Inside Scottsdale Nightlife: A Bachelorette Host Spills All 😏

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Oh my god, I just totally got catfished.

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He looks absolutely nothing like his picture.

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So I found out the guy that I've been dating is married with kids.

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His wife just reached out to me.

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Welcome to the meat market.

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The single scene is a slaughterhouse, and we are here to devour it.

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We are your hosts.

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I'm Lindsay.

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I'm Jess.

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And today's sizzling single is Hayden.

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Welcome.

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Thanks for having me, guys.

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So you are a bachelorette party host in Old Town Scottsdale.

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Oh, the stories you must have.

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Are women as scandalous as we hear?

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Uh I would say no.

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No.

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That's a little bit more played out than what you hear, because you only hear the bad.

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You never really hear the good.

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You know what I'm saying?

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So I've been around a lot of parties, and I'm not gonna say they don't get a little bit crazy, but for the most part, it there's a lot of times it's more chill.

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Um, but definitely working at the clubs too, you see a lot of stuff go down that so has your view on women changed since working with a lot of bachelorette parties?

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Because we have friends that we are friends with some of the guys from Thunder from Down Under, and they have a lot of bachelorette parties coming in, and they see these bachelorettes cheat on their fiancees who's who they're gonna marry.

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And so they their view of women is just like in the weeds.

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They're like, we do not trust women.

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Do you have you seen stuff like that that's kind of altered your perception of women?

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Not altered it, but just kind of makes you a lot more aware and a lot more like not naive, you know?

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It's just like you put somebody in an environment where there's alcohol and people having fun and maybe you don't have the best influences, and a lot of people aren't strong enough to make their own decisions, I would say.

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So whatever their environment, whatever people around them are influencing them to do, they're gonna do that.

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They probably go home if you're like a piece of shit, you know, as you should.

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But I mean, I would say it's more environmentally, so it's just like being smart about it.

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Like for me, unfortunately, my wife, she's gonna have a bachelorette party, but it's gonna be a joint bachelorette party.

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So it'll be like Bachelor Bachelorette party.

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I see those are super cool.

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Um, or another smart thing to do is like bring like your significant others, like mom or sister or something like that on the trip.

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They gotta die on your ass.

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Yeah, so that's like the smartest things I would say to do.

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So it's just like just moving a little bit different and realizing that like times are different.

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And that's actually smart.

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My mom's gonna join.

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She really wants to go.

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She would love to be there.

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Be the spy.

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Right.

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And for me, a lot of times, like the moms are super fun too.

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Like when I do like the bachelorette parties, like they're always like high energy, like making sure everybody's good.

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It's like another helping hand, too, which you don't really need, but I think sometimes it's fun to have moms.

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My cousin recently had a bachelorette party, and she invited her mom and then my mom, also, who her aunt or whatever.

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Um, and they had a like a great time.

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Yeah, and my sister-in-law invited her mom, and I think my mom on hers year that was like 12 years ago, I think that my brother and her got married, but it like it made it fun.

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It's fun to have moms so long.

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I think mom's gonna be the craziest, the wildest.

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Definitely.

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They bring the party for sure.

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But it's kind of like a cool bonding experience, I guess.

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I mean, I'm haven't been obviously in a bachelorette party, so I don't really know.

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But I can imagine if you bring like your mom or like your fiance's mom, like it's a time to get closer, get to know each other, and see yourselves in like a different light.

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So I feel like it's a good thing overall, because I mean family's the most important, so you may as well have family around.

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What's the craziest thing you've seen out and about in Old Town?

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The craziest thing I've seen.

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Man.

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I've seen a lot, but I would say one story that I have is when I was promoting, um I didn't know she was a bride at the time because brides were white, right?

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And they wear normally something that says the bride or something like that.

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She was in like pink.

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So like we were like hanging out, whatever.

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Um, she just kind of came up to me, and then she started kissing me in the club.

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Or I guess yeah, I guess I started kissing her, but same thing, either or.

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But anyway, so yeah, so I have no clue, like, she's like the bride at this point.

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So now it's like like 1.30 in the morning, she finally like tells me she's the bride.

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And it's like, oh shit.

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Okay, but I was like, I mean, we're kinda already this far, so it's like at this point, like, what am I gonna do?

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Like, it's not my problem, not my fault.

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And like, if it wasn't me, she's gonna cheat with somebody else too.

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So it's like, I'm already like in the mix right there.

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But I was like, I'm not gonna do anything crazy.

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The clubs are about to close.

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So then like 15, 20 minutes goes by, and it's like 10 minutes before the clubs close.

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And she's like, let's go outside.

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And I'm thinking, like, okay, like maybe like her group went out there, she's like trying to find her friend.

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So I'm like, okay, cool, I got you.

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So we go outside, and then she like looks around, she's like, Oh fuck.

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And I was like, what?

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Like he has to go outside.

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We're outside, like, what's the problem?

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She goes, There's people out here, and I go, Yeah, no shit.

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The club's gonna close in 10 minutes.

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Like, obviously, there's people, it's old town, there's 20 different clubs around here.

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And I was like, like, what's the problem?

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She goes, I want you, uh, she's like, I want you to fuck me behind the club.

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And I was like, What?

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You're getting married in like 10, 20 days.

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Scandalous, yeah.

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And I was like, You're fucking wild for that one.

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Do you know what she told her fiance?

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No clue, I don't even know her name.

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So I don't know what she told him.

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Probably not a damn thing.

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Sure not.

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That would be my thing.

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Is like, what would you say?

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How would you go back home and just like be normal and get married?

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Oh, I'm sure she didn't say anything, right?

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But the stories I hear, it sounds like women are worse than men, right?

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Or just as bad.

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Or just as bad.

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I think everybody sucks equally, to be honest.

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My question is, why would you get married if you're still doing that?

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She clearly wants to do that, right?

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Make out with random guys.

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So why would you get married?

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Maybe her fiance is also cheating on her.

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Maybe they're just in a toxic relationship and they just cheat on each other.

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I feel like it's like I don't know.

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This is my thing, is like I realize like girls when they get married, a lot of times the guy is like a lot less look good looking than them.

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A lot of times they're marrying like uglier people.

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I feel like it's more like a security thing to where they're like, oh, he's not that attractive, he won't cheat on me.

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Like, not a bunch of girls are gonna go hit on him, or he's gonna feel like he's got somebody that's way out of his league, so he's not gonna do anything like to jeopardize that.

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And then when a girl goes out and has fun and starts getting a little bit of attention and starts being around some better looking people, some people that have money, things change real quick, and they'll sacrifice a moment of fun for like a lifetime, you know what I'm saying?

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Or I wonder if she was like marrying an older guy for his money and he's old and not so attractive, and then she's out with these young.

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Maybe, maybe.

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That's funny.

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I remember my sister's bachelorette party here and God, it was like in like 2015.

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Um, and everybody came here from the Midwest.

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She lived here also at that time.

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Um, and so I planned it and we went to one of the clubs.

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You remember Mint?

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Oh, yeah.

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So we had a table at Mint in 2015, and I just remember like all the girls were so small town.

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It wasn't even on anybody's radar to be like that way in the club because they it was like the first time they'd ever ex even experienced a club because they were all coming from such a small town.

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But now the city I feel like has changed so much that it's this destination place for bachelor and bachelorette parties.

