Swipe, Match… Fall In Love? 🤨

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Oh my god, I just totally got catfished.

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He looks absolutely nothing like his picture.

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So I found out, the guy that I've been dating is married with kids.

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His wife just reached out to me.

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Welcome to the Meat Market.

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The single scene is a slaughterhouse and we are here to devour it.

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We are your hosts.

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I'm Lindsay, I'm Jess and today's sizzling single is Justin.

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Thank you for being here.

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Thank you for having me.

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So we hear that you have never in your life been on a dating app.

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Is this true?

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I've never been on a dating app.

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So how do you meet people?

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Very outgoing yeah, grocery stores, banks.

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So what's your line at the bank?

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Gyms, banks.

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What line do you use?

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What line?

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I don't think I have lines.

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Everyone's different.

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I mean like something about her, maybe Like oh, your eyes or this, or I like your shoes.

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So it's authentic, it's genuine.

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You cater your lines to the person You're going to find something you like about her right away, right.

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I've been hit on at the ghetto fries on 44th and thomas, though it's never at the sprouts.

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It's never at the sprouts when I'm getting groceries, it's always when I have to stop quick at the ghetto fries so what line do they use?

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you've got a lovely bunch of coconuts no.

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The last time I was in the wine aisle buying wine and he asked something about something about wine.

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But if I'm gonna, I'm going to date a guy.

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I want him to know more about wine than I know about wine, and so that doesn't work for me.

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So then, when he asked to get my number, I said no and then we went our separate ways Because of the wine.

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Yeah, what if he was so great outside of being a wine drinker?

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He wasn't, I could tell that matters, then so why do you not want to join the apps?

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Do you feel like you're missing out?

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There's a lot of women on those apps.

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No, because I'm not missing out.

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But I'm in a different place for me because I've kind of got to a place where if I meet a woman she's going to have to be super spectacular, because I'm so happy with my life now.

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I got the cars, I want the house, I want the kids, I want, uh, cleaners, cooks.

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So to.

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I don't know I could now I'm just at a certain place, where it would have to be a magical feel so where did you meet your last girlfriend?

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girlfriend, that's a big word.

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I'm trying to make you nervous start sweating when you said girlfriend.

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Yeah, no.

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So I was married for years and then I met the next girl I dated at the gym and we dated for about three years and why did you guys break up?

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If you don't mind me asking, I don't know.

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The first two years I thought were phenomenal, and then the last year.

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I'm a conservative really strong on this side.

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She's an educator, a little bit feminist.

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I think that we kind of grew apart yeah maybe shit.

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You should probably look at earlier that you overlook when things are really good, maybe, and then the first couple years are just fun anyway, especially if you're just traveling and doing good stuff and so you said you were married.

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How long were you married for we?

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started dating in 2006.

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I was married from 09 to like 21-ish.

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Okay, and you have kids together.

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Yeah, oh, how many kids.

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I got four kids.

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Oh yeah, but that keeps you busy.

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Yeah.

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So my oldest son, Delton, is the MMA world champ.

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He's held the world title for the last three years.

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Now he just turned 18.

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My 15 year old daughter won the wrestling state title 120 whoa so we spent a lot of time in the mma gym and a lot of training that's cool that's my happiness.

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My kids are my.

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Can your daughter beat up boys?

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Is that my daughter?

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Definitely?

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we've had some older 16, 17, 18 year old boys come in over the years like just on invite from personal family, because it's, it's, it's a hidden gym, right, it's not a private gym, I mean, not a public gym, um, and we've had like older boys come in when she's 13, 14, and they're like, oh, we really want to train with your son delton, and I'm like maybe my daughter first, and a minute later she's choking about yeah, that's, hilarious I'm like, yeah, there's lessons and there's levels and it takes time so how did they get into that?

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you do, you, do, you.

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Is that what you do?

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No, I just grew up an athlete my whole life and that's a large part of my life when I was younger.

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That's what I love doing.

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I mean, nowadays I own a construction company and, you know, invest in some places, so I'm really busy, but I've always made a lot of time to spend two, three hours a day with my kids in our fight gyms.

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That's awesome.

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So you are podcast famous in town.

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So you've done a bunch of other podcasts.

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Yeah, I mean I've done some MMA podcasts and we've done some dating podcasts for some lady friends of mine.

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So this is not your first rodeo, not my first one right now, that's funny, Do you get a lot of?

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have you had women reach out to you after seeing you?

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Yeah, after the dating podcast, my instagram blew up for a while, did it?

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in a good way or in a bad way or both.

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It was, it was, it was that side was like pretty positive, right.

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Um, I'm so like I'm really brash and and like nothing shakes me at all, like I'm just unshakable.

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So like, when you read the comments of the bigger podcast, some were like, oh my god, I love him, and some were like what an asshole I like both, though you know what I mean like I was like that's cool you know, any comment is engagement, whether it's good or bad comment.

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You've got to embrace them more because, it just makes your numbers go up so the girls said the girls like man, our numbers were huge.

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I'm like, yeah, a lot of shit talking shit a lot, yeah, you know, but they're all jealous, they're haters.

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Yeah, they jealous because they ain't you.

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It was a good time, it's fun, yeah, yeah and so um.

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You don't want any more kids, correct?

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You're done?

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No, I don't.

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Do you want to get married again?

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it's like a coin flip.

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I don't know it's a hard answer because I could say yes and then in the back of my mind, no, and, and I could say no and maybe yes.

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But I was talking about this with some of my buddies today I don't know if it's all men and I can't speak for all men, but certain men that are like super the word alpha is kind of gay, right, we're not going to use that.

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But like everything you do is like hey, I want to be the best in business, I want to wake up at 5 in the morning, I'm going to have a six back at 43 years old.

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Everything I do is like proficiency, and that's when my kids are champions.

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So for me, like I would have to have this Wonder Woman that comes in as like so much grace and positivity that you come home from your fight gym or your company and you're just like already mentally beat that there's so much positive behind that person that's a scary thing.

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Like you need a peaceful person.

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Yeah, super peaceful just to like.

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Yeah, chill you out super peaceful and I think, as a man I bring, I bring a lot to the table.

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Like you know, like I get up on saturday morning, five in the morning, when I was involved in marrying stuff and I'm cleaning the car by 6 am and the gas is full for her, and back in the morning when I was involved in marrying stuff and I'm cleaning the car by 6 am and the gas is full for her and back in the garage.

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I'm consistent.

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I have a lot of good shit.

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I've never not opened a door, so I live on a lot of old school rules, I think western culture, you know like with women.

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I don't know if we're all gonna link anymore.

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I think we're gonna.

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I think we're gonna stand off a little bit explain well, I think I think the word in a standoff a little bit Explain.

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Well, I think the word feminist is like beaten on two sides.

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Right, like you know, women, they don't want to be alpha'd.

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Right, because now we've taught feminism.

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And then, on the other side, like feminism is good in a good feminine way.

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Would you say you're looking more for the trad wife?

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Is that your type you?

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know what I love.

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And this is crazy.

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People are like would you ever date someone that made more money than you?

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I said show me where she's at.

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Really, right now, you don't get intimidated by that?

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No, I would love that shit.

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Show me Like for sure.

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I was like I told my boys.

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I said you find a woman that makes like 700 grand a year, I'll lick her ass and just work out.

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Like I won't do anything else.

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Like maybe you know what I mean.

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Like no, it's.

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I think it's amazing.

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I love successful women.

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Well, and I think a lot of women compete with men.

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It's weird.

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It is a little Like the roles.

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The male-female role has changed a lot, with the feminist movement Disheartening, I feel it a little bit.

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And I saw it like if you're mad at me, you're angry at me, whatever, like I'm so not to like weird the word of alpha.

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I'm so like if a dude says something, we're going to swing him right now.

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If a woman yells at me, I'm just like oh, I'm sorry you feel that way.

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I don't never yell back at women, like I don't put energy in that and that's not like to shit on like an alpha or feminism Like.

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But you're not going to get nothing out of an argument with a woman, with a dude.

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At least you're like all right, well, I can elbow you in your face now.

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You know what I?

