Tips, Tricks & Tipsy Encounters: Dating Life in Old Town 😂

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Oh my god, I just totally got catfished.

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He looks absolutely nothing like his picture.

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So I found out the guy that I've been dating is married with kids.

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His wife just reached out to me.

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Welcome to the meat market.

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The single scene is the slaughterhouse, and we are here to devour it.

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We are your hosts.

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I'm Lindsay.

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I'm Jess.

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And today's sizzling single is Faith.

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Welcome! We got a bottle girl in the house.

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Hello.

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Everyone's from Scottsdale.

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So tell us.

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I bet you have some crazy stories to spill about the Old Town Scottsdale club scene.

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It is one for the books.

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We're very close to competition with Vegas, I would say.

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Um, as far as the type of partying, the pricing, and our clientele that we bring in, and also the wild dating scene.

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I hear you ladies.

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You people, Scottsdale people are wild.

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Wild wild.

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We are wild.

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We are wild.

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We know how to hustle.

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And being a bottle girl, I would say is it's tough.

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It's not the most perfect industry.

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Um, but we definitely have, I would say, the most fun in it.

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We make the world, we make it worthwhile worthwhile if I can even talk from that.

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Um, it's fun, it's wild.

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Um, it's it's changed a lot of my perspective of one dating to the hustle.

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And, you know, nobody knows how to hustle like a bottle girl, let alone a bartender.

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I mean, like in Old Town, it's very, you're dealing with some high clientele and you're dealing with some, you know, intoxicated people.

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And do you ever have clients hitting on you?

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I do.

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I bet you do all the time.

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I do.

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How do you handle that?

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Um, you know, I I think one, they look at me as at first, especially being a bottle girl, I'm I'm greeting them and I'm most of my clientele, I would say, is like bachelor and bachelorette groups.

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So they're already a little intimidated, intimidated with me at the beginning because I'm tattooed and I'm a little bit of a tough cookie.

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Like I'm really nice once you get to know me.

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Um, but I I let them know, you know, I'm here to make sure that they have a good time.

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And they get a little touchy, but I think it's all about just your your energy and your vibe.

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And would you ever date a client or customer?

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Uh I don't think so.

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You've never you never have?

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Uh-uh.

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You've never gone home with one?

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Nope.

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Never gone home with one.

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I'm one of the few.

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I'm one of the things that you're doing.

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I am one of the few.

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So a lot do?

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I would say a lot do.

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You know, they like to they like to make their money, but um, and that's great, and I'll make your money, girls.

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But I think more so, I think when you say make your money, you mean the guys pay them to go home with them?

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I would say most of them do.

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What?

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If they want them to come back the next day, they do what they can.

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And that's not that's not everybody that does that, but there is a fine line of people that will do that to make that sell for a table.

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Whether for whether they go home with them and sleep with them, or they just go home with or go to their Airbnb, hang out with them, and then they eventually leave.

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I don't know exactly, I don't I can't vouch for everybody and what they do.

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Um, but do you have a lot of repeat customers that come back just to see you?

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Yeah, yeah, I do.

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Especially like being in it for as long as I have.

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Um, like I love it.

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I make sure that they have a good time and you know, I'm really respectful with them.

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And, you know, there's been a few times of people grabbing me, but I let them know, like, I have really good security that they'll let them know that if they do it again, like it's they're out.

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And obviously they don't want to lose, you know, three to ten, twenty grand because they still have to pay it.

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What they sign for at the at the door is what they have to pay.

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So, um, but yeah, I have I have good security.

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It it's all with my security, and I'm one of those like most people won't say anything if there's an uncomfortable uncomfortable like position that you're in.

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They'll just kind of like laugh and like let it happen.

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I don't know.

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I'm not you're gonna let you're gonna learn that that's not okay.

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So now I know you have difficult hours, you're up sometimes till 4 or 5 a.m.

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Do you date in the same industry with people that have the same schedule as you?

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How does that work?

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I have once upon a time, and that was when I lived in Austin.

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Um it was very toxic, it wasn't good.

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And I think that for me, I learned my lesson on not dating within the same industry because there's a lot of being a bottle girl, it's it's a little bit harder.

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And it was, I was dating a manager of the same company, but at a different bar.

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So they were like they worked down below, but they were able to come up and like see, and me being friendly, like I'm I'm really nice.

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So me being friendly and having a good time with them.

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It wasn't like me, you know, my arms around them.

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It was just like me laughing, and he didn't like that.

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And so there was a little bit of a jealousy, which happens, you know.

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I don't know.

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Men, men get jealous, girls get jealous, it is what it is.

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But um it has got to be tough to date someone in that industry because you kind of have to be flirty, you know, because you guys rely on tips and you know, constantly coming back.

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And like you're wanting to like run the tab up a little bit because it's like they do sign at the door, but they can also order more as they're there.

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I mean, our whole point is to is to double their minimum, right?

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Exactly.

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Make them have a good time, and you know, people will spend more if they have a great time.

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If they're not really having the time, then they're gonna kind of like cut it where um where they signed at.

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Well, and you wouldn't think a manager would understand that.

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You wouldn't think.

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You would think, but I think it's different when you're dating them.

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And then obviously the jealousy comes into place, and then you know.

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But so let's say you date outside of that industry.

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Let's say you're dating a lawyer who has Monday through Friday, nine to five.

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Isn't that tough?

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Because then you're working weekends, yeah.

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You you know, you're you sleep during the day, you're up.

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Like, isn't that kind of tough for the schedules?

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Yeah, it's it's wild.

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I dated somebody that was long distance.

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So FaceTime was our best friend, but also it was the most unhealthiest because when I had time on my own, it was we were always on FaceTime when we would be going to bed.

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It would be, I had a tripod, and it was like one of those where it was like we just weren't in a secure place where I would fall asleep with him on FaceTime, and then he would do the same thing, and it was like, What are you doing?

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Where are you at?

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Constantly questioning me when I'm like, I should be questioning you because you know, there was a couple of situations that obviously I caught him on, so um, social media, and there actually is an app that tracks their likes on Instagram, so it got to that point.

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So I was my own investigator, and I watched a lot of crime shows.

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I yes, so I became my own investigator, and I he never knew, but I was tracking his Instagram and I knew I couldn't see like who he messaged, I couldn't see like what he messaged on people's pictures, but Instagram and social media.

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What is the app called?

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Um, I don't even have my phone on me.

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Um I can Google it.

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Is it something that you put on your phone, or do you have to log into his account?

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So it's it's pretty wild.

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So I it's it's not an app, it's like through like Google or whatever.

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But you like if you looked it up, it's right there.

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I learned that from one of my homegirls as a bottle girl that was helping her friend track and figure out that her man was cheating on her based on, you know, I believe if you're in a relationship, like I never, I'm not the type like if I'm committed, I'm committed.

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And I've always been committed in every relationship.

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So if I see that you're liking other girls' pictures, and then I'm having to question you on why you're not liking mine, and it's taken you forever, like that's just where that's kind of where it was getting at.

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So I had put in it's it was his Instagram.

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So I just put in his Instagram name, it popped up his picture, how many like who we unfollowed, who we followed.

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Oh my god.

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Oh yeah.

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I got you can see all of that.

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Oh yeah.

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I was so Was there like a specific girl that he kept liking and commenting?

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Um, there was one when I lived over in LA, there was one that had followed me from here because he had lived here.

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And there was one that he had worked with who had followed me pretty quickly, and then he would talk about her a little bit, and she would try, she would like my photos, whatever.

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And I just started getting like a weird vibe.

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Like he, if you're talking about this girl a lot, and then you're talking about her ex-boyfriend and like how you were friends with him, and then she got cheated.

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It was just like if you're talking about her so much, like what's so special about that person?

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And so that's kind of what made me.

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I had already, I just got like a girl's instinct is a girl's instinct.