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Like the expectations have changed.

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Yeah.

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Because the bachelor party that we met that one weekend, remember?

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They were all married, or at least remember the Bradley Cooper looking guy, yeah.

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Was married and how scandalous he was.

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How scandal he was hitting on everyone like freaking had boobs.

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He really was.

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And then didn't you went on a date with one of the guys and then you found out that he was married, right?

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No, I don't know.

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I I don't know that he was married.

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But you just it's just I kind of maybe.

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Oh my god.

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There were some, there were some yeah, there were some questionable things.

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He may, he may have been married.

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They're probably like, oh, we're in a different country now.

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It doesn't count.

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But now that I think about it, we know someone, a mutual friend.

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I'm not gonna name their names, but during her first marriage, her bachelorette party in Vegas, she cheated.

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She had sex with a guy in Vegas and came back, married the guy, and never told him, never told anyone.

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And she told me, and I was like, dang, how could why would you Did you go on the Bachelorette party?

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I didn't.

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I met her right after.

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Oh, you did?

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Do I know who I do?

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I'm trying to think who it is.

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But anyway, but that's yeah, it's crazy how many women do that.

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Like on the Bachelorette party.

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I know.

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I don't feel so guilty.

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I don't that's the thing that I don't get.

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Like when like Bachelor Bachelorette parties come, they're like, oh, it's my last time to have fun, it's my last time for freedom.

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I'm like, when the fuck are your last time for fun or freedom was when you first started dating the person?

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Right.

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Like, fuck you mean like when you put a ring on somebody, like the next day it doesn't change anything.

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It's so true.

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You know what I'm saying?

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Like, all it is is basically a financial agreement and like a fucking shiny little object that you have on your finger.

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So it's like nothing changed from the when you guys first started dating until now, but people just get these expectations, they just get a little they want to have fun, let them, you know?

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As long as it doesn't happen to me.

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Because my girl cheats on me, hell, though.

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Everybody else.

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So do you get hit on a lot when you're out and about during these parties?

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Um I would say yeah, because it's just like you and somebody else.

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Like when you're like doing the pool boys like you don't really get hit on, but like who else are they gonna talk to?

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Who else are they gonna give your attention to?

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You know what I'm saying?

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And then when we come, like we wear like swim shorts, like it's funny.

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A lot of girls will be like, oh, we're expecting you to pull up in like stripper outfits or like speedos or some shit.

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I'm like, we're like three levels above that.

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Not like too far above a stripper, but pretty far.

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You know, close enough.

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So it's like, I mean, the environment's good, everybody gets drinking, but when you're around like 10, 15 girls like that, the whole point of the job too, like, out of everything, is to make sure the bride is having the best time, making sure she's taken care of, making sure she's having fun with all her groups.

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Like, that's the main focus.

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So, like, when you're working there, like, yeah, like people do try to hit on you or do this, that third, but it's just like you just gotta keep the main thing the main thing, which is making sure the bride is having a good time, making sure the group feels all included.

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So, how do you do that?

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Uh you give two seconds of your attention here, two seconds of your attention there, go check on the bride, make sure she's okay, ask them if they need anything.

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If you're ever in like a sticky situation where you're like, damn, I might not get in trouble, but like I gotta get out of this one.

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I'll just be like, Oh yeah, oh yeah, I forgot I I gotta go make some shots for you guys, or I gotta go get a drink for the bride.

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Like, I'm sorry about that.

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I'll be back in one second, come back in like 10 minutes.

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And so it's just like you just kind of figure out little ways to move.

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Every man's dream job.

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I wish you guys would have been around when I was planning my sister's bachelorette party because you would have made my job.

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Because like basically, like, I was you know what I mean?

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Like, I would have loved to have a pool boy making us drinks and making rounds of shots and bringing them to us in our little cabana at the pool.

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That would have been cute.

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Yeah, and then you always you always check with the group too.

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Like when you first walk in, kind of like what's your guys' vibe?

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Like, is some groups want to like go crazy and drink a bunch and like party and be wild.

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Other groups are more just like, we kind of just want you guys just like chill in the background.

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If we need you, we'll ask.

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And we can do that too.

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So it's like you just match whatever that group is.

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So it's like every party is different, every person is different.

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But while you're on the clock for the two or three hours that you're there, you're locked in and you're working.

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Like it's not like a fuck around thing, you know what I'm saying?

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Like it's still an expensive service, and they still expect you to be professional.

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So it's like a line of like being professional but still fun at the same time and making sure like everybody's having a good time.

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So you're kind of like a bottle girl, but for a bachelor at parties, pretty much.

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And they tip you.

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Yeah, yeah, though they'll tip.

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Uh sometimes they want us to stay for an hour.

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We'll figure out something to go along the lines with that.

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But we do everything from like playing drinking games.

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I've always I've already said making them drinks, but also too, we grill.

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So like they love it when like they they'll have like steaks or like burgers or some shit like that, and they're like, Can you grill this for me?

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Um, and you're in your little swim shorts.

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Oh, that's cute.

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I'm just vibing over there, just get a little drink.

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And then, like, normally at that point, like you kind of already played your drinking games, like they're kind of like wanting to hang out at this point as far as like doing something.

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So I'll just be growing, those I'll come hang out.

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Are you allowed to drink with them?

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Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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You can drink with them for sure, which is fun.

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I mean, you can't get too drunk because you got a job to do, but what kind of job like that would you not want to drink at?

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You know, it'd just be boring if you couldn't drink.

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All right.

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Would you say that a lot of the bachelorettes and their friends are they from out of town?

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Because I know that Scottsdale's the number two place for bachelorette parties now.

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Would you say it's mostly people from out of town?

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Mostly out of town.

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I think out of all the parties I've done this year, like 30, 40, there's maybe been like two where they're like actually from here.

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Sometimes we'll have like a mix of people that like they know that live out here that will pull up, but generally it's from people that are from out of town.

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Um, a lot of people from like smaller cities, like you're saying.

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Um, so yeah, it all depends.

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They come from everywhere.

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Canada.

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I love Canadian women.

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A lot of Canadians come here for their bachelor's.

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Canadian people are so fun.

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Yeah, they have to be a good idea.

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Have you ever had a gay bachelor party?

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No, I haven't.

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Would you do it?

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Uh they would love it.

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I feel like you would, yeah, it might that might be a little bit of a I'll say it is that that's a little bit of a stretch, but what I will say is my friend who has done a gay bachelor party like that said they tip the best out of anybody.

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Honestly, now that I think about the money, I would do it.

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Yeah, I would do it.

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But because like he kind of told me like like they were pretty respectful and whatever, and obviously, like some of one or two of them did get like a little touchy.

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So, but you just like tell him, like, bro, you know, I don't I don't go that way.

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Yeah, I go right, I don't go left.

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So it's like you ain't gonna get very far.

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Yeah.

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Then you're gonna piss me off.

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So do you date many Scottsdale girls?

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How do you feel about Scottsel girls?

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I know they have quite the reputation.

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I've had I moved down here four years ago.

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From where?

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Uh I'm from Vancouver, Washington, originally, um, like right next to Portland, Oregon.

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So I moved here like during COVID.

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So I've had one girlfriend down here, or I've had had one girlfriend.