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mean With a woman.

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It's like just let her cool down and like move on or you exit that.

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Yeah, you know what I mean.

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That's just kind of how I play my game.

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So, speaking of female entrepreneurs, don't you have some experience dating only fans models?

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I know they can consider themselves entrepreneurs no, do you want my only fan story?

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yes, we want your only I don't really have I don't know shit about only fans really but one gal.

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She was cute, probably in her mid-20s, 26, 27.

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She reached out to me on Instagram for a while.

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She's like I just really want to hang out with you.

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I'm like all right.

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So I agreed to meet with her in Old Town, scottsdale, and went to a little bar that I spent time at.

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We had a couple drinks, and then she's like, hey, my girlfriend wants to come too, and so she came and we drank for a few more hours and then it was a threesome at like 5.30 in the afternoon At the bar.

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No, no, no.

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Back at her place.

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I'm just saying where it went from noon to 5.30.

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Wow yeah.

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That's my only, and I think they were only fans of girls.

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Yeah, I don't know for sure.

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Did they record the threesome to post no?

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Then they asked Like no, you're not recording me on shit.

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And you're like I'm going to need royalties for a review of the skits.

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They're like what about just your part?

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I'm like no, because a lot of people know that thing hooks to the left.

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You know what I mean.

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Like they'll know it's me.

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Could you date an OnlyFans model?

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No, you couldn't.

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No, even if she was super successful, making more money than you doing OnlyFans.

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No, because I don't really respect the hustle.

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No, no.

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Even if they were just doing things by themselves, they weren't bringing in other partners.

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I don't know.

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Do you think that's talent?

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I don't associate with a lot of talent.

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Yeah, you know what I mean?

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One of my best friends.

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She's so talented I mean just painted the side of a building here, got paid very well.

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She owns a great furniture store.

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She may make more money than me, but we've been friends for 20 years.

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I find her attractive because of how smart and successful she is and I tell her that all the time like she's badass, so I don't know if I would attribute them together like only fans and a woman that's very proficient like this woman yeah.

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Why don't you date your friend?

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Have you ever?

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Have you ever talked about it?

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Have you ever tried?

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no, I I'm so comfortable with our friendship, for you know what I mean like that would suck if you take it to the next level, it doesn't work out, and then could you go back to being friends.

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I don't know, I don't I don't think so.

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I heard something recently that was like friends can be lovers, but lovers can't be friends yeah, that's so, it's like.

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You can start out as friends and you can become lovers.

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But once you become lovers you can't go back to being friends.

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I can see how that's true.

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There's no going back.

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There is no going back.

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It's not worth it.

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So do you have any other dating disaster stories, disasters?

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You probably don't have catfish stories because you don't date online don't have any.

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I would never use the word disaster.

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I did when.

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When I talk about like dating to like my friends stuff like I dated younger chicks for a while how's that?

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well, that's the most normal shit ever now especially in scottsdale like look at where we live.

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25 25 year old.

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Let's think, let's do the psychology behind it real quick, though.

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25 real women love 40 year old men, like it's just normal, like my dad's.

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Like oh my god, you live in the best fucking time ever.

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I'm like no, like they're a pain in the ass to deal with that's what that's like having a child.

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It's like having a daughter.

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But the psychology behind that is like, think of the average 25 year old man, like boy man, right, first of all, boys are five years behind women anyway.

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Right, it's true like we're kind of handicapped compared to women.

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So like, then you take 25 year old dudes and you're wondering why these 25 year old chicks ain't dating them.

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That dude's living at home with his mom playing Xbox, he can't change a tire, he's probably not an orgasm giver.

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First, like they lack a lot of shit.

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So now, naturally, 25 year old women are going to be like oh, a four year old man has.

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I think that's what we're seeing now.

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Yeah is assertive older guys are typically more assertive.

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They're more of like leaders.

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Yeah, yeah different generation.

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I think they're more gentlemanly, they're more aggressive take charge, make the plans you know like.

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I see 25 year old dudes at the gas station and the girl gets out, pumps gas.

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Well, I don't even care if she's paying for the gas that's one thing you're an asshole about but at least get out and pump her gas.

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They're just behind.

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Yeah, it is, and a lot of it too is where you grow up.

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Because there's like where in Iowa, where I grew up, when my parents are in town, when my dad is in town, neither my mom nor I ever get out of the car, and I drive my parents around everywhere because I live here.

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They and I drive my parents around everywhere because I live here.

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They come for, you know, their little snowbird season or whatever, and so if I'm with my parents, I'm always in the driver's seat, I'm always chauffeuring them, but if we're stopping for gas, somewhere yeah there is not a woman getting out of a car that my dad or my brother or my brother-in-law are like, for that matter.

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Just like I think it has a little bit to do about where you grew up.

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I teach I'm hard on my boys.

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Yeah, I teach them that.

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I mean I like.

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When I see my 18 year old boy, like you know, leaving with his girlfriend, he runs and grabs her door yeah, and he's the champ, so he's got a lot of ego yeah, I mean, this dude's a big ego guy, but at least he still has that side.

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Yeah, the singles here are a different breed.

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We had someone that was like I had said yeah, you know, arizona's great because there are no natural disasters here and they're like no natural disasters.

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Have you seen the singles?

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Because the singles here are.

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I feel I mean there's a reason why we're constantly rated the worst place to date and be single in the country do you find you have a lot of women after you for your money?

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have you ever had a woman ask you for something extravagant?

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I think you've got to be like oh, I have.

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I had this beautiful girl a few months ago on Instagram, probably like 25, 28.

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And she's like oh, I know who you are.

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Whatever I live in KC, I want to come out and hang out with you this, that, and at first it seemed kind of genuine.

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And then, literally like a week later, she's like it's my birthday.

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Can I get this fucking Chanel or some purse?

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I'm like you lost your mind.

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I go I would buy my daughter that if she calls and asks.

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But you're not getting that Right.

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And you've never met her, I go.

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You don't suck my dick or cook for me.

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Like you're not getting a Chanel from me.

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no, you can get a dollar store bag.

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That was some crazy stuff.

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But no, the dating thing is like, because that's what your mom would say, right, like, oh, those young women like you because you have nice shit.

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But I don't, I don't, I think no matter what.

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Not to shit on women, but being honest, is women, we are kind of women, are kind of brought up to what does that man produce?

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We're not in a world where it's like we don't look at a hot woman and be like man, what the fuck can she do for me?

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Like, do you think she could keep my sneakers cool?

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Or do like we don't associate any of that.

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We're like she's hot, hopefully the sex is good.

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Maybe she can cook.

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Like something.

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Yeah, some men are like that.

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I cook, so I don't worry about a woman that can cook.

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But we generalize Women are like what?

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So, no matter what, what can this man?

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What does he bring to the table.

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So I recently read an article you know Robbie Williams, the English singer, anyways, actually it was an article from Selma Blair.

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You know Selma Blair, right?

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No, selma Blair, the actress.

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What was she in?

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She was in Cruel Intentions.

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Selma Blair, selma Blair, oh Blair.

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Anyway, she's an American actress and she went on a date with Robbie Williams.

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He came to her house, he opened the fridge and just left, and she never knew why he just bolted on the date.

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And then he came out and said it's because she had no food in her fridge.

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Oh, every day.

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That's so funny.

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It's funny, so that is a strong line, though my it is my neighbor it's that's, and that's the difference between men and women.

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My neighbor was going out of town last minute to watch u of a in the basketball tournament in march or whatever, and he texted me and he's like hey, can you just pop over really quick and feed the dog?

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He's like I didn't have time a lot of times.

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His mom, his mom, lives in tucson and we'll come up and stay with the dog and he goes.

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Don't he goes?

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You'll be able to find the food really easily, cause it's like pretty much the only thing in the fridge.

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And I'm thinking he's joking right.

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I'm like like this, it's a joke.

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I open his fridge and there is not a single item in his fridge except for his dog's food.

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I started laughing because I was like this is literally the difference between men and women.

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Like I live by myself and my fridge is full of food because I love to cook and I home cook almost every meal that I eat and I go over to his house he lives alone.