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You're just our gut is always right.

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I swear by it, it is always right.

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And so how did you find out he was he physically cheating?

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Messages don't lie.

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I don't care if you're it's pictures, I don't care if you're texting.

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If you're giving the energy to somebody else, then you are no longer for me and you don't have the best interest in me.

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Agreed.

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And so I had moved to LA and I caught him on his Apple Watch, who it was unlocked, never knew his password, and confronted him.

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And he pretty much said I was invading his privacy, and that because I didn't have the financial income to support like the rent and stuff like that.

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You know, I was freshly new to LA.

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LA, if anybody's been to LA and lived there, it's absolutely crazy.

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I lived in Hollywood, which is like the worst of the worst.

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You're dealing with like I'm from Portland.

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I can hang with homeless all day.

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I can hang with the druggies, like, cool, I'll dap you up, like I'll say hi, I'll be kind.

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But over there, you're also applying with like 600 other people that need work too.

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So it was it was just hard.

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I had no connections over there.

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Here, I have connections up the yin-yang.

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Like, if I needed a bar job, if I needed, you know, something outside of the bar industry, I'm well connected over here.

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And that was my problem over there was I had nobody but my significant other at the time who, you know, I thought had my best interest.

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And so then he pretty much said, you know, you were gonna get kicked out anyways, and was saying all these things.

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And yeah.

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So I had one of my clients here who had my best interest and helped me get the frick out of that place and paid for my U-Haul, picked it up in Compton.

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And me and my gay best friend, we just, I mean, I had my out, it was a huge U-haul.

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It was like a 16-foot because hauling a car, you can't have a smaller one because of the trailer.

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So I'm going through these.

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I mean, in LA, driving is just already nuts.

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You're dealing with traffic, you're dealing with crazy drivers that do not put, do not put their blinkers on, do not stop at a stop sign.

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I mean, I got my Audi wrecked.

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I had an Audi A7, beautiful car, got it wrecked from somebody that didn't stop at a stop sign.

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Oh yeah.

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So I was just already going through the thick of it out there.

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And what a nightmare.

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And it was just, it was sickening.

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I wasn't, I became like, I was after I look back at pictures, I'm like, wow, that like one, I could just tell that I was not happy.

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Two, I was losing a tremendous amount of weight.

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I wasn't eating because I'm I'm a stress, I'm a like if I get stressed, I don't eat.

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My dad's the same way.

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Like, if it really gets to us, like we're just we get a little not I'm not a depressive person, but during that moment where you feel like so low and so helpless, and you're away from your friends, your family, and you really get to learn who your friends are and who they aren't.

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Because I left here and I went to LA, and half the people that I thought were for me and were my friends were only the ones that were partying with me at my big spenders' tables.

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And it's like, damn, where were you during that time?

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You know, you never you never checked on me, you never did any of that.

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So I came back here with a whole different perspective and found out that the people that I thought were for me weren't.

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And so do you think that part of that is because people maybe people in general and guys especially don't take you and not you, I don't mean like you as a person, you, I mean you as a bottle girl.

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So bottle girls in general don't take them seriously because they consider them to be uh, I don't know, ditzy or you know, like, oh, you can't do anything other than uh serve a table.

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You know what I mean?

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Like, do you feel like maybe uh people have preconceived notions?

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I think I've been always very independent, and maybe, you know, not all men like that.

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They want us to be like, oh my God, we need you.

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Like, I've been on my own since I was 16 doing, you know, working, hustling, taking care of, I came from single parents.

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So I didn't grow up with the most amount of money or being, I was taking care of them.

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I was taking care of my mom, my little sister.

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And so from them, like from me learning from that, I became very independent.

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And I think that not only I think not only being independent, but also being a bottle girl, that was another thing, is like, oh, you're just a bottle girl.

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Well, you try and be in my shoes and you try and like I work at a very the only pool club during summertime.

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We have third we have over 30 tables, and each of us have about four or five tables.

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I've never had that mentality, you're only a bottle girl because they seem like they work really hard.

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Yeah, like they they work.

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And I've been in it 10 years, and it's not saying that like, yeah, some people can get stuck in it, and maybe a little bit I held on because of the money, but also the people that I'm with, like my runners, my my bar backs, my bartenders.

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I started off bartending and I loved it.

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You know, I I loved the energy.

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I'm a people person.

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I've never been the type that's wanting to sit at a desk.

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I have really bad ADHD, so I'm like, I can't do that.

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I get bored.

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I've try and do in the medical field, it doesn't work.

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I don't, I'm not the type that's gonna sit at a desk.

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Like I'm a go-getter, I'm a hustler.

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And a lot of people, yeah, don't take our jobs seriously.

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And I think guys, especially like guys that are trying to date you, yeah, especially because they have this like ego, like you know what I mean?

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Like you are just a bottle girl, you know.

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And you're also getting flirted with 247.

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Exactly.

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But it's also like you can't think that we're also the ones to flirt back, you know.

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We do our jobs, and I can't vouch for any for everybody, but I can only vouch for myself.

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Like, I take my job very seriously.

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I love who I serve, I I make sure that they have a great time, and then they always come back.

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Like, it's not, it's not for like the flirtation or any of that.

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It's I love what I do, and I've like I've had the best times, I've had some hard times, but I've had, you know, without that, I've learned so many.

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I've grown up a lot.

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I've learned like, oh, I don't want to be like that.

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And I also don't want to drink and do all the crazy shit that I see all the time.

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Because, you know, I do have there are horror stories of people like bachelor groups and bachelorette groups, and then they meet, and then you know, the bride and the groom, like there are those stories.

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I haven't seen that, but I haven't had a table.

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Like, I'm I am that bottle girl that's like, hey, be smart, like, don't don't be dumb.

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Have you seen any crazy shit happen at the club?

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Oh yeah.

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Like fights, like lots of fights.

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So there has been, I mean, back when we had right now, we're kind of in a weird time.

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People aren't spending as much, you know, everything's expensive.

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So back in the day, I would say like three years ago, there would be a tremendous amount of fights, especially at the pool bar that I or the pool club that I work at.

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Um, it would be like 30 people deep.

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And our security, yeah.

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And our security guards are like trying, you know, because being a security guard, you can't like your job is to be a security guard, not to hit back or anything like that.

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But if you're getting punched at too, like it would be a whole brawl.

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And that's one thing that we just had to kind of cut out some of those security guards.

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It had nothing to do fully with them, but I think like also, you know, the adrenaline's going, and we all, you know, guys like to be guys, and some girls like to go into it too.

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But you know, we all like to think that we're tough and stuff until you get swung at and hit.

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And, you know, let's say, you know, it's happened where certain people are drinking, and then like you're at liability, and when the cops come in to talk to you and you got alcohol in your breath, and you're also working at a club, like it's it's not really the best luck, and you're legally not supposed to be drinking.

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Do a lot of people drink while working?

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Um us bottle girls, we were allowed to drink champagne.

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Um, hard alcohol, not that sometimes gets a little confusing to me because you can get really hammered off champagne.

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Oh, yeah, you can.

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So if they're buying, you know, a good way to sell champagne is hey, if you if you want to drink champagne, like I'm able to drink that with you.

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Not saying that I have not taken a shot with a table.

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I have, but very low-key.

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Sorry to the club that I worked for.

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Um, but I I'm pretty smart about it, you know.

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I I think I'm all about my reputation and I don't want to be one, I I've never been fired from a job, and I give like all the respect for like being a part of the company, and um, that's why I've been where I've been at for so long is you know, I represent me and my family, and if I'm driving after that, and I get like it I've never had a DUI, but I know that there has been people like within the industry that do test those moments, and it's not fun, it does it doesn't look good for the club that you are working at and all of that.

00:18:42.000 --> 00:18:45.440
So I just have you ever been propositioned to be a sugar baby?

