He Left His Desk to Make Strangers Look Hot And It Works 😎

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Oh my god, I just totally got catfished.

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He looks absolutely nothing like his picture.

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So I found out the guy that I've been dating is married with kids.

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His wife just reached out to me.

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Welcome to the meat market.

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The single scene is a slaughterhouse, and we are here to devour it.

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We are your hosts.

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I'm Lindsay.

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I'm Jess.

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And today's sizzling single is Richard.

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Welcome.

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Thank you, thank you.

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So I absolutely love what you do.

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You go around and give haircuts, free haircuts, to the homeless and to veterans.

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Tell us about that.

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I want to learn more.

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I mean, it just started a week ago.

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Did you really?

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Yeah.

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Oh my god, your TikTok makes it look look like you've been doing it forever.

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I know.

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Yeah, I know.

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So what made you start this?

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Um well, two years ago, my grandpa passed away on October 14th.

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So he was a veteran.

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I've been taking it hard, and that day it just was like just a hard day, you know.

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And so instead of melting in the couch, I was on fall break from school and uh just decided to get up and just go go do something good, you know?

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And it turned into something and like my first my second video I posted I wouldn't say went viral, but 135,000 views in a week.

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You know, so it's pretty good.

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And so I just kind of I was having so much fun with it with the first video and like everyone's engagement and action and reposts and inspirations and it just turned into this like let me change and go, you know.

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That's amazing because I can imagine like for some for homeless people that have all that hair, like how good it must feel to have it all cut off, right?

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Yeah.

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And so like because of that video, it's like went around TikTok so quickly.

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Um the news cat channels reach out, so yeah, I'm supposed to be on ABC next week.

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Oh, congrats.

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Yeah, so that's gonna be pretty cool.

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Um, and there's a lot of people that are given like donations, not money, because I don't really want anyone's money.

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I'm doing it, I'm not doing it for that, you know.

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But people are reaching out to give me like shoes, clothes, blankets, pillows, and so like after I give someone a haircut, I give them an item too.

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So it's it's been fun.

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Oh, that's really cool.

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It's crazy how it completely changes someone's look too, right?

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Honestly, yeah, like I've been in corporate manufacturing for the last 15 years, and then I own my business for uh three years.

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Um but I just recently left corporate and started pursuing the barbering career.

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And uh it's just so different, you know, because like you never got appreciated in the corporate world and you slave like 12 hours.

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My schedule was 4 to 4, 4 a.m.

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to 4 p.m.

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What did you do?

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I was an operations manager for a manufacturing company.

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Yeah.

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So miserable.

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It was like you didn't get to see the sun, daylight ever, because you're like you're in a warehouse, you know, you work with the same 30 people.

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It's just it just got so I like completely stepped out of that um cash hour in my my retirement and just decided to hit the road and live out of my Tesla.

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So I'm giving up my house and everything.

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Do you currently live in your Tesla now?

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No, no, okay.

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Not yet.

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I'm gonna be moving out in probably around March.

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So this is all really fresh.

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Cause I know I'm literally last Saturday.

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That's crazy.

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Yeah, it is, it is really crazy.

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And like one of the video that did go viral, um, some lady actually, one of my it was her dad that she has been looking for.

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Oh my gosh, how cool.

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Yeah, have they reunited since?

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Um, no, I don't think so.

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She was she was she was pretty public about it because she didn't want to get like attacked, you know?

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So like she commented like that was her father, and then like she's like, he refuses help, you know, he doesn't want us, like he doesn't want to live with us, whatever.

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Um and but she was like I didn't know him my whole life until recently.

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And then she said the last time she's seen him was in January of this year because uh her aunt passed away.

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But yeah, she knows that he's out there.

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There was another family member that commented that same person was like, Yeah, and that's my uncle, I know him.

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And then like four days later, the girl commented.

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Wow, that's crazy.

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So when you go move into your Tesla, where are you gonna travel to do this?

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Nationwide?

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Um going to Maine.

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Maine?

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And you're gonna do stops all along the way?

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Yeah, so I'm gonna stop at every major, like not every major city, but I'm gonna try to stop at like the major cities throughout.

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Um so like New Mexico, Texas, Louisiana.

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Because I need I need to go south and then up.

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Because I need to do the five up top Delaware, Virginia, um, Connecticut, you know, Rhode Island.

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I haven't done those yet.

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So I only have 11 states to finish.

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And you're doing this whole thing to give free haircuts to the homeless?

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Yeah.

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Wow.

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And you're documenting it all on your TikTok?

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Every single so what is your TikTok handle?

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It's uh the gentle the gentle underscore barber.

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Gentle underscore barber, okay.

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And that's Instagram and TikTok.

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Nice.

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Yeah, it's it's been really fun.

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I can't wait.

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So I just go full time.

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That's so exciting.

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And how long do you plan on doing this for?

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I don't know.

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My daughter asked me the same question.

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Is your daughter going with you?

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No, she's with her mom.

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She's in school and she can't go.

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How old is she?

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12.

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Oh.

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So you don't know how you're just gonna hit the road and go where the wind blows you?

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Kind of.

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Like take take as long as you you have no time frame.

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Have you ever lived out of a car before?

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I've lived in my Tesla twice.

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Oh, you have?

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But only for short times.

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Like um, I did the first one, it was 32 days.

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I did 16 seats.

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Okay.

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How'd that go?

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It was hard because I was in the four-door sedan, the model three.

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So I slept in the front seat and my dog slept in the back.

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I have two border colleagues, Nala and Semba, they came with me.

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But now I'm in the Model Y, so it's the SUV version.

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When you put the back seats down, Tessa sells a bed, you could put a bed back there.

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Oh, nice.

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And so, like, I have like a a full size bed in the back.

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So, what do you plan on showering?

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Do you get a gym membership?

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Yeah, plan of fitness is 20 bucks a month.

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So nice.

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That's what we had another guest a quite a long time ago who lived in his car, and that was he used the gym for shower.

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I mean, I am doing this by choice, by the way.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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It's funny he was too.

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That's it's it's sort of becoming this.

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I feel like it's kind of trendy.

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It's like you see the vans and stuff.

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Yeah, and like I've seen other people doing it, and I'm just like, let me add a twist to it, you know, and do something different.

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What an experience.

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It's gonna be cool.

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So, like um September 3rd, I left, and this is like I guess it's not the first time, but this is the first time me and the dogs went by ourselves um and the Model Y, and we went to San Francisco.

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It was gone three weeks.

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So we was in San Francisco for a week, and then we went to Sa um Sacramento for a couple days, and then you was anymore a couple days, and then down to LA for a week, and then down to San Diego.

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And then we were gone for 19 days.

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It was cool.

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And so did you said you run on donations so people can donate via TikTok?

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I mean, if they want to send money donations, they can.

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Uh I have a link on my in my bio on my TikTok.

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Uh, I'm not asking for that, but I know people don't that not everyone has clothes to give away, so if they want to give some money, like I've had people on TikTok comment that they're gonna just send some money for a free haircut, you know, which is cool.

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That would definitely help my journey, you know.

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Um, but it's not about the money.

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Do you have things set up in cities already that you're going to?

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Groups, have you had anybody reach out from certain cities?

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Um, so I just started working with a nonprofit here in town called Cloud Cover Treats.

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Okay.

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They are a mobile shower and laundry map.

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So they're a trailer, they've been around for like five years.

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Um, but they have another location or another organization in Fort Worth.

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So they just had a big event over there last week and they raised like 150k for like what they're doing.

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So it's pretty cool.

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Okay, cool.

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Um, so he's supposed to set me up, and then they asked me like if I had other, you know, like other places organizations set up for, and I told him no yet, not yet, because it literally started nine days ago.

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Like, no, but imagination's more important than knowledge.

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I promise you that.

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You know, I have a tattooed on my back, I have my whole back tattooed, like shoulders to ass.

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It's pretty sweet.

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Um but yeah, and she and they, you know, like they told me that they can get me set up with different organizations.

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Um, I also reached out to the VA, one of the VAs in Mesa.

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Um they're gonna let me come to like a nursing home.

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Like they have five different nursing homes in Mesa all through November.

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Um so I'm gonna be going there and giving free haircuts to them because they said that that's one service that they don't get in the nursing home is haircuts.

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So they have to like leave and pay for your transportation, pay for the haircut.

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So it'd be cool to experience that.

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Sure.

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That would be cool.

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So you have a daughter.

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Were you married before?

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I was for how long?

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Eight years.

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Well, together eight years.

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We were married for five.

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How old are you if you don't mind me asking you?

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Okay.

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Yeah.

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Well, and if you don't mind me asking, why did you end up separating?

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I wanted her to travel and she didn't.

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Really?

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The world works the way it's supposed to work.

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Yeah, and our last episode is travel.

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Tra differences in travel, in opinion on travel and travel styles, is it a deal breaker?

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It absolutely is.

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Especially if like you are real to who you are and you're not faking who you're giving on social media, right?

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Um, yeah, no, it was a big deal.

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Like, we had a great marriage.

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I levered it out.

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She's a great mom.

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We co-parent, we're best friends still.

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Like, I wouldn't say we're best friends, but we get along great.

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You're amicable.

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Yeah, no, like I I literally tell the world that like we are the examples of co-parent, and it does exist.

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Like it might take time in the beginning, but it does.

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If you both wanted to work, it works, you know.

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So and she's here in Arizona, yeah, yeah.

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Very grateful for her.

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She, you know, you know, like I do my part, you know, I have 50-50.

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It's not like I don't do my part, you know.

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I have my daughter used to have my daughter three weekends a month.

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Um, you know, she's 12 turning 13 already trying to, even though she just turned 12 in August.

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But um, you know, she's not always wanting to come to dad's house every weekend, like friends, or you know.

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I'm also out here alone.

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I don't have no family here.

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Did you ask her what she thought of you doing this before you started?

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Like did you know?

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I just completely dropped the ball on her.

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Yeah.

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And I documented it.

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It's on my TikTok.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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No, that like I told her that I had something that I wanted to talk to her about, like, after I made my decision up, and she like she kept asking, like, what is it, Dad?

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What is it?

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You can even see in the video, like one of the clips.

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She's like, What are we doing?

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you know, and like we're walking in the bedroom to go to like this map that I have in my room where I have all these magnets of all the states I've been to.

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And I was like, I'm gonna finish going to cross off my bucket list, and you know, like I'm gonna move out of the house and into the car for a while and do it.

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And she was like, How long are you gonna be gone?

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You know, asking those questions.

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I'm like, I'm still gonna see you, like, I'll fly you out to wherever I'm at, it's fine, you know.

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Like her mom supported it, you know, she supported it, so it's I don't know, supposed to be happening, I guess.

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Yeah.

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So you say you like traveling.

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Have you done international travel or do you prefer just sniff?

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Hell yeah, I've done international traveling.

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What's your favorite place?

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Rome?

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Really?

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Yeah, Rome is amazing.

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I mean, London's nice.

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London's cool, London's not really nice, but it's the best.

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London is very nice, don't get me wrong.

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Uh but Rome and Vatican City is so much.

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I haven't seen anything in my life that's better than that.

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Like, but Thailand was amazing.

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I spent two months in Thailand.

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Two months?

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Oh wow.

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I've heard it's beautiful and I've heard it's really cheap too.

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It is.

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Yeah, I balled the hell out there.

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Yeah.

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Like lit, because it's it's uh you get one dollar is thirty-three there.

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So it's one dollar thirty-three bot.

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Oh wow.

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So you get thirty-three times your money.

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Wow.

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You know?

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It was amazing.

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So were you born and raised in Arizona?