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I opened his fridge and there is nothing in it except his dog's food.

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Can he cook, though Probably probably not I don't think so.

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I think he.

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I think my fridge is full but I, I have my kids full time too.

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Yeah, my, my fridge is always full.

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I still eat out a couple.

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It's also in in his defense, I will say this it is hard to cook.

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I meal prep so I cook for multiple days at a time for myself, but it is hard to cook for yourself, for a single person, yeah it is hard.

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Yes, yeah, so do you still date younger?

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Tell us about what you're looking for no, I well.

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Younger, yes, for sure, but not younger like that.

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23, 24 year old stuff is not working, I think.

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I think there's kind of now that 28 to 42-year-old concept.

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What is your perfect woman?

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Perfect woman.

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Describe your type.

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Smart, fit, proficient, one that mentally would encourage a man's success and not be freaked out by it.

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You know what I?

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mean, but just be an asset to it.

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I think that's a perfect one.

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Do you have a physical type, dark?

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Yeah, more, more.

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I've dated mainly like Hispanic Asian Okay.

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Or darker, yeah, but it's weird.

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Now I'm older and it's like the last few years, first time in my life I'll see blonde girls in the gym that kind of look like me.

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I'm like, oh fuck, I like her.

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It never was that way in my life.

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But now.

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I'm like I'm attracted to blondes too.

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Yeah, I mean, I guess we change with age, right?

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Preferences.

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What do you do in?

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your.

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I'm in the gym every day.

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I still like to wrestle or get in the cage once or twice a week.

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That's my thing.

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I do travel.

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I'll just jump on a plane and go to Oceanside for two days Spontaneous, kind of spontaneous, yeah.

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I love that I'm still spontaneous and then mainly just pushing my kids.

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That's my happiness is just success.

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My flex is a success, my children Do you have your kids full time or do you?

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share custody.

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You have both of them, you do three or three teenagers, okay, youngest one at 50, 50.

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Okay so now what if you meet a younger girl, you date her and she really wants more kids?

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Well, I, that was the thing I was going through, because you start dating 25 year old women and then I like I told my mom I was like you don't need no more kids, dude, you're good, but like if you were gonna date it say.

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You say you meet a 26 year old, you love everything about her and you date her and she doesn't have a kid.

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There is a strong chance she wants you to produce one, one, yeah, for sure, it's a real thing man, she would have to be like Wonder Woman.

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Wonder Woman, yeah, yeah, I don't know.

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I've worked so hard in so many years to have very successful children and I love that pace, but I don't know if I'm going to love that pace at 50, 55 years old.

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And it's a lot of work.

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Can you imagine going back to diaper changing and sleep training and potty training?

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Yeah you have one young one, then it's almost like, well, then you might as well have two, because I don't want to make them play together.

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Yeah, exactly because you don't want to have to go to all the kids movies and sit in the playroom with them all the time, like you want them to have a little sibling buddy.

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So it's just like, yeah, no, I don't know what are your deal breakers?

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I think, someone that's Like overly on social media, and when I say overly, I'm using the word overly, but I'm thinking more like you have your ass cheeks out on a Saturday at the pool party.

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More like that More like maybe lack of class, I should say in social media yeah, it's unattractive to me.

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Trying to do too much to get the attention.

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Yeah, because do you need that much attention?

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Yeah, yeah.

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Yeah, even recently, like this last month, there's this really attractive blonde, like naturally, I think it's a natural ass, amazing ass, fit, probably 35 ish, but like all her photos and she has kids, right, and I had to go way down on her instagram to see cool photos of her sons, which I probably think your sons are cooler than you showing your ass off, right.

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You know what I mean.

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But I mean, yeah, she shows her assets for sure, but like the last 25 photos were not any of her kids.

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Like yeah show me like field trip day with your kids and you're pretty and you don't have to have your butt out.

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And what's the point, then, too, of that?

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Because is it making you money?

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And if it's not, what is it?

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what is posting like that doing for you?

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What kind?

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of men do you think it would attract probably bottom of the barrel, the thirsty, the thirsty one good looking dude.

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Maybe the word we use fuck boys right yeah so maybe you're gonna attract some good looking dudes because you're a good looking chick, right, but a dude that he came from the bottom and built himself up, he's not gonna find that attractive, just devil's advocate.

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But maybe she is making a lot of money from these posts and has to support her kids.

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I don't know.

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Can you make money on instagram for?

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I think she only has 3 000 followers, oh, okay but I do got a buddy's wife that has a million followers and she makes a lot of money you and that's the thing is, you can make money posting like that on Instagram, but you do have to have a large following.

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Yeah, yeah.

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Hers is more like design and vacancy companies and marketing companies, because she has such a big following.

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Even like when we built them a sport court like tennis.

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I built pickleball courts, tennis courts, stuff like that.

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But she markets everything but like these companies will pay her, even coffee companies like 25 grand.

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Like brand deals.

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Yeah.

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It's pretty cool.

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Yeah, do you think it's a red flag if a woman does not have social media, if she's nowhere to be found on the internet?

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It'd be kind of weird.

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Huh, it's funny because you made it come up.

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We have a guest that's coming up and she's like he has no social media.

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That's really weird.

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Like maybe he's just normal, I like it, I.

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I because I'm not a big social media.

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It's like putting myself out there like this in the podcast space is really outside of my comfort zone.

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It's weird for me.

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Yes, yeah, so I, I get it.

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I think it's.

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I like it.

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I don't think it's a red flag when someone did you hear Aaron Rodgers you.

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You know Aaron Rodgers, right.

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He secretly got married, but no one knows who his wife is.

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Her name's Brittany, but she's not on social media, isn't?

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that kind of cool.

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I kind of love that.

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And he's got so much money, he'd probably investigate her for a while.

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He might be all right.

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He knows her Mom and dad and shit, I think that's so cool that someone is so confident and has so much going on that they don't need social media.

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They don't feel they have to prove anything, or you know constantly post pictures Literally three years ago.

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I started my company Instagram a few years ago and then I didn't even have a personal Instagram until like a year and a half ago.

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Like I'm not big on social media, I feel like it's more important now to stay up with the times.

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I'm an old handshake guy.

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I've got a lot of contractors that respect me because we do what we say we're going to do, so we're kind of old school, but we are going to the other side where I feel like I need to be on Instagram showing you know what I mean showing our business.

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It's an advertisement when it's for the business.

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I use my personal social medias.

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I use to keep up with family, because I don't have any family here.

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I did, you know what I mean, like I didn't grow up here, so all of my family is across the country, and so it's you know.

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It's a way for me to stay in touch with people that way I really wish I could get rid of all my social media.

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I really wish I could go dark.

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But with the podcast you can't do that.

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Like you have to try to gain those followers, do you?

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think it all, though, to look back at people you haven't seen since high school and be like oh fuck, this is we got three kids.

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Yeah, that's true, you know what I mean.

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That part's kind of cool.

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That's what I'm saying Because I graduated from high school with 20 people Right and so on on my well, I know what they're doing because we are still friends on social media.

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You know what I mean.

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Yeah, or you go like I show up to my town that I grew up in.

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I'm from Phoenix, but I grew up in a small town in Payson.

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From 7 to 18 years old, when I go back, like when I run into those people at a restaurant or whatever, like I feel like I know them still.

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Exactly because you're keeping up with their lives, or you're like oh, how's your kid Todd doing?

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You know what I mean.

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Like I know, there's goods and bads to social media.

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Yeah, it's true.

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Yeah.

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This question comes from joseph.

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He says my friends joke that I have mommy issues because I'm dating someone 15 years older.

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Should I care what they think, or is this a red flag I'm ignoring?

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do you want the age I want?

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That was like a half half, I know, because he doesn't give their he doesn't give their ages.

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So I have, I have one of my very, very best girlfriends.

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She's 53 and she's married to a 28 year old, woo, and it and it works.

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And it works for them and it works for them.

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But I think they both have mommy issues.

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That's funny.

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I don't know but it, but it works.

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So say he's, so say he's 28,.

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She's 43.

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If he's happy and he's in love, then who cares what other people think?