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I bet you have all the time.

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You've never said yes.

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Um I have had a only one.

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I had a really big client of mine that I had met, and I had the sugar, but I didn't have like I didn't have didn't do anything.

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Which so you were the baby, but you weren't giving the sugar.

00:19:08.720 --> 00:19:09.279
Let me say that, yeah.

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Yeah, I was the baby, I didn't do the sugar part.

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Yeah.

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Um and that was for you.

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Yeah.

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Um, he was awesome, and he's like, he's still like one of my best friends.

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So did he just want to spend time with you or I think it got to a point where he started liking me.

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You know, it always gets to that point.

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Um, I just was not feeling it like that.

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I had a lot of gifts.

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I had like my Audi paid for.

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Oh wow, nice.

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Yeah, it was it was awesome.

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I I loved it.

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And he's he's one of the best people I've ever met.

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I just wasn't physically attracted to him like that.

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And that and I told him, I was like, hey, like, I feel bad.

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But at the same time, it's like a little how how naive can you be?

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Right.

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No, but he's he's awesome.

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He's again one of my best friends, and he showed me a lot of things that nobody else has showed me, like going on a PJ for the first time, like, hey, you want a bottle of Don Perrion or like Ace of Spades?

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Like, do you want to go to the F1?

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Like, shit like that.

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I was like, oh my god, yeah.

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Um I I've gotten offered to obviously be a sugar baby, but for me, it comes down to again, like my family and who I represent.

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And my little sister works with me, so I don't want her, you know, it's just like I'm I'm older than her.

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I'm 28, almost 29.

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She looks up to me, and I really gain that relationship with her because her and I never used to get along.

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So when I moved here seven years ago, that's when we really became best friends, and so I'm here to protect her and kind of help guide her.

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And obviously, if I'm doing all that, like what guidance can I be?

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And especially representing my family.

00:20:50.880 --> 00:20:53.279
So and so are you on the dating apps now?

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No, I have never been on the dating apps.

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You've never?

00:20:56.480 --> 00:20:57.519
No, I can't do it.

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How long have you been single for?

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I have been single since Labor Day weekend.

00:21:01.440 --> 00:21:01.839
Oh wow.

00:21:02.000 --> 00:21:09.839
So the one that I lived with in LA, I gave them a second chance, and it was same thing again.

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So never change.

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Never change, you know.

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If they're gonna cheat, they're gonna cheat.

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And whether it's text message, if you're and in any situation, you're giving your energy to another person, then that's that's not what I want.

00:21:23.759 --> 00:21:33.119
So if you met your dream guy, like not dream sugar daddy, but like dream actual guy, yeah, and he wanted you to quit your job, yeah, would you?

00:21:33.599 --> 00:21:37.519
Um that was the stipulation.

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I uh if I had something that another job that I could go to, I would.

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But at the same time, like I'm not gonna stop doing what I'm doing to make somebody else satisfying.

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Um you know, I don't I don't work in a strip club.

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I'm not a stripper, I don't do all that.

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You can come into my club, you can watch me work, you know, and understand.

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If then you're not really understanding like somebody fully if they want you to like fully quit like what they love.

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And I only stay in this industry, I think, right now is I literally love who like who I'm surrounded by, like my crew, that's my family.

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Like they see me through very emotional times, like we've got each other's backs like no other, and they've become like my own blood.

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That's important.

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And so I think it would come down to when I'm ready, and you know, if I wasn't ready, then that's okay.

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And I know that the man upstairs, God, has somebody special for me.

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Um, and you know, I think timing is everything.

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People underestimate the power of timing.

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They really do.

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So, do you want to get married and have kids?

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I do, I do.

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That's the goal.

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Yeah um, you know, I thought that I would be married and have kids by now, but how old are you?

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You're still young.

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I'm 28.

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I was 29.

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I know, I'm still young.

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I'm still young.

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So my child, I have a golden retriever.

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So he's my baby.

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He's four, he's got enough energy to be a child in itself.

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So um, he keeps me on my toes.

00:23:11.599 --> 00:23:13.440
So you say you don't date in Scottsdale.

00:23:13.599 --> 00:23:14.640
You try not to date in Scottsdale.

00:23:14.799 --> 00:23:15.839
So where do you meet men?

00:23:16.000 --> 00:23:21.359
Like I wouldn't say I I wouldn't say I don't try to not date in Scottsdale.

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I think that just the sour taste that I get from all of the horror stories and seeing what I see, um, you know, when somebody has some alcohol in them.

00:23:31.359 --> 00:23:36.559
Again, like I see a lot of people like in their best and in their worst, especially working in a club.

00:23:36.880 --> 00:23:39.839
So I'm a high-paid counselor, is what I call myself.

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But I I've dated long distance in almost all of my relationships.

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And I think I'm kind of at this point now where I want to find somebody, like I'm not, I'm not gonna move anymore.

00:23:51.440 --> 00:23:58.160
I've lived in five states, and I've had a lot of development and self-development and a lot of like heartbreak.

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So right now I'm I came back here and I'm gonna stay here for a while.

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And if it works out with somebody, it works out, but I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna move away anymore.

00:24:07.599 --> 00:24:09.519
So I've done the long distance.

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I think like in the industry that I'm in, you know, it's worked.

00:24:13.759 --> 00:24:16.720
Um, but obviously it hasn't at the same time because I'm single.

00:24:16.799 --> 00:24:17.759
So and that's okay.

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Have you ever walked out mid-date?

00:24:20.160 --> 00:24:21.519
Walked out mid-date.

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I have not.

00:24:22.720 --> 00:24:25.279
I really actually like haven't gone on a lot of dates here.

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I'm such a stickler, like, you know, I just am so I know what I want, and um I I just yeah.

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How does it take for a guy to land a woman like you?

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Like you gotta be a man.

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You gotta know how to change, like, gotta know how to change your oil tires.

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Like, I don't want, I don't want to be babysitting you.

00:25:34.799 --> 00:25:39.119
Once upon a time, my my car, my ex was in town.

00:25:39.359 --> 00:25:43.920
My car that I just got, I left my lights on on my Range Rover, and the battery died.

00:25:44.000 --> 00:25:47.119
It's like a safety system in that car.

00:25:47.519 --> 00:25:49.440
And he freaked out, went upstairs.

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We're gonna go to lunch, freaked out, had a hissy fit, went upstairs in my apartment, and I'm like uber eating uh like jumper cables by myself.

00:26:01.359 --> 00:26:01.839
Oh my god.

00:26:02.240 --> 00:26:05.759
And that's the kind of thing it's like, okay, then you're not really a man.

00:26:06.000 --> 00:26:16.079
Like, I want somebody that's that's gonna be like committed, that's kind, that's I I work out, so I need somebody that knows how to work out, knows how to push weight.

00:26:16.240 --> 00:26:18.720
Um, I bodybuild, I do all that fun stuff.

00:26:18.880 --> 00:26:20.480
I've been an athlete all my life.

00:26:20.640 --> 00:26:25.279
I'm I want somebody that's gonna be a go-getter that also brings you flowers.

00:26:25.519 --> 00:26:31.759
Do not settle for somebody that does not bring you flowers because I never got flowers out of a three-year relationship.

00:26:32.000 --> 00:26:32.160
What?

00:26:32.400 --> 00:26:33.359
Not once, not once.

00:26:33.680 --> 00:26:34.400
Unacceptable.

00:26:34.640 --> 00:26:41.359
So I started hanging out with somebody, and within like the first couple weeks, like a couple months ago, he brought me flowers.

00:26:41.599 --> 00:26:45.039
Just like, you know, he's younger than me, and I'm like, wow, you're actually a man.

00:26:45.200 --> 00:26:48.000
You opened up my door, you don't let me pay for a meal.

