Swipe Right for Riches, Left for Losers 😂

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Oh my god, I just totally got catfished.

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He looks absolutely nothing like his picture.

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So I found out, the guy that I've been dating is married with kids.

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His wife just reached out to me.

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Welcome to the Meat Market.

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The single scene is a slaughterhouse and we are here to devour it.

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We are your hosts.

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I'm Lindsay, I'm Jess and today's sizzling single is Carly.

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Woohoo, welcome, thank you.

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So a little birdie told me that you have a list on your phone of your 20 deal breakers that you whip out on every first date and make the man answer these.

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Is that correct?

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What?

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are they?

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She's like where's?

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my phone.

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I was going to say where's my phone.

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I was going to show you.

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Yeah, so I have a lot of deal breakers that I won't tolerate like at all.

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I mean, I guess as I get older they'll like slowly come off the list, but like as of now I'm only 28, so they're kind of like strong, but it's smoking.

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Facial hair tattoos.

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Wait, no, you don't like facial hair, or you do like it.

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No, no, no, no.

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so they have to be clean, shaven, yeah, and like if I have a man that has facial hair, I'm like are you going to shave, otherwise, like I won't go out with you.

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And like men will like shave to go out, or they won't and I won't go out with them.

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Wow, that's kind of what it is Like.

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Either you, um, and then uh, their political views, their religion, if they want kids, if they snore, I like I can't live my life.

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But they snore, I can't do it.

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I can't live my life.

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Your girl needs beauty sleep.

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I'm, I can't.

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That's hilarious.

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Um, I like gambling.

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So they have to go to the casino and like do blackjack with me.

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I'm a big blackjack person.

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I also like country music.

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They do like country music.

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I have the weirdest deal breakers.

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Oh, I don't date androids.

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That bothers me, that's a deal breaker.

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Yeah, that bothers me, I can't.

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I can't what Eventually?

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I can't.

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I'm going to want to stalk their location and they won't be able to share with me.

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I also want to know I'm being like red and like ignored.

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I can't do that on an android, but you know.

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You know that already before you go on a date with somebody because you find that out as soon as you start texting, right?

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yes, usually the photos a lot of times that's, do you?

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judge by a green text.

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Do you kind of judge?

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no, my brother still does, yeah, like a google phone or android phone.

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So no, no, not really, but it is inconvenient, it's the worst it ruins the whole group message it does it.

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Yeah, our family everything up could be so selfish our family chat's a little difficult so you said political views.

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So can you not date a republican, a democrat like?

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um, I forgot what that is, so I'm conservative so I don't date liberals okay I don't.

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I always forget which democrat means.

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Do you have a mega hat?

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No, because people, these libs out here, they're so crazy with mega hats, like they're.

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I saw a video on tiktok and this this girl was in first class.

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A guy was wearing a mega hat.

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She was like freaking out, being like I won't sit next to you because you're a mega hat.

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It was like freaking up, getting kicked off the plane.

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But people are just like crazy and I just I don't.

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I'm not like that, I'm not that strong like I like it, but I'm not like.

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I want to like wear a Trump shirt you know.

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And what about religion?

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You said that's a deal breaker.

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Are you religious or not?

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yes, you are, yeah, yeah, so I'm christian.

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Okay, yeah, so do they have to go to church uh well, it's kind of I want a christian, but not like too christian where you're gonna like read the bible and like be so strict with like you can't go and drink and like have a sunday fun day like I don't know.

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Like I want like a christian guy because I want my children, my future children, to go to church and have like morals, like good values I guess growing up, but not enough where it's like strict.

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So I would go to church with them, I would, but I also want to like give them oses at 10 am when I want to give them oses you know.

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So these things are these things that you talk about on the first date always, or do you sometimes wait until like date two or three, or do you always just get it right out?

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or before the day, because you said you wouldn't even go out with a guy.

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Yeah, a lot of it's, before you even will meet a guy, you make sure that the deal breakers are so.

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I feel like doesn't that hurt you, because the dating pool is small enough as it is, and then you have all these deal breakers.

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Is there anyone in your dating pool?

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This is why I'm single at 28.

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She's like this is why I moved away from Arizona and I also want to be.

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The main thing is I don't among my other deal breakers is like I don't want to be a 50 50 household, like I want to be a, say, I want to have children.

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I don't want to be a stay-at-home wife like mom and and so I literally have that.

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My bumble profile, like my main bio, is like I'm looking for a provider, I want to want to be a stay home mom, making it like very clear.

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Um and so a lot of these men out here are cheap and like they want, like a working wife, mom, blah, blah blah.

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I'm not doing that, that's not happening.

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So a lot of like uh yeah, I think that's also why I'm single.

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It's because there's no providers.

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I feel like there are some men, though, that want the trad wife to stay at home and take care of the kids and cook dinner, but I don't know.

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In Arizona I haven't met many of those.

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Isn't that more like the Midwest type?

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Yeah, it's hard to find here.

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So when you were dating here.

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did you find that hard to find?

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Were you in Scottsdale?

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Yeah, and how was?

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It's hard to date in Scottsdale because the nightlife is so vibrant.

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It's almost kind of like Vegas or Miami.

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The clubs in Scottsdale are just.

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If you go to the club streets there's a row of clubs.

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It's just filled with men, girls, but I feel like everyone just cheats out here Because the club is just so accessible.

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There's so many pretty girls in Scottsdale Like there's so many and there's like one hot man out of like 50 hot girls and so like the dating pool is so good for men because there's so many hot girls like to choose from.

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So cheating is just happens all the time here.

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I feel like like all my boyfriends end up cheating.

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It's just crazy, I was gonna say.

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Have you imagined what your like your daily life, in your perfect daily life, as a stay at home wife slash mom, what would that look like?

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Like would you have help?

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Would you have like?

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You know what I mean?

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Do you expect the man to also then provide nannies and things like this?

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Or Do you expect the man to also then provide nannies and things like this?

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Or are you open to doing the cooking, doing the cleaning, things like that?

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I don't know how to cook.

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You want to be a?

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trad wife, but you don't know how to cook.

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I can cook you pasta, that's hilarious.

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I know how to boil some noodles.

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I know how to make cereal.

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I know how to flip an egg like, but if you want like chicken parmesan like, you gotta uber eats that.

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I don't know how to do it, I don't.

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So no, and I told men this like and I also don't want to clean like you can hire a maid I'm.

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I want to marry someone rich because I don't want to do anything okay so, and so you'd probably want a nanny to so I I would want a nanny I thought about this Out of like seven days out of the week.

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My husband's off, you know, saturday and Sunday most likely, so like we'd be having like family time those days, and then Monday through Friday.

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I would probably want like a nanny, like one day out of the week just to give myself like a mental mental break.

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Go get my nails done, you know, go get lunch by myself, just have like a mental sanity break.

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But the other four days I would be with my daughter, or hopefully my daughter, my like my kids.

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I want a daughter.

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I don't know my future daughter's name.

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It's gonna be Ellie, ellie and Lily oh yeah hitting the town, yeah, um, but yeah, it's only one, one nanny or one day a week for the nanny.

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Hopefully a maid, like I don't know twice a week, I don't know twice a week, I don't know how often maids come and then cook.

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I'm hoping my husband just cooks.

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I don't know how to do it.

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I'll kind of like digit, like the dishes, but I don't so when was your last relationship?

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He was controlling.

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Really.

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We actually broke up the day after Halloween.

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When how recent, really.

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We actually broke up the day after Halloween, when how recent.

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Uh, halloween, uh, last Halloween got.

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Yeah, it's like last year, that was my last boyfriend, how long were you together for?

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five months okay, yeah, it wasn't that long.

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He was so controlling, which led to our breakup.

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Um, he like tried to tell me, like, what I can and cannot wear, which I hate when men try to tell me like my boobs are always out, and he hated that.

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He was like wear a shirt that like covers, and I'm like no.

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So that bothered me and then he gave me a curfew.

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What?

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Yes, like I'm five years old, it's what.

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He didn't pay any of my bills and I'm like, if he 's not paying my bills, you can't tell me what to do.

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That's not.

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I was just gonna ask that, was he provider?

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Though because are you willing to make some sacrifices for a man that is a provider?

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Because there are going to be expectations.

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If you're not cooking and you're not cleaning, he's going to expect you to bring something to the table.

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My looks, my body, my personality, my breathing just existence.

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He gave you a curfew.

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Did you live together?