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There's a quote that I love Life truly begins when you stop trying to please the audience.

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Why do you care, what other people think?

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Do you.

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If he's happy and she's happy, I say go for it.

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Brashly honest.

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My Facebook says hard but brashly honest.

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but loving you know what I mean, that kind of thing, I don't think 15 years is too much of an age difference.

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I'd assume it's probably like, let's say, 30 and 45.

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I don't think, especially because now 40-year-old women look, they are on fire, they look like they're in their 20s.

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Yeah, I don't think 15 years is too much, isn't Kim Kardashian 45?

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I think so.

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Something like that.

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She's close, I think, as long as you're happy.

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Yeah, If you take care of yourself right.

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Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.

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So now we're going to read this Reddit forum about red flags, red flags that people suggest.

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Do you have any red things that you've ignored, red flags in women that you chose to ignore?

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And then, looking back, you're like, oh, I should have listened to that red flag oh, mine, mine would be political views really yeah, so you could never date a far a liberal no, liberal, liberal stuff for me really, do you try to get that out right?

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well, now you might, after it's easy to smell now yeah, I mean like you can kind of smell it out a little bit right because we've talked about that before like should you discuss politics on a first date or super early on in the relationship?

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Probably yes.

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You don't want to waste your time.

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How are you?

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dating right, like I mean, if a dude's like, oh she's hot, I want to have sex with her, maybe he's not going to do that.

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Yeah, but if you're actually dating dating to be in a relationship, so in the first date are you asking a lot of questions like crazy deep questions?

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I went to lunch with a gal like seven, eight months ago, and I didn't even know it was really a date, like I just thought we were going to talk about some business shit, but like it was like serious questions, like what do you want in life?

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We got this and I'm like, fuck, I don't even know, like I don't even know, I don't even know you that well yeah.

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I do think, though, the older you get, why not get all those serious questions out of the way?

00:28:16.413 --> 00:28:22.699
so that if you don't align this is a 40-year-old woman, by the way If you don't align, you don't have to waste your time on a second or third date right, yeah, yeah.

00:28:23.569 --> 00:28:25.971
So here are some red flags.

00:28:25.971 --> 00:28:27.294
According to, people Ankle socks.

00:28:28.094 --> 00:28:29.055
You do.

00:28:29.055 --> 00:28:33.019
I'm rocking ankle socks, me too, yeah.

00:28:33.338 --> 00:28:41.066
If he's a political science major, being self-righteous, she would take it upon herself to explain everything to me, and I was like bitch, I'm not dumb.

00:28:41.446 --> 00:28:41.987
I don't like that.

00:28:41.987 --> 00:28:51.278
I don't like people who have to explain every little thing that they're doing, because if you can't tell what I'm doing by my actions, you're not probably intelligent enough.

00:28:54.009 --> 00:28:55.115
Yeah, actions, you're not probably intelligent enough.

00:28:55.115 --> 00:28:57.768
Yeah, lack in depth uh-huh, if they don't own a calendar I mean, I have a calendar, but a lot of people just use their phone, right?

00:28:57.788 --> 00:28:58.330
do you own a phone?

00:28:58.330 --> 00:29:01.818
Uh-huh right exactly, yeah, if they play golf.

00:29:01.858 --> 00:29:03.402
I feel like everyone plays golf nowadays.

00:29:03.402 --> 00:29:04.594
No, that's not a red flag.

00:29:04.594 --> 00:29:21.400
Yeah, although I know a lot of women get jealous because their man is always playing golf and they would prefer the man to spend more time with them, you know, if he's playing golf I don't play golf, but I'm the same in the ma gym and wrestling and so I have the same habit I don't play golf, communicates with an ex still, absolutely.

00:29:21.400 --> 00:29:22.605
Don't you think that's a red flag?

00:29:22.945 --> 00:29:23.971
Women hate that for sure.

00:29:24.030 --> 00:29:24.625
Right Like.

00:29:24.625 --> 00:29:28.534
Would you be okay if your current girlfriend was still texting her ex?

00:29:29.395 --> 00:29:30.077
No, probably not.

00:29:30.077 --> 00:29:34.753
But I'm that kind of dude that like, if I don't like a few things, phew.

00:29:34.753 --> 00:29:37.159
You just leave, you bolt Take care.

00:29:38.566 --> 00:29:39.871
Has friends of opposite sex.

00:29:39.871 --> 00:29:45.289
That one is kind of a slippery slope how this conversation is right.

00:29:45.289 --> 00:29:46.954
How do you feel about your girlfriend being friends with no?

00:29:46.974 --> 00:29:49.508
because I've had girls that I'm been seeing.

00:29:49.508 --> 00:30:00.550
Like we go out dates, we see each other a little bit, and then all of a sudden, like leila, my friend leila, that's my friend like I'm not changing, like we can go meet at the bar and have drinks, like I already said I didn't want to fuck her.

00:30:00.590 --> 00:30:01.653
You know what I mean.

00:30:01.673 --> 00:30:03.237
But women don't hear it that way always.

00:30:03.237 --> 00:30:05.932
Yeah, you know Like, oh, she's kind of attractive.

00:30:06.625 --> 00:30:10.693
How do you feel about men being friends with women if you're dating them?

00:30:10.693 --> 00:30:11.957
Are you okay with it?

00:30:11.957 --> 00:30:12.698
I am yeah.

00:30:13.145 --> 00:30:15.790
I have friends that are men Do they have to be ugly though.

00:30:15.790 --> 00:30:27.946
You almost can't be attractive to.

00:30:27.946 --> 00:30:28.268
I know that's.

00:30:28.268 --> 00:30:29.913
That's where I'm torn, cause like I think about that too and I think about.

00:30:29.913 --> 00:30:32.460
I think about my friends who are guys, cause I have this one guy friend and he pretty much exclusively only dates.

00:30:32.480 --> 00:30:33.884
Asian women, and so I know that I'm not his type and he's very.

00:30:34.204 --> 00:30:37.230
He's short, he's shorter than I am and so he's not my type.

00:30:37.230 --> 00:30:40.695
Like I can't date a man that's shorter than me and I'm not Asian.

00:30:40.695 --> 00:30:42.019
So we are not each other's type.

00:30:42.019 --> 00:30:52.550
We are great friends, yeah, but I really think, I really think if I called him and I was like hey, I'm horny, like let's do it, I don't think he would.

00:30:52.550 --> 00:30:53.953
I don't think he would.

00:30:53.953 --> 00:30:54.478
I bet he would.

00:30:54.505 --> 00:30:55.505
He might be freaked out by it.

00:30:55.665 --> 00:30:57.071
I think he'd be freaked out by it.

00:31:03.085 --> 00:31:03.949
He might be intimidated by it too.

00:31:03.969 --> 00:31:06.178
Maybe I don't know I have, so I have a couple of guy friends do men like dating taller women.

00:31:06.178 --> 00:31:06.499
I don't know.

00:31:06.499 --> 00:31:06.861
I like tall women.