00:26:48.160 --> 00:26:56.960
You give like you brought me flowers, and I'm like, you know, I'm telling my dad, I'm like, damn, like, what have I been dating for for so long?

00:26:57.359 --> 00:26:58.319
Apparently, nothing.

00:26:58.559 --> 00:27:03.759
Because if you can't bring a girl flowers, then I mean, flowers are my favorite thing.

00:27:03.839 --> 00:27:04.799
I love daisies.

00:27:05.279 --> 00:27:07.839
That's like my favorite flower in the entire world.

00:27:08.079 --> 00:27:08.960
And so yeah.

00:27:09.200 --> 00:27:10.640
What are your deal breakers?

00:27:10.960 --> 00:27:22.960
Deal breakers, um, one, not being a sissy, two, um, sorry to the mama boys, but if you're really dependent on your mom paying for your stuff, like, uh.

00:27:25.039 --> 00:27:32.480
Um, you know, I I've worked two jobs like pretty much my whole life, taking care of my family.

00:27:32.799 --> 00:27:41.680
And I don't expect them to like do the same, but at the same time, like just be a man, like know how to treat somebody like a woman good.

00:27:42.240 --> 00:27:43.359
Not good, but great.

00:27:43.759 --> 00:27:51.359
Um, you know, ask them their favorite things, like really get to know them like on a personal, deeper level, and really break down some of those walls.

00:27:51.440 --> 00:28:00.880
Because for me, it's like I have so many walls just based on me protecting myself that if you don't take the time to, you know, what are some of the things that you struggle with?

00:28:00.960 --> 00:28:04.160
Like, what can I work on, you know, to make you feel more comfortable?

00:28:04.319 --> 00:28:09.839
If you're not asking your significant other that, then I don't know what to tell you.

00:28:10.240 --> 00:28:14.799
So I think just being a man and just um, you know, holding your own.

00:28:15.119 --> 00:28:19.920
What is do you have a crazy talent or a unique fact about yourself that not many people know?

00:28:20.319 --> 00:28:21.440
Crazy talent.

00:28:21.680 --> 00:28:25.759
Um man, a crazy talent.

00:28:25.839 --> 00:28:27.759
I could do a four-leaf clover with my tongue.

00:28:27.920 --> 00:28:28.000
Okay.

00:28:28.240 --> 00:28:29.039
I guess a four-leaf clover.

00:28:29.200 --> 00:28:30.640
Oh, you can really, isn't that tough?

00:28:30.880 --> 00:28:31.200
Uh-huh.

00:28:31.920 --> 00:28:32.240
Oh my god.

00:28:32.559 --> 00:28:33.839
I guess that's a crazy talent.

00:28:34.079 --> 00:28:34.720
Yes, it is.

00:28:34.960 --> 00:28:39.839
Um I've I mean, I I would say like that's my best one.

00:28:40.000 --> 00:28:41.519
I grew up hunting and fishing.

00:28:41.680 --> 00:28:46.079
So just because I look the way that I look doesn't mean that I can't get down the dirty.

00:28:46.160 --> 00:28:48.559
I grew up like riding dirt bikes.

00:28:48.720 --> 00:28:53.759
My grandpa was a he was in a biker club, so I've been around the biker scene a lot.

00:28:54.000 --> 00:28:57.279
That's a little bit tougher of a scene than like I like to surround myself with.

00:28:57.519 --> 00:28:58.960
Is that the type of guy that you like?

00:28:59.359 --> 00:29:00.960
Like the biker looking guy.

00:29:01.119 --> 00:29:02.319
I like a tattooed guy.

00:29:02.480 --> 00:29:02.960
I don't know.

00:29:03.119 --> 00:29:10.000
I like just like somebody that loves like old school rock, like doesn't only listen to rap.

00:29:10.160 --> 00:29:11.839
The newer rap just kind of sucks.

00:29:12.240 --> 00:29:12.640
It really does.

00:29:12.880 --> 00:29:14.079
Like old school Drake, great.

00:29:14.240 --> 00:29:15.279
Lil Wayne, great.

00:29:15.519 --> 00:29:15.599
Great.

00:29:15.920 --> 00:29:18.880
You got 50 Cent, that's that's down my alley.

00:29:19.039 --> 00:29:26.640
But like if you know Tesla, Poison, Metallica, like I've seen a lot of those guys in concert with my dad.

00:29:27.039 --> 00:29:32.079
So I grew up just listening to that in a you know, in a 70s era and an 80s era.

00:29:32.160 --> 00:29:34.079
I like I like the punk rock stuff.

00:29:34.319 --> 00:29:38.240
I'm not really like into like the really gothy stuff.

00:29:38.559 --> 00:29:46.799
I I like wearing black and I I like my silver, all that, but at the end of the day, like I don't like smoking cigarettes, none of that.

00:29:48.000 --> 00:29:50.160
Going back to the bottle um girl stuff.

00:29:50.480 --> 00:29:54.319
Have you ever served any famous people, any professional athletes or musicians?

00:29:54.400 --> 00:29:55.200
Or I have.

00:29:55.440 --> 00:29:57.039
Are you able to disclose?

00:29:57.680 --> 00:29:59.680
Um, I have served too short.

00:30:00.319 --> 00:30:02.240
And he was not the nicest person.

00:30:02.559 --> 00:30:02.960
He wasn't?

00:30:03.119 --> 00:30:03.200
No.

00:30:03.759 --> 00:30:04.400
He was really rude.

00:30:04.559 --> 00:30:05.119
He was really rude.

00:30:05.440 --> 00:30:06.240
Oh, that's annoying.

00:30:06.480 --> 00:30:14.960
Um, I I remember he was like, and this, I mean, I don't know if I'm allowed to say this or not, but he he was just flat out rude.

00:30:15.039 --> 00:30:16.559
He was I thought he was gonna be so cool.

00:30:16.720 --> 00:30:18.640
I've listened to Too Short for so long.

00:30:18.880 --> 00:30:19.839
He seems like he would be cool.

00:30:20.079 --> 00:30:22.000
He seems like he would be cool, but he's not.

00:30:22.319 --> 00:30:30.000
Um, first of all, he he bought like the tiniest little tequila bottles and bought like six of them when he could get like a mag.

00:30:30.319 --> 00:30:37.200
To me, I'm like, you know, you you you've got the chains, you rep, like, oh, I'm you know, I'm too sure I have this big guy.

00:30:37.440 --> 00:30:47.839
Um no, he wanted a couple of us to go to his hotel room, and when all of us were like, no, he was just like the rudest person.

00:30:48.160 --> 00:30:50.160
And you know, like they want one thing.

00:30:50.559 --> 00:30:51.839
I think about my safety.

00:30:52.000 --> 00:30:58.480
There are naive girls that will go with a spender and be like, oh yeah, I'll I'll go in your like your escalade and go shop into the mall.

00:30:58.799 --> 00:31:01.519
In my head, I'm like, oh yeah, in two seconds you're gone.

00:31:01.680 --> 00:31:03.519
Yeah, like that's just the way that I think.

00:31:03.680 --> 00:31:05.519
Like, you're kind of dumb if you're gonna do that.

00:31:05.759 --> 00:31:09.039
Great if you get something really nice, but like be smarter than that.

00:31:09.200 --> 00:31:26.480
And there are a lot of naive girls that, especially here in Scottsdale, that are quick to see the potential of getting something nice, money, uh, nice designer bag, all of that is I think about my safety at the end of the day.

00:31:26.640 --> 00:31:36.720
Um, when we had Super Bowl here, we had a lot of them that didn't make it to the Super Bowl that had tables at one of the clubs that I worked at, and it was really cool.

00:31:36.880 --> 00:31:38.400
Like they were they were awesome.

00:31:38.559 --> 00:31:47.359
I've met a lot of a lot of baseball players, I've met a lot of Atlanta Brave players, and they were they were super cool.