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No, so he made you go home at a certain time, that is, he had my location.

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He was stalking me because he made me do that too I learned my lesson.

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It looks like you're not at home.

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You need to head home now.

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Like what?

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that is bizarre, wild like.

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So my curfew was 10 o'clock, oh my god, yeah, and I would like going out to the bars.

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My girlfriend's just getting free drinks from men, and he didn't like that either.

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He's like don't get free drinks from men.

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And I'm like are you giving me money because I'm not paying for this?

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And he's like, well, no, I'm not giving you money.

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I'm like okay, then I'm getting free drinks.

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I'm not surfing my credit card when I can have it made and just buy it for me.

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I'm not doing that.

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So that was a whole issue.

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I'm like I don't care what you say, I'm doing anyways.

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Um, and then you have to go with my girlfriends and then he's like oh, it's 10, 10, 20.

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Like are you on your way home?

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I'm like, no, I'm not, I'm not you're like.

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I just got my fourth free drink of the night from the fourth man that offered to buy me a drink tonight he's psycho.

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And then we broke up because my halloween outfit was very um, like a hoe, like halloween outfit, right, like I was a sunny school girl is what I was like dressed up as and he hated it, of course.

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What's new?

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So to him, I lied and I put on some like cheerleading outfit, but it was like very mormon I call it a mormon outfit.

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This isn't covered like, it doesn't show anything, um, so I took a photo I'm like one of my girlfriend's thoughts took a photo and sent to him be like going out, like in my mormon outfit, and I immediately changed into like this slutty school girl I ended up posting about.

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I blocked him on my instagram story that night, um, or like yeah, I think it's blocked.

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Um, and then he texted me at like 11 or something, being like are you home?

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Or like nope, and then he's like, okay, well, I'm gonna pick you up.

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It's like tell me where you're at.

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So he picked me up.

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We went back to my house and then he was like you slept, talk in your sleep, and like you said to like not tell me you changed outfits, what it was like.

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Like I literally stopped talking.

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Like don't tell me I changed.

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Don't tell me I changed that like obviously that's a lie.

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There's no way.

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I would like sleep talk that no.

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It's so weird.

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And so then he had my phone password too.

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He went to my phone, saw my Instagram, like post and the schoolgirl.

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Wait, did you put Mormon outfit back on?

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when he came to pick you up.

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Yeah, oh, my God, it was a whole thing.

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That is hilarious.

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You're like all of us in like junior high, high school, and we're trying to sneak out of home wearing something you know you're not supposed to and your parents won't let you leave the house, so you have, like, your little short skirt on underneath your long skirt.

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That's so funny, literally.

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Oh my God.

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So he went through your phone but tried to claim like you were yeah, wow, interesting.

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So he was like, oh, you changed outfits.

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And then he asked me straight up.

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He's like did you change outfits?

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And then at this point it was like 4 am.

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I was exhausted, I was tired.

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Like yes, I did, like I don't care, yes, and then he stormed out, being like you lied to me, stormed out.

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I'm like, okay, dude, it was 4 am, I went, I just went back to bed, I didn't care.

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And the next day, yeah, we broke up over me lying about my halloween outfit.

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But I was like that's fine, you're psychotic.

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So why didn't he go out with you that night?

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Oh, he wasn't invited.

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I didn't want.

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I didn't want him there that's a red flag.

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If you don't want your boyfriend, why were?

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you dating him.

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What was it?

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What was the draw to this?

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this one.

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I ask myself that question all the time.

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He wasn't like rich enough to like even be my future husband.

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I think he made like $100 or $110.

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But that's not enough.

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But I want my future husband to make like a solid $200.

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So that $110 is not enough.

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He also wasn't paying my bills.

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I don't know why I was with him for His like wasn't paying my bills.

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I don't know why I was with him for his like bed skills were not good either.

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Was he good from the waist down, perhaps?

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well endowed, yeah it wasn't like so, so that it wasn't that that was keeping you around no, I think I mean like looks wise, he was like my type, like he's blonde hair, no facial hair, no tattoos.

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He was very clean cut.

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He was in finance.

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Like he was my type, like physically.

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I think maybe that's why I stayed so long.

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It's because like we would hang out, we would drink, like we'd go to the pool, um, we'd take me out to like nice restaurants.

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It'd be like a he would be a fun, like boyfriend.

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I think maybe that's why I stayed so long yeah, I don't know good time killer, someone to have fun with, yeah, some someone to hang out with before I meet someone richer I don't't know.

00:13:23.714 --> 00:13:25.860
Okay, so you say you require at least $200,000.

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Do you ask that straight up, how much you do?

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Not on the first date, but if they want to date seriously, boyfriend and girlfriend, I'm like well, what do you make?

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Because I can't, I can't do it.

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Yeah, so can you date a guy that's not very attractive if he makes good money money, so you don't really care about looks I mean, I want my daughter to come out like gorgeous, but I'm hoping she gets my jeans and like not the man's jeans, so I'm hoping it's like fine.

00:13:50.475 --> 00:13:57.801
Um, I mean like yeah, if they make money and they like spoil me, you know, buy me gifts, take me traveling.

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I don't, so could?

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you date jeff bezos oh, absolutely really you could sleep with him.

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She's like he's my number one that's funny, that wife, I don't even know what her.

00:14:10.673 --> 00:14:15.264
Uh, lauren, I think right, yeah, lauren sanchez yeah, god I'm so envious of her.

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She's just living on yachts like her best life, but what if?

00:14:19.572 --> 00:14:29.315
what if the guy's boring and it's just not that fun to to spend time with you could still do it because you have the nice pur it, because you have the nice purses and you have the experiences, and so you really don't care.

00:14:29.576 --> 00:14:33.768
Money trumps everything is what I'm trying to say I would just drink until he's not boring.

00:14:34.008 --> 00:14:38.004
Oh my God, why don't you just do like sugar baby stuff?

00:14:38.345 --> 00:14:39.769
I have, oh, you have.

00:14:39.769 --> 00:14:40.571
I currently have one.

00:14:40.831 --> 00:14:43.426
Oh you do he pays my rent?

00:14:43.426 --> 00:14:45.296
Yeah, pays me.

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What does he expect in return?

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um my body.

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So we hang out like once a month.

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It's, it's fine, it's worth it, that's it just once a month.

00:14:53.860 --> 00:14:56.407
Yeah, yeah, and so is he married.

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Does he have a?

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girlfriend.

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No, he's 47 divorce, that's it.

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He actually told me like last week he loved me.

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Oh, would you ever be?

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Does he have?

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does he have enough money for you to be with him?

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No, he's poor, he's like 180, I think.

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I don't know.

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He's not attractive, though.

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I'm not attracted to him.

00:15:12.485 --> 00:15:13.868
No, you're not okay.

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No, no, he's a beard and I'm like dude, you should shave that beard.

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And he's like if you date me, like for real, I'll shave my beard.

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Well, I don't want to date you for real, so that's not happening.

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So he just walks on this ugly.

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And how much is your rent?

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Where do you live?

00:15:24.840 --> 00:15:25.943
I live in.

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Dallas and it's $1850, I think.

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Ok, so his credit card is just on my rent portal and I just swipe it every month.

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I used to get really depressed on the first of the month.

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I'd be like, oh god, this is $1, 1900 in my bank account.

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I get the real, I go out, I celebrate like I just saved 1900.

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I'm ecstatic.

00:15:51.889 --> 00:15:53.514
So the sugar daddy, how did you meet him on the sugar daddy website?

00:15:53.514 --> 00:15:54.318
So it's called seeking.

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Uh, I used to be seeking arrangements, now it's just called seeking.

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Yeah and he just once a month.

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You guys have sex once a month, that's it.

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I mean, as I mean it used to be like that, but like not, I'm.

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I hate being intimate, I'm, I'm so tired constantly and I just want to go to bed.

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I will for him knowing what it is, but half the time we hang out I'm so tired I just go to bed.

00:16:17.553 --> 00:16:20.721
I don't even, like, really do anything for him wow and he likes he's.

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He's in love with me.

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I think it's lust, so he pays your rent is that it does.

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He give you presents or take you on trips.

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So everything, multiple things, yeah, yeah, my birthday was like two days ago and he bought me.

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Well, he gave me like four hundred dollars and then he bought me, uh, diamond earrings.

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And then he bought me, um, like a resort for like two days just to like drink by the pool and just hang out, nice.

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He asked if I wanted a purse.

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Obviously I said, yes, no brainer.