00:31:06.861 --> 00:31:15.150
I find that I short men that's confident I find that short men do like I think, confident as a tall woman yeah, yeah, when I got to college, like there was a smoking hot girl.00:31:15.691 --> 00:31:18.465


I was playing sports there and she's volleyball, but she's like six foot.00:31:18.465 --> 00:31:19.528


So I'm like what the fuck?00:31:19.528 --> 00:31:23.017


She was beautiful, though, and so, like at first they're like hey, she likes you.00:31:23.017 --> 00:31:23.718


This is 20 years ago.00:31:23.718 --> 00:31:25.295


I'm like hell, no, she's taller than me.00:31:25.295 --> 00:31:27.973


And then like three weeks later I'm like yeah, I tell her I want to go out.00:31:29.246 --> 00:31:32.771


I scored a couple of touchdowns Saturday Like I'm a guy now.00:31:32.873 --> 00:31:40.675


That's funny, men with two first names Jean-Paul, that's a red flag is that more european?00:31:40.675 --> 00:31:42.117


Maybe it's european thing.00:31:42.117 --> 00:31:47.483


Yeah, if he asks you what kind of panties you wear, that means he's way sexually immature what kind of panties?00:31:47.544 --> 00:31:49.429


I've never asked a girl what kind of panties they?00:31:49.450 --> 00:31:49.830


wear or what.00:31:49.830 --> 00:31:51.935


I ask them what color I've had.00:31:51.935 --> 00:31:54.817


Guys ask me what color panties I'm wearing and I don't you better.00:31:54.857 --> 00:32:00.695


You got to be in a certain spot where you're comfortable yes, you do it because you're saying you're pretty much saying show me your fucking panties, yes.00:32:00.715 --> 00:32:01.477


So what is the?00:32:01.477 --> 00:32:04.443


Point of asking what color is it to create the visualization in your head?00:32:04.443 --> 00:32:04.565


You?00:32:04.585 --> 00:32:05.509


just want to see your fucking panties.00:32:05.509 --> 00:32:08.305


It's foreplay, it's foreplay maybe you get to see your ass cheeks.00:32:09.067 --> 00:32:13.722


I've 100 said what color your pants I've had men ask me what color panties I'm wearing.00:32:13.762 --> 00:32:19.432


That's funny if all their exes are crazy run well, because they're probably lying.00:32:19.653 --> 00:32:22.458


They're 100 because, if all, of the X's are crazy.00:32:22.458 --> 00:32:22.778


What's the?00:32:22.798 --> 00:32:23.779


bottom denominator.00:32:24.184 --> 00:32:25.811


Like you, are the common denominator.00:32:25.924 --> 00:32:27.931


You're saying if that human says all their.00:32:28.051 --> 00:32:29.276


X's are crazy yeah.00:32:30.006 --> 00:32:34.593


If he uses a metallic blade from the 1950s.00:32:34.613 --> 00:32:35.615


What is that for Shaving?00:32:35.615 --> 00:32:37.176


Huh, what does that mean?00:32:37.176 --> 00:32:38.219


I don't know, I'm not sure.00:32:38.219 --> 00:32:41.452


Like a switchblade.00:32:41.472 --> 00:32:42.981


Like a switchblade that you see in the movies.00:32:42.981 --> 00:32:43.464


I don't know.00:32:43.464 --> 00:32:46.172


If he has a record with pending court dates.00:32:46.172 --> 00:32:49.825


Duh, of course I'm a book nerd, so my big book relates.00:32:49.825 --> 00:32:51.772


What if it's white collar crime?00:32:53.486 --> 00:32:54.510


What if it's organized crime?00:32:55.666 --> 00:32:56.348


Or organized crime.00:32:56.368 --> 00:32:57.573


What if it's organized crime?00:32:57.753 --> 00:33:03.597


Yeah, I'm a book nerd, so my big book related one is if his favorite author is Hemingway, it means he actually doesn't read.00:33:03.597 --> 00:33:14.612


If she wears neon colors, if her phone screen is cracked, if she's a marketing major, if she wears a beanie to class, these are actual things that people are saying.00:33:14.765 --> 00:33:16.969


These must be all young, because they're like college.00:33:16.969 --> 00:33:18.490


Those all seem young, right.00:33:18.872 --> 00:33:22.416


Yeah, if they have an iPhone but no data plan, so she can only iMessage.00:33:22.416 --> 00:33:23.419


Is that an actual thing?00:33:26.645 --> 00:33:33.489


I've only talked to women in Mexico and foreign countries that do that yeah if they take out their calculator to figure out the tip on the bill.00:33:33.608 --> 00:33:34.472


I agree with that one.00:33:34.472 --> 00:33:40.944


That's kind of annoying if they're tipping at a restaurant and you have to get your calculator out that's true, if you can't do 20%.00:33:41.164 --> 00:33:48.957


But some girls aren't great though, Like my grammar's not great, and I know that, but my math is so fucking perfect, it's so fast.00:33:49.258 --> 00:33:49.377


Yeah.00:33:49.657 --> 00:33:50.419


And I'm a big tipper.00:33:50.419 --> 00:33:54.981


I've also invested in nightlife restaurants, so I'm a big tipper.00:33:55.001 --> 00:33:56.002


You understand that.00:33:56.083 --> 00:33:57.609


Yeah, you brought up a good one grammar.00:33:57.609 --> 00:33:59.169


Is that a red flag for you?00:33:59.189 --> 00:34:00.271


Is that a red flag for you, Grammar?00:34:00.291 --> 00:34:03.988


bothers me oh don't read my shit.00:34:03.988 --> 00:34:05.730


It's fast, it's hyperactive.00:34:05.730 --> 00:34:07.914


It would take you three weeks to pick up my language.00:34:08.235 --> 00:34:12.186


Via text At least.00:34:12.186 --> 00:34:16.992


You do like periods and punctuation, when people just do run on with like no periods or commas or no capitalizations.00:34:19.409 --> 00:34:22.237


If I've learned someone's sort of their language.00:34:22.237 --> 00:34:33.954


I had this friend, his name was mark, and we called what he said, we would call it markanese, and you had to speak markanese to understand what, like what he was saying or what he was texting or whatever.00:34:33.954 --> 00:34:43.568


And so if it's like a lingo thing, yeah, that's one thing to me but if you're on the go and you're doing voice to text, if it's ignorant and poor grammar.00:34:44.251 --> 00:34:49.228


That's kind of a turn off mine I think if I was, if I'm slow and not in a rush, it's probably pretty good.00:34:49.228 --> 00:34:56.572


Yeah, but mine's more or less like um, I got one kid over here with a problem, my fucking company's doing this, this and I'm texting you back.00:34:56.572 --> 00:34:58.385


It might not be perfect, it might.00:34:58.425 --> 00:35:01.371


Yeah, it's not great if you own a reptile.00:35:01.371 --> 00:35:05.166


If a guy owns a reptile, is that deal breaker?00:35:05.166 --> 00:35:11.097


No, that's just a pet I've never owned a reptile if they wear reebok running shoes.00:35:11.097 --> 00:35:12.809


Is this something against reebok running shoes?00:35:13.710 --> 00:35:14.293


I don't think so.00:35:14.293 --> 00:35:16.228


I have a favorite restaurant is texas roadhouse.00:35:16.349 --> 00:35:20.889


I've heard so many people slam texas roadhouse and be like that's a deal breaker if they take me there on a first date.00:35:20.889 --> 00:35:22.653


I love te Texas Roadhouse.00:35:22.653 --> 00:35:24.608


I'd be chuffed if I was taken there on a first date.00:35:24.608 --> 00:35:25.753


It's so good.00:35:26.144 --> 00:35:28.005


As a girl who brings you look like you're not amused.00:35:28.005 --> 00:35:35.867


As a girl who brings all of her beef back with her from the farm in Iowa, I'm not happy with.00:35:35.907 --> 00:35:36.632


Texas Roadhouse.00:35:36.632 --> 00:35:38.768


I'm bougie, so what's wrong with Texas Roadhouse?00:35:38.768 --> 00:35:40.994


No, what's wrong with Texas Roadhouse.00:35:41.253 --> 00:35:42.496


You didn't have a steak.00:35:42.496 --> 00:35:43.438


No, it's okay.00:35:43.438 --> 00:35:46.913


You know if we're talking about this, you know how many times I go and buy a $400 dinner and I leave pissed off these days.00:35:46.913 --> 00:35:48.072


Yeah, a lot of restaurants just fucking sell no.00:35:48.233 --> 00:35:49.336


I don't do steakhouse.00:35:49.336 --> 00:36:00.735


When I moved here I remember my dad had made the comment like we don't need to go to a steakhouse because our steak is better than the restaurants he's like.00:36:00.735 --> 00:36:03.219


I want to go to other types of restaurants.00:36:03.219 --> 00:36:05.289


I'm not a big.00:36:05.289 --> 00:36:07.016


It's nothing against Texas Roadhouse.00:36:07.016 --> 00:36:10.945


I'll order a salad at Texas Roadhouse, but I'm not going to order a steak at Texas Roadhouse.00:36:10.985 --> 00:36:14.275


If you come from a farm where you have like grade A beef, I can see that.00:36:14.425 --> 00:36:17.608


