59.159
Yeah, yeah and it controls your travel it controls like your, what times you can go places, because you gotta feed, you gotta pay for somebody to take care of them if you're out.

00:34:59.159 --> 00:35:03.378
If there's an emergency, you gotta have the funds for it, like yeah although I did know a guy.

00:35:03.679 --> 00:35:10.277
I did know a guy who owned a racehorse in the past, and so that was, that was fun, cool, yeah, cool, yeah.

00:35:10.277 --> 00:35:11.481
So it goes, but it goes both ways.

00:35:11.481 --> 00:35:12.351
It does the horse thing.

00:35:12.371 --> 00:35:20.297
Yeah, I feel like yeah, living the latest trends like standing cups, people who wait in line at 4 am for hours to get the latest trend.

00:35:20.336 --> 00:35:21.458
Why do people do that?

00:35:21.458 --> 00:35:22.280
I don't understand.

00:35:22.380 --> 00:35:23.731
Is a cup that important?

00:35:23.731 --> 00:35:25.418
No, yeah, it really is.

00:35:25.418 --> 00:35:28.510
I would be turned off by that if I was a guy not having a hobby.

00:35:28.510 --> 00:35:30.434
That's kind of a turnoff.

00:35:30.434 --> 00:35:37.844
Right if there's a woman that doesn't have any interests, yeah, cat ladies, yes, they don't like women who like pussy, oh no.

00:35:37.844 --> 00:35:41.835
But I guess if you have like 10 cats, but if you have one cat, is that an?

00:35:41.876 --> 00:35:42.076
issue.

00:35:42.076 --> 00:35:42.416
I don't know.

00:35:42.416 --> 00:35:48.791
I'm allergic to cats, so all cats are all cats are an issue for me I don't know, I guess it depends on how obsessed you are with it.

00:35:48.831 --> 00:35:49.492
Right, that's true.

00:35:49.492 --> 00:35:52.360
It's true, crystals kind of goes along with astrology.

00:35:52.480 --> 00:35:53.181
Right, that does.

00:35:53.181 --> 00:35:58.001
I'm not gonna lie, I've, I've got some crystals what do you do like?

00:35:58.021 --> 00:35:58.811
what are they supposed to do?

00:35:58.851 --> 00:36:03.161
healing, yeah like good luck and like protection.

00:36:03.161 --> 00:36:05.150
Protection crystals does it work?

00:36:05.150 --> 00:36:05.693
I had a.

00:36:05.693 --> 00:36:12.952
I had a lady at a crystal shop up in Sedona gift me an amethyst recently yeah, I don't even know what.

00:36:13.231 --> 00:36:14.574
What is the benefit of an amethyst?

00:36:14.574 --> 00:36:14.994
What is that?

00:36:15.054 --> 00:36:21.141
I'd have to look at the little card that came on oh, that's funny.

00:36:21.181 --> 00:36:22.422
So is it more of a placebo effect?

00:36:22.422 --> 00:36:25.967
I think it might be.

00:36:25.967 --> 00:36:29.963
It would ever make you feel good you know what exactly exactly?

00:36:30.003 --> 00:36:33.596
right, it's true, yeah, exactly reality tv, I don't know.

00:36:33.617 --> 00:36:38.737
I feel like that's kind of a good, easy thing to watch when you're stressed and you just want to take your mind off of life.

00:36:38.737 --> 00:36:40.014
Reality TV can be fine.

00:36:40.056 --> 00:36:49.840
Yeah, reality TV is a guilty pleasure, like if I need to just like turn my brain off for a little bit, I'm like let me just turn on some 90 Day Fiance and we're going to call it a night.

00:36:51.090 --> 00:36:55.295
Gossip and socializing, I feel is most women are guilty of this right also.

00:36:55.335 --> 00:36:55.637
It's not.

00:36:55.637 --> 00:36:56.998
It's not a hobby.

00:36:56.998 --> 00:36:57.880
It's not a hobby.

00:36:57.880 --> 00:37:08.942
Socializing and gossiping isn't really a hobby, it's just guys do it too, yeah right, don't it's true, share it right, exactly, obsessions with celebrities.

00:37:09.862 --> 00:37:10.503
That's annoying.

00:37:10.503 --> 00:37:18.356
Yeah, people that like I don't get, people that, like, wait outside a restaurant to get a glimpse of taylor swift no, I don't wait outside their hotel like why I don't get people that like wait outside a restaurant to get?

00:37:18.737 --> 00:37:19.760
a glimpse of Taylor Swift?

00:37:19.760 --> 00:37:20.262
No, I don't.

00:37:20.262 --> 00:37:21.885
Or wait outside their hotel Like why I don't know, I don't know.

00:37:21.885 --> 00:37:22.407
What a waste of time.