00:31:47.519 --> 00:31:50.559
So one of my one of my good buddies is Tuki.

00:31:50.799 --> 00:31:54.400
He was a pitcher for the Braves during when they won.

00:31:54.799 --> 00:31:59.279
So he was probably like my all-time favorite, and I'm still in contact with him.

00:31:59.519 --> 00:32:04.480
Um, a lot of the Suns players, they they'll pop in a little bit, but they like Pretty Please.

00:32:05.039 --> 00:32:05.279
Yeah.

00:32:06.240 --> 00:32:08.960
They like that Super Bowl, how fun they are.

00:32:09.279 --> 00:32:10.000
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00:32:10.319 --> 00:32:10.960
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00:32:18.799 --> 00:32:21.279
All right, so we have a question, a last time question.

00:32:22.880 --> 00:32:23.759
Um, okay.

00:32:24.079 --> 00:32:32.240
Someone says, I just started dating this guy recently, and he uses a speakerphone in public all the time.

00:32:32.559 --> 00:32:35.440
Is this a red flag or just a dad move?

00:32:36.319 --> 00:32:38.240
A speaker phone in public.

00:32:38.480 --> 00:32:40.880
I don't think it's a deal breaker, but it's annoying, right?

00:32:41.200 --> 00:32:43.440
Because it's inconsiderate of the people around you.

00:32:43.680 --> 00:32:46.160
So to me, it just screams that he's an inconsiderate person.

00:32:46.480 --> 00:32:46.640
Yeah.

00:32:46.799 --> 00:32:50.079
But if you can talk to him about it, communicate and maybe he'll change.

00:32:50.480 --> 00:32:50.720
Maybe.

00:32:50.880 --> 00:32:54.559
For me, it's a uh it's kind of a deal breaker for me because I don't like people looking at me.

00:32:54.640 --> 00:32:56.960
Like I don't like attention on me.

00:32:57.279 --> 00:33:05.759
And so if you're talking on your phone and you're on speakerphone, that tells me you want everyone to know who you're talking to and what you're talking about.

00:33:05.920 --> 00:33:06.000
Right.

00:33:06.240 --> 00:33:07.920
Like you're doing it for attention, right?

00:33:08.079 --> 00:33:08.240
Right.

00:33:08.400 --> 00:33:11.440
Like you don't talk on speakerphone in public for any other reason other than that.

00:33:13.200 --> 00:33:14.480
Like who's on the other line?

00:33:14.880 --> 00:33:15.519
I disagree.

00:33:15.680 --> 00:33:20.960
Because I have read that talking with the phone like this, it's can cause brain cancer.

00:33:21.200 --> 00:33:24.880
Seriously, I guess as a disclaimer on the iPhone, if you look, like in the additional terms of.

00:33:25.200 --> 00:33:26.720
But are they really thinking about that?

00:33:27.119 --> 00:33:28.880
But that's why I always talk on speakerphone.

00:33:29.039 --> 00:33:32.559
I always talk on speakerphone just in case it does cause cancer.

00:33:32.720 --> 00:33:35.680
But if I'm like in an airport, okay, that's so inconsiderate.

00:33:35.839 --> 00:33:38.880
If you're like sitting in an airport or something on speakerphone, I never do that.

00:33:39.119 --> 00:33:47.519
It's like having your volume on and you're texting and it's so loud and all you hear the that to me, it's gotta go.

00:33:47.759 --> 00:33:53.359
Well, and AirPods, like headphones, like how hard is it like to put in an earpiece?

00:33:53.519 --> 00:33:58.400
Like you'd if you're worried about your phone giving you can't well, I guess now they say that airpods give you cancer too.

00:33:59.599 --> 00:34:03.200
Everything can give you cancer food or water.

00:34:03.519 --> 00:34:04.240
It's true.

00:34:04.480 --> 00:34:06.000
Would it be a deal breaker for you?

00:34:06.240 --> 00:34:08.320
I think it would just, yeah, it would get annoying.

00:34:08.480 --> 00:34:08.639
Yeah.

00:34:09.039 --> 00:34:09.760
I'd have to say something.

00:34:10.239 --> 00:34:12.320
I'd have to say something the first time it happened.

00:34:12.800 --> 00:34:16.559
I am the type that if something annoys me, I'm gonna let you know.

00:34:16.639 --> 00:34:16.880
I am.

00:34:17.119 --> 00:34:22.239
And whether, like whether you take it the right way or the wrong way, I like I'm so serious about it.

00:34:22.320 --> 00:34:36.960
It like I can't, if something annoys you and you're dating that person and you're not okay, like going forward, and you you know that you can't withhold whatever that person is doing without saying something, like it's yeah, I can't do it.

00:34:37.199 --> 00:34:38.000
That's how I am too.

00:34:38.079 --> 00:34:43.679
I would say something the first time, and then if they do it again, I'm like, that's too close to begging.

00:34:43.760 --> 00:34:45.840
I'm not gonna ask you again, like this is done.

00:34:45.920 --> 00:34:46.480
I can't date you.00:34:46.800 --> 00:34:50.000


Like, I would ask what's the risk and why you're doing this.00:34:50.239 --> 00:34:50.639


I would ask you.00:34:50.719 --> 00:34:53.360


Are you purposely trying to annoy me and piss me off?00:34:54.000 --> 00:34:57.280


Or like, did you not hear what I I slightly asked you like?00:34:57.679 --> 00:34:59.840


I have to ask more than once, yes.00:35:00.159 --> 00:35:01.920


Then you don't really care what I'm saying.00:35:02.159 --> 00:35:03.920


So you don't even let him have the three strikes.00:35:04.079 --> 00:35:05.440


No, one strike in the round.00:35:05.679 --> 00:35:07.119


Uh I I'd say, yeah.00:35:07.280 --> 00:35:08.639


I would say two, and that's it.00:35:08.719 --> 00:35:09.840


I don't I don't give the top of it.00:35:09.920 --> 00:35:14.320


I like talk a big game, but no, I do, I do tend to give more chances than that.00:35:14.400 --> 00:35:18.400


But in my head, at the second time, I'm going, You're driving me nuts.00:35:18.800 --> 00:35:19.119


Yes.00:35:19.280 --> 00:35:19.440


Yeah.00:35:19.599 --> 00:35:20.719


Like this is never gonna last.00:35:20.880 --> 00:35:21.039


Yes.00:35:21.760 --> 00:35:23.039


So we're gonna discuss.00:35:23.199 --> 00:35:28.079


We asked our listeners and our followers what is the most embarrassing thing that happened to you on a first date.00:35:28.159 --> 00:35:29.679


And I'm gonna read some of the funny ones.00:35:29.840 --> 00:35:32.800


What is the most embarrassing thing that happened to you or your date?00:35:33.119 --> 00:35:33.760


Do you have one?00:35:34.639 --> 00:35:41.280


It's not embarrassing, I think it's just disrespectful when they are talking about like their past relationship.00:35:41.360 --> 00:35:41.599


Ugh.00:35:41.920 --> 00:35:42.559


So annoying.00:35:42.719 --> 00:35:45.599


Like that to me is just like so it's disgusting.00:35:45.760 --> 00:35:55.599


Like, then you're still not over that person, and then also like you're really going deep with it, and then I'm kind of like eating my food, like, yeah, this is really not worth it.00:35:55.760 --> 00:36:00.159


And I think the first date should be about you getting to know you, getting to know each other, not talking about your past.00:36:00.400 --> 00:36:11.679


It was really just me getting to know like uh their last relationship, and then if that's all you're thinking about, then you're really and then if you ask me on a second date after that, I just I never went.00:36:12.239 --> 00:36:12.800