I was in a meeting yesterday and they're like, hey, stk is going out of business, of course they are.00:36:17.628 --> 00:36:18.108


I ate there three times.00:36:18.108 --> 00:36:18.650


I I ate there three times.00:36:18.650 --> 00:36:20.130


I said it's the worst fucking place I've ever eaten.00:36:20.130 --> 00:36:22.273


I went there once and said I would never go back.00:36:22.574 --> 00:36:23.574


I've always wanted to go there.00:36:23.574 --> 00:36:24.175


I'm glad I didn't.00:36:24.215 --> 00:36:26.478


Yeah, no, I said, it makes sense.00:36:27.699 --> 00:36:31.048


Yeah, car problems Wasn't our last guest talking about.00:36:31.048 --> 00:36:35.311


If a guy has car problems and can't fix it himself, if their name starts with a J, it's a red flag.00:36:35.525 --> 00:36:44.451


I completely agree with that, it's a phone show Bitch, run, run, run, run that is hilarious, j squared over here.00:36:44.471 --> 00:36:47.313


Thanks a lot, but that one is coming.00:36:47.313 --> 00:36:50.914


I've seen that one on social media Like the.00:36:50.914 --> 00:36:53.237


You know those groups that are like are we dating the same guy?00:36:53.237 --> 00:37:00.041


There will be people will post sometimes and it'll be Justin or Jared or Jay or Jason or Jamie or whatever.00:37:00.041 --> 00:37:05.905


And the comments will all be like girl if his name starts with a J he's an automatic red flag Justin is my middle name.00:37:06.246 --> 00:37:07.190


I live by my middle name.00:37:08.065 --> 00:37:13.710


I could go by DJ because I did when I was little, that's funny I wouldn't go by my first name ever.00:37:13.804 --> 00:37:14.467


That's my dad's name.00:37:14.467 --> 00:37:16.451


But yeah, Justin's kind of my name.00:37:16.471 --> 00:37:16.932


That's funny.00:37:24.105 --> 00:37:31.829


Doesn't have a driver's license on her and the guy made a comment about that, like who doesn't carry a physical driver's license?00:37:32.672 --> 00:37:47.739


oh yeah, yeah you know, or you go to a bar and you're dating a young girl and she doesn't have her license with you, like, yeah, probably fucking bring that right you ain't gonna car me right but they're gonna card you this is a huge red flag for me and my pet peeve when people have instagram accounts for their pets or their kids.00:37:47.739 --> 00:37:56.690


Oh my god, special needs like right, like I know people that have instagram for their kids okay, if we're on that, then what about couples with oh?00:37:57.030 --> 00:38:00.489


that's deal breaker, that screams insecurity to me and that they don't trust each other.00:38:00.530 --> 00:38:02.255


Who was was fucking?00:38:02.255 --> 00:38:03.099


Who Do you agree?00:38:03.119 --> 00:38:04.824


Who was stepping out of that relationship, do you agree?00:38:04.824 --> 00:38:12.751


Oh, I will say this I know one and personally know that she was a little bit, the wife was a little bit out there.00:38:12.751 --> 00:38:16.128


And then all of a sudden, six months later, I saw they had a joint account.00:38:16.128 --> 00:38:17.152


I'm like, oh shit, he found out.00:38:18.264 --> 00:38:19.286


That's what hit my mind.00:38:19.286 --> 00:38:21.050


Yeah, I'm sure that's the only reason.00:38:21.090 --> 00:38:34.798


If one of them doesn't trust you, I will I will say that I've known people who create an instagram account for their pet and use it as like their burner account, as like their account.00:38:34.838 --> 00:38:38.927


That they use to like troll people and stalk people and leave comments and stuff.00:38:38.927 --> 00:38:39.929


Yeah, how many, how many?00:38:39.929 --> 00:38:41.972


What percentage of women have stock accounts?00:38:41.972 --> 00:38:47.400


A lot it's high a lot okay yeah, the finstagram accounts.00:38:47.561 --> 00:38:54.358


Uh-huh, uh-huh when grown adults only communicate with you through snapchat or whatsapp or memes.00:38:54.358 --> 00:38:59.289


I, when I was single, I had a guy that would only send me memes and it's like dude, are you never gonna ask me a question?00:38:59.289 --> 00:38:59.429


Or?00:38:59.449 --> 00:39:03.434


a converse like that was his max of humor yeah snapchat.00:39:03.434 --> 00:39:12.137


If you're over 35, I probably am out, right, yeah if you're 25, like okay, yeah, you guys use snapchat, but if you're 35, you're alone with snapchat.00:39:12.137 --> 00:39:13.523


I'm probably out and whatsapp.00:39:13.543 --> 00:39:16.112


Doesn't that scream scammer, like they're in another country?00:39:16.112 --> 00:39:16.994


I like that's it.00:39:17.114 --> 00:39:25.297


I like what I use whatsapp because I travel a lot, so when I meet people from other countries it's a way to continue communication with them.00:39:25.677 --> 00:39:28.231


So WhatsApp isn't my friends in Kulia Khan and Mochi.00:39:28.371 --> 00:39:37.704


Yeah, but I think if a guy, if I was, if I was talking to a guy and he was like, hey, let's take this conversation to WhatsApp in America that would be.00:39:37.704 --> 00:39:40.208


That would be a red flag, I't it kind of scream scammer to you.00:39:40.250 --> 00:39:41.070


A little bit.00:39:41.070 --> 00:39:47.389


No, I've had that many times actually Like girls, reach out to you, but on like Instagram and be like oh, this is my WhatsApp.00:39:47.510 --> 00:39:48.934


Yeah, I'm like what the fuck yeah?00:39:48.954 --> 00:39:49.416


I don't know.00:39:49.925 --> 00:39:50.989


Unavailable to FaceTime.00:39:50.989 --> 00:40:05.532


Huge red flag yeah, Won't post together on social media or don't want me to post pictures of us together.00:40:05.552 --> 00:40:06.335


What was your timeline?00:40:08.206 --> 00:40:08.949


Like how do you feel?00:40:08.969 --> 00:40:09.652


about your timeline.00:40:09.652 --> 00:40:12.014


After three months you're like this dude should be posting me.00:40:12.105 --> 00:40:13.291


Well, no, I found out it's because he was cheating.00:40:13.291 --> 00:40:15.733


He was with multiple women, had a girlfriend, yeah.00:40:15.733 --> 00:40:18.650


So I think that is kind of a red flag if they don't want pictures together.00:40:18.990 --> 00:40:30.532


I think if they haven't met your family, like for me, because I use social media, like I said, to keep up with my family so if they haven't met my family yet, they're not going on my social media.00:40:30.871 --> 00:40:34.619


That's true, though timeline After one date if you're posting pictures together on social media.00:40:34.619 --> 00:40:35.264


That's kind of creepy.00:40:35.445 --> 00:40:45.331


I think, if you're dating 90 days with a guy straight and you've been out 20 times together and he doesn't post at least softies for you like softies?00:40:45.371 --> 00:40:47.197


like a video or something.00:40:47.197 --> 00:40:48.623


What is that called the young couple?00:40:48.623 --> 00:40:50.248


The young people call it like a soft launch.00:40:50.248 --> 00:40:51.911


The soft launch, yeah.00:40:51.952 --> 00:41:02.197


So like yeah, if you're not, at least getting a soft launch like in the first 45, 60 days yeah, yeah, he's a fuck boy or something yeah, love bombing, love bombing moving too fast, that's a red flag, I feel, yeah, love bombing, love bombing.00:41:02.197 --> 00:41:03.065


Moving too fast, that's a red flag.00:41:03.065 --> 00:41:05.829


I feel like if they start off too strong, it means it's not going to go anywhere.00:41:05.849 --> 00:41:08.960


Yeah, Well, and I think that's usually the narcissist tactic.00:41:09.001 --> 00:41:10.969


I was just going to say, narcissist personality does that.00:41:10.989 --> 00:41:12.894