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Born in Illinois.

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Um raised until like I was like 11 or 12, my parents divorced.

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Moved to Missouri with my dad, where my grandmother lived at.

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And then uh I was there until I was 17 and then I moved here.

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Been here since I was 17.

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Why'd you move here?

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Chase my wife.

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Oh, funny.

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Yeah.

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And when did you get divorced?

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What year?

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2016.

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Okay.

00:12:08.399 --> 00:12:09.519
So you've been divorced for a while.

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Have you dated much?

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Yeah.

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And how's that go?

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Are you on the apps currently?

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I'm on an app, yeah.

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Yeah.

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Which one?

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Hinge.

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I've heard that's the best.

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That seems to be the favorite.

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Oh, Raya's the best.

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Raya is the best.

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We just had a girl on who said that Raya is not the best.

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For girls.

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Maybe it's different for men.

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Well, I mean, Raya compared to Hinge.

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Come on.

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It's invite only on Raya.

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So like I can imagine the women are all beautiful on Raya.

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Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

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Like, it's literally top shelf women.

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So it's like, you know, my one of my best friends just met a girl on Raya.

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She's a doctor.

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She's a couple years older than he is, and they're like hitting it off perfectly.

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Like they're in a great relationship.

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Super happy for him.

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He just moved in with her, actually.

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I thought though, Raya was supposed to be for like celebrities, like high-end people.

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But we've we've had a couple people on that.

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I mean, they have 10,000 followers, but they're not like celebrities, but they're on Raya.

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Yeah.

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Right?

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It it's about your your public view, like your publicity of like who you are on social media.

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Like, are you known or not kind of thing?

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Yeah, or are you hot or not?

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Yeah, or do you have prestige, like she was saying?

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Like, is there something prestigious about you?

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And and the other thing is, is you could get referrals.

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So, like, if you get enough referrals, then you get accepted.

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I have six referrals, I've been winning for a year.

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Seriously.

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Right, what's up, man?

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Like, I'm a good, attractive looking dude.

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What's going on?

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What the hell?

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Do you lie about your height on your oh I don't lie about my height?

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Okay, well, see, then we're continuing.

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It's average, you know.

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It is average, I think, for a man.

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I think the average height is five'eight.

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So did you know that 90?

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Because we all have women that say, I need a guy that's six foot or above.

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Like that's all women say that.

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But did you know 90% of the men on this planet are shorter than six foot tall?

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There's a reason why I'm single for two years, okay?

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It's awful out here.

00:14:03.600 --> 00:14:03.840
Yeah.

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It really is.

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Do you have any dating disaster stories or crazy dating stories?

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What's the I got stabbed before?

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Wait, what?

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On a date?

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No.

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In my home.

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Wait, by girl?

00:14:15.919 --> 00:14:16.240
Yes.

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Stabbed?

00:14:17.360 --> 00:14:17.919
Yes.

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What did you do to make her so mad?

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Honestly, I didn't even do anything.

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But what did shit crazy?

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What?

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Tell us the story.

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Like the whole story?

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Yeah.

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Okay, shit.

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Unless it's gonna take like six hours.

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No, no, no, no, no.

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I could break it down real quick.

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I could break it down real quick.

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Okay.

00:14:34.799 --> 00:14:36.720
I'm getting anxiety right now.

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This one's good.

00:14:39.840 --> 00:14:43.360
I don't think we've ever had someone say they were stabbed on a first date.

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No, not a first date.

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Steve.

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No, it wasn't a first date.

00:14:46.480 --> 00:14:47.840
No, we we were dating for a while.

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Okay.

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So I met this girl at Mardi Gras in New Orleans.

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I took my dad there.

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It was our first, it was our first adult trip together.

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So I flew to St.

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Louis and got a car, and me and my dad drove 10 hours to Louisiana.

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Met this girl there.

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She lived in San Antonio, Texas.

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She was a nurse.

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Long story short, we started seeing each other six months in, did long distance for a while.

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It was great.

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She moved to Arizona for me.

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We did great.

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She's Hispanic.

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La Toxica.

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Not to like call them out because I do love them so much because I love so hard and so they so do they, you know.

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But they're very passionate.

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But they're so good.

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They're so spicy.

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I love them.

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But I it's so hard to get them, you know?

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Like they like, I don't know.

00:15:32.720 --> 00:15:34.159
Anyway, yeah.

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I thought I I mean I honestly I had a great woman.

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I was to drop out of high school at one point, you know.

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I I I dropped out to take care of my three siblings my sophomore year before I moved to Arizona to because my dad and that girl separated, you know.

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And then I get with a girl who's a nurse and their her family was loaded, and you know, like it was just crazy.

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Uh we did a lot of traveling together.

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And no, yeah, she we were living together.

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We moved into a house together.

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Uh, I don't remember what the argument was exactly.

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I came home from work and she was just so angry.

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I went into the bedroom and the whole bedroom was like thrown.

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Like every drawer was flipped upside down, the entire closet was ripped up.

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Like, I'm not even kidding you.

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I'm like, went into a room, like, what the hell is going on?

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You know, and she was just like so angry.

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I don't even remember what it was about.

00:16:18.879 --> 00:16:20.240
I honestly can't remember what it was.

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Like, all I can remember is her holding the knife like this, like passing me.

00:16:23.759 --> 00:16:25.039
Okay, Brittany Spears.

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No, so like she we walked out of the bedroom.

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Mind you, we lived in a three-bedroom house, and I literally made one of the rooms a complete makeup room for her, built a vanity.

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She had it was like a giant closet vanity, like makeup room.

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Like it was badass, you know?

00:16:41.120 --> 00:16:47.600
And um, so I was in the hallway and she comes walking down the hallway, goes in the kitchen, grabs a knife, and I'm like, what the hell are you gonna do with that?

00:16:47.840 --> 00:16:54.159
Walks right past me, goes into the vanity uh bedroom, and I I followed her, and I was like, I'm like, what are you doing with that?

00:16:54.240 --> 00:16:55.759
Like, are you gonna you're gonna cut me?

00:16:55.840 --> 00:16:57.600
Like, go ahead and like cut me, you know.

00:16:57.679 --> 00:17:00.559
Like, didn't thinking that she would, you know, she did.

00:17:02.080 --> 00:17:03.840
There's a score right there.

00:17:04.079 --> 00:17:06.640
Oh my that's that's five years old.

00:17:06.880 --> 00:17:07.759
Oh my god.

00:17:07.920 --> 00:17:13.279
Yeah, and so she was a nurse, so I told her, you either lose your nurse's license or stitch me up and get the hell out.

00:17:13.519 --> 00:17:14.559
So she stitched me up.

00:17:14.640 --> 00:17:16.480
I didn't, you know, she's still a traveling nurse.

00:17:16.640 --> 00:17:17.359
Bless her heart.

00:17:17.599 --> 00:17:19.279
Did she apologize profusely?

00:17:20.160 --> 00:17:21.839
Um, yes and no.

00:17:22.000 --> 00:17:23.119
Yeah, she didn't.

00:17:23.200 --> 00:17:24.799
Like right after it happened, yeah.

00:17:24.960 --> 00:17:25.680
I was pissed.

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She drew my true religion shorts.

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They were brand new.

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I literally just bought those, you know?

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And I'm like, look down.

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The blood is just running down my shorts.

00:17:34.480 --> 00:17:36.079
I'm like, Paula, you really you cut me?

00:17:36.319 --> 00:17:37.440
Thank God she was a nurse.

00:17:37.599 --> 00:17:39.359
Yeah, I was like, stitch me up, you know.

00:17:39.440 --> 00:17:42.240
Like, I don't want to call the cops, but like, hello, you know.

00:17:42.480 --> 00:17:46.319
So she did wow, you were nice not to call the cops, you know.

00:17:46.559 --> 00:17:48.559
So did she try to beg you back?

00:17:49.200 --> 00:17:50.880
Uh no, I wouldn't say that.

00:17:51.119 --> 00:17:52.000
I moved out.

00:17:52.160 --> 00:17:53.119
Yeah, I left the house.

00:17:53.200 --> 00:17:55.680
I moved out, I've been in the same house ever since, eight years now.

00:17:55.920 --> 00:17:57.359
Wow, that's crazy.

00:17:57.440 --> 00:17:59.279
That's probably one of the craziest stories we've heard.

00:17:59.440 --> 00:18:00.960
We hear a lot of crazy stories.

00:18:01.279 --> 00:18:03.759
Have you ever been catfished going off first thing?

00:18:04.079 --> 00:18:04.960
You have really a lot?

00:18:05.440 --> 00:18:07.359
Uh yeah, especially out here.

00:18:07.920 --> 00:18:08.880
Are you kidding me?

00:18:09.279 --> 00:18:10.400
Everybody uses filters.

00:18:10.640 --> 00:18:12.000
That's what I was gonna ask in what way.

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Everybody or the angles of their pictures.

00:18:14.960 --> 00:18:16.799
Like, that's why I in girls get mad.

00:18:16.880 --> 00:18:20.480
Like, whenever I do match with them on like on hinge or something, I'll be like, What's your Instagram?

00:18:20.640 --> 00:18:21.680
Oh, I'm not giving that out.

00:18:21.759 --> 00:18:24.079
It's like, I'm not just gonna go off your four photos, girl.

00:18:24.160 --> 00:18:24.480
Like, what?

00:18:24.559 --> 00:18:25.039
Hell no.

00:18:25.200 --> 00:18:27.039
Because like it just doesn't they don't look real.

00:18:27.359 --> 00:18:30.640
Also, what is the big deal about giving your Instagram, right?

00:18:31.039 --> 00:18:32.000
Isn't that what it's for?

00:18:32.240 --> 00:18:33.039
That is what it's for.

00:18:33.119 --> 00:18:38.640
And then if you decide you're not gonna work out with that person, you can unfollow and have them unfollow.

00:18:38.720 --> 00:18:40.160
You can do both yourself.

00:18:40.319 --> 00:18:41.039
You can do it both yourself.

00:18:41.279 --> 00:18:43.279
Yeah, when you unfollow, it's like, do you want this person to unfollow?

00:18:43.440 --> 00:18:43.920
Yes, I do.

00:18:44.160 --> 00:18:44.559
Exactly.

00:18:44.799 --> 00:18:55.440
Like so, if they're looking at your profile, if they have access to your Instagram profile for three days before you decide you don't want to date them, yeah, then you just take them off of your Instagram.

00:18:55.680 --> 00:18:55.920
Right?

00:18:56.160 --> 00:18:57.279
What I don't understand.

00:18:57.599 --> 00:18:58.559
Yeah, exactly.

00:18:58.799 --> 00:19:02.000
But yeah, I guess they got their full body picks on there.

00:19:03.680 --> 00:19:05.440
So I got that on there too.

00:19:05.680 --> 00:19:07.039
That's what, yeah.

00:19:07.599 --> 00:19:11.119
Like, and like then the people talk about how like looks don't matter.

00:19:11.279 --> 00:19:15.279
That is so it's so bullshit when they say that because it's like it starts there.

00:19:15.359 --> 00:19:18.720
Like, and if looks don't matter, then why are you filtering all your pictures, right?

00:19:18.960 --> 00:19:21.440
Yeah, well, like girls always say look like looks don't matter.

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And then like whenever you tell a girl like they're attracted, they like they don't like a lot of girls.

00:19:25.440 --> 00:19:28.400
Don't like that, they don't like the compliments, or they don't know how to take them, you know.

00:19:28.640 --> 00:19:30.079
The dating world is a disaster, right?

00:19:30.400 --> 00:19:32.079
Which I was told more often I was good looking.