00:16:56.721 --> 00:17:01.368
Uh, so soon we're gonna go shopping for a purse, and is he here?

00:17:02.089 --> 00:17:02.570
he was in arizona.

00:17:02.570 --> 00:17:08.343
Yeah, okay, yeah, yeah, so he also pays my flights, okay yeah, okay, yeah, but he takes me on trips.

00:17:08.363 --> 00:17:09.025
He actually were talking.

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I just hung out with him actually and he's talking I want to go to ireland because I'm irish and he's talking about taking me on a trip next august to ireland for, like, my birthday next year.

00:17:17.982 --> 00:17:26.183
That's a long ways out, that's a god I'm gonna be married by then I'm like, yeah, hopefully he's gonna be devastated is he?

00:17:26.444 --> 00:17:28.828
is he the only one that you've met off of that site?

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Do you have any other experiences that are crazy or wild?

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or terrible no, there's others.

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There's not like currently in my life, but like in the past.

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Yeah, yeah yeah, so what I do is like, um, I make them take me to the casino and because I like I love gambling blackjack, they gave me money to go to the casino.

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And then I bring like a big purse with me Not like I guess, it's like medium size, and we're not looking, I just put the chips like in my purse, I just hoarder, hoarder the chips in my I first.

00:18:03.217 --> 00:18:08.627
So, no matter what, I'm going home with money, whether he gives me money or I'm just walking off the chips with money, you know.

00:18:08.627 --> 00:18:14.876
And so now I go to like Vegas or I'll go to Scottsdale and I'll like meet a man and he'll give me money to gamble and I'm just like storing it.

00:18:14.876 --> 00:18:19.061
And then I think, at the most I made off this one guy, uh, was 1500.

00:18:19.061 --> 00:18:19.923
Oh wow.

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And I actually called my dad.

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I was pumped.

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I was like dad get so much money, I just stole from this man.

00:18:23.367 --> 00:18:24.609
I was pumped.

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I was so excited, Like that's, that's rent.

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I was so ecstatic.

00:18:28.935 --> 00:18:33.240
So what is the biggest present, or the most expensive present A guy, a sugar daddy's have bought you.

00:18:34.395 --> 00:18:35.441
He actually wasn't a sugar daddy.

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This other guy that I'm not dating, I'm also not attracted to him.

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He, she took me to Greece, oh nice yeah, and he told me it was like 10 grand.

00:18:48.001 --> 00:18:48.221
Um, I don't.

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I mean, I don't know how much Greece costs, like I don't know, but that just happened in June.

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I just did that was that someone you were dating?

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No, and you went with him we are.

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I don't know, I don't know what he thinks.

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I don't ask, I don't care so were you dates.

00:19:00.244 --> 00:19:03.494
So you were just, you went together yeah, well, he was going.

00:19:03.655 --> 00:19:07.819
He graduated with his doctorate degree, so he was going to go to celebrate him graduating.

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Got you and he invited you, yes, ok, and paid for everything.

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Nice, yes.

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And I was like well, I can go If you pay for it.

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I'm not paying for anything.

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And he's like no, I know, I'm like OK.

00:19:26.118 --> 00:19:34.422
And then, yeah, I guess would you like it to be like a pretty woman situation where it's like you know, it starts off as an arrangement and then it turns into something more.

00:19:36.057 --> 00:19:37.563
The men on Seeking aren't hot enough.

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They're so like old and ugly.

00:19:39.420 --> 00:19:46.759
Okay, yeah, I'll talk about them, for like the money and like the rent, but I can't like live 50 years with this man you know.

00:19:46.799 --> 00:19:49.971
So if you meet someone, would you end it with your sugar daddy?

00:19:50.913 --> 00:19:52.297
my friends always ask me this question.

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I, if I like, truly liked the guy and I was like I see a future.

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I want to like have babies with you.

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I probably would like.

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Obviously I don't want to cheat on my like, my future husband, so I would end it um, but it's so nice not paying for rent.

00:20:07.324 --> 00:20:07.885
How?

00:20:08.067 --> 00:20:09.270
how would you bring that up?

00:20:09.270 --> 00:20:12.685
Let's say, you meet someone, you really are feeling it, you're getting serious.

00:20:12.685 --> 00:20:14.996
Do you tell him hey, I have this guy who's paying my rent.

00:20:16.038 --> 00:20:17.441
No, you just you don't tell him at all.

00:20:17.441 --> 00:20:17.862
I lie.

00:20:17.862 --> 00:20:19.384
No, I don't tell men anything.

00:20:19.384 --> 00:20:24.383
No, no, no, no, because I don't think they would like that.

00:20:24.383 --> 00:20:30.156
Like a man, they may have issues with it.

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I don't know if they would like that.

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I don't think they would.

00:20:32.960 --> 00:20:37.846
So that would suck because yeah, if you break it up with a sugar daddy, then you have to pay your own rent.

00:20:37.846 --> 00:20:38.266
But then what?

00:20:38.266 --> 00:20:40.209
If it doesn't work out with this new boyfriend?

00:20:40.209 --> 00:20:41.670
I would find a new sugar daddy.

00:20:41.810 --> 00:20:44.460
Yeah, true, yeah, I would just find someone new.

00:20:44.460 --> 00:20:52.065
Yeah, that would suck, though I think I'd have thought about that Like well, like if I broke up and I'd be like not paying for my own rent, I think it's worth it to like have my husband, though.

00:20:52.286 --> 00:20:54.038
Yeah, are you on the dating apps?

00:20:54.057 --> 00:20:57.605
currently I'm on Hinge and Bumble, so yes.

00:20:57.705 --> 00:20:58.367
How's that going for you?

00:21:04.795 --> 00:21:05.439
I have like four dates a week.

00:21:05.439 --> 00:21:06.182
Oh wow, it's pretty, it's pretty a lot.

00:21:06.182 --> 00:21:10.779
Um, I'm just bored, so I'm gonna do it for one, like for something to do because I have nothing else to do, and then also like me, my future husband.

00:21:10.779 --> 00:21:13.325
Um, it's not good.

00:21:13.746 --> 00:21:15.048
Do you have any crazy dating stories?

00:21:15.516 --> 00:21:31.476
I bet you have a lot disaster dates or catfish stories catfish has just been like fat people that were like, not fat in their photos and they show up, like you know, 20 or not 20, uh, like 50 pounds heavier, like that's I guess the most catfish I've ever experienced.

00:21:31.476 --> 00:21:33.500
Um, I have dealt with like.

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Back in high school I had a bad.

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It was like we went to Applebee's because I was obsessed with Applebee's back then not anymore.

00:21:39.740 --> 00:21:41.523
I grew up from that.

00:21:41.523 --> 00:21:43.688
The two for 20 doesn't do it for you anymore.

00:21:46.375 --> 00:21:50.980
That does not turn me on, no, but knowing, actually that's funny.

00:21:50.980 --> 00:21:53.163
You mentioned the two for 20, because we did order the two for 20.

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Yeah, and I was like a joke, knowing, and I was in high school, like I didn't drink, I was like ordering pop, I think.

00:22:03.913 --> 00:22:05.930
But as a joke, knowing it was like 20 bucks, I was like, oh, do I want to split it?

00:22:05.930 --> 00:22:07.689
Knowing it would be like 10 bucks.

00:22:07.729 --> 00:22:11.955
This man says yes, and I looked at him and I thought he was joking back with me.

00:22:11.955 --> 00:22:13.398
I thought it was like we're like ha ha.

00:22:13.398 --> 00:22:24.423
But he like looked at me like in a way that he was like serious and I was like, okay, and I was in high school, it's like I didn't even really have a job, I was playing like sports, but I was like okay, so I paid for it.

00:22:24.423 --> 00:22:25.505
I mean, I guess we split it.

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And then afterwards he's like what do you want to do?

00:22:28.147 --> 00:22:29.669
Do you want to like go to a park and like hang out?

00:22:29.669 --> 00:22:47.011
First of all, it was nighttime, we went to dinner, so it was night, but at this point man is staying at a park at night time.

00:22:47.154 --> 00:23:01.803
I wonder how long he was waiting at the park and this is probably this is probably where your trauma started with 50 50 men like I will not date a 50 50 man because of this experience I had in high school splitting an applebee's two for 20 on the first date.

00:23:01.803 --> 00:23:04.686
Can you imagine I can't that's ten dollars, ten dollars.