Yeah, mm-hmm, you should know about this one.00:41:12.894 --> 00:41:13.376


You hit it.00:41:22.744 --> 00:41:23.226


Borrowing money asking.00:41:23.226 --> 00:41:24.327


More men ask me to borrow money than I can count.00:41:24.327 --> 00:41:25.347


I've given guys money, but you got it back, right?00:41:25.367 --> 00:41:32.175


Yes, I did, even when I was a young kid and I was young and didn't have a lot of money, I made sure I had enough money to take women out.00:41:32.175 --> 00:41:33.076


That was life for me.00:41:33.076 --> 00:41:34.838


I was never going to not.00:41:34.838 --> 00:41:37.900


I've never made a woman pay for half of a tab in my life.00:41:37.900 --> 00:41:39.882


Maybe on dating apps.00:41:39.882 --> 00:41:40.724


This is somewhat normal.00:41:40.744 --> 00:41:47.592


People told me that if, if a guy asks me to pay for half on a date, I will pay the entire bill.00:41:47.672 --> 00:41:59.110


Yeah, and then and then we will never go out again like it will not, it will, like you will not get a second date question, but then a guy will ask you for money and you'll give him money her heart's, her heart's soft.00:41:59.132 --> 00:42:01.335


sometimes I'm confused.00:42:01.335 --> 00:42:03.056


My heart, is soft.00:42:03.177 --> 00:42:04.619


sometimes it is.00:42:04.860 --> 00:42:05.099


It is.00:42:05.507 --> 00:42:06.657


It's situational.00:42:06.657 --> 00:42:07.505


It's situational.00:42:07.625 --> 00:42:12.617


One day she'll have a 25-year-old son and be like oh, I'm setting you $200, son Bro, he's 25.00:42:12.617 --> 00:42:21.134


I grew up with the opposite my mom's easy on women, right Easy on my older sister and hard as fuck on me.00:42:21.514 --> 00:42:21.675


Yeah.00:42:23.625 --> 00:42:25.849


And you know, that's probably why I turned out the way I did, and it's so nowadays.00:42:25.889 --> 00:42:31.637


I respect it, yeah, yeah so now we're gonna chat about celebrities marinate in the juices of the celebrities.00:42:31.637 --> 00:42:33.083


We gotta talk bonnie blue.00:42:33.083 --> 00:42:36.793


Do you know, bonnie blue, that only fans model that she wanted?00:42:36.793 --> 00:42:49.648


The one that took 500 a thousand men in 24 hours now she's doing a petting zoo where she's putting herself in a glass cage, she's going to tie herself down and she's allowing 2,000 men to come in and do whatever they want to her.00:42:49.648 --> 00:42:53.525


What I just think it's disgusting.00:42:53.525 --> 00:42:55.351


So you don't respect OnlyFans models.00:42:55.425 --> 00:42:55.786


So what do you?00:42:55.806 --> 00:42:57.110


think of Bonnie Blue.00:42:57.331 --> 00:42:58.114


So you've never heard of her?00:42:58.114 --> 00:42:59.608


No, I know what you're talking about.00:42:59.608 --> 00:43:01.413


She fucked like 580 dudes in one day.00:43:01.432 --> 00:43:02.235


She's crazy.00:43:02.235 --> 00:43:05.231


Yeah, she broke the Guinness world record.00:43:05.231 --> 00:43:06.635


I think no.00:43:06.824 --> 00:43:08.110


That was her goal, her ambition.00:43:08.110 --> 00:43:11.215


I need to break the world record for banging the most men 24 hours.00:43:12.246 --> 00:43:16.331


How does that make you feel inside Like she seems so confident?00:43:16.411 --> 00:43:17.574


and so happy about it, is she just dead?00:43:17.675 --> 00:43:18.255


inside.00:43:18.255 --> 00:43:19.851


I would just feel dead inside.00:43:23.065 --> 00:43:24.195


Her poor parents, right, Her poor family.00:43:24.195 --> 00:43:27.284


I would feel like a failure as a mother if my daughter ended up doing that.00:43:27.284 --> 00:43:29.072


And what message is she giving to women?00:43:29.072 --> 00:43:32.855


Does she think she's a feminist?00:43:32.855 --> 00:43:34.170


And oh, women can do, we can.00:43:34.864 --> 00:43:38.710


You think once you already just did something so shitty you're like, oh fuck, just stay a path.00:43:38.710 --> 00:43:40.391


Yeah, she probably does a lot of bad stuff.00:43:48.824 --> 00:43:51.956


So she was banned from the football games in the uk because she was advertising she was offering to sexually please the players or the fans.00:43:51.956 --> 00:43:52.438


Yeah, so she was banned.00:43:52.438 --> 00:43:57.572


But she snuck in and the guards found her and like escorted her out again because she was again advertising sexually explicit.00:43:57.572 --> 00:44:01.490


You know activities with the fans and it's like oh, she's european, she's english.00:44:01.751 --> 00:44:24.847


She doesn't give us English women a good name, I know I saw a video of her recently where she was in like in a DJ booth somewhere and like the DJ is working or whatever, and she like all of a sudden her head just goes and goes under the DJ table and she's down for like 30 seconds and then she comes back up and she's like like that, like it's like she's good then if it's 30 seconds.00:44:24.907 --> 00:44:26.972


It was so short, it was so short.00:44:26.992 --> 00:44:28.396


That's why I was like damn.00:44:28.396 --> 00:44:38.811


I was like that's it, like it must have been so short for her to be done, that's right but and my question too is what men are actually participating in this?00:44:38.851 --> 00:44:48.786


would you want to be involved with a woman that has just had 990 men buying her, and then you're up next I've never even been okay with trains, like with just one of my buddies.00:44:49.086 --> 00:44:50.771


Yeah, oh, and that's the other thing.00:44:50.771 --> 00:44:58.394


That's not a threesome if there's two men and a and a woman, I've had this conversation with guy friends before too.00:44:58.434 --> 00:44:58.675


Why?00:44:58.675 --> 00:45:03.351


That's a train that when it's two guys and a woman, it's a train, not a threesome.00:45:03.351 --> 00:45:04.713


Men will never call that a threesome.00:45:05.114 --> 00:45:05.436


Really.00:45:05.615 --> 00:45:06.878


Yeah, you got trained, so that's.00:45:07.487 --> 00:45:08.630


I had to say that on the other podcast.00:45:08.650 --> 00:45:25.045


They were talking about threesomes and I said absolutely fucking not, that's not it's a train we should bull.00:45:25.067 --> 00:45:25.528


He joins in on couples.00:45:25.528 --> 00:45:25.869


Yeah, he's like a.00:45:25.869 --> 00:45:26.211


What do you yeah?00:45:26.211 --> 00:45:26.875


It's a bull, right, he's a swinger.00:45:26.894 --> 00:45:28.663


Yeah, uh, we should have asked him about that, yeah, if it's called a three, some more.00:45:28.663 --> 00:45:35.574


If it's called a train, like I've had, I've had weird things like that, where men are like have asked you to come in my wife, yeah, well your wife's hot.00:45:35.574 --> 00:45:37.543


But no, I don't want to make your wife couldn't do it.00:45:37.563 --> 00:45:41.554


Question do you get turned on by other men banging your girlfriend or your wife?00:45:41.554 --> 00:45:42.717


I know some men are into that.00:45:42.737 --> 00:45:43.639


No, that's the same thing.00:45:43.639 --> 00:45:43.958


Oh is it?00:45:43.958 --> 00:45:44.760


That's disgusting.00:45:45.001 --> 00:45:45.161


No.00:45:45.764 --> 00:45:46.204


Not your cup of tea.00:45:46.204 --> 00:45:50.896


I think for me, because I'm what's the right word here Selfish.00:45:51.336 --> 00:45:53.510


Not selfish, Like don't fuck with my shit.00:45:53.965 --> 00:45:56.152


Territorial would be the word, maybe Mm-hmm.00:45:56.414 --> 00:45:56.614


Yeah.00:46:04.844 --> 00:46:07.130


So what, your favorite place to take a woman to on a first date, my normal first date stuff uh, nice dinner and not.00:46:07.130 --> 00:46:12.166