00:19:32.240 --> 00:19:32.880
You're a good one.

00:19:32.960 --> 00:19:35.119
I never thanks.

00:19:35.519 --> 00:19:36.880
Yeah, you both are.

00:19:38.720 --> 00:19:40.960
So are you looking to get remarried?

00:19:41.200 --> 00:19:42.640
I want marriage, but I don't want kids.

00:19:42.720 --> 00:19:43.759
You don't want any more kids or not?

00:19:44.160 --> 00:19:44.960
My daughter's 12.

00:19:45.039 --> 00:19:47.039
Yeah, you know, I've been taking care of kids my whole life.

00:19:47.119 --> 00:19:50.400
I dropped out of high school to take care of my three siblings who attend diapers.

00:19:50.640 --> 00:19:50.880
Yeah.

00:19:51.039 --> 00:19:52.720
I'm not no, I don't want them more kids.

00:19:53.039 --> 00:19:54.079
Does your daughter want siblings?

00:19:54.319 --> 00:19:55.279
She has siblings with her mother.

00:19:55.519 --> 00:19:55.920
Oh, she does.

00:19:56.079 --> 00:19:56.160
Okay.

00:19:56.240 --> 00:19:59.279
So she's she keeps asking me and I keep telling her she's crazy.

00:19:59.599 --> 00:20:02.799
And do you really want to go back to the diaper stage and see training puppy kids?

00:20:03.599 --> 00:20:07.440
That's the other thing about me is why I don't have why I'm having so I'm very picky.

00:20:07.680 --> 00:20:12.160
Like, for one, I'm not gonna introduce anyone into my daughter until like it's a while.

00:20:12.319 --> 00:20:14.799
Like my last relationship, I waited six months.

00:20:15.039 --> 00:20:16.319
Um smart.

00:20:16.559 --> 00:20:19.839
Yeah, and like I don't even see enough girls anyway.

00:20:20.640 --> 00:20:25.359
Like, honestly, like, no, it just there's just nothing, yeah.

00:20:25.519 --> 00:20:27.039
It's there's nothing ever going on.

00:20:27.359 --> 00:20:28.640
What are your deal breakers?

00:20:29.440 --> 00:20:29.920
Kids.

00:20:30.240 --> 00:20:30.640
Really?

00:20:30.799 --> 00:20:31.039
Yes.

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I won't even be with someone that has a child.

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One child?

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Why?

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Because I don't want to deal with their drama.

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Is it the either the baby daddy drama?

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The kid drama, the baby drama, the mom and child drama.00:20:44.559 --> 00:20:45.119


Nah, I'm good.00:20:45.279 --> 00:20:46.559


Yeah, and you like to travel.00:20:46.799 --> 00:20:57.119


Yeah, and I mean it's not even about that, like, but I just I don't want to have my daughter get into another relationship with someone, like child wise, and a person.00:20:57.359 --> 00:21:13.680


Because I've had the breakup with the person and the daughter already, and that that just even I don't have kids, but my ex had kids, and even my niece, like still to this day, my niece will be like, Do you remember when so and so used to come over?00:21:13.759 --> 00:21:18.640


And it was my ex's daughter, and it was like they were like three and four years old.00:21:18.799 --> 00:21:19.680


Yeah, you know what I mean?00:21:20.000 --> 00:21:21.200


My daughter's still asked about my ex.00:21:21.440 --> 00:21:26.000


It's yeah, so it's like kids remember that kind of stuff, even especially her age, you know.00:21:26.079 --> 00:21:30.720


Yeah, like she was involved for their we were together almost four years, or actually about four years, yeah.00:21:31.039 --> 00:21:32.960


Have you ever walked out mid-date?00:21:33.440 --> 00:21:34.319


No, I couldn't do that.00:21:34.720 --> 00:21:36.559


Have you had a girl walk out mid-date on you?00:21:36.960 --> 00:21:37.279


Look at this.00:21:37.359 --> 00:21:37.920


I don't know.00:21:39.119 --> 00:21:42.480


No, because like as soon as somebody I I'm just kidding, like I don't have an ego like that.00:21:42.559 --> 00:21:44.160


I'm I'm this a humoristic person.00:21:44.240 --> 00:21:49.279


Like, I I honestly like, no, like I don't have a uh ego, like I don't think I'm the shit.00:21:49.359 --> 00:21:51.039


Like, I'm just a real genuine person.00:21:51.279 --> 00:21:52.240


Yeah, fly it's in here.00:21:52.720 --> 00:21:55.200


It's that one, it's this one that won't leave us alone.00:21:55.440 --> 00:21:57.680


No, I'd be like, I'm just a good genuine person, you know.00:21:57.759 --> 00:22:01.359


I have a really big heart, like it it's shown all over my social media.00:22:01.519 --> 00:22:03.279


My daughter's everywhere there, you know.00:22:03.359 --> 00:22:07.839


Like becoming a barber, like I get to expose who I am more, you know.00:22:08.000 --> 00:22:11.599


Like two months ago, I didn't have blonde hair and a haircut like this in the corporate world.00:22:11.680 --> 00:22:12.240


Are you kidding me?00:22:12.319 --> 00:22:13.920


They would fire me the day I walked in like this.00:22:14.240 --> 00:22:16.480


But like now I can be who I am, you know?00:22:16.799 --> 00:22:21.759


So um, no, it's just no, I couldn't do that.00:22:22.000 --> 00:22:23.680


Have you ever gone out with Scotstar girls?00:22:24.160 --> 00:22:24.559


Hell yeah.00:22:24.720 --> 00:22:25.839


How how do you feel about them?00:22:26.079 --> 00:22:26.880


They're awful.00:22:27.200 --> 00:22:27.920


Why so?00:22:28.240 --> 00:22:30.240


Because they none of them are real, yeah.00:22:30.400 --> 00:22:32.880


Like they're all so fake, and I'm not talking about their looks.00:22:33.039 --> 00:22:35.920


Like, who cares that they have a little Botox or lip fillers?00:22:36.000 --> 00:22:40.799


There's so many people that talk shit about that, but like it really does enhance a woman, and if it's gonna make them feel better, let them do that.00:22:40.960 --> 00:22:41.759


Men can't get that.00:22:41.839 --> 00:22:43.039


Yeah, I mean we can, I guess.00:22:43.279 --> 00:22:44.160


I was gonna say you can.00:22:44.400 --> 00:22:48.079


I guess we can, but like, do you think I would look better with them?00:22:48.640 --> 00:22:49.599


With lip injections?00:22:50.079 --> 00:22:50.480


You think so?00:22:51.039 --> 00:22:54.880


Duck face, maybe just you know, a little Botox around the eyes.00:22:55.119 --> 00:22:56.079


I have I have done it.00:22:56.160 --> 00:22:59.119


I have done that, and I'm gonna I I know I I need to do that again.00:22:59.200 --> 00:23:00.480


I'm going to actually.00:23:00.640 --> 00:23:02.240


Um, I have done that before.00:23:02.480 --> 00:23:03.279


What are your hobbies?00:23:03.359 --> 00:23:05.119


What do you do in your free time besides a lot?00:23:05.359 --> 00:23:08.799


Um, I run like three to six miles a week.00:23:09.599 --> 00:23:21.440


Um, snowboard every s every winter, um, skydiving, traveling internationally, um, road tripping often, Sedona often, hiking out there, Tesla camping.00:23:21.920 --> 00:23:22.559


I do a lot.00:23:22.880 --> 00:23:26.880


Do you have any crazy unique talents or unique fact about yourself that not many people know of?00:23:27.920 --> 00:23:30.240


I have an Albert Einstein portrait tattooed on my back.00:23:30.640 --> 00:23:31.200


Oh, you do?00:23:31.359 --> 00:23:31.759


Yeah.00:23:32.160 --> 00:23:33.119


Like a full piece.00:23:33.200 --> 00:23:34.319


It took me 10 years to complete it.00:23:34.559 --> 00:23:34.799


Oh wow.00:23:34.960 --> 00:23:36.400


Why'd you get Albert Einstein?00:23:36.960 --> 00:23:38.880


Imagination's more important than knowledge.00:23:39.759 --> 00:23:42.079


It's one of his like most famous quotes.00:23:42.319 --> 00:23:42.799


Yeah.00:23:43.119 --> 00:23:49.680


So, and like I'm so like that, you know, I'm so spontaneous, and like that's why the more the marriage shouldn't work.00:23:49.759 --> 00:23:51.119


That's why the corporate job doesn't work.00:23:51.200 --> 00:23:52.079


I can't be held down.00:23:52.240 --> 00:23:55.279


Like, not like I I totally said that wrong.00:23:55.519 --> 00:23:57.039


That sounded so bad.00:23:57.359 --> 00:23:59.839


Because I just said I want a marriage and dating.00:24:00.559 --> 00:24:01.920


Like I cannot be held down.00:24:03.200 --> 00:24:09.119


Ladies, but I corrected that as soon as I see I I acknowledge that.00:24:09.200 --> 00:24:10.000


That's not what I meant.00:24:10.079 --> 00:24:13.759


I when I say that, I mean like shit.00:24:14.000 --> 00:24:15.279


Like you're like a free spirit.00:24:15.359 --> 00:24:15.759


Yeah.00:24:16.000 --> 00:24:16.240


Yeah.00:24:16.319 --> 00:24:18.400


And it's just like you want to be free to be who you are.00:24:18.559 --> 00:24:21.039


You're gonna do well with routine and structure and cock out.00:24:21.359 --> 00:24:22.880


No, actually, I'm that I have to have that.00:24:23.039 --> 00:24:24.480


Structure is a huge thing in my life.00:24:24.559 --> 00:24:26.079


Like, if you don't have structure, what the hell do you have?00:24:26.240 --> 00:24:27.680


If you don't have a routine, what the hell do you have?00:24:27.759 --> 00:24:30.319


But I add the spontaneous in-between all of that.00:24:30.559 --> 00:24:32.640


A lot of people act like they don't have a lot of time in their day.00:24:32.720 --> 00:24:33.599


I wake up at 4 a.m.00:24:33.759 --> 00:24:36.960


every day, you know, like wake up and go do something.00:24:37.119 --> 00:24:37.680


You know what I mean?00:24:37.759 --> 00:24:38.720


Don't melt on your couch.00:24:38.799 --> 00:24:44.240


Like, don't get me wrong, I love crime documentary and I watch every one of them on Prime and Netflix and everything, you know.00:24:44.319 --> 00:24:48.480


Like, you make time how you want, it's all about time management and discipline in life, you know.00:24:48.640 --> 00:24:51.759


So, but no, I the corporate world is what I mean.00:24:51.839 --> 00:24:53.519


I can't be held down to like that schedule.00:24:53.680 --> 00:25:01.200


That's why I'm trying to make the whole TikTok thing work because I know it's possible, and I in, you know, you manifest and you imagine, right?00:25:01.279 --> 00:25:08.400


So it's like I have Einstein on my back because he was a genius, and I like to think, you know, that I could possibly do genius things one day.00:25:08.799 --> 00:25:14.480


And it's just like the real story is my best friend is a huge artist out here.00:25:14.559 --> 00:25:16.960


Shout out Kevin Bradley, you're amazing.00:25:17.279 --> 00:25:18.400


Uh, we're best friends.00:25:18.480 --> 00:25:21.519


We've we go way back from like 2005, 2006.00:25:21.599 --> 00:25:25.440


We went to high school, same high not same high school, but high school years together.00:25:26.400 --> 00:25:29.519


Uh he moved out here in 2009, I moved out here in 2010.00:25:29.599 --> 00:25:35.920