What about it?00:36:13.119 --> 00:36:13.760


I couldn't do it.00:36:13.840 --> 00:36:14.159


Uh uh.00:36:14.639 --> 00:36:20.159


I've never had anything embar I don't think I've had anything embarrassing happen to me on a first date.00:36:20.719 --> 00:36:28.880


But I mean, I've told the story before about my vagina hanging out while I was on you have to tell me.00:36:29.199 --> 00:36:31.599


I will say I have a story about that, but it was my birthday.00:36:31.760 --> 00:36:33.199


It wasn't necessarily a date.00:36:33.280 --> 00:36:47.920


I was with my ex and we'd been together and we were on vacation and we were in a very humid place, and I went to the bathroom, and I like slid my bikini to the side to go to the bathroom, and I didn't slide it all the way back over.00:36:48.000 --> 00:36:53.119


And I didn't realize it until I'd walked across the restaurant back to our table.00:36:53.360 --> 00:36:54.800


And so it was, yeah.00:36:55.119 --> 00:36:56.239


And so half of it.00:36:56.800 --> 00:36:57.519


Did he point it out?00:36:57.760 --> 00:36:58.079


Oh yeah.00:36:58.239 --> 00:36:59.199


Yeah, I got back to the table.00:36:59.440 --> 00:37:01.440


Like, how long did it take him to point it out that no?00:37:01.519 --> 00:37:02.559


As soon as I got back to the table.00:37:02.960 --> 00:37:04.800


I was at least at least he wasn't like just leaking.00:37:05.119 --> 00:37:06.320


But I walked all the way across.00:37:06.400 --> 00:37:13.840


Like he could have like been like been like, hey, like, yeah, he could have like send me a smoke signal from across the restaurant.00:37:14.000 --> 00:37:18.079


Like, like, babe, like, come on, pull it over a little bit.00:37:18.719 --> 00:37:20.719


Well, mine, mine was my birthday.00:37:20.800 --> 00:37:22.480


It was like when I was 22.00:37:22.800 --> 00:37:27.679


I wore this leather skirt that had it like a slip, like a cutout slip.00:37:28.159 --> 00:37:32.880


And in all my, I did not wear underwear because I didn't want an underwear line.00:37:32.960 --> 00:37:35.599


It was a very tight black leather skirt.00:37:36.079 --> 00:37:39.440


In some of my pictures, and and I'm obviously intoxicated.00:37:39.599 --> 00:37:41.679


I'm at a bottle service table back home.00:37:42.000 --> 00:37:46.079


In all of these pictures, you could fully see my vagina.00:37:46.159 --> 00:37:46.400


Oh, good.00:37:46.639 --> 00:37:49.119


And I'm like, and nobody told me this.00:37:49.360 --> 00:37:52.400


Like, I look back, I can't even post those pictures.00:37:52.559 --> 00:37:54.880


Like, oh my god, that is hilarious.00:37:55.199 --> 00:37:59.039


If I put an emoji there, then somebody's gonna know this immediately to that.00:38:00.000 --> 00:38:00.800


How rude of my friends.00:38:00.960 --> 00:38:03.360


I went the whole night not knowing.00:38:03.519 --> 00:38:06.639


Oh, at least I was like freshly shit.00:38:08.960 --> 00:38:10.239


Nobody's gonna tell I know.00:38:10.480 --> 00:38:12.159


Could you only imagine a word?00:38:12.800 --> 00:38:13.599


Yeah, that's hilarious.00:38:13.760 --> 00:38:16.079


Yeah, shout out to my friends back home.00:38:16.639 --> 00:38:20.159


So, some of these, I was on a first date with a guy after an 11-year relationship.00:38:20.239 --> 00:38:25.039


I was sitting at the bar and thought my date dropped something on the floor because he bent down off the bar stool.00:38:25.199 --> 00:38:29.199


But when he came back up, he said, didn't smell your vagina, so that's a good sign.00:38:29.679 --> 00:38:31.599


Half the bar heard him as he was yelling.00:38:31.760 --> 00:38:34.960


Thank God we just ordered drinks because I couldn't get out of there fast enough.00:38:35.360 --> 00:38:35.840


Who does that?00:38:36.400 --> 00:38:37.039


Who does that?00:38:37.199 --> 00:38:38.400


Who thinks that's acceptable?00:38:38.639 --> 00:38:39.440


That is not funny.00:38:39.679 --> 00:38:40.239


That's not funny.00:38:40.400 --> 00:38:41.519


Then you you gotta go.00:38:41.599 --> 00:38:45.280


Yeah, like someone said they got the hiccup so bad they wouldn't stop.00:38:45.360 --> 00:38:46.960


The date had to take her home.00:38:47.119 --> 00:38:50.960


Um, someone said to take her home because she couldn't stop hiccuping.00:38:51.760 --> 00:38:54.400


Um, I farted on a first date, was mortified.00:38:54.480 --> 00:38:56.159


He heard it, so it was really awkward.00:38:56.400 --> 00:38:59.360


I mean, at least you're breaking the ice a little bit, right?00:38:59.679 --> 00:39:01.519


You're really getting to know each other that first time.00:39:02.000 --> 00:39:03.599


That's always the first sleepover for me.00:39:04.480 --> 00:39:05.599


I always get so nervous.00:39:05.760 --> 00:39:08.239


I'm like, depends on what I'm like.00:39:08.320 --> 00:39:13.280


I mean, I've never I've actually, I don't think that I've like farted in front of somebody.00:39:13.440 --> 00:39:15.039


I hope not, especially in my sleep.00:39:15.119 --> 00:39:16.719


But you don't know what you're doing in your sleep.00:39:16.880 --> 00:39:17.440


I don't know, right?00:39:17.599 --> 00:39:20.320


But I'm like, that's always been like my oh yeah.00:39:20.800 --> 00:39:22.400


Mine's in my sleep, it's it's in my sleep.00:39:22.480 --> 00:39:26.079


Like that's always it's I'm always like it's gonna happen.00:39:26.320 --> 00:39:28.559


I'm gonna wake myself up and it's gonna wake you up too.00:39:29.280 --> 00:39:29.920


Or snoring.00:39:30.239 --> 00:39:38.159


I have I have woken myself up several times from me snoring, and that's like if I'm really drained, that's the only time that I am snoring.00:39:38.480 --> 00:39:40.159


Other than that, I'm a silent sleeper.00:39:40.320 --> 00:39:47.199


Yeah, but the fact that I woke myself up next to somebody and I'm waking myself up snoring, that's a little embarrassing.00:39:47.440 --> 00:39:48.159


So it's funny.00:39:48.559 --> 00:39:54.719


The next one, I went to the loo and had explosive diarrhea, and the toilet overflowed and flooded the whole bathroom in the restaurant.00:39:54.880 --> 00:39:55.199


Oh god.00:39:55.440 --> 00:39:56.639


My date had to take me home.00:39:56.719 --> 00:39:57.440


I almost died.00:39:57.519 --> 00:39:58.159


That is so crazy.00:39:58.400 --> 00:39:58.960


That's embarrassing.00:39:59.119 --> 00:39:59.840


That's pretty embarrassing.00:40:00.000 --> 00:40:00.800


That is mortifying.00:40:01.840 --> 00:40:02.800


A lot of these are about that.00:40:02.960 --> 00:40:10.159


The first date I got food poisoning and had violent diarrhea on the side of the road and had to clean myself with an old shirt I had in the back of my car.00:40:10.239 --> 00:40:10.639


Oh my god.00:40:10.880 --> 00:40:13.440


Oh my, but that's also that's not her fault.00:40:13.679 --> 00:40:14.400


That's not her fault.00:40:14.880 --> 00:40:15.280


That's true.00:40:15.440 --> 00:40:16.400


That's the restaurant's fault.00:40:16.639 --> 00:40:17.360


That is the restaurant's fault.00:40:17.440 --> 00:40:17.760


Oh my god.00:40:17.920 --> 00:40:18.719


It was at a house party.00:40:18.800 --> 00:40:21.039


The girl whose house it was pulled me into her parents' bedroom.00:40:21.119 --> 00:40:24.159