00:23:04.630 --> 00:23:04.942
I've literally ordered pop.

00:23:04.942 --> 00:23:05.013
It was crazy.

00:23:05.013 --> 00:23:05.140
So then he texted me like where?

00:23:05.140 --> 00:23:05.430
Applebee's two for 20 on the first date?

00:23:05.430 --> 00:23:05.622
Can you imagine?

00:23:05.622 --> 00:23:05.628
I can't.

00:23:05.628 --> 00:23:05.779
That's $10?

00:23:05.779 --> 00:23:05.891
Dang $10.

00:23:05.891 --> 00:23:07.258
I literally ordered pop.

00:23:07.258 --> 00:23:07.919
It was crazy.

00:23:07.919 --> 00:23:09.624
So then he texted me He'd be like where are you at?

00:23:09.624 --> 00:23:11.067
I'm at the park and I'm like I'm not there.

00:23:11.067 --> 00:23:11.939
That's for dang sure.

00:23:11.939 --> 00:23:14.193
You cheap loser, oh my gosh, that's funny.

00:23:17.719 --> 00:23:25.249
So that was back in high school Smoking's like one of my deal breakers, of course, and we went to like the zoo and within like five minutes we ordered a drink.

00:23:25.249 --> 00:23:32.842
We went into the zoo, we got a drink and then we were like we're sitting down drinking and I think I mentioned something about smoking.

00:23:32.842 --> 00:23:33.845
I don't even know how it got brought up.

00:23:33.845 --> 00:23:43.846
It was like, oh, smoking's one of my deal breakers, like I won't tolerate it, and he got up and just left what Like five minutes into the date it was.

00:23:43.846 --> 00:23:45.528
I've never had that happen to me before.

00:23:45.528 --> 00:23:46.430
It was wild.

00:23:47.050 --> 00:23:47.671
That's crazy.

00:23:49.194 --> 00:23:51.673
So then I hit up my other dude on my roster and I hit up this other guy and I was like, hey, I'm at the zoo, like show up.

00:23:51.673 --> 00:23:54.838
So he ended up showing up, I ended up making a night out of it.

00:23:54.838 --> 00:24:05.474
It was fine, but like it was wild date.

00:24:05.474 --> 00:24:06.558
Oh, I do it constantly, really constantly, like I can't.

00:24:06.558 --> 00:24:06.880
What do you say?

00:24:06.880 --> 00:24:08.506
I'm going to the bathroom, I just leave, I just leave, I can't do it.

00:24:08.506 --> 00:24:10.151
Men are so boring and I have very low tolerance for men.

00:24:10.151 --> 00:24:12.746
So the second they bother me, I'm like I'm over it.

00:24:12.746 --> 00:24:15.635
So once you get the ick, you're, I'm over it so you just walk at me?

00:24:15.655 --> 00:24:18.059
do you text them to let them know that you've left?

00:24:18.059 --> 00:24:18.861
No, I don't care.

00:24:19.221 --> 00:24:21.786
I don't care, no, okay, so what?

00:24:21.786 --> 00:24:22.846
What would an ick be like?

00:24:22.846 --> 00:24:25.856
What would a man have to do on a first date for you to just get up and leave?

00:24:26.438 --> 00:24:27.119
so what?

00:24:27.119 --> 00:24:27.840
So this guy?

00:24:27.840 --> 00:24:31.596
He not, he didn't ask me any questions and that's so rude.

00:24:31.596 --> 00:24:32.357
Oh, I hate that.

00:24:32.357 --> 00:24:33.521
It's so rude.

00:24:33.521 --> 00:24:38.530
Like how do you go out with someone you don't know and you're sitting there like awkwardly in silence like, is that not weird?

00:24:38.590 --> 00:24:45.106
like that's so weird and so I was asking the questions, like not make it silent was like, oh, what do you do for work?

00:24:45.106 --> 00:24:46.417
Blah, blah, blah, like stuff.

00:24:46.417 --> 00:24:48.625
I knew I don't care because I would never see this guy again.

00:24:48.625 --> 00:24:50.501
But it's like make it not awkward.

00:24:50.501 --> 00:24:56.424
And he didn't ask me one question, not once, and after like an hour my food was over with.

00:24:56.424 --> 00:25:03.886
I was like I'm not going to keep sitting here and I'm over it.

00:25:03.886 --> 00:25:04.548
I got my food.

00:25:04.788 --> 00:25:07.271
I'm down, so then you block them so they can't reach out to you.

00:25:07.712 --> 00:25:10.240
That is funny, I don't like confrontation, I feel like it's.

00:25:10.240 --> 00:25:22.036
I mean, I do in a way like I want to like yell at a man because I think it's fun, but I also like like don't care you know, yeah, yeah and so you say that you've been cheated on.

00:25:22.056 --> 00:25:22.856
How did you find out?

00:25:25.340 --> 00:25:25.942
What an idiot.

00:25:25.942 --> 00:25:29.528
I did yeah, he had naked photos on his iPad, oh God.

00:25:29.548 --> 00:25:31.029
Like it was, like it went to like the iCloud.

00:25:31.976 --> 00:25:32.797
We hear this all the time.

00:25:32.797 --> 00:25:33.637
I meant stupid.

00:25:33.637 --> 00:25:35.402
They're stupid.

00:25:35.402 --> 00:25:46.366
Yes, I'm going to answer your question oh my God, um, I went yeah, I went through his iPad, I think when he was sleeping or something, and there was naked photos of girls and I showed him.

00:25:46.366 --> 00:25:47.648
I'm like what is this?

00:25:47.648 --> 00:25:54.182
And he was like, oh my gosh, my buddy sent me photos of his girlfriend or whatever the excuse was.

00:25:54.182 --> 00:25:57.526
He put it on his friend, Like okay, it's always the friend.

00:25:57.546 --> 00:25:58.567
Always the friend.

00:25:58.847 --> 00:26:00.609
Yeah, never him.

00:26:00.609 --> 00:26:02.090
So he did that.

00:26:02.090 --> 00:26:04.303
And then, for some reason, I was in college.

00:26:04.303 --> 00:26:09.672
I went through his Apple Watch.

00:26:09.672 --> 00:26:13.613
Like a month later he went to work and I was still at his house like sleeping.

00:26:13.613 --> 00:26:21.511
I went through his Apple Watch and I found text messages that he deleted off his phone but like his Apple Watch didn't like sync up to that and I found him texting.

00:26:21.511 --> 00:26:23.532
It was like basically sexy, it's another girl.

00:26:23.532 --> 00:26:26.673
And he was like what are you doing?

00:26:26.673 --> 00:26:30.348
And then she was like oh, I got done with the run, I'm going to take a shower, I'm all sweaty.

00:26:30.348 --> 00:26:32.054
And then he was like which?

00:26:32.054 --> 00:26:32.576
I was there.

00:26:32.576 --> 00:26:35.730
And then she's like, oh, do you?

00:26:35.730 --> 00:26:37.655
And then he said something gross back.

00:26:37.996 --> 00:26:41.548
I took, I took a photo of it that like the photo, like the apple watch.

00:26:41.548 --> 00:26:42.191
I took a photo of it.

00:26:42.191 --> 00:26:46.814
I sent him and I'm like this is the proof I needed, like I know, it's not your friend this time.

00:26:46.814 --> 00:26:48.660
Like it's you.

00:26:48.660 --> 00:26:51.788
And then, yeah, at that point we broke up because I was like you're, you're an idiot.

00:26:51.788 --> 00:26:52.348
Good for you.

00:26:52.348 --> 00:26:53.691
So you work in finance?

00:26:53.691 --> 00:26:55.113
I do.

00:26:55.113 --> 00:26:57.596
Yeah, I do like investments and stocks.

00:26:57.596 --> 00:27:00.988
So I know I'm gonna get my uh series six right now.

00:27:00.988 --> 00:27:01.630
I'm studying.

00:27:01.650 --> 00:27:03.694
So you're smart and I bet you make good money.

00:27:03.694 --> 00:27:05.611
So, but you don't want to work once.

00:27:05.611 --> 00:27:10.575
You want to meet a man that will allow you to stay at home yeah, I mean I can work like I'm gonna get my license.

00:27:10.836 --> 00:27:13.526
I just don't feel the need to work like I don't want to.

00:27:13.526 --> 00:27:17.625
I don't want to wake up at 8 am and have some old, 50 year old man time tell me what to do, like.

00:27:17.786 --> 00:27:22.436
I don't want that so yeah, and what are your hobbies like?