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It was like a year, year and a half.

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Uh, it just didn't work out.

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But um, so I wouldn't say that I like date like that a lot in Scottsdale.

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It's to me, it's like it's a little bit different because like everybody knows everybody down here.

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So it's like a lot of people know the same people.

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Um, especially in the club scene.

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Yeah, exactly.

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And it's like, like, I'm not trying to have a date a girl where like my friends have been with or like multiple people I know have been with.

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Like, I'm cool out there.

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So it's like I don't, it's really hard to date in like that club scene right there.

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But as far as like Arizona in general, like bringing it out a little bit from Scots to like Chandler and like Gilbert or Glendale, those, like, there's there's good girls everywhere.

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So it's like you just gotta find girls that probably aren't in that scene.

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And there's nothing wrong with them being in that scene.

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Like, it's cool.

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I'm in that scene too, so it's like I get it.

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But as far as like taking somebody like actually serious and stuff, probably don't want to bring a girl home to your mom that's in the club four nights a week.

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Do people hook up with people that work at the same club that you're at?

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Do you guys all kind of I don't like like the workers?

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Like, but do you like have you ever hooked up with a bottle girl or a bartender?

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I I mean I don't know about what people really do like too much, like on like that front.

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Um just because I kind of try to stay out of people's business.

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Like what what they do.

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Um, I know all the bottle girls are really cool though.

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So they're always fun to talk to and hang out with, and they make the job a lot more um enjoyable.

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So, and like I do promo, so it's kind of like for them to like come to our table all the time, it's like not something they really want to do because like a lot of times people aren't really like tipping or paying like that.

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But for me, they're all super cool.

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They always hook me up.

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I'm always taking care of really good.

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So I fuck with all of them.

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I think they're really cool.

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But I mean, as far as like I don't know, they're around probably some of the richest people in the world, ball players, um people spending big money, 10k, 20k, 30k.

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So I I imagine they could probably have fun.

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But I feel like I have to ask them.

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I feel like a lot of girls who aren't in the club scene would look at someone like you who is in the club scene as a red flag.

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Like I feel like club promoters automatically are red flags to women who aren't in the club scene.

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Do you find that that's an issue with dating?

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Do you have girls that that kind of prejudge?

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I mean, yes and no.

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I feel like obviously it's a red flag because like my job is to go up to girls 24-7 and bring them into the club and drink with them and hang out.

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So it's like, yes, a red flag, but it's like, I mean, honestly, like red flags are also a good thing.

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Like, no girl wants like some dude that just sits at home and does nothing and talks to nobody, like that's a red flag too.

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Exactly.

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That's even worse.

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At least you're a hustler.

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Exactly.

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Girls want like somebody that works hard, like girls want to be around somebody that girls want to be around with.

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It's like if you're hanging out with like a super hot girl or super hot group of girls, like all the girls will be looking at you like because they're they're not stupid, like they know they're really attractive.

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So they're like, what does he have to offer?

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Is it money?

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Is he funny?

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Is he the gay best friend?

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Like, like who is that?

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Like, I want to get to know who he is.

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So it's like more of an intriguing thing, and then it's like So what do you have to offer?

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Shit.

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How old are you?

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First of all, you uh 27.

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27, okay.

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27.

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Man, what do I have to offer?

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I don't know.

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I'm a good time.

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You're not the gay best friend.

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We've already established.

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I don't know.

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I feel like I'm a good time, I'm funny.

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Whole conversation is really good.

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I just have a good time, I don't take life like too serious, you know.

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I try to have fun with what I do and what are you are you looking to get married and have kids?

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Eventually.

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Eventually.

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Yeah, at one point for sure.

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I think what's that what's your longest relationship?

00:17:49.119 --> 00:17:50.400
Uh that's a good question.

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How long were you together?

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Four and a half years.

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Oh, okay.

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Yeah, so I was 18 and then we broke up like probably like three months after I moved out here.

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So that's a whole story too.

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But yeah, so that so four and a half years and then also a year and a half relationship.

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So now that I think of it, I've been in a relationship for a lot of my fucking life.

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Do you like being in a relationship?

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I do.

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You do?

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Yeah, yeah.

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I think it's cool.

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I like having like one person there, like somebody that's around all the time, because I don't do good when I'm like by myself, you know, or like I just always have to be like around people.

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So for me, it's like I like that constant person being there.

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I like to have like somebody that I can like trust and depend on.

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Uh this kind of sounds I don't know, shocking, maybe.

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I don't know.

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But I don't like drinking.

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So all my job, not all my jobs, but two out of my three of my jobs, it's around drinking, club promoting, being a pool boy for bachelorette parties.

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I drink because of the environment I'm in and it's what we do.

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And it it's fun, don't get me wrong, but if I had it my way, if I could be out and drinking and being single and wilding or whatever, or I could just be at home chilling, probably smoking a little bit of weed, hanging out.

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Like I would way rather have that with somebody that like I know, I love and I trust versus like fucking off and drinking and going off two hours of sleep every other day.

00:19:08.960 --> 00:19:11.440
So you said two out of your three jobs, what's your third job?

00:19:11.680 --> 00:19:16.240
Uh I manage uh teeth whitening in a spray tan place in Disgusta.

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Are a hard worker.

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I feel like that's not very common in the younger generation, right?

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Yeah, we're I work seven days a week and early nights, long wait, how do you say that?

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Early mornings, long nights.

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Wow.

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So I mean ambitious.

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Generally Thursday through Sunday, I probably sleep in an average of three to four hours.

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And then I try to make up some Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, but I like I don't know, I don't really sleep that much anyway.

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So like even on my days off, I go to bed at like 3 a.m.

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and I gotta be up at like like around 8 39.

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So it's like in all of your jobs, you're surrounded by women because it's like teeth whitening and tanning.

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Oh my god, that's true.

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Club promotions and bachelorette parties.

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So whoever dates you has to be super, super secure.

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I was gonna say, it's gonna take a very confident, strong, secure woman to date you.

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Because I know a lot of women would be like, hell no, you are always around pretty women.

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No, also, then how are you single?

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Because if you're around, do you ever hit, do you ever, I guess I shouldn't say hit on, do you ever approach women that you meet at work?

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Or have you tried?

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Uh like with the teeth whitening?

00:20:20.480 --> 00:20:21.599
And and any of the jobs.

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I guess not the bachelorette parties, probably, unless you know they're single.

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No, definitely, yeah.

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Yeah.

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I mean, all the when I mean when I'm working, like I I gotta go up to like the girls, you know?

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As far like whether it's like a group of like five girls that are friends, or whether it's like a group of like 15 girls, bachelorette party, just go up to them.

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And honestly, it's super easy.

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It's not it's not hard at all.

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Everybody's like scared to get rejected, whatever.

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Like, I get excited for like when I go up to a group, I'm like, yeah, I just like to get my first no out of the way.

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Like I'm going up there and I'm like, I'm literally walking up to group and I'm like, please tell me no, please be a bitch, please be rude.

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Just the first one because once you get the first one out of the way, then you're like all the nerves are gone, you're like, fuck this shit.

00:21:02.480 --> 00:21:03.039
Good thinking.

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And I'm like, then I realize once I get my first no out the way, then I got like hella people or hella girls that I'm like I'm bringing in and talking to.