His dad was here, and the girl that I was trying to get with, my wife of the ex-wife, um, she was here.00:25:36.079 --> 00:25:37.839


So that was when we reconnected.00:25:37.920 --> 00:25:44.240


And then, but I told him when we were when I was like 16, he was tattooing me, and I seen his potential.00:25:44.559 --> 00:25:48.079


And I told him, I was like, man, I'm like, I this is what you need to do for real.00:25:48.160 --> 00:25:51.200


Like, put your time and effort into this because you're gonna go somewhere with it.00:25:51.359 --> 00:25:57.279


And I told him, I said, and when you get good enough and I think that you're good enough, I'll give you my whole back and we'll do something crazy.00:25:57.680 --> 00:25:59.279


And 10 years later we started it.00:25:59.519 --> 00:26:00.000


You wanna see?00:26:00.799 --> 00:26:01.440


Sure, yeah.00:26:06.160 --> 00:26:07.440


He's getting naked.00:26:08.319 --> 00:26:10.000


It's getting hot in here.00:26:10.160 --> 00:26:11.680


So take off all your clothes.00:26:11.920 --> 00:26:13.920


Oh wow, yeah, it's very realistic.00:26:14.720 --> 00:26:15.680


Wow, I like it.00:26:15.759 --> 00:26:17.200


Oh, and all the black on the top.00:26:17.359 --> 00:26:18.559


Owe, did that hurt?00:26:18.799 --> 00:26:19.680


I bet that really hurt.00:26:20.400 --> 00:26:22.240


Uh yeah, I mean I definitely hurt that.00:26:22.880 --> 00:26:23.119


Uh yeah.00:26:23.759 --> 00:26:25.279


Yeah, I got this one done in Thailand.00:26:25.519 --> 00:26:25.920


Oh wow.00:26:26.160 --> 00:26:27.039


Oh yeah, that one's cool too.00:26:27.359 --> 00:26:27.839


That one is cool.00:26:28.319 --> 00:26:29.359


So tattooing is a little bit more.00:26:29.519 --> 00:26:33.200


Oh, you got the twister on there too on your side for your Illinois.00:26:33.599 --> 00:26:34.079


Yeah, exactly.00:26:34.160 --> 00:26:37.440


I'm gonna say, speaking of being crazy, are you ready for it?00:26:37.680 --> 00:26:38.240


I'm ready for it.00:26:38.400 --> 00:26:41.119


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We have a listener question.00:26:48.880 --> 00:27:00.559


Um if you meet their pet and it hates you, do you try harder or do you accept your fate?00:27:00.960 --> 00:27:04.960


No, I absolutely accept that because people who have bad dogs are bad people.00:27:05.519 --> 00:27:10.559


But if the dog's not bad if it just doesn't like you, it's bad if it doesn't like everybody.00:27:11.039 --> 00:27:15.519


I disagree with that because my dog is skeptical about certain people.00:27:15.599 --> 00:27:21.279


And if my dog doesn't like you, well, she loves me, so she must have good style, good senses.00:27:22.799 --> 00:27:24.000


No, like I don't know.00:27:24.079 --> 00:27:27.039


I have two beautiful border colleagues, Nala and Simba, and they're my whole life.00:27:27.119 --> 00:27:33.680


Like, Nala just turned nine, Simba's turning six in February, and they're so disciplined, so obedient, they do anything I ask them to do.00:27:33.839 --> 00:27:34.880


It's incredible.00:27:35.039 --> 00:27:44.160


But I I always I've always heard people say, or like I always tell people, people who have good dogs are really good, genuine people typically, you know?00:27:44.720 --> 00:27:45.599


But I don't know.00:27:45.759 --> 00:27:47.359


I guess I've never had a dog not like me.00:27:47.440 --> 00:27:48.400


I'm a huge dog person.00:27:48.640 --> 00:27:49.839


What if your dogs, though?00:27:49.920 --> 00:27:53.680


Like, what if you brought a girl over and your dogs didn't not happen.00:27:54.079 --> 00:27:56.319


That's what I'm that's I think that's what the question is asking.00:27:56.400 --> 00:27:58.319


Like, what if it's not happening that they won't like them?00:27:58.400 --> 00:27:59.359


They're border collies.00:27:59.599 --> 00:28:01.119


But what if I know border colleagues?00:28:01.359 --> 00:28:02.480


I wouldn't give up to them.00:28:02.720 --> 00:28:04.799


Are you saying if they didn't like my dogs or my dogs didn't like them?00:28:05.039 --> 00:28:09.200


No, if your dogs didn't like them, like you brought a girl home and just don't think that that's I I don't know.00:28:09.440 --> 00:28:10.799


Not that your dogs didn't like them.00:28:10.960 --> 00:28:14.240


So my dog doesn't ever not like anyone.00:28:14.400 --> 00:28:16.960


There's just certain people that she's like, Yeah, they probably want to be around.00:28:17.039 --> 00:28:18.079


I wouldn't I that's a deal breaker.00:28:18.559 --> 00:28:23.920


Yeah, there's just certain there's certain people that she doesn't bother to like get up off of her bed to greet.00:28:24.160 --> 00:28:24.960


Oh, I can do that.00:28:25.119 --> 00:28:29.359


And so then it's like it's like, hmm, why does my dog not want to say hello to you?00:28:29.599 --> 00:28:31.200


You must not be a good person.00:28:32.240 --> 00:28:38.240


I get what you're saying, but like that's one thing that my dogs do not listen about is not jumping when someone walks in the door.00:28:38.319 --> 00:28:42.160


They greet everybody for like three minutes and then they're like perfect again, you know.00:28:42.319 --> 00:28:55.200


So you know what's funny is I went on a couple of dates with this guy and I really liked him, and then I went to his house and he had a dog, and I am not allergic to dogs, but my face blew up, like my eyes swallow up so much where I couldn't see, like it was crazy.00:28:55.279 --> 00:28:56.640


I never saw him again.00:28:57.519 --> 00:28:59.519


Hopefully, this is a deal breaker.00:28:59.599 --> 00:29:01.119


She can't come around my dog.00:29:01.440 --> 00:29:03.039


I feel like the Lord was telling me something.00:29:03.119 --> 00:29:05.519


Like, I'm not allergic to dogs, but for some reason, yeah.00:29:05.599 --> 00:29:06.799


I mean, it's definitely a deal breaker.00:29:06.880 --> 00:29:09.519


If they if they're if my dogs aren't gonna accept them, yeah, my dogs are my life.00:29:09.599 --> 00:29:11.359


They've they've been around how many breakups?00:29:11.440 --> 00:29:13.440


I've cried how many times in there for her?00:29:13.680 --> 00:29:14.160


Come on.00:29:14.880 --> 00:29:17.839


Okay, so now we're gonna look over these uh facts.00:29:18.000 --> 00:29:20.960


Are these green flags, beige flags or red flags?00:29:21.119 --> 00:29:22.000


What do you think?00:29:22.480 --> 00:29:24.720


Someone still has a flip phone.00:29:25.440 --> 00:29:26.319


A flip phone?00:29:26.480 --> 00:29:29.200


Yeah, that beige flag, green flag, red flag.00:29:29.519 --> 00:29:33.119


It might be good because then you know they're not so obsessed with being on a frickin smartphone.00:29:33.440 --> 00:29:34.799


I think it's a beige, but I need to know.00:29:35.519 --> 00:29:36.640


Are we talking like real life?00:29:36.799 --> 00:29:38.160


Or is it like hypothetically?00:29:38.559 --> 00:29:40.559


Because I don't know the last time I seen someone with a flip phone.00:29:40.799 --> 00:29:44.720


I need to know more about why they have a flip phone and do they have another phone also?00:29:45.279 --> 00:29:46.079


So you need more info.00:29:46.400 --> 00:29:46.960


I need more info.00:29:47.039 --> 00:29:48.319


It's a beige, it's a beige flag.00:29:48.640 --> 00:29:52.319


What if they still follow and occasionally like their ex's posts?00:29:52.480 --> 00:29:53.759


I think that's a huge red flag.00:29:53.839 --> 00:29:54.559


Yeah, that's a big thing.00:29:54.640 --> 00:29:57.200


Why do you still follow your ex and why are you still liking their crap?00:29:57.440 --> 00:29:57.759


Right?00:29:57.920 --> 00:29:59.200


Like, why are you still so concerned?00:29:59.440 --> 00:29:59.839


Like if you00:30:00.240 --> 00:30:02.640


Are you you mean like in general or if you're in a relationship?00:30:02.880 --> 00:30:03.839


Like if you're dating someone.00:30:04.079 --> 00:30:05.279


Oh yeah, a thousand percent.00:30:05.440 --> 00:30:05.680


Yeah.00:30:05.920 --> 00:30:06.319


Yeah.00:30:06.480 --> 00:30:10.400


Um, they plan your second date before the first one's even over.00:30:11.039 --> 00:30:11.920


No, I don't like that.00:30:12.160 --> 00:30:12.480


You don't like that?00:30:12.799 --> 00:30:13.920


Too eager to be like I like that.00:30:14.079 --> 00:30:14.799


What if we're not going?00:30:14.960 --> 00:30:16.720


What if I don't want to go on a second date?00:30:17.359 --> 00:30:17.759


It was a second.00:30:17.920 --> 00:30:20.319


Well, I mean, if you don't want to go to a second date, you just ghost, right?00:30:20.559 --> 00:30:21.359


Yeah, that's true.00:30:21.759 --> 00:30:24.319


You just don't or tell them, I guess not ghost.00:30:24.720 --> 00:30:25.440


I don't ghost.00:30:25.519 --> 00:30:26.240


I don't do that.00:30:26.319 --> 00:30:28.079


But I don't, I don't want to have this conversation.00:30:28.160 --> 00:30:32.240


Like you've already planned our second date, and I wasn't even planning on the driver.00:30:32.400 --> 00:30:34.960


I mean, what if that what if there wasn't a date like dialed in?00:30:35.119 --> 00:30:39.920


Like, you know, first second date opportunity, but not a date dialed in for the second date.00:30:40.079 --> 00:30:41.519


Then it's more possible, right?00:30:41.759 --> 00:30:42.799


Maybe then it's not so much.00:30:43.119 --> 00:30:49.039


I was on a second date with my husband, and we were talking about Wayne Brady, and we saw that he was coming into town, so he booked the tickets right then and there.00:30:49.200 --> 00:30:51.440


So he planned our third date on your second date.00:30:51.599 --> 00:30:52.240


On our second date.00:30:52.480 --> 00:30:52.960


And I liked it.00:30:53.039 --> 00:30:53.920


I was like, oh good.00:30:54.000 --> 00:30:55.279


This guy seems interested.00:30:55.440 --> 00:30:55.920


I'm in.00:30:56.079 --> 00:30:56.240


Really?00:30:56.480 --> 00:30:57.200


But that's the thing.00:30:57.279 --> 00:30:59.839


Like, these girls want effort and then you give effort and they don't want it.00:30:59.920 --> 00:31:01.119


It gets so dumb.00:31:01.759 --> 00:31:03.200


That's this one right here.00:31:03.680 --> 00:31:04.480


No, seriously.00:31:04.559 --> 00:31:08.480


Like, even the girls, like you do get a match with them, and then like they don't reply.00:31:08.559 --> 00:31:12.319


They they say like something cute and nice, and then they don't even reply back, you know?00:31:12.559 --> 00:31:13.279


That's gotta be frustrating.00:31:16.400 --> 00:31:20.720


When they ask for your zodiac sign before your last name, that to me would be deal breaker.00:31:20.799 --> 00:31:25.759