Not, I don't like, I don't go to a nice dinner for the impress of the woman, I just eat nice shit.00:46:12.166 --> 00:46:14.050


So I'm kind of bougie right.00:46:14.050 --> 00:46:21.110


So, like, if I'm like, oh, I'm gonna go on a date wednesday with this girl, like I'm gonna book a place that I eat at anyway, what is your favorite?00:46:22.512 --> 00:46:23.353


Have you tried?00:46:23.353 --> 00:46:25.416


I eat at the Inns regularly in Old Town.00:46:25.416 --> 00:46:26.318


What is it?00:46:26.318 --> 00:46:26.838


The Inns.00:46:26.838 --> 00:46:28.260


The Inns it's good.00:46:28.260 --> 00:46:29.588


They got burned Inns good.00:46:29.588 --> 00:46:31.293


New York steaks it's pretty solid.00:46:31.293 --> 00:46:33.311


I've ate at City Hall for years.00:46:33.311 --> 00:46:33.913


I eat at City Hall.00:46:33.913 --> 00:46:35.431


If I'm down in Chandler I go to Chop.00:46:35.431 --> 00:46:43.427


Do you do dinner on a first date?00:46:43.427 --> 00:46:43.668


What if it?00:46:43.668 --> 00:46:44.170


What if it goes badly?00:46:44.170 --> 00:46:44.934


And then you're so sad for dinner?00:46:44.934 --> 00:46:45.777


I do because I don't meet women.00:46:45.797 --> 00:46:56.411


Oh, that's true that is true, you've already met them in real life, and so you already kind of know that you're interested in them a social thing in scottsdale yeah and then I met him and then agree to a date that's true.00:46:56.411 --> 00:46:58.536


Yeah, so you've already met in person.00:46:58.536 --> 00:47:00.847


I think if I was an online, dater like many is.00:47:00.967 --> 00:47:05.275


I would just be like yo, let's meet at starbucks yeah yeah, yeah, I think that I would be that right.00:47:05.295 --> 00:47:05.938


That makes sense.00:47:05.938 --> 00:47:09.009


So now do you lose respect for a woman if she puts out on the first date?00:47:11.032 --> 00:47:14.157


uh, I don't know.00:47:14.157 --> 00:47:15.704


Is that unrespectful, or was that?00:47:15.786 --> 00:47:19.373


man very skilled that's a good question, that's true.00:47:19.373 --> 00:47:19.753


How many drinks?00:47:19.753 --> 00:47:20.155


How talented is he?00:47:20.175 --> 00:47:22.260


maybe he's got skills, I don't know I don't know if I want to be over overjudgy either side.00:47:22.260 --> 00:47:23.161


That's a good question, that's true.00:47:23.161 --> 00:47:23.543


How many drinks?00:47:23.543 --> 00:47:23.943


How talented is he?00:47:23.943 --> 00:47:25.266


Maybe he's got skills, I don't know.00:47:25.266 --> 00:47:27.273


I don't know if I want to be overjudgy either side.00:47:27.644 --> 00:47:34.273


Well, now it's time for the most delicious segment of the show Zoyo and Tell, sponsored by Zoyo, your neighborhood yogurt.00:47:34.273 --> 00:47:35.297


Have you been to Zoyo?00:47:36.148 --> 00:47:37.420


I've known Zoyo for years yeah.00:47:38.246 --> 00:47:39.190


Okay, pick one of these.00:47:39.190 --> 00:47:41.193


Some are innocent, some are not so innocent.00:47:41.193 --> 00:47:42.295


I saw one that was kind of weird.00:47:42.295 --> 00:47:44.079


Pick one at your own risk.00:47:44.826 --> 00:47:45.789


He's going to look for it.00:47:45.789 --> 00:47:47.572


He's like I wanted to answer that weird one.00:47:48.726 --> 00:47:55.659


One was weird, for sure, let's take this one, all right.00:47:55.659 --> 00:47:58.873


The craziest place I've had sex no that's a good one.00:47:59.045 --> 00:47:59.905


Oh, this is a good one.00:47:59.925 --> 00:48:00.186


I feel like I.00:48:00.186 --> 00:48:02.389


No, that's a good one oh this is a good one.00:48:02.389 --> 00:48:06.835


I feel like I wouldn't even call them crazy places, but like Neiman Marcus, what In the?00:48:06.896 --> 00:48:07.597


dressing room.00:48:07.597 --> 00:48:10.460


Fuck For sure what.00:48:10.460 --> 00:48:14.429


Here's my thing, and this is what I tell girls when I start dating.00:48:14.429 --> 00:48:20.034


I say shit like this, but I'll be like I'm always an orgasm giver first, like I live on that shit, right, I actually get attracted.00:48:20.034 --> 00:48:23.871


Live on that shit, right, I actually get attracted.00:48:23.871 --> 00:48:24.894


But I'm turned on by seeing a woman orgasm first.00:48:24.894 --> 00:48:27.304


Right, but I'm like there's gonna be some times that you're not gonna get that orgasm first.00:48:27.304 --> 00:48:33.391


It's gonna be very rare, but it's probably gonna be like neiman marcus in the fucking dress in the dressing room when we only get two or five seconds.00:48:33.411 --> 00:48:35.117


Yeah, yeah, so there's your time.00:48:35.579 --> 00:48:40.351


That's hilarious, or it might be at like a bar or something we're out that night like, or in the office.00:48:40.351 --> 00:48:44.659


Maybe I invest in a place in the office, but we're not gonna be in there for 15 minutes you know what I mean.00:48:44.719 --> 00:48:45.885


Are you a member of the mile high club?00:48:46.809 --> 00:48:47.190


I'm not.00:48:47.190 --> 00:48:51.108


I don't think I could fit in the bathroom right that's funny, this so this is our conversation.00:48:51.550 --> 00:48:51.813


What?00:48:51.813 --> 00:48:53.398


What counts as mile high club?00:48:53.398 --> 00:48:57.128


Does it have to be in the bathroom or can it be anywhere on the plate?00:48:57.128 --> 00:48:58.869


You got a handy, a handy?00:48:58.869 --> 00:49:15.987


I don't think a handy counts I think there has to be penetration of some sort, but it could be on like the seats or it could be hard to penetrate on the seats, though I'd be scared to death to try to have sex in a fucking place if you're in a lay down like I'm not registering as a damn sex offender.00:49:16.007 --> 00:49:17.630


That's a good point.00:49:17.630 --> 00:49:21.878


That's a good point, because if someone found you, you would be jailed right yes.00:49:22.478 --> 00:49:22.880


Yes.00:49:23.144 --> 00:49:24.268


Like what is that public?00:49:24.268 --> 00:49:26.585


Yes, no.00:49:26.746 --> 00:49:34.195


I was, and you're right about that, because I was flying with my six-year-old niece like two weeks ago and she I have to go to the bathroom.00:49:34.195 --> 00:49:35.471


She has to go to the bathroom right.00:49:35.471 --> 00:49:40.492


Me and my six-year-old niece barely fit in the bathroom on the plane.00:49:40.492 --> 00:49:42.317


How, six-year-old niece, barely fit in the bathroom on the plane.00:49:42.317 --> 00:49:44.922


How are two grown adults supposed to fit in that bathroom?00:49:44.943 --> 00:49:45.945


Yeah, and I stand there and just pee.00:49:45.945 --> 00:49:48.449


I put like a hand on the wall, I'm leaning over it.00:49:48.449 --> 00:49:50.027


Try not to pee on the seat right.00:49:50.027 --> 00:49:51.612


Yeah, it's tiny in there.00:49:52.393 --> 00:49:53.235


Do you have any other questions?00:49:53.235 --> 00:49:56.646


No, it's funny, no, well, thank you so much for joining us this week at the Meat Market.00:49:56.646 --> 00:49:57.989


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Oh my God, I just totally got catfished.00:50:19.844 --> 00:50:20.907


He looks absolutely nothing like his picture.00:50:20.907 --> 00:50:25.088


So I found out the guy that I've been dating is married with kids.00:50:25.088 --> 00:50:27.253


His wife just reached out to me.