00:21:10.000 --> 00:21:21.359
But if it's a night where like it's a little bit dead and like there's not that many groups, and it's like 11 and then and I don't go really up to anybody and get that like first no, like I'll find myself like not talking to as many girls or whatever.

00:21:21.440 --> 00:21:23.680
So it's like really I think rejection is a really good thing.

00:21:23.759 --> 00:21:25.759
Yeah, it's something that everybody needs to get.

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And I think I learned that when I was doing door-to-door sales, because you get the door slammed in your face, all that, that like rejection is a good thing.

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Like, obviously, I'm like, I want them to come with me to hang out because if I'm going up to them, either A it's a big group and they're gonna be a lot of money, or B, they're probably pretty good looking.

00:21:41.039 --> 00:21:42.960
So I'm like, don't tell me now.

00:21:43.119 --> 00:21:45.200
But uh yeah, so have you ever cheated?

00:21:45.519 --> 00:21:45.759
No.

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No, have you ever walked out mid-date?

00:21:48.559 --> 00:21:50.799
I have not either all my dates have gone good.

00:21:51.039 --> 00:21:51.279
Really?

00:21:51.519 --> 00:21:52.400
Yeah, I was just gonna ask you.

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I haven't physically cheated.

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I've I I forgot the words.

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I don't know.

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Yeah, that word.

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I was like, that's a made-up word.

00:22:00.480 --> 00:22:01.200
I don't even know what that means.

00:22:01.440 --> 00:22:02.480
You know, at least you admit it.

00:22:03.119 --> 00:22:03.920
Yeah, I'd admit that.

00:22:04.079 --> 00:22:08.480
Like when I was in like my first relationship, I was like dancing on a girl at a party.

00:22:08.640 --> 00:22:10.880
So I got in trouble for that one, obviously.

00:22:11.039 --> 00:22:24.160
And then the other one, um, I was I texted some girl something that I I didn't mean it the way it sounded and looked, but like either or like A, I shouldn't have even texted her back, B what I said, I probably shouldn't have said that one.

00:22:24.319 --> 00:22:26.480
But the way it came across wasn't the way.

00:22:26.799 --> 00:22:27.440
But yeah.

00:22:27.680 --> 00:22:33.279
So you said it's a whole another story how you ended things with your ex is what happened there?

00:22:33.440 --> 00:22:36.079
Why did you break things off with your four and a half relationship?

00:22:36.319 --> 00:22:40.480
Um it was so like during COVID, obviously everything was different.

00:22:40.559 --> 00:22:42.400
It was like trapped in the house.

00:22:42.640 --> 00:22:46.240
Um things were going good, but then I just kind of got this.

00:22:46.319 --> 00:22:53.359
I always had this thing in the back of my head where like I wanted to like to be single and kind of do that thing, you know what I'm saying?

00:22:53.519 --> 00:22:56.720
Um I never went, I graduated from Arizona State, but I went online.

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So I never like went to like a four-year college and like all that stuff, like party like that.

00:23:01.599 --> 00:23:08.480
So as I kind of got older, it just kind of like kept like I don't know the right word, kept itching at me or whatever you want to call it.

00:23:08.640 --> 00:23:11.599
So it just kind of like got to a point where I was like, ah fuck.

00:23:11.759 --> 00:23:16.319
And then my roommate at the time, he was like, yo, you trying to move to Arizona?

00:23:16.400 --> 00:23:18.880
Like there's this like job opportunity out there.

00:23:19.039 --> 00:23:23.599
And at that point, I was just kind of ready to get out of my my environment I was in.

00:23:23.839 --> 00:23:36.960
So I just felt like I felt like life was too easy because I graduated um high school, and then two years later I was coaching football at my old high school, and then I was also going to school to be a school teacher.

00:23:37.039 --> 00:23:40.000
Um in Washington, they make really good money being a school teacher.

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And I'd have like three months off out of the year, and I was already set with the coaching and the other stuff I was doing on the side.

00:23:46.240 --> 00:23:49.599
So I was like, I had a girlfriend, and that was really great.

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And uh, so I just felt like I had everything going, but I was like, damn, this shit's too easy.

00:23:54.160 --> 00:23:58.400
Like, I need a challenge, I need something to like wake me up in the morning, you know what I'm saying?

00:23:58.480 --> 00:24:07.599
And then when my roommates started talking about it, and I kind of was tired of Washington, just raining all the time, nothing to do, it's great, it's boring, people suck.

00:24:07.839 --> 00:24:09.759
So it's just like get me out of here.

00:24:09.839 --> 00:24:12.720
And so when I had a chance to get out of here, I moved here, I didn't even visit here.

00:24:13.039 --> 00:24:14.640
Like I'd never been here before I moved here.

00:24:14.720 --> 00:24:16.400
I'd only been to three states before I moved here.

00:24:16.480 --> 00:24:17.119
So that's another thing.

00:24:17.200 --> 00:24:18.880
I didn't travel and see the world like that.

00:24:19.359 --> 00:24:24.559
So then kind of just was like, okay, kind of told my ex like, hey, I'm gonna move there.

00:24:24.960 --> 00:24:26.160
I'm gonna see if I like it.

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For if I like it for a year, like you'll come down here with me.

00:24:29.680 --> 00:24:33.599
But I don't want to move you down here and cause I don't even know if I like it.

00:24:33.839 --> 00:24:40.160
But at the same time, it's fucked up because it's like, why wouldn't you like have a conversation about it first of all with somebody that you love like that?

00:24:40.319 --> 00:24:41.680
About like, what do you think about this?

00:24:41.759 --> 00:24:42.960
Is it is that okay?

00:24:43.200 --> 00:24:49.519
And also it's fucked up to be like not giving her an option to come with me at the start, being like, hey, this is what you're gonna do in a year.

00:24:49.599 --> 00:24:51.359
If I like it, you're gonna come down.

00:24:51.680 --> 00:24:54.480
So kind of didn't handle it the best, I would say.

00:24:54.880 --> 00:25:00.960
It's hard when you're young, I feel like, too, because you don't know what you don't know.

00:25:01.200 --> 00:25:02.000
You know what I mean?

00:25:02.160 --> 00:25:03.680
When when you're that age.

00:25:03.920 --> 00:25:04.160
Yeah.

00:25:04.400 --> 00:25:08.079
And like you said, like you didn't get a chance to really be single as an adult.

00:25:08.559 --> 00:25:10.880
And if you don't, I feel like that happens with a lot of people.

00:25:11.039 --> 00:25:16.640
They either like jump into marriage or a serious relationship when they're super young, and then they don't get a chance to be single.

00:25:16.799 --> 00:25:16.960
I think.

00:25:17.519 --> 00:25:19.039
Everyone needs to be single, I really do.

00:25:19.359 --> 00:25:19.759
I do too.

00:25:19.920 --> 00:25:21.440
So you have no regrets later on in life.

00:25:21.839 --> 00:25:24.480
You don't feel the need at 40 to go out and party and be single, you know?

00:25:24.799 --> 00:25:33.359
I feel that, but I mean, I feel like most people when they look back on it, like they kind of not regret their decision, but kind of be like, it wasn't all I thought it was gonna be.

00:25:33.599 --> 00:25:34.720
Do you regret your decision?