00:27:22.436 --> 00:27:23.365
What do you do in your free time?

00:27:24.226 --> 00:27:32.635
um, I like sports, I'm very into sports, so I was like a three-sport athlete club, uh, growing up oh, wow basketball, soccer and tennis.

00:27:32.635 --> 00:27:34.999
And then I went to college for tennis.

00:27:34.999 --> 00:27:37.060
Um, now I play.

00:27:37.060 --> 00:27:43.154
I don't really play tennis too much anymore because I don't like playing bad people and like no one plays tennis anymore and it bothers me, I just I won't play do you play?

00:27:43.154 --> 00:27:46.897
Pickleball, I do oh, you do yeah, it's a family sport family.

00:27:46.917 --> 00:27:49.948
My whole family plays pickleball and it's like a family sport now, so I do that.

00:27:49.948 --> 00:27:53.096
I should remember my sugar daddy just played pickleball like two days ago.

00:27:53.096 --> 00:27:53.678
He sucked.

00:27:53.678 --> 00:27:54.540
It was terrible.

00:27:54.540 --> 00:27:58.829
It was an awful time he's not you should have.

00:27:58.829 --> 00:28:05.587
He doesn't pay me in cash anymore, he pays my rent and then he like bought me, like gifts and like other stuff.

00:28:05.627 --> 00:28:11.771
I was gonna say I feel like you missed an opportunity because you definitely could have like bet gifts you gifts you know, what I mean.

00:28:11.771 --> 00:28:14.056
Oh, I didn't even think about that.

00:28:14.175 --> 00:28:15.597
I won't next time though.

00:28:15.818 --> 00:28:16.460
Yeah.

00:28:18.165 --> 00:28:18.646
That's wow.

00:28:18.646 --> 00:28:19.549
I should hit you up.

00:28:19.549 --> 00:28:21.275
I'll be your sugar baby financial advisor.

00:28:21.275 --> 00:28:24.550
I'll only take 20%.

00:28:24.550 --> 00:28:25.253
Are you ready for it?

00:28:25.253 --> 00:28:26.630
I'm ready for it.

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We have listener questions that we're going to talk about.00:28:37.098 --> 00:28:39.167


Let me find it Okay.00:28:39.167 --> 00:28:43.195


Oh, actually, this one is kind of a good one for you for your pickiness.00:28:43.195 --> 00:28:45.185


Okay, how many pillows?00:28:45.185 --> 00:28:49.792


Is too many pillows on the bed and is breaking up over it justified?00:28:51.194 --> 00:28:52.557


uh, no for breaking up.00:28:52.557 --> 00:28:53.657


I don't think that's justified.00:28:53.657 --> 00:29:02.711


No, but I think more than four, like I think you have like a pillow like on the back, like by the headboard and you probably actually sleep on.00:29:02.711 --> 00:29:08.107


So, like four, it's like I only have two because I don't want to pay for four pillows.00:29:08.107 --> 00:29:10.932


But if I had a man I would make him pay four pillows.00:29:13.156 --> 00:29:13.838


That's funny.00:29:13.838 --> 00:29:21.532


I actually just had this conversation with a guy recently Because I don't.00:29:21.532 --> 00:29:27.949


I sleep like flat on my stomach and I could sleep all night without even a pillow, like just flat on.00:29:27.949 --> 00:29:33.476


I know I'm probably like a psychopath for that, but I literally sleep on one flat pillow that's like this flat.00:29:33.476 --> 00:29:40.296


But when I make my bed I have all my like pretty decorative pillows that stay on my bed all day.00:29:41.286 --> 00:29:42.068


That's like a lot of like.00:29:42.068 --> 00:29:43.374


Well, the flat thing is weird.00:29:43.726 --> 00:29:45.471


But the decorative thing is weird.00:29:45.752 --> 00:29:46.737


I think a lot of girls do that.00:29:46.957 --> 00:29:47.941


Yes, I do too.00:29:47.980 --> 00:29:48.121


Yeah.00:29:48.925 --> 00:29:49.890


I don't think it's breakup.00:29:50.009 --> 00:29:55.497


I don't think so I feel like if you're gonna break up over pillows like you are doomed you're not gonna last in a marriage, right?00:29:56.117 --> 00:30:03.028


so I think that can be something you can work, fluff out I wonder if a man would break up with you if you demanded that he buy you four pillows for your bed.00:30:03.829 --> 00:30:05.333


You should ask next time.00:30:05.874 --> 00:30:09.127


That is that is true, you already have two, you just need two more yeah, that's funny.00:30:09.288 --> 00:30:12.676


I don't think they would Go to Ross Can you get them for like eight bucks at Ross.00:30:12.717 --> 00:30:18.076


Yeah, so we're going to discuss jobs most likely to result in you being alone.00:30:18.076 --> 00:30:21.473


So, statistically, these jobs make you being single.00:30:21.473 --> 00:30:23.550


So I'm going to go down from number 30 to number one.00:30:23.550 --> 00:30:29.472


30, cooks 70% of cooks are single Food servers, non-restaurant servers.00:30:29.472 --> 00:30:35.267


So what is that?00:30:35.267 --> 00:30:35.788


Like cruise ships, maybe?00:30:35.788 --> 00:30:36.169


Bartenders?00:30:36.169 --> 00:30:37.815


That's crazy to me because bartenders meet a lot of people, right, like how?00:30:37.835 --> 00:30:44.154


I guess 73 percent of bartenders are single, but I think it's the industry, because the hours are odd oh, that's when you work weekend.00:30:44.315 --> 00:30:45.417


You work weekend, that's true.00:30:45.417 --> 00:30:54.115


Yeah, tour and travel guides, because they're always traveling or on destination and that's got to be annoying just being surrounded by tourists all the time.00:30:54.115 --> 00:31:06.575


People that come and go um, transportation service attendants, cleaners of vehicles and equipment, parking attendants, stockers and order fillers, veterinary assistants that's kind of strange to me.00:31:06.596 --> 00:31:15.776


I guess 67 of veterinary assistants single they're like cat people, they're just happy being at home with their cats, maybe I don't know, they're obsessed with animals.00:31:15.816 --> 00:31:21.855


Yeah, ushers, lobby attendants, ticket takers that makes sense because, again, you're dealing with people that are coming and going.00:31:21.855 --> 00:31:27.422


Telemarketers yeah, I can imagine 75 of telemarketers are single.00:31:27.422 --> 00:31:39.095


Helpers, construction trades, food prep workers 75 of food prep workers are single because I guess there's a high turnover rate so they are focused more on career stability.00:31:39.095 --> 00:31:51.670


Military enlisted tactical operations and air weapons specialists and crew members, cashiers, recreational workers, camp counselors, park rangers again, because you're working a lot with tourists.00:31:51.670 --> 00:32:05.557


Dining room and cafeteria attendants and bartender helpers, solar photo voltaic installers, tutors, um, people who are unemployed.00:32:05.557 --> 00:32:14.087


So 80 of people who are unemployed are single makes sense because you don't have money to take anyone out yeah, and they're sitting at home not meeting anyone.00:32:14.809 --> 00:32:14.910


Um.00:32:14.910 --> 00:32:18.432


Waiters and waitresses that's again that's weird to me because you're meeting so many people.00:32:18.432 --> 00:32:20.305


But again, you work nights and weekends.00:32:20.305 --> 00:32:23.611


Dancers and choreographers that's weird.00:32:23.891 --> 00:32:37.375


78, but they're on the road especially if you're like a big time dancer choreographer, where you're actually dancing for someone that's famous, you would be on the road touring yeah, but I feel like dancers don't.00:32:37.855 --> 00:32:42.005


a lot of men want to date a female dancer because they got the moves, they can move their body, they're flexible.00:32:42.005 --> 00:32:53.138


Uh, dishwashers I guess 82 percent of dishwashers are single.00:32:53.138 --> 00:33:00.401


Other entertainment attendants and related workers, umpires, referees I was just telling her, like when do you ever meet an umpire?00:33:00.401 --> 00:33:00.943


I know.00:33:01.066 --> 00:33:02.144


I've never met an umpire in my life.00:33:02.144 --> 00:33:04.653


I said I was an umpire once I came back.00:33:04.653 --> 00:33:08.613


Yeah, when I was in college I came back and umpired the town.00:33:08.613 --> 00:33:11.157


