When the Open House Ends and the Ick Begins 👀

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Oh my god, I just totally got catfished.

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He looks absolutely nothing like his picture.

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So I found out the guy that I've been dating is married with kids.

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His wife just reached out to me.

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Welcome to the meat market.

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The single scene is a slaughterhouse, and we are here to devour it.

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We are your hosts.

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I'm Lindsay.

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I'm Jess.

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And today's sizzling single is Taylor.

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Welcome.

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Thank you.

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So you have a pretty crazy first date story.

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Tell us about it.

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Do you want the shaven neck guy?

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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So, um, this was when I was freshly single, so I was kind of like getting back into the dating world.

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Um, but I met this guy on Hinge.

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Uh the apps are actually deleted now because they were awful.

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But I end up meeting this guy.

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I tell him that I'm gonna be going out with my friends, and he was like, Oh my gosh, could I join?

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I haven't been out in so long.

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So I was like, you know, whatever, he seems cool, I'll let him join.

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So my thinking was I didn't want him to drive back to my place because I didn't want him to come back home with us.

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So I was like, okay, I'm just gonna pick you up on the way.

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So I pick him up, but the thing is he wasn't ready, so he had me come up inside, and he's getting dressed, like I'm just kind of sitting there being patient.

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And he's like, Okay, we need to do one thing before we go.

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And I was like, What?

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Instantly kind of like, okay, what's what's gonna happen?

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And he goes, You need to shave my neck.

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I haven't had a haircut in forever, and you need to shave the back of my neck.

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And I was like, I'm not doing that.

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Your friends, your roommates can, and no one was home.

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And he starts like progressively getting more and more uh freaked out because I wouldn't do it because he was starting to have a little panic attack.

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Because I think the guy was a little socially awkward.

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But after five or six times of him saying, Please just shave my neck, I can't be seen like this, he's on his knees at one point with the razor.

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Oh my god.

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With the electric razor, and he's like, just please do it.

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And I'm just thinking to my head, you know, this would be kind of a funny story, and this guy's freaking out, so I just did it.

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That's funny, that's brave.

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So that was your first date.

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Yes, and taking a guy out with your friends on a first date.

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I know, and I was so new to it, and I didn't know how bad the apps were, but never again.

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I have never made that mistake again because he also sucked the whole night, was such a baby, saying, Oh, this place sucks and I'm not having fun.

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And at the end of the night, he even made me drive him home.

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Wow.

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Because he was like, I'm not taking an Uber.

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He lived five minutes away.

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And I was like, Can you like I want to stay out, I'm having fun, and he was like, Take me home now.

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Wow.

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So I never spoke to him again, but I should have just cut it off.

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I knew the moment I saw him I wasn't interested.

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Because that's a red flag for the future relationship.

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If he's having a panic attack about not having his neck shaved, think about how he's gonna handle other situations.

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Yeah.

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Also, why is that my issue?

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You should have been prepared if you knew you were coming out.

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I should have been shaved already.

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Yeah.

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Like, first of all, why didn't he get a haircut prior?

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Yeah.

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Second of all, like you show up and he's not ready.

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Like, isn't that typically the girl that needs a little extra time to get ready?

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It seems like everything he did was feminine because it's like begging for a ride home instead of just calling an Uber yourself.

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I'm sorry.

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Also, on top of that, when he was getting dressed, he was like, Does this outfit look okay?

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Or should I do these shoes and these pants and da-da-da?

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So it was like I was his mother, you know?

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Like he wanted a mommy, not a girlfriend.

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And he wonders why he's single.

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Right.

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Did you guys do like a FaceTime or something beforehand?

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Did so yes, and I should have known because he wouldn't show his face because he was like On the FaceTime?

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Yes, on the FaceTime because he was like, Oh, I'm I just look like shit.

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I just woke up, I don't look good, like I I want to shower first, and da da da da.

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I should have known.

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Also, like freshly single.

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I this was my first experience back into the dating world, and this happened.

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Did you schedule the FaceTime though, or was it just like spur of the moment you just decided to call?

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Just decided to call.

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Okay.

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Because I was like, okay, if I'm meeting this guy tonight, then I should at least be on a phone with him.

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And he was cool on the phone.

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Like, I would never have guessed that this man had social anxiety like he did.

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Did he look like his pictures?

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Uh he was kind of a catfish.

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Like one photo he kind of looked like, but you could tell it was very edited and face tuned.

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I'm sure that's why because how hard is it to not answer the FaceTime in the moment when you're not ready and then quick like throw a shirt on, maybe wash your face, like run a brush through your hair or something, and then call you right back in like five or ten minutes.

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Like it's not that hard.

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He didn't have to answer when you called and then not show his face.

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That's true, you know.

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That's yeah, that's what I would do.

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Because sometimes I don't like it when people FaceTime me out of the blue.

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Yeah out of the blue.

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I'm like, what the hell?

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I like a scheduled FaceTime, so I can at least like brush my teeth, you know.

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But I will say, I would just not answer, take a few minutes to quickly put myself on the bed and do a little do a little hoe bath and like call you mad.

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You know what I mean?

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Like pits in private, even though you don't even need to do that for FaceTime.

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Like FaceTime.

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Maybe it's spicy.