We were kissing and fumbling around like teens do on her parents' bed.00:40:24.320 --> 00:40:28.639


I took her pants off and for some reason said something like, Do you think your dad does this to your mom here?00:40:29.119 --> 00:40:30.559


The mood died pretty quick after that.00:40:30.719 --> 00:40:32.559


I still cringe when I think about saying this.00:40:33.119 --> 00:40:34.559


Especially in your parents' room.00:40:34.800 --> 00:40:37.280


That is not the vulnerable state.00:40:38.400 --> 00:40:38.559


Yeah.00:40:38.880 --> 00:40:44.719


So I don't I feel bad for I was on a first date, and this guy had been asking me out for the longest time, and I wasn't really interested.00:40:44.880 --> 00:40:46.559


But to be kind, I I agreed.00:40:46.639 --> 00:40:49.440


I thought, well, maybe you know I'll get to know him and my feelings will change.00:40:49.679 --> 00:40:50.800


So he picked me up.00:40:50.880 --> 00:40:57.360


We were driving and he got pulled over and was given a DY, took, was taken to the local jail.00:40:57.519 --> 00:41:01.440


His parents, his friends weren't answering their phone to come get him out of jail.00:41:01.599 --> 00:41:06.480


So I had to call my parents, and my parents had to go and pick him up at the jail and take him home.00:41:07.039 --> 00:41:08.320


Isn't that mortifying for him?00:41:09.440 --> 00:41:10.480


Mortifying for you.00:41:10.639 --> 00:41:11.519


For everyone involved.00:41:12.960 --> 00:41:17.599


But what's funny is then we dropped him off at his apartment and he invited us in, whatever.00:41:17.760 --> 00:41:19.599


And I saw him years later.00:41:19.760 --> 00:41:23.440


And what he found embarrassing about the situation was something completely different.00:41:23.519 --> 00:41:25.360


He didn't really care about the whole DUI thing.00:41:25.519 --> 00:41:27.280


He was mortified because he's like, I'll never forget.00:41:27.360 --> 00:41:28.000


I was so embarrassed.00:41:28.079 --> 00:41:31.360


You came into my apartment and there was McDonald's lying around the apartment.00:41:31.440 --> 00:41:32.480


I was so embarrassed.00:41:32.719 --> 00:41:34.639


I was like, that's what you were embarrassed about.00:41:35.519 --> 00:41:37.440


I would be more embarrassed about the DUI.00:41:37.679 --> 00:41:42.239


Seriously, I went, so I'm just realizing this now that we're talking about first dates.00:41:42.400 --> 00:41:49.840


This wasn't embarrassing, but I had my first date with my ex, and we ended up going to the place where you work.00:41:50.000 --> 00:41:51.280


We did Sunday Funday.00:41:51.360 --> 00:41:56.320


We went to brunch and we met through mutual friends who introduced us.00:41:56.400 --> 00:41:59.199


And so we went to a brunch together as a double date.00:41:59.280 --> 00:42:04.960


And then we had some other friends who were going to the day club for a pool party.00:42:05.679 --> 00:42:08.000


And so we're like, should we go?00:42:08.320 --> 00:42:09.760


And so we decided to go.00:42:09.920 --> 00:42:16.400


We got one of the tables, one of those back tables that's like up behind the bar area behind the DJ or whatever outside.00:42:16.639 --> 00:42:18.719


And so we had one of those tables.00:42:18.880 --> 00:42:31.760


Um, and I had the girlfriend that set us up that was on our double date with us, we had brought our bikinis in our, like in your purpose, like in Scottsdale, you always bring your bikini with you no matter what, especially in the summertime.00:42:32.079 --> 00:42:32.960


Like you know, you just never know.00:42:33.519 --> 00:42:35.519


It's like the rule, it's like the rule of Scottsdale.00:42:35.679 --> 00:42:37.360


So we're holding towels up.00:42:37.519 --> 00:42:41.519


I think our our server like brought us towels or brought us a sheet.00:42:41.599 --> 00:42:45.599


She brought us something like to hold up so that we could change behind it.00:42:45.760 --> 00:42:49.440


And I remember my ex, this was like the biggest red flag.00:42:49.599 --> 00:42:52.320


He had gotten so fucked up at brunch.00:42:52.800 --> 00:43:00.000


And right when we got there, that I was like trying to change into my bikini, and he was like trying to come back behind.00:43:00.239 --> 00:43:02.239


And I was like, I just met you today.00:43:02.400 --> 00:43:03.679


This is our first date.00:43:03.840 --> 00:43:04.880


What are you doing?00:43:05.119 --> 00:43:09.199


Like he was trying to like come back there with me while I was chasing.00:43:10.639 --> 00:43:10.880


Yes.00:43:11.360 --> 00:43:15.119


And I was like, like, we just met three hours ago.00:43:15.280 --> 00:43:16.239


What are you doing?00:43:16.400 --> 00:43:17.840


Like, I don't even know your parents yet.00:43:18.400 --> 00:43:18.880


Exactly.00:43:19.039 --> 00:43:20.800


I was like, get out of here.00:43:22.079 --> 00:43:24.320


Oh my god, that was very embarrassing.00:43:24.400 --> 00:43:29.039


But it was a little bit of a disaster first date, and it's funny because it was at the pool club.00:43:29.199 --> 00:43:29.440


Yeah.00:43:29.679 --> 00:43:33.119


Now it's time for the celebrity cut where we marinate in the juices of the celebrities.00:43:33.199 --> 00:43:34.639


So are you Taylor Swifty?00:43:34.880 --> 00:43:36.000


Swifty as they call it.00:43:36.159 --> 00:43:37.039


Oh, I'm not.00:43:37.440 --> 00:43:38.239


I'm not either.00:43:38.400 --> 00:43:41.199


But I typically like her because she does a lot of good things.00:43:41.360 --> 00:43:42.480


She donates a lot of money.00:43:42.960 --> 00:43:48.960


But did you see how this new album, she has what, like 37 different variants of it?00:43:49.199 --> 00:43:50.400


Like, have you seen that?00:43:50.559 --> 00:43:54.320


Like, she has multiple CDs, multiple cassettes, multiple vinyls.00:43:54.480 --> 00:43:56.159


It seems like it's just to make money.00:43:56.320 --> 00:44:00.719


Like, she seems like she's going a little crazy with the whole corporation money grabbing.00:44:00.800 --> 00:44:01.599


Doesn't it seem out of control?00:44:02.000 --> 00:44:10.320


I think as soon as she got engaged, I think it was just because they were also posting like her, like her worth and his worth.00:44:10.719 --> 00:44:14.400


And obviously, like hers is a little bit more than Travis's.00:44:14.719 --> 00:44:20.719


But it's yeah, I think it's that, and she's also I remember Taylor Swift like when I was young.00:44:21.119 --> 00:44:23.840


That is my like I loved her when I was really, really young.00:44:24.000 --> 00:44:30.000


Being a young girl, that's who you looked up to until I saw her in concert and it was not as good as really now.00:44:30.079 --> 00:44:30.639


She's better.00:44:30.719 --> 00:44:36.239


She's probably taken a lot of vocal classes, but when I saw her, she was she was she sucked.00:44:36.400 --> 00:44:37.119


Oh, it was terrible.00:44:37.360 --> 00:44:41.280


Also, what are the what why are there different is it like different cover art?00:44:41.519 --> 00:44:42.559


Different cover art, yeah.00:44:42.719 --> 00:44:44.880


But it's like it seems like it's just another way to make money.00:44:44.960 --> 00:44:48.559