Little league, it's you all.00:33:11.157 --> 00:33:11.739


It's awful.00:33:15.365 --> 00:33:16.929


Residential advisor the town, little league residential advisor what is that?00:33:16.929 --> 00:33:17.991


Like a real estate agent, I don't know what that is.00:33:17.991 --> 00:33:23.172


Fast food workers, hosts and hostesses again, that surprises me because they meet a lot of people and typically hosts and hostesses are very good looking.00:33:23.172 --> 00:33:25.566


And the number one, what would you say?00:33:25.566 --> 00:33:30.396


The number one um job most likely to result in you being single alone.00:33:30.396 --> 00:33:40.509


It is protective service workers, policemen, firefighters, because they often face demanding and stressful work environments which may impact their availability for relationships.00:33:40.509 --> 00:33:43.356


But doesn't everyone want to date a cop or a fireman?00:33:43.987 --> 00:33:45.190


isn't that a very desirable.00:33:45.190 --> 00:33:53.277


I know a lot of women that are like they swoon over the fireman and the cops and the outfits, the uniforms I make no money it's true, yeah I dated one.00:33:53.297 --> 00:33:54.446


I broke up because he was two, four.00:33:54.446 --> 00:33:57.673


He made 60 000.00:33:57.673 --> 00:33:59.659


I'm like oh honey, that's like high school pay.00:33:59.785 --> 00:34:02.391


That was nothing okay, so imagine this scenario.00:34:02.391 --> 00:34:18.336


Imagine if you met a man and he was like a dishwasher for some, for or something or something of the of no, I'm getting to it my dad but he has, like an inheritance.00:34:18.336 --> 00:34:31.713


He doesn't have access to it currently, which is why he's working as a dishwasher, but when he turns like X number of years old, he'll get this inheritance.00:34:31.713 --> 00:34:34.798


Are you dating him and holding out?00:34:34.798 --> 00:34:36.907


Does it depend on how many years?00:34:36.907 --> 00:34:38.813


How many years would you date him?00:34:38.813 --> 00:34:43.356


How many years would you hold out and date a dishwasher for his inheritance?00:34:44.117 --> 00:34:52.929


I would just keep him on the side and then date someone else, but like having my back pocket, so when my inheritance hit then I'm like hey, let's get married so he'd be on the bench on your roster.00:34:52.949 --> 00:35:00.980


He's a roster guy, okay, yeah, okay what if you met a guy that was physically your type to a t, like smoking hot, like he's your celebrity crush, like who do you think?00:35:01.221 --> 00:35:04.791


oh, have you guys seen the movie um the longest ride?00:35:05.411 --> 00:35:09.398


no, sounds like a nicholas sparks yeah movie.00:35:09.398 --> 00:35:11.097


It is okay, um, okay, so chai michael murray, like in the cinderella story.00:35:11.079 --> 00:35:11.324


Uh huh, yes, I know him.00:35:11.324 --> 00:35:12.376


Okay, okay, like a Nicholas Sparks movie, it is Okay.00:35:12.376 --> 00:35:12.438


Okay.00:35:12.438 --> 00:35:14.148


So Ty Michael Murray, like in the Cinderella story?00:35:14.148 --> 00:35:15.112


Uh-huh, yes, I know him.00:35:15.112 --> 00:35:15.847


Okay.00:35:15.867 --> 00:35:21.264


So let's say you met him but he worked for Vanguard and made $80,000.00:35:21.264 --> 00:35:26.969


You wouldn't go with him, no, Even if he was physically your type to a T and so good looking.00:35:27.231 --> 00:35:32.106


No, my type is not poor so no, no, I would get so turned on.00:35:32.106 --> 00:35:33.427


My type is not poor, so no, no, I would get so turned on.00:35:33.427 --> 00:35:38.253


He's hot, like I would like do stuff with him, but I wouldn't like take him to mom.00:35:38.253 --> 00:35:39.434


You know he's broke.00:35:39.434 --> 00:35:40.355


He can't afford my life.00:35:41.235 --> 00:35:46.081


I can't do it and you think that 180 is broke right If someone makes 180?00:35:46.081 --> 00:35:46.081


.00:35:46.101 --> 00:35:46.521


Right, I don't.00:35:46.521 --> 00:35:47.786


Yeah, that's funny.00:35:47.786 --> 00:35:48.387


I don't think that's enough.00:35:48.387 --> 00:35:48.807


I don't.00:35:48.807 --> 00:35:50.172


I want to be able to like hire.00:35:50.172 --> 00:35:52.617


Like I said, hire a nanny, go out, have like a spa day.00:35:52.617 --> 00:35:53.945


I don't.00:35:53.945 --> 00:35:58.590


When I come home and my husband's like how was your day, I'll be like oh my God, it was so relaxing.00:35:58.590 --> 00:35:59.514


I did this, I did that.00:35:59.514 --> 00:36:01.431


I want to be like oh, that's so nice.00:36:09.170 --> 00:36:12.393


Like I'm so happy for you and not be like mentally, emotionally exhausting.00:36:12.393 --> 00:36:13.793


It is worse than a full time job.00:36:13.793 --> 00:36:15.896


I've had friends that are like I want to go back to work.00:36:15.896 --> 00:36:22.360


Going back to a full time job is a vacation compared to being a stay at home mother, so you might be in for a little bit of a shock.00:36:23.161 --> 00:36:24.422


Boy I used to nanny in college.00:36:24.422 --> 00:36:26.905


I don't know, I think it's.00:36:26.905 --> 00:36:27.306


It is demanding.00:36:27.306 --> 00:36:46.313


Obviously, Like kids are a lot of work, but I'd rather just like wake up in my pajamas and like hang out with my kid rather than like drive to work stuck in rush hour traffic that's true, yeah, good point yeah do you meet guys out, like are there certain spots that you go, that you like to go sit at because you know you'll meet wealthy men, or do you strictly use the apps?00:36:47.277 --> 00:36:48.942


no, uh, it's actually really fun.00:36:48.942 --> 00:37:00.777


I met a gay guy recently and now up in Dallas and now we're like besties because he has a lot of money, so like I hang out with him because he always buys my drinks like not creepy, you know, it's just perfect, it's just the best, I love him, uh.00:37:00.777 --> 00:37:08.331


But I was telling him like I want to marry someone rich, want me to stay home, mom blah blah, and he was like okay, well, like here's where you go at this time.00:37:08.331 --> 00:37:13.286


At this location there's finance bros at this location, there's like doctors at this location.00:37:13.286 --> 00:37:14.789


Like he was like he knows the spots.00:37:14.789 --> 00:37:16.574


It was, he's amazing.00:37:16.574 --> 00:37:20.048


So I do go there now, like when I go to Dallas and what do you do?00:37:20.088 --> 00:37:24.313


you just sit at the bar and wait for them to approach you yeah, I don't go on my phone.00:37:24.514 --> 00:37:25.056


I just sit there.00:37:25.056 --> 00:37:26.199


I get one drink.00:37:26.199 --> 00:37:31.871


I drink it very slowly because I don't want to pay for anything else, and I just wait for another man to come up and talk to me and then buy me another drink.00:37:32.012 --> 00:37:35.177


And I bet you get hit on so much huh Because you're a beautiful girl.00:37:35.577 --> 00:37:43.990


Oh, thank you yes, and if nobody does, do you just leave then, yeah, yeah, so then you just keep it.00:37:43.990 --> 00:37:45.922


Moving on to the next spot sort of thing.00:37:45.943 --> 00:37:47.791


Yeah, that happens to you where no one approaches you.00:37:52.885 --> 00:37:57.262


Yeah, you, yeah, I did one drink, if I drinking it slow and no after like an hour if no one's talking to me I'm like, okay, this is stupid and I would just go somewhere else, yeah, yeah.00:37:57.302 --> 00:37:58.887


So where's your favorite place to go on a first date?00:38:01.494 --> 00:38:02.317


oh, I love.00:38:02.317 --> 00:38:03.619


I actually really like giving busters.00:38:03.619 --> 00:38:04.541


Oh how fun.00:38:04.541 --> 00:38:09.922


Yeah, I just think it's fun, like it's obviously not like too expensive but it's very fun.00:38:09.922 --> 00:38:10.625


It's like interactive.00:38:10.625 --> 00:38:12.472


I love a good like banter.00:38:12.472 --> 00:38:16.494


So I love like talking smack to a man and I'm really good at those games.00:38:16.494 --> 00:38:17.577