00:25:35.359 --> 00:25:44.079
I don't know if I I can say I regret it because everything that I've done down here, everything I have down here is insane.

00:25:44.400 --> 00:25:51.920
Um but would I say if I did go back and do it all over again, I would definitely be hesitant about it.

00:25:52.079 --> 00:25:55.440
Because it wasn't just l uh moving away from her and leaving her.

00:25:55.599 --> 00:25:58.720
It also like my whole family's down there, like I'm the only person here.

00:25:58.880 --> 00:26:01.599
So that's a lot more to do than like just her.

00:26:02.160 --> 00:26:12.480
But I feel like it would have been definitely cooler to marry your high school sweetheart than it would be to like just find some random girl when they're 30 and just like whatever, you know what I'm saying?

00:26:12.720 --> 00:26:16.240
So it's like, yeah, I think it all depends on the girl in the situation.

00:26:16.319 --> 00:26:18.880
But have you been on any crazy dates here?

00:26:19.440 --> 00:26:21.359
I don't really go on dates a lot, to be honest.

00:26:21.599 --> 00:26:22.640
How do you meet people?

00:26:23.359 --> 00:26:23.599
Work.

00:26:24.319 --> 00:26:25.440
I mean, are you on the apps?

00:26:25.680 --> 00:26:28.799
Uh a little bit, but I don't really like need the apps.

00:26:29.039 --> 00:26:30.720
So it's like I'm not really get on them.

00:26:30.799 --> 00:26:38.559
Like, I'll go on him like every once, like on a Monday or Tuesday, and swipe a little bit and then like kind of get a match and be like, okay, that's cool.

00:26:38.640 --> 00:26:43.359
A little validation, but I'm not I'm not really gonna be out there measured like crazy, you know.

00:26:43.440 --> 00:26:45.440
So what's your ideal type?

00:26:45.759 --> 00:26:51.039
Uh I would say like in between five foot to like five foot three, blonde hair.

00:26:51.839 --> 00:26:53.039
Yeah, blue eyes.

00:26:53.440 --> 00:26:59.039
Yeah, like can tell they work out, like go to the gym, like got some ass, got some titties for sure.

00:26:59.200 --> 00:27:00.319
Can't be like flat.

00:27:00.480 --> 00:27:02.880
So that's how I'm gonna do it.

00:27:03.039 --> 00:27:04.799
That's like cool for a night, whatever, I guess.

00:27:04.880 --> 00:27:12.480
But like if I'm gonna marry you, like, or like wanna date you, like I'm very, very, very, very, very picky and with who like I date, whatever.

00:27:12.559 --> 00:27:19.839
So like I try to wait for like the perfect person, because this is my thing, like the girl that I date, like obviously personality, whatever, like we're gonna get to that at some point.

00:27:19.920 --> 00:27:21.200
We're talking just straight looks here.

00:27:21.359 --> 00:27:29.920
Like when I walk into like a bar or a club or a restaurant, like if everybody's not turning their head to look at my girl, like, god damn, who the fuck is that?

00:27:30.000 --> 00:27:31.119
Like, you know what I'm saying?

00:27:31.359 --> 00:27:33.359
If she's not like that, then it's like I'm I don't know.

00:27:34.079 --> 00:27:35.359
Are you okay with the fake body?

00:27:35.519 --> 00:27:36.319
Yeah, I'm cool with that.

00:27:36.400 --> 00:27:37.039
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:27:37.200 --> 00:27:40.960
If it's a fake butt and fake boobs, yeah, yeah, that's cool for sure.

00:27:41.039 --> 00:27:42.880
I mean, fake butt is kind of funny.

00:27:42.960 --> 00:27:45.359
A lot of times, you know, a lot of times they don't look good.

00:27:45.440 --> 00:27:46.240
I'm gonna be honest.

00:27:46.480 --> 00:27:47.920
But if it looks good, hell yeah.

00:27:48.319 --> 00:27:49.119
It's about what it looks like.

00:27:49.200 --> 00:27:56.559
I mean, it's definitely a little bit different, like you know feeling it, touching whatever, but which is interesting, but it's everything cool to me.

00:27:56.720 --> 00:27:58.079
What are your deal breakers?

00:27:58.400 --> 00:28:00.720
Ooh, what are my deal breakers?

00:28:01.279 --> 00:28:02.559
Besides flat tits.00:28:04.880 --> 00:28:10.640


I don't the you gotta treat your family good, the people you're around.00:28:11.039 --> 00:28:21.119


I don't like people that are bitchy or like like rude or like like too much, or like even like something as like small as like being rude to like a host or like a server at a restaurant.00:28:21.200 --> 00:28:24.720


Like, don't be a bitch, like they're working hard, they're not doing it on purpose, you know.00:28:24.880 --> 00:28:26.400


So like those things.00:28:26.640 --> 00:28:38.880


Um I feel like it's not a complete deal breaker, but like coming from a good family, a good background, is very, very, very important because that could cause a lot of problems later down the road.00:28:39.519 --> 00:28:44.960


Uh I w I wouldn't date a girl that's on OnlyFans ever.00:28:45.359 --> 00:28:46.480


Never hell on the next one.00:28:46.640 --> 00:28:48.720


Even if it's just her and she doesn't bring other partners in.00:28:49.039 --> 00:28:49.200


Nope.00:28:49.279 --> 00:28:49.359


Okay.00:28:49.599 --> 00:28:50.079


I can't do it.00:28:50.240 --> 00:28:54.160


I'm not gonna have my wife's titties on the internet slanging those things like it's crack.00:28:54.240 --> 00:28:54.799


Like what?00:28:55.200 --> 00:28:56.000


Not doing that.00:28:56.160 --> 00:28:58.640


Like I don't need 50 different people having pictures of your body.00:28:58.720 --> 00:29:00.559


Like I don't like that.00:29:00.799 --> 00:29:05.839


Um I'd I wouldn't date um a non-religious girl.00:29:06.079 --> 00:29:07.920


I wouldn't do a date an atheist person.00:29:08.160 --> 00:29:09.119


Uh are you religious?00:29:09.519 --> 00:29:10.160


What religion?00:29:10.400 --> 00:29:11.039


Uh Christian.00:29:11.279 --> 00:29:11.759


Okay, gotcha.00:29:12.000 --> 00:29:12.319


Yeah.00:29:12.559 --> 00:29:17.279


I don't really go to church or whatever, but I do read the Bible from time to time.00:29:17.359 --> 00:29:30.720


And I I I would kind of like to go to church, but I kind of feel like um I don't really when it comes to a relationship with God, I don't really need like some other person to preach to me about like God, basically.00:29:30.880 --> 00:29:38.160


I feel like you could read the Bible and pray and figure it out on your own that way versus somebody's interpretation of them.00:29:38.319 --> 00:29:43.039


Cause it's like your interpretation of the Bible is like your own and like that's kinda like God's word.00:29:43.279 --> 00:29:48.319


So it's like you shouldn't have somebody like coming out coming at it from their perspective.00:29:48.400 --> 00:29:49.200


You should have your own perspective.00:29:49.279 --> 00:29:53.039


With now do I think church is great and it's a good thing for people?00:29:53.279 --> 00:29:53.680


Hell yeah.00:29:53.759 --> 00:29:56.079


And I think ev a lot of people should go to church, but just for me personally.00:29:56.400 --> 00:29:57.680