Like all that man that's into all those horoscopes and like, I don't know, hokey stuff.00:31:27.440 --> 00:31:29.839


But why do you need my last name like right away?00:31:30.160 --> 00:31:30.720


Yeah, that's true.00:31:30.799 --> 00:31:32.559


But why do you need my zodiac sign?00:31:32.799 --> 00:31:33.759


That's even worse to me.00:31:34.000 --> 00:31:36.079


Most people's Instagram is their first and last name, though.00:31:36.160 --> 00:31:36.880


So they could kind of already know.00:31:37.200 --> 00:31:37.759


A lot is.00:31:37.839 --> 00:31:38.480


Mine's not.00:31:38.640 --> 00:31:41.759


I just I don't know why you need I don't need you know I am.00:31:41.839 --> 00:31:42.720


My Instagram is private.00:31:42.960 --> 00:31:45.279


I don't know why you need my last name, for one.00:31:45.440 --> 00:31:47.279


And two, I like it.00:31:47.440 --> 00:31:51.519


I like to be asked when my birthday is because I like different I like birthdays.00:31:51.680 --> 00:32:00.960


That's different if they ask when your birthday is, but if they're like talking about your horoscopes and oh, we're gonna be such a good match because if they start talking about I don't know, not my cup of tea.00:32:01.279 --> 00:32:05.039


They never post you on so social media, but they also never post anyone.00:32:05.119 --> 00:32:06.000


That's a green flag, right?00:32:06.079 --> 00:32:08.559


If they're just not posting on social media, yeah, I don't care about that.00:32:08.720 --> 00:32:10.319


Um I don't know.00:32:10.559 --> 00:32:11.759


Yeah, what are your thoughts on that?00:32:11.920 --> 00:32:14.559


I mean, like it I guess it depends on the relationship.00:32:14.720 --> 00:32:17.119


What if it's like kind of a situationship, you know?00:32:17.200 --> 00:32:18.000


Like relationship.00:32:18.880 --> 00:32:19.200


That's true.00:32:19.279 --> 00:32:20.799


Yeah, it depends on what kind of relationship it is.00:32:21.039 --> 00:32:27.599


Like even if you are like dialed in on that relationship and it's just so bad, like you don't want to embarrass yourself, so you just don't post because you don't think it's gonna work out.00:32:28.319 --> 00:32:28.559


Right?00:32:29.519 --> 00:32:31.359


You could look you're both looking at me, like, no.00:32:31.839 --> 00:32:36.880


I know I hardly ever post, and so I don't post someone that I'm dating on my Instagram.00:32:37.119 --> 00:32:40.480


I think it's only a red flag if like they tell you not to post pictures.00:32:41.039 --> 00:32:41.200


Right?00:32:41.759 --> 00:32:42.880


That was my last relationship.00:32:43.039 --> 00:32:43.359


Really?00:32:43.519 --> 00:32:47.119


Yeah, well, because she was from Poland, so so she didn't want you posting pictures.00:32:47.359 --> 00:32:57.920


No, because she was here on a student visa and she was living with me, and so like she didn't want the oh if they like looked at her social media and seen that she was in a relationship, like she she wasn't coming back, like when she went back to Poland.00:32:58.160 --> 00:32:59.119


That makes sense, you know.00:32:59.200 --> 00:33:00.640


Yeah, but that sucked, you know?00:33:01.200 --> 00:33:05.119


Because you wanted to post you were proud of your relationship in the beginning.00:33:06.640 --> 00:33:10.079


Like in the beginning, yeah, until I found out all the man, no.00:33:11.759 --> 00:33:15.680


Maybe maybe you're a little too eager, beaver, to post girls publicly.00:33:16.000 --> 00:33:17.519


Maybe you need to rein it in just a little bit.00:33:17.839 --> 00:33:18.160


I haven't.00:33:18.240 --> 00:33:20.160


No, I I only posted her on my story.00:33:20.240 --> 00:33:21.839


I never actually posted a post, you know.00:33:22.240 --> 00:33:23.200


Okay, okay, okay.00:33:23.359 --> 00:33:27.119


But like my last my last two girls, girlfriends I did, I posted them, you know.00:33:27.279 --> 00:33:29.839


Like, I I am I want to be in a relationship, to be honest.00:33:29.920 --> 00:33:32.000


Like, I have a daughter that wants me to be with somebody.00:33:32.240 --> 00:33:35.200


Like, I want to be with somebody, but I'm so picky and I'm not rushing it.00:33:35.440 --> 00:33:40.480


So if you do post the girl, she should feel flattered and honored that you're and it proves that you actually do like her.00:33:40.720 --> 00:33:41.440


Well, yeah, 100%.00:33:41.680 --> 00:33:47.519


Because if you look at my social media to work my daughter and myself, don't you hate those people that are posting a different person every freaking week?00:33:47.680 --> 00:33:51.039


Yeah, like and they're in a relationship every single week with someone new.00:33:51.119 --> 00:33:52.720


Oh my god, like why post it?00:33:52.960 --> 00:33:53.279


Right?00:33:53.599 --> 00:33:55.680


Because it makes people take you serious.00:33:55.839 --> 00:33:56.160


Yeah, people.00:33:56.559 --> 00:33:57.279


Some people like that.00:33:57.519 --> 00:34:05.119


Yeah, but it's like I don't even have shots on like I there's times I match with girls on on hinge or something, and they literally tell me I look like a fuckboy.00:34:05.279 --> 00:34:08.079


Like from the jump, I'm like, bitch, don't, don't, don't you?00:34:08.559 --> 00:34:09.280


What kind of pictures?00:34:09.360 --> 00:34:11.039


I'm gonna need to see your profile.00:34:11.440 --> 00:34:12.400


Please do.00:34:14.800 --> 00:34:18.480


Well, you know, you do have the tattoos, which kind of gives you the bad boy kind of look.00:34:18.559 --> 00:34:19.039


You're blitzing.00:34:20.719 --> 00:34:21.760


You know, I hate that shit too.00:34:22.000 --> 00:34:29.360


I will say, you personally you seem very um genuine and you seem like you're serious about you don't seem like a fuckboy to me, getting to know you.00:34:29.519 --> 00:34:30.159


No, exactly.00:34:30.239 --> 00:34:33.199


And that's the thing, is like I don't even there's this one girl that I'm really attracted to.00:34:33.280 --> 00:34:35.440


I'm not even gonna lie, I won't say her name for sure.00:34:35.760 --> 00:34:37.440


But she's in Scottsdale.00:34:37.679 --> 00:34:41.039


We just matched recently, um, a couple weeks ago.00:34:41.199 --> 00:34:48.079


Oh, she's I literally comment, I don't really comment whenever I match on Hinge or like if I send a like, but I sent I'm like, you're literally the perfect girlfriend.00:34:48.239 --> 00:34:49.840


Like, you're like my dream girl.00:34:49.920 --> 00:34:50.639


That was what I said to her.00:34:50.719 --> 00:35:01.119


So she matched with me, and then she found out I had a kid, and she, yeah, she added me on Instagram, and then um she told me that she'll hit me up, you know, and then she unmatched with me, which whatever, I don't really care about that.00:35:01.360 --> 00:35:10.000


But you know, it's been weeks already, and but she did tell me the reason why is because her last relationship she got close with the with the guy's kid, and then he was cheating.00:35:10.239 --> 00:35:15.119


And that sucks for like a genuine guy, you know, because that's stupid though, because what if it would have worked out with you?00:35:15.599 --> 00:35:24.960


Well, like she like she did, she we have been talking a little bit, you know, but like I'm like you know, like she's seen the what I've been doing, and she's like, Oh, you're so kind, you know, because she's in the hair business too.00:35:25.199 --> 00:35:29.360


And so, like, she, but yeah, it's not Emily, is it?00:35:29.519 --> 00:35:31.760


No, okay, no, I was getting the same thing.00:35:32.000 --> 00:35:36.719


Even even if it was somebody, I wouldn't say it just because it's her, like, this is you know, like her reputation.00:35:36.960 --> 00:35:39.519


She yeah, like she's she's great at what she does.00:35:39.599 --> 00:35:40.480


I would never throw her name.00:35:40.559 --> 00:35:44.079


I I don't even know, I never even met her, but I respect her enough where I wouldn't even say her name.00:35:44.159 --> 00:35:45.760


Yeah, you know, like it's just not fair.00:35:45.920 --> 00:35:47.760


And please cut the other girl's name.00:35:48.239 --> 00:35:49.920


I don't want that to be seen.00:35:50.639 --> 00:35:54.559


But um, no, my social media, my hinge is great, I feel like.00:35:54.800 --> 00:35:58.719


Honestly, it's it's it's literally like a short version of like my whole life.00:35:58.880 --> 00:36:00.000


Yeah, yeah.00:36:01.760 --> 00:36:02.239


Oh, yeah.00:36:02.320 --> 00:36:04.960


You're putting your little bed in the back of your car.00:36:05.280 --> 00:36:13.280


Well, that's because yeah, that's oh, in your they're current, you have a picture of your hair the way it is right now, the color that it is, so it looks exactly like you.00:36:13.519 --> 00:36:14.639


Are his pictures filtered?00:36:15.039 --> 00:36:19.199


No, none of them are, and they're not fuckboy pictures, I don't think.00:36:19.440 --> 00:36:22.719


Well, you're not, I'm telling you, I have multiple girls tell me that.00:36:24.719 --> 00:36:30.960


Maybe because this is maybe because this last one is the one of your tattoo and you have girls in the photo.00:36:31.199 --> 00:36:32.480


Maybe because it's like a party picture.00:36:34.559 --> 00:36:36.800


Okay, that's at a that's at a rave, though.00:36:37.199 --> 00:36:38.320


And he's showing off his tattoo.00:36:38.480 --> 00:36:38.719


Exactly.00:36:39.119 --> 00:36:39.519


Thank you so much.00:36:40.960 --> 00:36:41.519


Okay, but think about it.00:36:41.599 --> 00:36:42.559


You're at a rave, right?00:36:42.639 --> 00:36:45.280


So you're at a rave walking around without a shirt to show your tattoo.00:36:45.360 --> 00:36:47.920


Like, that's my everyone has an outfit when they go to a rave, right?00:36:48.000 --> 00:36:48.639


That's my outfit.00:36:48.800 --> 00:36:53.280


Shirts and no shirt, because I have so much money in my back, I want to show it off.00:36:53.440 --> 00:36:56.800


And there's so many other men that also have, you know, that do that.00:36:57.119 --> 00:37:00.880


And there was a girl that walked up, she had a full chest, her whole chest done.00:37:01.039 --> 00:37:02.960


And so, like, I walk, I was like, let me get a picture.00:37:03.039 --> 00:37:06.320


So I put my arm around her here to get her front and they can get my back.00:37:06.480 --> 00:37:08.639


And then her two friends jumped in the picture with me.00:37:08.960 --> 00:37:09.679


But that's a sick photo.00:37:10.079 --> 00:37:11.440


That's it is no, that's what I'm saying.00:37:11.519 --> 00:37:14.239


Like, I think it's a cool photo because it just looks like you're having fun.00:37:14.320 --> 00:37:16.000


It like looks like you're having a great time.00:37:16.159 --> 00:37:25.519


And you can very much tell that these girls aren't girls that you're like trying to hook up with, or like, you know what I mean?00:37:25.599 --> 00:37:31.679


Like, you it's not like it's not like one of those club photos where it's like you're like got your arms around their waist or something like that, stupid.00:37:32.079 --> 00:37:33.679


But and they weren't even hanging on me.00:37:33.760 --> 00:37:35.519


It was just like it was literally like a one-picture.00:37:35.920 --> 00:37:40.400