00:37:22.407 --> 00:37:23.528
Just look at a picture, right?

00:37:23.528 --> 00:37:26.376
Yeah, damn Obsessions with true crime shows.

00:37:26.376 --> 00:37:28.751
That was me Like when I was pregnant with my first daughter.

00:37:28.751 --> 00:37:32.878
I literally stayed on the couch and watched true crime, obsessed.

00:37:32.878 --> 00:37:35.802
So I don't see what the big deal about that is I can't do that.

00:37:35.822 --> 00:37:36.103
Why?

00:37:36.103 --> 00:37:55.039
Because then the irrational fears are gonna kick in and like I'm suddenly gonna get murdered in my scottsdale town home that I live in by myself in the like safest part of the the valley, like all of a sudden I can't take my dog outside to go potty because I'm gonna get murdered.

00:37:55.679 --> 00:37:57.483
I'm less afraid of the true crime than I am.

00:37:57.483 --> 00:38:01.518
The things that will never happen, like saw exactly same.

00:38:01.579 --> 00:38:05.253
I can't watch horror movies either like it's like I just can't.

00:38:05.875 --> 00:38:07.518
And then the last one is selfies.

00:38:07.518 --> 00:38:12.221
I think that's kind of annoying when a woman is obsessed with taking selfies and constantly does it.

00:38:12.221 --> 00:38:14.331
A few selfies here or there for social media, whatever.00:38:14.331 --> 00:38:21.490


But there are some women I know that are constantly taking and posting selfies All the time, all the time it's a lot Okay.00:38:21.490 --> 00:38:26.063


So now it is time for the Celebrity Cut, where we marinate in the juices of the celebrities.00:38:26.063 --> 00:38:28.434


So I wanted to discuss did you see?00:38:28.434 --> 00:38:34.128


Blake Lively was on the 100 most influential people list for Times Magazine.00:38:35.070 --> 00:38:38.318


Blake lively what is she influencing people on?00:38:38.318 --> 00:38:43.300


I don't know, influencing people to help her ruin justin baldoni's life like seriously, how is she influential?00:38:43.380 --> 00:38:44.465


I'm legitimately asking.00:38:44.947 --> 00:38:47.454


I think she seems kind I blake lively.00:38:48.775 --> 00:39:01.179


Really, I think you're like the only person in the history of america now that she's kind I don't have tv, so oh, you don't haven't read about the lawsuit with justin baldoni and how she's no I don't really do.00:39:01.280 --> 00:39:15.538


I don't keep up on the news yeah, I always really liked her too, until the justin baldoni thing what's funny is my first thought was oh, how much did she pay to be on this list to help her, you know, improve her image and her reputation?00:39:15.538 --> 00:39:17.931


And then I did see, I did some research.00:39:17.931 --> 00:39:19.456


I'm like, why is she on this list?00:39:19.456 --> 00:39:23.858


And an article was stating that she donated a lot of money to this organization.00:39:23.858 --> 00:39:31.635


But then you dig deeper and find out who she donated and why it's after she was slammed for having the plantation wedding to rehab her image.00:39:31.635 --> 00:39:39.057


After having a plantation wedding, she's like hey look, we're donating to this organization, we're good people and that is why apparently she's on this list for that donation.00:39:39.057 --> 00:39:40.721


So wait.00:39:40.760 --> 00:39:41.481


What was wrong with the?00:39:42.583 --> 00:39:46.911


people were offended because it was a place of slaves and slavery.00:39:46.911 --> 00:39:52.844


And they are beautiful, though they're gorgeous like you know, it's come a long way.00:39:53.311 --> 00:39:56.538


There's like not that association with it anymore.00:39:56.538 --> 00:40:00.646


As far as like the visual, yeah, they're pretty now.00:40:00.766 --> 00:40:04.094


Yeah, yeah where is your favorite place to go on a first date?00:40:04.094 --> 00:40:12.733


Oh my gosh, do you like a guy to take you to dinner, to coffee, to fro-yo zo-yo?00:40:12.894 --> 00:40:20.820


I want to go do something active, like I would love to go on a hike, or I mean, I'm not going to say a road trip, because I don't want to go on a road trip with somebody that I don't know.00:40:23.675 --> 00:40:25.661


But we've already heard how that goes for you.00:40:27.010 --> 00:40:28.496


You don't want to end up on a true crime show.00:40:28.878 --> 00:40:29.380


I do not.00:40:29.751 --> 00:40:31.436


I do not want to end up on a true crime show.00:40:31.657 --> 00:40:32.059


No, thank you.00:40:32.059 --> 00:40:33.909


I like to go do something active.00:40:33.909 --> 00:40:36.273


So like let's go to a rodeo.00:40:36.273 --> 00:40:40.641


Let's go to a rodeo, let's go hang out with friends.00:40:40.641 --> 00:40:42.905