Did you grow up going to church?00:29:58.079 --> 00:29:59.839


Um, we would go from time to time.00:30:00.319 --> 00:30:05.680


Definitely like on like obviously holidays like Easter and stuff like that, we would go.00:30:05.839 --> 00:30:10.880


My grandma, she's really big into her faith, and so whenever we go, it'd always be with her.00:30:11.039 --> 00:30:20.880


But where I lived in Vancouver, they either lived like in Long Beach, Washington, which was like three hours away, or even when they moved, they're still like an hour away or like an hour and a half away.00:30:21.039 --> 00:30:23.359


So we try to meet in the middle, like 45 minutes.00:30:23.599 --> 00:30:25.920


Um so we would go to church with them from time to time.00:30:26.000 --> 00:30:35.440


But me and my brother were also three sport athletes, so Sundays a lot of times we're at basketball tournaments, I would have football practice, um baseball.00:30:35.920 --> 00:30:37.279


So a lot of times they're real busy.00:30:37.359 --> 00:30:38.960


But are you still into sports?00:30:39.599 --> 00:30:41.200


Not as much to be not really.00:30:41.519 --> 00:30:44.640


So you don't care if your girl is into sports or not into sports.00:30:44.880 --> 00:30:48.559


I think it's cool if she is, but I don't care if she is or not, to be honest.00:30:48.720 --> 00:30:50.079


I used to be really big into sports.00:30:50.160 --> 00:30:55.119


I used to watch like all like NFL all the time, college football, basketball, like all that.00:30:55.279 --> 00:30:59.920


But now over time, the only team I care about and an is the Oregon Ducks.00:31:00.160 --> 00:31:00.880


I like college football.00:31:01.200 --> 00:31:02.000


That's my favorite sport.00:31:02.079 --> 00:31:04.319


And I've been an Oregon Ducks fan since I was like two or three.00:31:04.480 --> 00:31:08.559


So like that's the one like sporting event where I'm like, all right, I don't give a fuck about anybody.00:31:08.720 --> 00:31:09.279


Don't bother me.00:31:09.359 --> 00:31:10.319


I'm gonna watch this shit.00:31:10.480 --> 00:31:12.079


And then once it's over, I'm out.00:31:12.160 --> 00:31:15.359


Like I was in a UFC for a little bit, but now it sucks.00:31:15.440 --> 00:31:17.839


And NBA's not as fun either.00:31:18.079 --> 00:31:19.759


So are you ready for it?00:31:19.920 --> 00:31:20.559


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All right, we have a listener question.00:31:31.279 --> 00:31:37.440


My boyfriend and I have been dating for seven months now, and I just farted while half asleep.00:31:38.559 --> 00:31:41.519


I am 100% sure he heard it.00:31:41.839 --> 00:31:46.880


We've always made jokes about when we will get to that stage of the relationship.00:31:47.119 --> 00:31:56.880


So I kind of know his view on this, and I'm sure we both don't care that much, but I'm still mortified about these topics.00:31:57.119 --> 00:32:05.200


At what point in a relationship relationship is it acceptable to fart freely and who goes first?00:32:05.519 --> 00:32:06.960


You know what's funny is your sister.00:32:07.039 --> 00:32:10.799


When I first met your sister, she said something that has stuck with me to this day.00:32:10.960 --> 00:32:11.839


It's science.00:32:12.000 --> 00:32:15.680


She's we were talking about farting or something, and she's like, it's science, it's natural, and it's true.00:32:15.839 --> 00:32:22.880


Like, and after seven months, if he's turned off by her farting after being with her for seven months, she he probably probably doesn't want to marry him.00:32:23.039 --> 00:32:23.200


Yeah.00:32:23.359 --> 00:32:23.759


You know?00:32:24.079 --> 00:32:25.519


What do you guys think I think it's normal?00:32:25.680 --> 00:32:26.240


No, I agree.00:32:26.319 --> 00:32:34.240


That's it's kind of like when we were talking about like the gynecologist, like the body's the body, and it's like your body is gonna do what it does.00:32:34.480 --> 00:32:37.519


How would you feel if you'll go after seven months farted in front of you and I?00:32:37.680 --> 00:32:38.720


I mean, that's like normal.00:32:38.799 --> 00:32:44.079


Because after like seven months, like, hey, she's probably stayed over at your house for like weeks at a time.00:32:44.160 --> 00:32:45.440


Like you basically live together.00:32:45.519 --> 00:32:51.920


So it's like at a certain point, like when if you're in like high school and you're like dating somebody, she does like, yeah, we're gonna make fun, and you'd probably break up.00:32:52.240 --> 00:32:56.480


But like when you get older and like you like you said, like probably break up in high school.00:32:57.200 --> 00:32:58.240


And then it's the rumor.00:32:58.319 --> 00:33:02.400


Then you're known as the girl who got broken up when you farted in your sleep.00:33:03.599 --> 00:33:04.880


Oh, because that's it.00:33:05.279 --> 00:33:06.160


Totally happened to me.00:33:06.240 --> 00:33:07.759


Like that would totally have happened.00:33:07.839 --> 00:33:10.640


It didn't happen to me, but that would be just that would be something.00:33:10.880 --> 00:33:19.759


I I remember once, like, okay, so when I was with my ex, I remember once I farted in my sleep and it was so loud it it won, I it woke me up.00:33:20.480 --> 00:33:25.759


And and so I like kind of like rolled over and pretended like I was still sleeping.00:33:25.839 --> 00:33:27.920


And he was he was awake, he was like, I heard that.00:33:28.240 --> 00:33:30.400


That was like a cringe! No, I was so embarrassed.00:33:30.640 --> 00:33:31.440


That is cringe.00:33:32.160 --> 00:33:37.119


Yeah, but we are gonna discuss these interesting and true dating facts.00:33:37.359 --> 00:33:42.079


Did you know that people decide if they're attracted to someone within the first three seconds of meeting them?00:33:42.240 --> 00:33:43.200


I think that makes sense.00:33:43.519 --> 00:33:43.920


Oh, yeah.00:33:44.079 --> 00:33:47.359


Like I can realize right away in seconds if I'll be interested or not.00:33:47.519 --> 00:33:47.839


Yeah.00:33:48.240 --> 00:33:51.119


Your voice changes when talking to someone you're attracted to.00:33:51.279 --> 00:33:54.640


Studies show both men and women lower their tone.00:33:54.960 --> 00:33:55.680


Do you lower it?00:33:56.000 --> 00:33:56.240


Interesting.00:33:56.480 --> 00:33:57.200


Bye, baby.00:33:57.839 --> 00:33:59.759


That much, not that much.00:34:01.440 --> 00:34:05.039


It's like, it's like, it's like a tone that's lowered.00:34:05.200 --> 00:34:17.519


It's lowered, probably so it's not like noticeable to the naked ear, but it's noticeable in like a scientific to a scientific study, like if you're studying the tone of voice.00:34:17.840 --> 00:34:18.480


Funny.00:34:18.719 --> 00:34:20.320


Smell matters more than looks.00:34:20.480 --> 00:34:24.719


Natural scent, not perfume, often plays a huge role in romantic chemistry.00:34:24.880 --> 00:34:25.599