I go there constantly.00:38:17.577 --> 00:38:34.338


So like I've gone so good at the games where like I'm saying like high scores, like I'm so I'm so competitive and I like going there and I like making a bet, I'll be like if I went three games in a row like you divide me another shot and I just just like it's basically just a way for me to get drunk that is hilarious.00:38:34.378 --> 00:38:35.239


You sound fun.00:38:35.239 --> 00:38:41.954


I want to go out with you let's go out tonight.00:38:41.954 --> 00:38:43.695


So do you judge a guy that?00:38:43.695 --> 00:38:45.659


Do you judge a restaurant?00:38:45.659 --> 00:38:47.932


If a guy takes you to a specific restaurant, do you judge him?00:38:47.932 --> 00:38:49.440


Like, are there certain restaurants?00:38:49.460 --> 00:38:51.047


oh yeah, I remember that list that came out.00:38:51.086 --> 00:38:59.646


That was like do not take a woman to an apple beast was on there and cheesecake factory yes, what else has a guy taken you?00:38:59.666 --> 00:39:03.597


and you're like, oh hell, no well I'd make them tell me beforehand because I won't even.00:39:03.597 --> 00:39:05.170


I won't even show up like I won't.00:39:05.170 --> 00:39:08.764


I had one man who was like 37 and I was dating him for his money.00:39:08.764 --> 00:39:09.945


I knew he had money, by the way.00:39:09.945 --> 00:39:11.108


Like I looked at him, I could money.00:39:11.108 --> 00:39:12.068


I knew he had money.00:39:12.068 --> 00:39:15.793


By the way, like I looked at him, I could just tell and he was trying to get me to some like dive bar.00:39:15.793 --> 00:39:20.139


It wasn't like a dive bar, but it was like up one notch from a dive bar and I'm like dude, you're 37.00:39:20.139 --> 00:39:27.373


I'm not going out with you at a dive bar, like that's not happening.00:39:27.373 --> 00:39:39.909


So I was like me beforehand because I'm not going to show up, and then have it be some like you know, chicken strips, like I do like chicken strips I do, but I like a baseball game, you know I can eat that on the first date.00:39:40.251 --> 00:39:42.400


I want salmon for $40.00:39:42.400 --> 00:39:43.684


I'm going to order expensive martini.00:39:43.684 --> 00:39:45.228


I want the bill to be 200 bucks.00:39:45.228 --> 00:39:46.112


Do I want the bill to be?00:39:46.112 --> 00:39:47.836


And that's not happening at a dive bar.00:39:48.447 --> 00:39:51.958


I love how you are just unapologetically yourself.00:39:51.958 --> 00:39:52.601


You own it.00:39:52.601 --> 00:39:53.463


You know what you want.00:39:53.463 --> 00:39:54.586


You aren't afraid to say it.00:39:54.586 --> 00:39:55.871


I freaking love that.00:39:55.871 --> 00:39:57.034


I know you put it all out there.00:39:57.054 --> 00:39:59.789


What's your tell on a guy, like when you're out in public, are you?00:39:59.789 --> 00:40:00.952


Are you looking at the watch?00:40:00.952 --> 00:40:01.945


Are you looking at the shoes?00:40:01.945 --> 00:40:05.150


Are you looking at the like, like, are their hands manicured?00:40:05.150 --> 00:40:05.331


Like.00:40:05.331 --> 00:40:06.813


What are you looking at when you're?00:40:06.813 --> 00:40:09.617


When you say I could tell he has money, what are you looking at?00:40:10.878 --> 00:40:15.606


um his, like his clothes okay, yeah especially now since I've been hanging out that gay guy.00:40:15.606 --> 00:40:21.976


He will look at a guy and be like, oh, that watch is worth 50k or you know, he knows so well because he also comes from money.00:40:21.976 --> 00:40:23.945


So he like that's that guy's expensive.00:40:23.945 --> 00:40:25.690


Talk to him, do that, do that.00:40:25.690 --> 00:40:35.047


But like, the clothes are like a huge factor, like, but I've also I just been around the scene for so long now that, yeah, I can just look at someone and know, buy their clothes.00:40:35.047 --> 00:40:37.387


It's mainly it Like I don't really know what watches are worth.00:40:37.387 --> 00:40:40.369


For some reason I like don't know what's expensive, what's not.00:40:40.369 --> 00:40:41.650


I mean Rolexes.00:40:41.650 --> 00:40:47.693


You can get a fake Rolex.00:40:48.173 --> 00:41:01.061


Like, unless you know what an Audemars looks like, or if you know what a Patek looks like, unless you know what they look like, you wouldn't know, right, I don't know what that is no, they're fairly nice watches.00:41:01.342 --> 00:41:08.744


I saw this TikTok from this billionaire and she was saying that actual people with actual money don't wear designer stuff.00:41:08.744 --> 00:41:11.985


You look at them and think they're just an average person.00:41:11.985 --> 00:41:14.431


If you really do have money money, you don't flash it.00:41:14.431 --> 00:41:18.726


So how would you know if someone has money in that case, you know?00:41:19.007 --> 00:41:19.748


I've heard about that.00:41:19.748 --> 00:41:26.092


Yeah, I actually saw that video too yeah, yeah I mean, it's true, like obviously I don't.00:41:26.092 --> 00:41:31.853


I wouldn't date a man that's wearing, you know, louis vuitton, like all over shirt that's like cheap to me when it's like gucci louis vuitton all over his shirt.00:41:31.873 --> 00:41:32.657


That screams cheap to me.00:41:32.657 --> 00:41:36.652


It's like Gucci Louis Vuitton plastered everywhere, it's logos everywhere.00:41:36.793 --> 00:41:40.373


That seems like Timu type stuff that sounds cheap.00:41:42.885 --> 00:41:51.670


Yeah, I gotta get better at knowing by the way they talk is also very I talk very elegant when I'm talking to a rich man, because I know they like that.00:41:51.670 --> 00:41:56.164


Not right now but, when I'm talking to a rich man, because I know they like that, Not right now, but when I'm talking to a rich man I'm like I talk very proper.00:41:56.164 --> 00:42:00.833


I'm like, so I'd like a martini and it's like a whole different voice and persona.00:42:00.833 --> 00:42:03.670


I put on what's your martini order.00:42:03.972 --> 00:42:04.795


Say it into the microphone.00:42:04.795 --> 00:42:05.579


I like an apple martini.00:42:05.820 --> 00:42:06.262


Oh, you do.00:42:06.262 --> 00:42:09.092


Okay, I haven't had an apple martini since my college days.00:42:09.092 --> 00:42:10.056


I forgot about those.00:42:10.056 --> 00:42:11.641


They are good they're strong.00:42:12.143 --> 00:42:13.166


The whole drink is alcohol.00:42:13.166 --> 00:42:17.443


It's there's no pop, it's all alcohol you should get one where did you grow up?00:42:17.463 --> 00:42:18.829


because I grew up saying pop.00:42:18.829 --> 00:42:20.275


Did you grow up in the midwest?00:42:21.659 --> 00:42:22.543


I wouldn't ask that question.00:42:22.543 --> 00:42:23.045


I didn't.00:42:23.045 --> 00:42:24.793


I grew up in washington oh wow.00:42:24.813 --> 00:42:26.219


They say pop in washington too.00:42:26.219 --> 00:42:29.570


I have one of my best friends is from washington state and she says pop also.00:42:29.570 --> 00:42:30.753


Yeah's funny.00:42:31.335 --> 00:42:34.813


So now it's time for the celebrity cut when we marinate in the juices of the celebrity.00:42:34.813 --> 00:42:39.632


So did you see the covers for Taylor Swift's new album and how she's like?00:42:39.793 --> 00:42:42.217


you know she's coming Huh.00:42:42.478 --> 00:42:47.693


Yeah, and like she's being reamed by some of the Swifties, Like they are not amused by this new image of hers.00:42:47.693 --> 00:42:48.914


But it's like how old is she?00:42:49.255 --> 00:42:54.500


she's 35 years old, she's a grown-ass woman like she can wear whatever the f she wants to wear, right.00:42:54.500 --> 00:42:57.686


But they're like all up in arms about it because typically she's been the good girl.00:42:57.686 --> 00:43:04.911


She's claimed oh, I don't need to reveal my body to make money, which she's proven time and time again she doesn't need to reveal her body.00:43:04.911 --> 00:43:08.931


But maybe she's 35, maybe she wants to reveal her naughty side I also.00:43:08.951 --> 00:43:09.472