It doesn't look that, but that's the only that's the one, that's the only picture on your profile that I could see.00:37:40.559 --> 00:37:45.920


Maybe I feel like that picture just shows a lot of like my adventure side of life, you know?00:37:46.000 --> 00:37:50.719


So I feel like women some women though will use anything as an excuse to stop communication.00:37:50.800 --> 00:37:54.960


Oh, they're too cowardly to say, listen, I just don't think it's gonna be a match.00:37:55.039 --> 00:37:57.920


They'll be like, oh, you look like a fuck boy, or yeah, use things to use.00:37:59.440 --> 00:38:00.000


Women love that.00:38:00.159 --> 00:38:00.559


Yeah.00:38:00.880 --> 00:38:01.360


Fine.00:38:01.760 --> 00:38:05.199


Now it's time for the celebrity cup where we marinate in the juices of the celebrities.00:38:05.280 --> 00:38:06.880


So are you a fan of Meghan Markle?00:38:06.960 --> 00:38:08.320


There's Meghan Markle news.00:38:08.559 --> 00:38:10.880


Well, you you're not gonna you're not gonna like this answer.00:38:10.960 --> 00:38:13.280


I actually am not good with celebrity names at all.00:38:13.599 --> 00:38:15.280


Well, so she just came out with a candle.00:38:15.440 --> 00:38:15.840


Who is it?00:38:15.920 --> 00:38:16.719


It's Meghan Markle.00:38:16.880 --> 00:38:18.079


She's married to Prince Harry.00:38:18.320 --> 00:38:19.440


Oh, okay, yeah, I can't.00:38:19.840 --> 00:38:21.360


Lindsay's arch narrative.00:38:21.760 --> 00:38:22.800


I know who you're talking about now, Megan.00:38:23.039 --> 00:38:26.559


Megan has no idea that she's in a feud with Lindsay.00:38:27.039 --> 00:38:29.760


Okay, she came out with a candle, an eight-ounce candle.00:38:29.840 --> 00:38:31.760


You know how small the eight-ounce candles are?00:38:32.000 --> 00:38:34.719


$64 she's charging for a bloody candle.00:38:34.880 --> 00:38:35.840


It's made out of leaves.00:38:36.000 --> 00:38:37.280


I have a whole backyard full of leaves.00:38:37.599 --> 00:38:39.199


I need to start a side hustle and make candles.00:38:40.400 --> 00:38:42.079


And then she came out with a sparkling wine.00:38:42.239 --> 00:38:44.079


$89 for a bloody sparkling wine.00:38:44.480 --> 00:38:44.800


She is.00:38:45.119 --> 00:38:46.320


It's just like having dinner.00:38:46.559 --> 00:38:47.280


She's doing everything.00:38:47.360 --> 00:38:48.320


She's making music now.00:38:48.400 --> 00:38:49.679


Did you hear that song she just did?00:38:49.920 --> 00:38:52.000


Wait, oh that's Kendall Jenner.00:38:52.239 --> 00:38:52.880


Oh, Kindle, whatever.00:38:52.960 --> 00:38:53.599


They're all the sparking.00:38:53.760 --> 00:38:54.320


I have not heard that song.00:38:54.400 --> 00:38:54.719


How was it?00:38:54.800 --> 00:38:55.360


Kindle Jenner, maybe.00:38:55.760 --> 00:38:56.639


She may came up with a song.00:38:56.880 --> 00:38:57.440


It's pathetic.00:38:57.760 --> 00:38:58.079


Is it bad?00:38:58.159 --> 00:38:59.199


I've heard it's gotten such bad.00:38:59.360 --> 00:39:01.440


Is that singing, or is she like I don't know what she's trying to do?00:39:02.400 --> 00:39:04.159


I don't know what she's trying to do.00:39:05.039 --> 00:39:05.920


I honestly don't.00:39:06.079 --> 00:39:07.679


Yeah, it's like somebody sent it to me.00:39:08.079 --> 00:39:11.920


Somebody sent it to me, and they're like, anything with Kindle Kindle Jenner, you gotta listen to it.00:39:12.079 --> 00:39:14.159


I was just like, listen, I'm like, this is trash.00:39:14.400 --> 00:39:16.000


I kind of want to listen to it just to see.00:39:16.239 --> 00:39:17.840


I actually like Kendall.00:39:17.920 --> 00:39:21.280


I think she's one of my favorite ones out of the book.00:39:21.440 --> 00:39:22.400


I really like her.00:39:22.719 --> 00:39:25.440


But I don't I don't think that she should be making it.00:39:25.679 --> 00:39:27.119


You know whose song I really did like?00:39:27.199 --> 00:39:30.400


Remember back in the day, this was probably like ooh, 2011.00:39:30.719 --> 00:39:33.199


Paris Hilton came out with a song Stars Are Blind.00:39:33.840 --> 00:39:34.880


I love that song.00:39:34.960 --> 00:39:36.000


I was all about that.00:39:36.320 --> 00:39:37.519


And doesn't she DJ now?00:39:37.679 --> 00:39:38.000


She does.00:39:38.079 --> 00:39:39.280


And she's like a successful DJ.00:39:39.360 --> 00:39:42.239


Isn't she like the second most highest the second highest paid DJ?00:39:42.559 --> 00:39:42.800


Really?00:39:43.440 --> 00:39:45.679


I think she's up there and like one of the top paid DJs.00:39:45.840 --> 00:39:47.119


I love I love going to Raves.00:39:47.360 --> 00:39:49.840


And it's not even really, it's just like the people are cool there.00:39:49.920 --> 00:39:56.159


There's a lot of people on drugs for sure, but like the exposure, like the people are super nice, and you see a lot of unique people.00:39:56.239 --> 00:39:56.639


I like that.00:39:56.880 --> 00:39:57.599


You do see a lot of people.00:39:57.679 --> 00:39:58.960


Because I'm I feel like I'm unique.00:39:59.039 --> 00:40:00.239


I I know I'm unique actually.00:40:00.559 --> 00:40:01.679


Do you want a rave girl?00:40:01.840 --> 00:40:06.800


Like, is that your I want a wholesome woman?00:40:07.280 --> 00:40:11.360


So so if you met someone that wasn't a raver, would you stop going to Raves then?00:40:11.599 --> 00:40:11.760


I would.00:40:12.159 --> 00:40:12.400


You would?00:40:12.559 --> 00:40:13.199


Yeah, hell yeah.00:40:13.280 --> 00:40:18.800


Because that's like that's to a girl who doesn't rave, that's like a huge red flag.00:40:19.280 --> 00:40:20.559


But like I'm also single.00:40:20.639 --> 00:40:22.719


I'm not out hooking up with girls at Raves.00:40:22.800 --> 00:40:25.360


Like, I'm literally going for the music and just to have fun and socialize.00:40:25.440 --> 00:40:26.800


Like that's it.00:40:27.199 --> 00:40:29.039


Where do you take a girl on a first date?00:40:29.360 --> 00:40:30.400


Ocean 44.00:40:30.800 --> 00:40:31.280


Do you really?00:40:31.440 --> 00:40:32.719


Yeah, I love Ocean 44.00:40:32.800 --> 00:40:34.000


Uh I mean, actually, I don't know.00:40:34.079 --> 00:40:36.400


I'm a huge foodie, so I shouldn't say that.00:40:36.559 --> 00:40:39.199


Um I pick all the big, all the good restaurants.00:40:39.599 --> 00:40:40.239


It depends on the girl.00:40:40.559 --> 00:40:41.440


What's your favorite restaurant?00:40:42.079 --> 00:40:43.360


Uh different point of view up north.00:40:43.760 --> 00:40:44.639


Oh, I've never been there.00:40:45.119 --> 00:40:46.719


No, it's in the hotel.00:40:47.039 --> 00:40:50.239


It's in a hotel on the cliffs, overseeing the whole city.00:40:50.480 --> 00:40:52.880


It's like almost at the top that spins around.00:40:53.119 --> 00:40:53.840


No, no, that's it.00:40:54.960 --> 00:40:56.559


No, that's the compass in downtown Phoenix.00:40:56.880 --> 00:40:58.400


This is up north, like in the mountains.00:40:58.639 --> 00:40:59.280


Oh, oh nice.00:40:59.440 --> 00:41:00.400


Yeah, it's really nice.00:41:02.320 --> 00:41:06.480


Now it's time to get to know you with Zoyo, sponsored by Zoey, your neighborhood yogurt.00:41:06.800 --> 00:41:10.000


Pick the top card, answer it at your own risk.00:41:10.480 --> 00:41:11.599


Some are innocent.00:41:11.840 --> 00:41:13.440


Some are not so innocent.00:41:15.360 --> 00:41:17.440


I'm hoping this is not a vanilla question.00:41:18.400 --> 00:41:20.079


You seem like you're a bad boy.00:41:22.480 --> 00:41:23.039


Go to my room.00:41:24.320 --> 00:41:25.599


Have you heard that line before?00:41:25.920 --> 00:41:27.920


Oh, this is so perfect because it just happened.00:41:28.400 --> 00:41:28.559


What?00:41:29.280 --> 00:41:30.000


What is the question?00:41:30.239 --> 00:41:32.320


Uh tell us about the best sex that you ever had in your life.00:41:32.559 --> 00:41:33.360


Ooh, it just happened?00:41:33.519 --> 00:41:36.719


Uh uh, yeah, like the begin the end of July and beginning of August.00:41:37.039 --> 00:41:38.000


Someone you knew?00:41:38.480 --> 00:41:39.280


Got to know.00:41:40.639 --> 00:41:41.599


In the bedroom.00:41:41.920 --> 00:41:43.280


So where did you meet?00:41:43.519 --> 00:41:45.119


Uh actually, it's a funny story.00:41:45.199 --> 00:41:48.559


We we met online like a a year or two ago.00:41:49.039 --> 00:41:49.760


That's what I'm saying.00:41:49.840 --> 00:41:57.840


The girls out here, it's like you meet them, you match them, and then they they make you chase for as long as they possibly can until you either stop or you get it, you know?00:41:58.159 --> 00:41:59.519


And then when you get it, they give up.00:41:59.679 --> 00:42:00.880


It's so dumb.00:42:02.079 --> 00:42:04.719


So was this a so did you have sex on the first night?00:42:04.880 --> 00:42:05.760


No, I never do.00:42:06.239 --> 00:42:07.360


I'm actually a guy that doesn't do that.00:42:07.519 --> 00:42:07.920


Oh wow.00:42:08.159 --> 00:42:08.320


Why?00:42:08.400 --> 00:42:09.199


What do you see your logic?00:42:10.400 --> 00:42:12.159


And I disrespect women way more than that.00:42:12.480 --> 00:42:16.800


I actually got called out for asking a girl to kiss me, which I'll never do that again either.00:42:16.880 --> 00:42:18.159


That was recently.00:42:18.559 --> 00:42:20.880


So on the first day you asked her to kiss you.00:42:21.599 --> 00:42:22.880


You asked if you could kiss her.00:42:23.119 --> 00:42:28.559


Yeah, it was just like I didn't really know her, you know, and like we weren't really on a date.00:42:28.719 --> 00:42:33.199


It was more like she was at work and I ended up going to where she worked at.00:42:33.280 --> 00:42:35.119


Like, it this happened to work out like that.00:42:35.519 --> 00:42:36.960


Um, because I was back home in St.00:42:37.119 --> 00:42:37.599


Louis.00:42:37.840 --> 00:42:44.320


And so, yeah, I this went down to watch UFC fights, and she was like the marketing girl of this like giant bar in downtown St.00:42:44.400 --> 00:42:48.239