Yeah, pheromones.00:34:27.360 --> 00:34:29.920


Eye contact can make people fall for each other faster.00:34:30.079 --> 00:34:33.760


Staring into someone's eyes for just four minutes can create feelings of connection.00:34:33.920 --> 00:34:40.559


I always thought that was kind of creepy though, for you like on a first date, and he's just like staring at you and like, let's just look at each other for a moment.00:34:40.719 --> 00:34:41.280


Have you ever had that?00:34:44.159 --> 00:34:48.320


I mean, I'm gonna look you in the eyes when I talk to you for sure, but like I'm not gonna be like hey, let's stare each other in the eye.00:34:48.400 --> 00:34:53.360


Like, yeah, not staring, but I do think it's weird when someone won't look at your face.00:34:53.599 --> 00:34:56.559


No, they won't look at you, like they won't make eye contact with you when they're talking about it.00:34:56.639 --> 00:34:57.039


That's weird.00:34:57.280 --> 00:34:57.599


That's odd.00:34:57.679 --> 00:34:58.159


You know, and I think that's it.00:34:58.400 --> 00:34:59.280


That's a confidence thing, though.00:34:59.519 --> 00:35:02.320


Like if you believe in what you're saying, you could lose some of the eyes and tell them what it is.00:35:02.559 --> 00:35:03.199


Yeah, for sure.00:35:03.440 --> 00:35:04.639


Arguing isn't always bad.00:35:04.800 --> 00:35:09.280


Couples who argue effectively are more likely to stay together than those who avoid conflict entirely.00:35:09.360 --> 00:35:10.880


That's true, because communication, right?00:35:11.519 --> 00:35:16.000


More than 40% of relationships now begin online, and that number keeps climbing.00:35:16.239 --> 00:35:16.800


That's interesting.00:35:16.880 --> 00:35:18.400


But where else do people meet, you know?00:35:18.960 --> 00:35:25.519


But I will say, we were at the polo event this weekend, and all the younger, like early 20-year-olds, they're none of them are on the apps.00:35:25.760 --> 00:35:27.199


Like they're kind of over the apps.00:35:27.280 --> 00:35:31.039


They and you it sounds like you kind of are too, but then I guess with your job you don't need to be on.00:35:31.199 --> 00:35:31.360


Right.00:35:31.760 --> 00:35:37.519


But um the young boys too, like they like I don't know, they're different for sure.00:35:37.679 --> 00:35:40.559


They like to just play video games, stay inside.00:35:40.880 --> 00:35:45.039


Like, I heard the young boys are really struggling to find girls and stuff like that because of that.00:35:45.199 --> 00:35:50.800


Because like COVID basically they're kind of trained them to stay inside, and then now all they do is play video games.00:35:51.119 --> 00:35:54.480


And like they don't they only have like an interest in going up to girls and stuff like that.00:35:54.639 --> 00:35:55.920


Yeah, I heard some, I don't know.00:35:56.079 --> 00:35:57.199


We got somebody look this up.00:35:57.280 --> 00:36:08.239


I heard something like people like 25 years, years old to like 18-year-old, like 40% or something like that are virgins, and then like another like 50% have never actually approached a girl before.00:36:08.559 --> 00:36:10.800


I don't know, you'd have to go look that up and fact check that.00:36:10.880 --> 00:36:14.480


But yeah, I heard that and I was like, damn, it sucks to be young.00:36:16.320 --> 00:36:19.039


And one last one, this is obviously expected.00:36:19.119 --> 00:36:24.000


Men are more likely to swipe right than women, but women are more selective, leading to more meaning meaningful matches.00:36:24.079 --> 00:36:26.800


I feel like a lot of guys just accept, accept, accept, right?00:36:27.840 --> 00:36:29.760


Probably women are a little more selective.00:36:29.920 --> 00:36:34.800


I think that apps have become just more like hookup than actually like people don't really take them seriously.00:36:35.280 --> 00:36:38.639


But what about like do people ever do match.com still in eHarmony?00:36:38.800 --> 00:36:42.079


Are those more like the serious for serious-minded individuals?00:36:45.280 --> 00:36:46.159


Yeah, I don't know.00:36:46.320 --> 00:36:46.880


I don't know.00:36:47.039 --> 00:36:48.639


I mean, I think they're still around.00:36:48.800 --> 00:36:52.559


Yeah, I feel like people use like the dating apps, like girls, for example.00:36:52.800 --> 00:36:53.679


Depends what girl you are.00:36:53.840 --> 00:36:58.639


Like, some girls do use them like to be serious and try to find people, but a lot of times they just put their Instagram in their bio.00:36:58.880 --> 00:37:01.760


Or like not their bio, but their profile and try to get a follower that way.00:37:02.159 --> 00:37:24.800


Or like a lot of times, like a lot of girls I talk to about it, like they just get like so like overwhelmed because like every person they swipe on, it's a match, and they're getting like all these different messages from people, and some are weird, some are like cool, and then like you'll get a message from somebody, and then they'll be like, somebody you want to talk to you, message them back, and like maybe they don't mess you back for a couple hours, and then now that like conversation is like 20 people down, and so they're like not even gonna see it.00:37:24.880 --> 00:37:30.480


So it's kind of like now it's time for the celebrity cup where we marinate in the juices of the celebrities.00:37:30.639 --> 00:37:33.440


So, did you see we can no longer call him Prince Andrew?00:37:33.519 --> 00:37:35.360


He's been stripped of his royal titles.00:37:35.519 --> 00:37:36.480


It's just Andrew now.00:37:36.639 --> 00:37:37.199


Isn't that crazy?00:37:37.599 --> 00:37:38.079


Just Andrew.00:37:38.320 --> 00:37:39.519


It's just Andrew, yeah.00:37:39.679 --> 00:37:47.280


But what's funny is so my TikTok, I talk a lot about Megan Markle, and people, all of my haters are constantly saying, You need to talk about Andrew.00:37:47.360 --> 00:37:48.639


He's terrible, he's worse than Megan.00:37:48.800 --> 00:37:49.599


Talk about Andrew.00:37:49.760 --> 00:37:52.960


But my dad used to work with Prince Andrew, or sorry, Andrew.00:37:53.119 --> 00:37:59.440


And my dad is was always telling me how much of a condescending, narcissistic, derogatory prick he was.00:37:59.679 --> 00:38:03.679


The first time my dad met Andrew, Andrew looked at him and said, Who the fuck are you?00:38:03.920 --> 00:38:07.360


Like, how do you talk to a government official like that?00:38:07.599 --> 00:38:09.440


So my dad was always like, He's a freaking prick.00:38:09.519 --> 00:38:10.480


So I'm like, I'm not gonna watch it.00:38:10.639 --> 00:38:12.639


But it was he was stripped because of the Epstein stuff.00:38:12.800 --> 00:38:13.039


Yeah, yeah.00:38:14.800 --> 00:38:18.159


But I don't know why it took so long for them to strip his titles after that whole scandal.00:38:18.559 --> 00:38:18.800


I know.00:38:18.960 --> 00:38:20.880


Did well did they have to prove that?00:38:21.119 --> 00:38:24.159


Was it was it questionable, like whether he was involved or not?00:38:24.400 --> 00:38:31.280


I had pictures of him with her with that one girl, Virginia, and it's just crazy how he's like, No, that was photoshopped.00:38:31.519 --> 00:38:44.400