That's okay with that.00:43:09.472 --> 00:43:14.385


I also don't think that the cover image is not that bad like it's not.00:43:14.385 --> 00:43:22.333


It's not like it's a thong you know what I mean like it's a little cheeky, but it's not like I don't think it's bad at all, like her whole ass, but it's not like in the past.00:43:22.353 --> 00:43:23.505


She has been kind of goody.00:43:23.505 --> 00:43:30.018


Two shoes like teeny bopper, yeah, and I think this is the first time she's kind of you know, I stood up, spice it up.00:43:30.018 --> 00:43:38.146


Yeah, it's about time it is about time for like 10 years now well, they say, because the only person that she collaborated with on that album is sabrina carpenter.00:43:38.146 --> 00:43:41.034


You know how sabrina carpenter is a little little risque.00:43:41.034 --> 00:43:41.896


So they say that's the.00:43:42.146 --> 00:43:51.052


You know the influence I'm sorry she's not engaged right now, right, I know I feel like I'm just happy she brought it out on his podcast because I thought that was so cute.00:43:51.072 --> 00:43:51.914


They were were cute together.00:43:51.914 --> 00:43:54.543


I know that people were kind of slamming it, but I thought it was adorable.00:43:54.543 --> 00:43:57.132


No, I thought it was cute and their connection seems genuine.00:43:57.132 --> 00:43:57.492


It does.00:43:57.644 --> 00:44:07.210


People say it's fake, a fake relationship, but it seems wonderful, and the way that Jason Kelsey introduced her like as if he were a football announcer, it was so cute.00:44:07.210 --> 00:44:08.094


He got so excited.00:44:08.465 --> 00:44:08.987


I liked it, so excited.00:44:08.987 --> 00:44:09.570


I like them together.00:44:09.570 --> 00:44:16.695


I do too, yeah so now it's time to get to know you with Zoyo, sponsored by Zoyo, your neighborhood yogurt, if you want to pick the top card.00:44:17.016 --> 00:44:24.376


Get to know you on a deeper level what have you always wanted to try in the bedroom?00:44:24.376 --> 00:44:25.438


Oh, that is a good one.00:44:25.438 --> 00:44:29.409


Oh, kinksters, um, I just want to try in the bedroom.00:44:29.409 --> 00:44:31.972


God, I'm so boring in the bedroom.00:44:31.972 --> 00:44:37.139


I feel like a whip actually might be fun.00:44:37.139 --> 00:44:38.099


Yeah, maybe.00:44:38.360 --> 00:44:42.547


You with the whip, yeah.00:44:43.028 --> 00:44:44.972


I was going to say you getting whipped or you doing the whipping, both.00:44:44.972 --> 00:44:46.295


I feel like you'd be a really good dominatrix, don't you think?00:44:46.295 --> 00:44:46.836


I think so too.00:44:46.856 --> 00:44:47.018


Really.00:44:47.018 --> 00:44:48.561


I feel like that would suit you yeah.00:44:52.684 --> 00:44:53.646


I've never done any of that before.00:44:53.646 --> 00:44:54.327


I feel like you could do the.00:44:54.327 --> 00:44:55.389


Have you heard of the pay pigs?00:44:55.389 --> 00:44:56.730


I feel like that's what you should do.00:44:56.730 --> 00:44:58.112


That might be your calling.00:44:58.112 --> 00:45:00.054


That's maybe what you should look into.00:45:00.074 --> 00:45:03.418


Yeah, because they like someone that takes charge and just abuses their bank account.00:45:03.418 --> 00:45:04.440


I can see you doing that.00:45:04.440 --> 00:45:05.945


It's a good fit.00:45:05.967 --> 00:45:08.233


I was also going to ask you off of this question.00:45:08.233 --> 00:45:20.898


So when you're with your sugar daddies and you're with them, right, do you let, do you kind of like, do what they want to do, like if they have requests in the bedroom.00:45:20.898 --> 00:45:22.465


No, no, I don't care.00:45:22.465 --> 00:45:25.755


Yeah, I won't do it even though they're paying your rent.00:45:25.755 --> 00:45:27.327


Like he's, like I'm, I paid your rent.00:45:27.327 --> 00:45:30.193


I want you to do xyz for me tonight.00:45:30.614 --> 00:45:33.181


You'd be like no he has never done that.00:45:33.181 --> 00:45:34.003


I think he knows.00:45:34.003 --> 00:45:36.574


I would just like call it quits, I would find another man.00:45:36.693 --> 00:45:38.702


I won't okay, okay, he doesn't.00:45:38.742 --> 00:45:44.436


He's never just done that, but I don't think he would like our sex life is so he comes in like five seconds.00:45:44.436 --> 00:45:47.351


He just like it's like five pumps and it's like lucky for you.00:45:47.351 --> 00:45:51.349


I'm like, thank god, no, literally praise the lord, praise the lord praise.00:45:51.349 --> 00:45:52.675


I didn't want to do that in the first place.00:45:52.784 --> 00:45:59.608


A five pumps is amazing, have you ever had someone ask to do something to you or do something in the bedroom that you were like hell?00:45:59.688 --> 00:46:01.849


no, I don't like being first of all.00:46:01.849 --> 00:46:02.572


I don't like choking.00:46:02.572 --> 00:46:04.753


I don't like a man's hand by my throat.00:46:04.753 --> 00:46:13.210


I don't trust men at all, so my like life.00:46:13.210 --> 00:46:13.900


I don't like that, so no choking.00:46:13.900 --> 00:46:16.545


I also don't like being handcuffed because I again like I don't want to put my life in a I don't know what he's gonna do to me, so like I don't like that smart.00:46:16.865 --> 00:46:18.951


Yeah, I also like being blindfolded.00:46:18.951 --> 00:46:22.630


I don't like not being like in control, like if I can't see what's happening.00:46:22.630 --> 00:46:25.864


That would stress me out because I'd be like what is this man doing to me?00:46:25.864 --> 00:46:27.186


That would that would bother me.00:46:27.186 --> 00:46:28.369


So I'd have to be like open.00:46:28.369 --> 00:46:28.969


Open eyes.00:46:28.969 --> 00:46:33.737


Oh, I like having sex in the dark because I don't like really seeing the men.00:46:33.737 --> 00:46:39.652


I don't, I just want to get it over with and like go to bed.00:46:39.652 --> 00:46:41.050


I'm so tired constantly.00:46:41.050 --> 00:46:44.134


My finance job I can't, I'm so tired, oh my God.00:46:44.134 --> 00:46:48.432


Even when you're dating someone, oh my God, I have to be like half drunk in the dark.00:46:48.432 --> 00:46:54.849


I don't want to like be a part of this.00:46:54.849 --> 00:46:55.009


I don't.00:46:55.009 --> 00:46:55.672


I'll do it to like please them.00:46:55.672 --> 00:46:56.253


I don't even like sex.00:46:56.253 --> 00:46:58.380


I do it because I know a man likes it but I don't like you, don't enjoy ever.00:46:59.329 --> 00:47:01.440


I mean, it feels good in the moment, but I don't like crave it.00:47:01.440 --> 00:47:02.545


Yeah, like I'm not gonna be like.00:47:02.545 --> 00:47:05.668


Oh my god, I'm horny, that's fuck you will with your future husband.00:47:05.829 --> 00:47:10.635


When you meet the guy that is like for you, you will like it.00:47:10.635 --> 00:47:12.257


Is that your life?00:47:12.257 --> 00:47:13.320


Are you married?00:47:13.320 --> 00:47:13.719


No, you're not.00:47:13.719 --> 00:47:14.121


You're married.00:47:14.121 --> 00:47:18.255


No, but you will hopefully.00:47:18.255 --> 00:47:19.237


Yeah, that'd be nice.00:47:19.297 --> 00:47:28.378


I want to create some babies for, hopefully, five seconds do you have any other questions?00:47:28.458 --> 00:47:32.708


no, thank you so much for joining us this week at the meat market and thank you so much, carly.00:47:32.708 --> 00:47:36.597


If you want to go on a date with carly, send us a dm at meat market podcast.00:47:36.597 --> 00:47:39.088


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Oh my god, I just totally got catfished.00:47:50.552 --> 00:47:52.594


He looks absolutely nothing like his picture.00:47:53.054 --> 00:47:57.681


So I found out, the guy that I've been dating is married With kids.00:47:57.681 --> 00:48:01.916


His wife just reached out to me.