Because I guess when you go to purchase one, it says, Would you like to add all to the bag?00:44:48.719 --> 00:44:52.880


Oh it just seems like it's all about and she never used to, she never used to be that way, did she?00:44:53.280 --> 00:44:54.880


Like also her outfits are changing.00:44:54.960 --> 00:44:58.480


Now she's gonna she's getting a little bit more like spicy, yeah.00:44:59.119 --> 00:44:59.280


She is.00:44:59.599 --> 00:45:02.960


I mean, good for her trying to get out of like her normal attire.00:45:03.440 --> 00:45:05.119


The good girl, good girl next door.00:45:05.360 --> 00:45:07.199


But it's funny how the Swifties are freaking out about that.00:45:07.280 --> 00:45:08.719


But dude, she's what, 35?00:45:08.960 --> 00:45:12.559


Like maybe it's time for her to explore her to have her womanhood, you know?00:45:12.639 --> 00:45:13.360


Yeah, yeah.00:45:14.000 --> 00:45:14.480


Interesting.00:45:14.639 --> 00:45:24.480


I thought I what I found more interesting was the interviews that like Jason and Kylie Kelsey did about the wood song.00:45:24.800 --> 00:45:28.559


About the song that's about Travis's wood.00:45:28.880 --> 00:45:30.559


I haven't heard that song, have you?00:45:30.800 --> 00:45:32.239


Oh, you should.00:45:32.559 --> 00:45:33.119


I should be.00:45:33.280 --> 00:45:34.079


It's very interesting.00:45:34.320 --> 00:45:34.559


Uh-huh.00:45:34.639 --> 00:45:34.960


Uh-huh.00:45:35.119 --> 00:45:36.079


I just thought it was funny.00:45:36.239 --> 00:45:37.519


It was like your family.00:45:37.599 --> 00:45:39.039


Like, imagine that's your brother.00:45:39.119 --> 00:45:43.760


Imagine your brother's married to a singer and she writes a song all about your sex life.00:45:44.239 --> 00:45:46.079


Like, I found that more interesting.00:45:46.320 --> 00:45:47.760


Or if you're the dad listening to it.00:45:48.000 --> 00:45:48.320


Yeah.00:45:49.440 --> 00:45:53.280


Well, now it's time to get to know you with Zoya, sponsored by Zoeya, your neighborhood yogurt.00:45:53.440 --> 00:45:55.920


So we're gonna ask you rapid fire questions to get to know you better.00:45:56.159 --> 00:45:58.320


Best or worst pickup line you've heard.00:45:58.639 --> 00:46:00.480


Oh, best or worst.00:46:01.360 --> 00:46:02.000


One that you use.00:46:02.239 --> 00:46:03.119


Do you use a line?00:46:03.360 --> 00:46:04.960


I don't use a line.00:46:05.280 --> 00:46:10.239


Um, I mean, I have so many that I mean, a lot of it's using my name.00:46:10.480 --> 00:46:11.440


Um god.00:46:11.599 --> 00:46:12.800


Like, gotta have faith.00:46:13.039 --> 00:46:14.079


Yeah, gotta have faith.00:46:14.159 --> 00:46:14.960


That's it, yeah.00:46:15.199 --> 00:46:19.760


Or they'll a lot of it's like you're like talking about being an angel falling.00:46:20.079 --> 00:46:21.360


Okay, I've heard that so many times.00:46:21.599 --> 00:46:22.400


I need a little faith in.00:46:22.800 --> 00:46:24.239


I actually hate pickup lines.00:46:24.719 --> 00:46:26.079


I just it doesn't work for me.00:46:26.159 --> 00:46:26.480


Yeah, I think it's a good thing.00:46:26.559 --> 00:46:28.320


I just I think it's so cringy.00:46:28.719 --> 00:46:30.719


What's your favorite body part on a partner?00:46:31.119 --> 00:46:31.840


On a partner.00:46:32.639 --> 00:46:33.760


You gotta have good abs.00:46:34.079 --> 00:46:35.679


Good abs and some good arms.00:46:36.000 --> 00:46:37.119


What gives you the ick?00:46:37.599 --> 00:46:38.079


The ick.00:46:38.320 --> 00:46:40.079


Somebody's smacking their food.00:46:40.320 --> 00:46:40.800


Oh, that's right.00:46:40.960 --> 00:46:42.960


We're not like we're bad breath.00:46:43.360 --> 00:46:43.599


Yeah.00:46:43.920 --> 00:46:46.239


Is porn considered cheating?00:46:46.880 --> 00:46:47.920


I yeah.00:46:49.360 --> 00:46:53.679


Before you're intimate, is it appropriate to ask your date how many people they've slept with?00:46:54.239 --> 00:46:59.519


Um, I think if you're uh I don't think so, because at that point it doesn't matter.00:47:00.000 --> 00:47:03.199


Obviously, if you hear it out on the street, like, oh, they've slept with a lot.00:47:03.280 --> 00:47:04.719


That's that is an ick to me.00:47:04.880 --> 00:47:06.000


I don't want to hear that.00:47:06.239 --> 00:47:09.599


But also, like, you kind of gotta move on somehow.00:47:10.000 --> 00:47:12.239


And if you if you like the person, you like that person.00:47:12.559 --> 00:47:14.880


Is it acceptable to have sex on a first date?00:47:15.119 --> 00:47:16.320


Yes, because I have.00:47:17.280 --> 00:47:21.360


Hey, if you like that person and the vibes are going, like I'm right there with that.00:47:22.000 --> 00:47:25.119


Should you disclose mental health issues early on in a relationship?00:47:25.920 --> 00:47:30.719


Um, I think if you're in a healthy spot to discuss that, yeah, absolutely.00:47:31.039 --> 00:47:33.679


I think talking about struggles are a good thing.00:47:33.920 --> 00:47:40.159


And you know, if somebody understands and can comply with some of those struggles, like you never know.00:47:40.239 --> 00:47:42.159


They're probably dealing with the same thing.00:47:42.239 --> 00:47:46.639


So maybe you can connect on a deeper level, and yeah, I don't see why not.00:47:46.960 --> 00:47:49.840


Last but not least, what is your favorite sexual position and why?00:47:50.800 --> 00:47:51.679


Oh man.00:47:54.000 --> 00:47:56.400


I'm a r I'm yeah, I'm a menace.00:47:56.559 --> 00:47:58.960


I we ooh.00:47:59.679 --> 00:48:00.880


What is my favorite?00:48:01.119 --> 00:48:02.239


I like to be on top.00:48:02.400 --> 00:48:06.639


I like to be like, that's great if somebody likes to I like to be in control.00:48:06.960 --> 00:48:09.360


And that's just I think just the athlete.00:48:10.079 --> 00:48:10.719


Yeah.00:48:10.960 --> 00:48:13.760


Um, and then yeah, yeah, that.00:48:13.920 --> 00:48:19.360


And then just not a hard choke, but like a good, like, yeah.00:48:19.679 --> 00:48:19.920


Yeah.00:48:20.159 --> 00:48:22.559


I think, you know, getting getting things spicy.00:48:23.519 --> 00:48:24.400


Do you have any other questions?00:48:24.559 --> 00:48:26.480


Do you have any other questions or anything else you want to add?00:48:27.360 --> 00:48:29.519


Well, thank you so much for joining us this week at the meat market.00:48:29.679 --> 00:48:30.800


And thank you so much, Faith.00:48:30.880 --> 00:48:34.800


If you want to go on a date with Faith, send us a DM at Meat Market Podcast.00:48:34.880 --> 00:48:37.280


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Oh my god, I just totally got catfished.00:48:48.960 --> 00:48:51.039


He looks absolutely nothing like his picture.00:48:51.280 --> 00:48:56.000


So I found out the guy that I've been dating is married with kids.00:48:56.239 --> 00:48:58.719


His wife just reached out to me.