I'm okay with it not being one-on-one.00:40:42.905 --> 00:40:49.905


I want to see you interact with people that supposedly love and care about you.00:40:49.905 --> 00:40:52.833


Going on a hike would be fantastic.00:40:52.833 --> 00:40:54.416


Axe throwing the zoo shit, I don't care.00:40:54.416 --> 00:40:55.239


But I don't want to go sit down.00:40:55.259 --> 00:40:57.222


I don't like sitting, but I don't want to go sit down.00:40:57.523 --> 00:40:59.206


Yeah, I don't like sitting.00:40:59.206 --> 00:41:01.369


Yeah, it's boring.00:41:01.369 --> 00:41:10.563


And if you run, out of things to talk about, like hopefully you don't, but if you do you have, then you're nothing else to establish or encourage more conversation.00:41:11.971 --> 00:41:15.278


Are you ready for the juiciest segment of the show, the meat grab you.00:41:15.278 --> 00:41:16.442


Down for the challenge, up for the grab.00:41:16.442 --> 00:41:17.192


Oh God, I don't know.00:41:17.192 --> 00:41:18.777


Willing to share.00:41:18.777 --> 00:41:21.414


If you dare I pick a card.00:41:21.414 --> 00:41:25.369


Uh-huh, hopefully she picks a juicy one, I know you haven't had a juicy one in a while.00:41:25.510 --> 00:41:29.360


I know I'm gonna go down to the bottom of the stack here okay okay, what's this one?00:41:29.360 --> 00:41:39.179


Oh, have you ever turned down a sexual opportunity and regretted it?00:41:39.179 --> 00:41:47.407


I don't feel like I'm going to have a super fancy answer for you.00:41:47.407 --> 00:41:50.132


That's super juicy.00:41:50.413 --> 00:41:56.061


Have you ever accepted and regretted it after the fact Like God dang, why did I sleep with him?00:41:56.061 --> 00:41:58.463


Yeah, I think we all have that right.00:41:58.603 --> 00:41:59.485


I think we all have.00:41:59.485 --> 00:42:00.952


Yeah, god dang, why did I sleep with him?00:42:00.952 --> 00:42:02.376


Yeah, I think we all have that right, I think we all have.00:42:02.376 --> 00:42:05.603


Yeah, we're more like a, like a, even in a relationship like so soon.00:42:05.603 --> 00:42:14.623


I guess like it didn't end up being anything bad, but it was like yeah, I wasted, I wasted one on that, yeah, yeah about this one.00:42:14.931 --> 00:42:16.873


What's a secret you've never shared about yourself?00:42:16.873 --> 00:42:17.335


Oh?00:42:17.715 --> 00:42:27.014


I'm such an open book, really so, that keep digging, keep digging, I feel like you're so open, so I want you to get a good one.00:42:27.014 --> 00:42:27.416


I am.00:42:27.416 --> 00:42:30.717


I can't hide these facial expressions either.00:42:31.039 --> 00:42:43.356


so Okay, my biggest fetish is dot dot dot Any sexual fantasies or no, I don't have any weird kinks, I just want.00:42:43.496 --> 00:42:45.648


I just want to cuddle, I just want to cuddle.00:42:45.648 --> 00:42:47.929


I'm so not exciting for these cards.00:42:48.532 --> 00:42:49.655


Who's your celebrity crush?00:42:50.438 --> 00:42:57.693


oh, unfortunately he's no longer with us, but it would have been Heath Ledger oh, from down under down under.00:42:57.969 --> 00:42:59.036


Well, do you have any other questions?00:42:59.036 --> 00:43:00.284


Do you have any other questions?00:43:00.284 --> 00:43:02.056


Do you have anything else you want to share?00:43:03.411 --> 00:43:07.922


Oh, I don't have a lot of juicy things.00:43:07.922 --> 00:43:10.577


I'm so mellow in that department.00:43:10.869 --> 00:43:14.221


But you know I think that's guys want a laid back mellow girl.00:43:14.221 --> 00:43:15.554


You know you don't seem very.00:43:15.554 --> 00:43:17.139


You don't seem like you're full of drama.00:43:17.139 --> 00:43:21.342


I am not, which is thank God, because I don't want to.00:43:22.190 --> 00:43:24.760


Well, thank you so much for joining us this week on the Meat Market.00:43:24.760 --> 00:43:26.016


Thank you so much, Ali.00:43:26.016 --> 00:43:30.121


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Oh my God, I just totally got catfished.00:43:44.623 --> 00:43:46.670


He looks absolutely nothing like his picture.00:43:47.132 --> 00:43:51.762


So I found out, the guy that I've been dating is married with kids.00:43:51.762 --> 00:43:53.907


His wife just reached out to me.