Louis, and sh and we were talking, and I was like, Yeah, I'm here at FanDuel, dah da da da.00:42:48.320 --> 00:42:49.519


She's like, Oh, I'm the marketing person.00:42:49.920 --> 00:42:56.639


She came down, we talked for like five to ten minutes, and then like in when you're anywhere in downtown, you typically have to park and walk, right?00:42:56.800 --> 00:42:58.639


Because it's there's someone the parking's awful.00:42:59.360 --> 00:43:02.719


So I I parked like 10-15 minutes from where I was at, walk down.00:43:03.119 --> 00:43:07.280


Afterwards, at the end of the night, she was you know, she's like, Hey, you know, I could give you a ride.00:43:07.360 --> 00:43:08.800


I work here, so I'm got right here.00:43:08.880 --> 00:43:10.239


I'm like, Yeah, cool, no worries.00:43:10.719 --> 00:43:11.360


Get to the truck.00:43:11.440 --> 00:43:12.639


I was just gonna say goodbye.00:43:12.800 --> 00:43:13.679


She's like, Is that it?00:43:13.760 --> 00:43:17.760


Like, you know, I have a place 15 minutes down the way, it's got a private balcony, you know, da da da.00:43:17.840 --> 00:43:20.079


I was like, Yeah, sure, like whatever, let's go, you know.00:43:20.719 --> 00:43:22.559


And so I end up going over there.00:43:22.960 --> 00:43:27.280


And like we were just like, it was just a really a friendly conversation, like the whole night.00:43:27.360 --> 00:43:30.480


So it was kind of like I didn't really know which way it was going.00:43:30.559 --> 00:43:47.360


And I just like I said, I have a lot of respect for women because I have a daughter, and so like I think of a lot of situations as if I was my daughter, if that's kind of you know, it's kind of weird, but I just I think about that, and so like I wouldn't want someone to invade my in my daughter's space if she wasn't ready for it or it was too quick or something, you know.00:43:47.440 --> 00:43:52.079


But it was also like an intimate moment where it was like we were kind of getting there, and I was like, Can I kiss you right now?00:43:52.239 --> 00:43:53.199


She's like, Yeah, of course.00:43:53.360 --> 00:43:55.840


But then like two days later, she that was a red flag.00:43:55.920 --> 00:43:59.599


She she literally told me, she's like, Richard, this isn't Love Island, this is not Love Island.00:43:59.679 --> 00:44:01.199


You don't ask me for a kiss.00:44:01.519 --> 00:44:03.039


I was like, Are you kidding me?00:44:03.280 --> 00:44:04.480


I mean seriously, yeah.00:44:04.559 --> 00:44:06.639


And she's like, she's big on TikTok too.00:44:06.719 --> 00:44:08.400


She's actually like kind of big on TikTok.00:44:08.719 --> 00:44:15.360


She probably felt that by inviting you over to her place, that was she was also mad that I didn't have sex with her the first night.00:44:15.440 --> 00:44:15.679


Yeah.00:44:16.079 --> 00:44:19.119


Yeah, that was probably she was probably like, I invited him to my place.00:44:19.280 --> 00:44:21.119


He should have known what time it what time it was.00:44:21.280 --> 00:44:23.440


Well, then she should have said something if she wanted it like that.00:44:23.519 --> 00:44:24.800


I'm an open guy, talk to me.00:44:24.880 --> 00:44:25.280


What the hell?00:44:25.360 --> 00:44:26.000


I love conversations.00:44:26.480 --> 00:44:27.280


Open for business.00:44:27.920 --> 00:44:29.840


Not not no, not like that.00:44:30.000 --> 00:44:35.599


But like, even the first night though, I would have I already told her, like, even whenever she asked me to come over, I told her, I'm like, I'm not hooking up with you.00:44:35.679 --> 00:44:36.079


I'm not like that.00:44:36.159 --> 00:44:37.840


But like, you want to meet up tomorrow, you know?00:44:38.000 --> 00:44:39.599


Like, because it's gotta be chemistry.00:44:39.679 --> 00:44:41.920


Like, I can't just hook up with someone so weird like that, you know.00:44:42.000 --> 00:44:43.679


Like, I want to see, I want to feel the chemistry.00:44:43.840 --> 00:44:44.960


I'm not gonna get that.00:44:45.280 --> 00:44:48.719


So, this this the best sex was that this girl or a different girl?00:44:48.880 --> 00:44:50.079


No, that girl was good though.00:44:50.239 --> 00:44:54.320


Yeah, so she was like she wasn't she's she called her, she called me Christian Gray.00:44:54.400 --> 00:44:55.840


So I was like, okay, that's what I was saying.00:44:56.000 --> 00:44:57.199


She couldn't have been that mad at you then.00:44:57.519 --> 00:45:01.199


No, she texted me the next day and and she like the next morning whenever I left, you know.00:45:01.280 --> 00:45:06.800


And and because I was staying the night there and then taking care of my grandma because my grandma just had a heart attack at the time.00:45:07.039 --> 00:45:08.960


And like there's just no room at my grandma's house.00:45:09.039 --> 00:45:10.559


So I was like staying there, it was close by.00:45:10.719 --> 00:45:11.760


She was letting me use her car.00:45:11.920 --> 00:45:12.559


I just met this girl.00:45:12.639 --> 00:45:14.480


She gave me her car key, she let me stay with her.00:45:14.719 --> 00:45:16.559


Wow, and and then picked me up from the airport.00:45:16.639 --> 00:45:19.760


I stayed there for like, I was supposed to stay there five days, but she kicked me out on day three.00:45:20.880 --> 00:45:21.519


That's hilarious.00:45:21.760 --> 00:45:23.440


But and I don't like for no reason.00:45:23.519 --> 00:45:24.159


Like, I don't know.00:45:24.320 --> 00:45:31.679


She this, yeah, she just told me that she couldn't see long term, and like we live in different states, and she was getting, you know, she she really liked.00:45:31.840 --> 00:45:33.119


She actually told me I was one in a million.00:45:33.280 --> 00:45:35.840


I was like, okay, okay, girl with a big TikTok following.00:45:37.199 --> 00:45:39.119


Not that it really matters, but it's funny.00:45:39.280 --> 00:45:44.000


Uh no, so this girl, I was uh I actually matched with her a long time ago.00:45:44.400 --> 00:45:45.920


Very, very attractive girl.00:45:46.719 --> 00:45:48.000


Uh I was at Maya.00:45:48.079 --> 00:45:51.119


I if I go to Scottsdale, I either go to Boondocks or Maya Day Club.00:45:51.199 --> 00:45:52.800


That's I don't go to any other club.00:45:52.880 --> 00:45:54.960


I can't do the shoulder to shoulder stuff, you know.00:45:55.039 --> 00:46:03.039


Like I'm a person that likes to conversate, you know, so like I want to be where I can talk or you know, have some sort of conversation.00:46:03.119 --> 00:46:04.239


And so I was at Maya.00:46:04.320 --> 00:46:08.960


I like to go there during the summertime, show my tattoos, you know, like enjoy it myself.00:46:09.119 --> 00:46:10.079


And this girl came up to me.00:46:10.159 --> 00:46:14.559


I was at the bar and she recognized my tattoo from like when we matched up a couple years ago.00:46:15.440 --> 00:46:18.639


And so she came up and tapped me on the shoulder and she's like, I remember your tattoo, you know.00:46:18.719 --> 00:46:21.280


And I was like, looked to turn around, I was like, no shot.00:46:21.920 --> 00:46:23.039


And she was like, Come with me.00:46:23.119 --> 00:46:24.079


And like, so we hung out.00:46:24.239 --> 00:46:27.519


And yeah, even that night, no, we didn't I didn't hook up with her the first night.00:46:27.599 --> 00:46:29.039


You know, it's a couple days later.00:46:29.280 --> 00:46:32.400


But she was, dude, I beat her ass in bed, like literally.00:46:32.559 --> 00:46:33.760


She wanted it like that.00:46:34.079 --> 00:46:34.800


Like slapping.00:46:35.119 --> 00:46:35.360


Really?00:46:35.599 --> 00:46:40.639


I've never like like whips! No, like oh wow, yeah.00:46:40.800 --> 00:46:42.639


It was a three-timer before I stopped, dude.00:46:42.719 --> 00:46:43.440


I couldn't do it no more.00:46:43.599 --> 00:46:45.679


I was like, okay, now yeah.00:46:46.239 --> 00:46:48.320


The last girl I didn't hit called me Christian Grey.00:46:48.480 --> 00:46:50.960


This would have me beater, the next would have been beater, you know.00:46:51.039 --> 00:46:52.400


So why didn't it work out with her?00:46:52.480 --> 00:46:54.559


Was there a second date or no, hell no?00:46:54.719 --> 00:46:56.400


I left her in California, actually.00:46:56.639 --> 00:46:58.480


Yeah, I took her to California and I left her there.00:46:58.719 --> 00:46:58.960


Why?00:46:59.119 --> 00:46:59.760


Wait, what?00:47:00.000 --> 00:47:00.559


Yeah.00:47:00.800 --> 00:47:02.559


On this last trip that you did?00:47:02.800 --> 00:47:03.679


Uh not this one.00:47:03.760 --> 00:47:05.360


Uh the first week of August.00:47:05.599 --> 00:47:07.280


We I I yeah, I went to Splash House.00:47:07.519 --> 00:47:08.639


So what did she do?00:47:08.960 --> 00:47:13.519


Um, well, so like I took so Splash House was supposed to be like me and four of my friends.00:47:13.920 --> 00:47:16.639


So I paid for everything, and then two of my friends bailed like the day before.00:47:16.719 --> 00:47:18.079


So like I had to find somebody.00:47:18.159 --> 00:47:23.360


And so, like, you know, like me and her were hooking up at the time, and I was like, hey, you know, like you want to come?00:47:23.519 --> 00:47:24.639


You know, she's like, Yeah.00:47:24.880 --> 00:47:25.920


We ended up going.00:47:26.079 --> 00:47:30.239


Uh, I had another ticket that I couldn't get rid of, and so she invited one of her friends.00:47:30.320 --> 00:47:34.159


I had one of my friends who did come, so we're thinking, you know, like have a good time, you know.00:47:34.480 --> 00:47:38.960


Come to find out, she's she's like, Oh yeah, they like my friend's coming with her gay friend, da da da.00:47:39.599 --> 00:47:40.159


This and that.00:47:40.320 --> 00:47:41.280


Dude wasn't gay.00:47:41.519 --> 00:47:42.639


She shows up, yeah.00:47:42.719 --> 00:47:44.800


They show up in the hotel room, dude and girls making out.00:47:44.880 --> 00:47:46.880


I'm like, See, I'm like, yo, I'm like, I thought you were gay.00:47:46.960 --> 00:47:47.440


Are you bi?00:47:47.920 --> 00:47:52.880


He's like, No, I'm like, oh, I'm like, these girls just played me, like straight up played me for the tickets.00:47:53.840 --> 00:47:55.920


So you didn't have your other friend come.00:47:56.159 --> 00:47:57.280


I had one friend come with me.00:47:57.440 --> 00:47:57.599


Okay.00:47:58.000 --> 00:47:59.760


The main one that I made the original plans with.00:47:59.920 --> 00:48:02.960


Two other friends, they said that they would come if I bought their tickets.00:48:03.199 --> 00:48:04.000


They lived in LA.00:48:04.239 --> 00:48:04.480


Okay.00:48:04.719 --> 00:48:07.679


So, like, we were all gonna meet for my birthday because my birthday is August 12th.00:48:07.840 --> 00:48:08.079