And then he did this interview to prove his innocence, but it totally backfired and made him look more guilty because I guess she had said that they were dancing in a club and he was sweating profusely, and how it was so gross because he was just sweating so much.00:38:44.480 --> 00:38:46.719


And in the interview, he's like, She was wrong.00:38:46.880 --> 00:38:51.920


This proves that she's lying because I have a condition, a medical condition where I never sweat.00:38:52.159 --> 00:38:53.039


Like, what?00:38:53.440 --> 00:38:56.239


That was if like anywho.00:38:56.480 --> 00:39:00.239


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Have you ever accidentally sent a sex to the wrong person?00:39:13.280 --> 00:39:15.119


You know, I don't really talk on my phone like that.00:39:17.280 --> 00:39:18.400


Because no.00:39:18.800 --> 00:39:19.440


You don't know?00:39:19.679 --> 00:39:20.800


No, I don't think so.00:39:21.199 --> 00:39:23.920


Are you a texter or a talker or neither?00:39:25.679 --> 00:39:27.039


I'm an in-person type of person.00:39:27.280 --> 00:39:30.320


If I see you in person, then yeah, I'm gonna go out and talk to you, whatever.00:39:30.400 --> 00:39:35.920


But if you look at my phone, like I don't text people, I don't really message people, like DM them like that.00:39:36.239 --> 00:39:38.239


I just I don't like it, to be honest.00:39:38.559 --> 00:39:45.280


Because like you it's hard to catch a vibe because like I'm a like sarcastic person and I say a lot of like wild funny things.00:39:45.440 --> 00:39:51.360


So it's like if I'm not in person talking to you, like you're not really gonna get what I'm saying, or like my kind of humor, like with it, you know.00:39:51.440 --> 00:40:00.000


So a lot of times it's easier just for me to just be in person and then like I'm not trying to wait for you to respond and carry a conversation I don't care about, or it's just too much.00:40:00.400 --> 00:40:01.519


Is that difficult with dating?00:40:01.599 --> 00:40:07.039


Because a lot of women I feel like need to be or they feel like they need to be in constant communication.00:40:07.360 --> 00:40:07.519


Yeah.00:40:07.920 --> 00:40:09.280


They they want to be like talking all the time.00:40:09.519 --> 00:40:10.639


I hate that shit actually.00:40:10.719 --> 00:40:12.719


Yeah, let me get let me talk about that real quick.00:40:12.880 --> 00:40:13.039


Yeah.00:40:15.119 --> 00:40:30.239


Like, like, don't get me wrong, I I will text you like throughout the day, like whatever, but like if we just go from hanging out for like two weeks straight, and then you get home, and then I have an hour by myself, and then I get a phone call from you, and it's not like an emergency or like like some.00:40:30.320 --> 00:40:34.719


I'm like, bro, I literally just spent however many hours with you.00:40:34.800 --> 00:40:36.320


Like, can I get an hour?00:40:36.400 --> 00:40:37.199


Like, fuck.00:40:37.360 --> 00:40:39.199


You know, I just gotta reset a little bit.00:40:39.360 --> 00:40:46.159


I mean, I think it's cool that like she wants to obviously be in constant communication and talking, but like sometimes it's like you gotta chill, little baby, you know.00:40:46.239 --> 00:40:46.719


Like, fuck.00:40:46.960 --> 00:40:48.079


So, what line do you use?00:40:48.159 --> 00:40:52.639


If you see a girl that is beautiful and you want to approach her, yeah, what how what do you say?00:40:52.960 --> 00:40:58.000


Um, I normally comment them like on their outfit or something along those lines, to be honest.00:40:58.159 --> 00:41:04.159


Because it's like they hear like, oh, you're so pretty, or like you're so hot, I had to go up to you.00:41:04.320 --> 00:41:08.639


Like, what I like, you hear that 90 different times, so then it's kind of like in one ear out the other.00:41:08.880 --> 00:41:16.639


But if I like comment you on like, I don't know, if you got like a cool bag or like like those pants right there, like those are flowy, cool.00:41:16.719 --> 00:41:18.239


Like, I'll I'll comment something on that, you know?00:41:18.480 --> 00:41:19.119


Those are flowy.00:41:19.440 --> 00:41:20.639


Well that would that work for you?00:41:21.119 --> 00:41:23.760


I wouldn't say flowy, cause I think of something a lot better, obviously.00:41:23.920 --> 00:41:25.360


But that's a laugh.00:41:25.599 --> 00:41:27.760


I'm just saying, like, for example, yeah.00:41:27.840 --> 00:41:31.679


For like an example, I would just like comment on something on their outfit or something like that.00:41:32.079 --> 00:41:33.920


So that's generally what like I kind of try to do.00:41:34.159 --> 00:41:36.159


I mean, sometimes you can be basic and be like, oh, what's up?00:41:36.320 --> 00:41:38.079


Like, my name's Hagan, like, what's your name?00:41:38.559 --> 00:41:39.599


Like, that's another one.00:41:39.760 --> 00:41:45.679


So Yeah, like that guy who told me I looked like a picnic table on Saturday, and then he called me and then he called me charcuterie.00:41:46.079 --> 00:41:50.639


And I was like, I've never been called a picnic table or charcuterie before, but thank you, sir.00:41:50.800 --> 00:41:51.519


Wow, that's it.00:41:51.679 --> 00:41:54.800


I mean, you haven't stopped thinking about that since charcuterie.00:41:55.199 --> 00:41:55.840


How'd that one go?00:41:56.239 --> 00:41:58.320


I think we were on different levels of drunkness.00:41:58.400 --> 00:42:00.639


That was actually the only exchange we had got to.00:42:01.679 --> 00:42:05.199


I mean, that probably wouldn't have worked, but that's yelled it at me like as I was walking away.00:42:05.360 --> 00:42:06.559


It was like one of those situations.00:42:07.679 --> 00:42:08.559


Charcuterie.00:42:09.920 --> 00:42:14.719


I think it I think less is more when you go up to hit on a girl that you don't gotta say nothing crazy.00:42:14.880 --> 00:42:17.119


Come fucking charcuterie, you know?00:42:17.440 --> 00:42:18.800


Like just like be like chill.00:42:18.960 --> 00:42:30.960


And I just feel like the first like 20, 30 seconds of the conversation is the most important part because that's where like which it shouldn't, because your first time meeting the person, like you could ask them a million different questions, you know nothing about them, you don't even know their name, probably at this point.00:42:31.199 --> 00:42:37.599


But it's like that 20, 30 seconds, like if the conversation doesn't like flow really good, it's probably not gonna work out great.00:42:37.679 --> 00:42:42.400


So like you gotta make sure, like, you're on point, 20, 30 seconds, try to catch their vibes, see what they're on.00:42:43.360 --> 00:42:46.880


Well, thank you so much for joining us this week at the meat market, and thank you so much, Hayden.00:42:46.960 --> 00:42:51.280


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Oh my god, I just totally got catfished.00:43:04.239 --> 00:43:06.400


He looks absolutely nothing like his picture.00:43:06.559 --> 00:43:11.360


So I found out the guy that I've been dating is married with kids.00:43:11.519 --> 00:43:14.000


His wife just reached out to me.