Okay.00:48:08.239 --> 00:48:12.480


And so, like, we were going to see Diplo at the airport and Palm Springs at Splash House.00:48:12.559 --> 00:48:13.119


It was a whole time.00:48:13.440 --> 00:48:16.320


So she literally bought another dude who she was.00:48:16.719 --> 00:48:18.320


The other girl, not the girl that I brought.00:48:18.400 --> 00:48:18.480


Okay.00:48:18.880 --> 00:48:21.360


Her friend brought another guy that they're gonna get away.00:48:21.840 --> 00:48:30.079


Yeah, it's like the guy bought a ticket for himself, but then but then I gave my fourth ticket to her friend because she said she was single, attractive, coming with a gay friend.00:48:30.159 --> 00:48:32.800


I'm thinking maybe I'll hook up my friend if they hit it off type shit.00:48:33.039 --> 00:48:34.239


Yeah, oh that's fucked up.00:48:34.400 --> 00:48:38.079


Yeah, and so when they get there, dude, and that girl's making out, and I'm just like, are you bi, bro?00:48:38.239 --> 00:48:39.039


And he's like, No.00:48:39.199 --> 00:48:41.360


And I was like, like, something's not right.00:48:41.440 --> 00:48:43.599


And I'm like, I'm like, she's like, oh ha ha.00:48:43.679 --> 00:48:44.800


Like thought it was funny, you know.00:48:44.880 --> 00:48:47.119


I'm like, dude, those tickets are 600 bucks a piece, you know?00:48:47.760 --> 00:48:54.559


Like, and so, like, uh, it just got worse because, you know, like I I was enjoying myself.00:48:54.719 --> 00:48:57.280


She went to the like it started like day one.00:48:57.440 --> 00:49:00.880


Like, the girl got there and I was just like a third wheel almost, you know what I mean?00:49:00.960 --> 00:49:03.199


It was just like it ruined, it ruined it all.00:49:03.360 --> 00:49:11.920


And then she was getting so sloppy, she started hanging all over dudes, like on yeah, on Saturday night, like we she wanted to go to the after party after the party.00:49:12.480 --> 00:49:14.000


Scott still girls.00:49:16.000 --> 00:49:19.840


I'm like, you know, like I'm ready to go to bed, it's 3 30, you know.00:49:19.920 --> 00:49:23.840


Like I've been going for two days, not two days straight, but like partying for two days now.00:49:23.920 --> 00:49:24.880


You know, I don't really do that.00:49:24.960 --> 00:49:26.800


I'm not really someone to go party like that.00:49:26.880 --> 00:49:28.400


I'm I'm a homebody a lot.00:49:28.559 --> 00:49:32.079


I do a lot of stuff, but I like I'm typically when I'm in Phoenix, I'm a homebody.00:49:32.159 --> 00:49:33.440


A daughter work and home.00:49:33.519 --> 00:49:37.920


Like, I you'll catch me on boondocks on Thursdays and Sundays typically, you know.00:49:38.719 --> 00:49:41.760


Um But yeah, no, like so.00:49:41.840 --> 00:49:45.840


We went to the after party and then I watched her walk out.00:49:46.000 --> 00:49:49.840


I I looked over and she was in the crowd wrapped up around this dude's arm, and I was just like in shock.00:49:49.920 --> 00:49:51.039


I'm like, no way, dude.00:49:51.119 --> 00:49:53.840


Like, so I let it all happen because I'm not like gonna call this drama.00:49:53.920 --> 00:49:55.840


I'm the I'm like not a drama person at all.00:49:55.920 --> 00:49:57.760


Like this in one ear, out the other.00:49:57.840 --> 00:50:00.400


So I just watched it happen, watched her leave.00:50:00.639 --> 00:50:06.239


I went outside like after five minutes, and she's sitting there talking to the guy, and I walk up and I was like, What's up, bro?00:50:06.320 --> 00:50:09.920


You know, introduce myself, and and uh she's like, Oh yeah, this is my friend.00:50:10.000 --> 00:50:12.719


Like, we I we've known each other for two years, da da da da.00:50:12.880 --> 00:50:14.880


I'm gonna go to his after party and this and that.00:50:14.960 --> 00:50:16.559


Like, I was like, Okay, cool, you know, whatever.00:50:16.639 --> 00:50:17.679


Can you give me the room key then?00:50:17.760 --> 00:50:20.079


Because she had it because she was carrying the purse, you know.00:50:20.320 --> 00:50:26.320


And so she's like, Yeah, and then like dude was kind of like telling her no, and she was like chasing him around like a puppy dog.00:50:26.400 --> 00:50:27.199


It was crazy.00:50:27.360 --> 00:50:30.239


I've never seen that, but like, dude's like, I think you should just stay with your friends.00:50:30.320 --> 00:50:33.280


Like, I'm gonna go with my friends, like our Uber's kind of full, you know.00:50:33.440 --> 00:50:35.119


And like she just wasn't having it.00:50:35.199 --> 00:50:38.480


And so then she came back and she's like, you know, I didn't get to go because of you.00:50:38.639 --> 00:50:40.960


And I was like, I was like, what?00:50:41.280 --> 00:50:43.280


Like, are you kidding me right now?00:50:43.519 --> 00:50:46.719


And she was like, Yeah, she's like, Because I'm with you, he didn't want me to come with you.00:50:46.800 --> 00:50:48.400


I'm like, Well, you shouldn't be going with him anyway.00:50:48.480 --> 00:50:53.840


If you want me to be honest, like I brought you here, and she's like, Oh, you just think that I'm gonna be your fuck buddy the whole weekend that you're here.00:50:53.920 --> 00:50:59.039


I'm like, not really, that's not my intention, but we were hooking up before, you know, like this is my birthday weekend.00:50:59.119 --> 00:51:02.480


You're trying to go home with another dude that I brought you and your friend a ticket.00:51:02.719 --> 00:51:06.400


Like, so it just started escalating and getting worse.00:51:06.480 --> 00:51:10.320


Like, like as we were walking back to the hotel, you know, and I was like, you know what?00:51:10.480 --> 00:51:14.559


I was like, You you brought your friends, I paid for the ticket, you guys enjoy Sunday.00:51:14.880 --> 00:51:16.880


Go get a room, get out of my room.00:51:17.119 --> 00:51:21.039


And so she's like, You're really gonna kick a girl out of the out of her room and leave her in California.00:51:21.199 --> 00:51:24.559


I was like, Yeah, I'm like, the way you've done me, I'm like, Yeah, you showed your true self.00:51:24.639 --> 00:51:26.159


Like, I don't fuck with people like that.00:51:26.400 --> 00:51:31.920


You know, I live by things I live by the things in life, and it's honesty, loyalty, respect, and communication.00:51:32.079 --> 00:51:34.960


If you're honest to me, you're loyal to me, you respect me, you communicate with me.00:51:35.039 --> 00:51:37.039


The only last thing in the world is building the bridge.00:51:37.119 --> 00:51:41.280


So, like, if you can do those, you don't cross those umbrellas with me, then we'll always have a relationship.00:51:41.360 --> 00:51:48.159


Whether it's uh spouse, friend, acquaintance, whatever, like those four things are like I live by that, you know.00:51:48.480 --> 00:51:49.440


So so what happened?00:51:49.519 --> 00:51:51.119


So did you did you drive there with her?00:51:51.280 --> 00:51:52.159


Yeah, I took her.00:51:52.480 --> 00:51:53.360


And so how did she get home?00:51:53.440 --> 00:51:54.079


Did you speak to her?00:51:54.239 --> 00:51:57.280


I mean, I would assume because her friend came from California and she probably went with her.00:51:57.360 --> 00:51:59.360


I mean, and that was probably another reason why I did it, you know.00:51:59.599 --> 00:52:00.159


Yeah, that's true.00:52:00.239 --> 00:52:02.800


It kind of would have been You wouldn't have completely stranded her.00:52:03.039 --> 00:52:03.760


Probably not.00:52:03.840 --> 00:52:07.199


And like she made me feel guilty, like, oh, how are you gonna kick your girl in the hotel room?00:52:07.280 --> 00:52:11.920


You know, like you brought me here, and I'm just like, you're disrespecting me in the most rudest way.00:52:12.079 --> 00:52:18.559


Like, like how are you gonna try to go home with another guy when a guy at 4 30 in the morning?00:52:18.719 --> 00:52:23.119


Yeah, like and and not only that, it was just like it was just weird.00:52:23.280 --> 00:52:30.079


Like, we were like, I was in the pool, she went to the bathroom, and she had my phone and everything in her bag because like she had the bag at the time, so she's like, Hey, I'm gonna go to the bathroom.00:52:30.159 --> 00:52:33.199


I'm like floating around in a ball in the pool, you know, just talking.00:52:33.360 --> 00:52:34.159


People are compliment.00:52:34.320 --> 00:52:37.920


I always get compliments on my back, like it's it's beautiful, you know.00:52:38.000 --> 00:52:38.639


I know that.00:52:38.880 --> 00:52:46.800


And so, like, these girls were this talking, just giving me conversation, and she came back and seen me talking to these other girls in the pool and lost it.00:52:46.960 --> 00:52:51.280


And like, the but the whole time on the way there, she's like, We're not together, we're not dating, you know.00:52:51.360 --> 00:52:55.280


Like, she's like, I know that I'm with you this weekend, da da da, we'll have a good time, this and that.00:52:55.360 --> 00:52:56.480


And it was complete opposite.00:52:56.559 --> 00:52:59.599


Like, she was just it was a disaster, yeah.00:52:59.760 --> 00:53:04.880


Like that, and so I I made her leave, and then her friends were all they were all fucked up, and they're like, Are you gonna make us leave too?00:53:04.960 --> 00:53:08.079


And I'm like, Well, it's kind of rude if you just leave your friend outside, you know.00:53:08.159 --> 00:53:09.920


Like, I had to like walk them out too.00:53:10.000 --> 00:53:11.440


They didn't want to go, they're like, That's her part.00:53:11.599 --> 00:53:13.760


They knew that she was in the wrong, they even agreed with me.00:53:13.840 --> 00:53:15.840


They're like, Yeah, they're like, What you're doing is wrong.00:53:16.000 --> 00:53:19.119


Like, this guy literally, whether you guys are together or not, he brought you here.00:53:19.199 --> 00:53:20.320


You should give him that respect.00:53:20.400 --> 00:53:23.280


What even if we didn't hook up the whole weekend, all I wanted was the respect.00:53:23.360 --> 00:53:25.280


Yeah, like I don't care about the hooking up part.00:53:25.360 --> 00:53:27.199


Like, Scott Style Girls for you.00:53:27.519 --> 00:53:28.480


Do you have any other questions?00:53:28.559 --> 00:53:30.159


Do you have anything else you want to add?00:53:30.480 --> 00:53:31.840


Um, I don't think so.00:53:32.320 --> 00:53:36.000


Well, thank you so much for joining us this week at the meat market, and thank you so much, Richard.00:53:36.079 --> 00:53:41.760


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Is that right?00:53:50.960 --> 00:53:51.360


You got it.00:53:51.440 --> 00:53:51.679


Yes.00:53:51.760 --> 00:53:53.599


We'll see you next week at the meat market.00:53:54.239 --> 00:53:55.440


Thank you, guys.00:53:55.679 --> 00:53:58.559


Oh my god, I just totally got catfished.00:53:58.639 --> 00:54:00.719


He looks absolutely nothing like his picture.00:54:00.960 --> 00:54:05.760


So I found out the guy that I've been dating is married with kids.00:54:05.920 --> 00:54:08.400


His wife just reached out to me.