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I've just never had a guy even care about that.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Usually that's again a feminine thing.

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It is.

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So yeah.

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So I have a question.

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So you are a realtor.

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Yes.

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Have you had any clients hit on you or be inappropriate?

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Uh yeah.

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I've actually had a fire clients because they had a wife and they would always want to go to dinner and talk about the sale of the house, all this stuff.

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And I'd be like, okay, well, where's your wife?

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Is she coming?

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Because she's also an owner.

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And he'd go, No, she's out of town, da da da, or you can just come over to the house and check it out.

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But it would be at like 7 p.m.

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on a freaking Friday.

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Like, I'm not stupid, but yes, that happens all the time.

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And I like one time I met a client at Global Ambassador, and the thing is they'll lead you on and say that they want to buy or sell, and they don't actually, they're just trying to get your attention.

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That happens a lot too.

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So I've been very stern.

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Like, I'm able to just shut it down to say this is only business.

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If we're not talking business, then we're not talking.

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Like if we're not signing something at this meeting, there's no point in having the meeting, basically.

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Dangle a carrot in front of you, and they're like, Oh, yeah, I actually want to buy.

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They don't want to buy.

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So they ask you to dinner to discuss, and you're like, you need to bring it pre-qual.

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Yeah.

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I'm like, all right, sign list.

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That's what I'm saying.

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Like, there needs to be paperwork at the meeting, otherwise, it's not.

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You're gonna need to sign the listing appointment on the frickin' dates.

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Yes.

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And then they probably expect you to pay too because it's a business.

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This is a write-on.

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You know what I mean?

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Because like the real the realtor will pay for it because it's the business for them.

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You know what I mean?

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Like typically.

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So it's like, let me take this girl out for a free date.

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Yeah.

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I don't know if you've experienced this, but for some reason, every guy has this dream of going to my open house and locking the door and getting nasty.

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And I'm like, I'm not doing that because unless you're gonna be paying me thousands of dollars, uh no, absolutely not.

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Also, I kind of like that fantasy.

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I'd be freaking out because cameras, people have a lot of cameras nowadays, yeah.

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Someone could just walk on in.

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I have signs everywhere saying, come to this house, come to this house.

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You know what I mean?

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I bet some people love the thrill.

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People love.

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I'm like, so how hard is it to get your real estate license?

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Oh my god! That's hard if you get your license just Well, you know what?

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That actually is kind of a kink for people in Paradise Alley.

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I have there's a story in our office where one of our luxury agents had an open house.

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They had this guy come in with a girl wearing a collar and she was on all hands and knees going, woof, woof, yes daddy, yes, daddy.

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Like he brought her in.

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He brought her in on a leash, she's on all fours.

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Okay.

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So they come in and then the agents were like, okay, we have to get them out of here, but they split.

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They like ran, split, and then met up in a in a room and locked themselves in the room and started getting nasty.

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And how do you explain that to a seller?

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By the way, these people just came in and they because they have a kink of getting it on at other people's houses, they called the cops, and the cops were like, Yeah, we've arrested them three times already for this.

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Yeah.

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Well, did you guys see the story about the couple that broke into moncherie and then started having sex in the restaurant?

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Yes.

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Yes.

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And they were arrested, right?

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They were arrested, but I'm pretty sure I thought I read something that they couldn't charge them for like the sex acts because I think they could see enough of it on camera to to know what they were doing, but couldn't see enough to actually prove it.

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Are you serious?

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I something like that.

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I thought it.

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I knew what they were doing.

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I thought I read.

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I thought I read something like that.

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Like they they were able to like press the charges for breaking and entering or whatever it was, but they weren't able to actually charge them with any sexual.

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See, that's the last thing I need.

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Some camera catching me.

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And no, not happening.

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Uh-huh.

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Because you know what?

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Everyone has these sneaky little cameras now and baby monitors that will listen.

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So people will actually listen to me what I say at open houses, and then the seller will text me and be like, oh, you handled that one well.

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Are you serious?

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I'm not kidding.

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Oh my god.

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I hate see, I don't like it.

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Or they're like, or they're like, it's not granite, it's marble.

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Get it right next time.

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Yeah.

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They're like, like one time an agent was like, hey, this is kind of creepy, but they're listening to everything you're saying and they've been super impressed with you.

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I was like, this is my fifth open house, and they've been listening this whole time.

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Oh my god, how crap.

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I wouldn't like that.

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I wouldn't like that because it makes you anxious.

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It would make me anxious and nervous about every little thing that I say.

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Did I handle that right?

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Are they gonna judge me?

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Are they gonna be offended?

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Yeah.

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Well, because when someone absolutely shits on the house, you don't want to be like, oh, well, it's actually stunning and you're wrong.

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So sometimes I'm always like, oh, I understand where you're coming from, but I could see how someone could listen to that and go, why did she agree with them?

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Yeah.

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I don't know.

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Going back to the open house kinks, that's a great business idea for an OnlyFans model to get her real estate license.

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Because you know how there's professional dominatrixes out there because there's so many men with that kink.

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Guarantee you could make a crap ton of money if you offer that service.

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100%.

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I feel like you need to have a liability waiver though.

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Like you have to have the homeowner's sign.

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Sometimes I feel like that's how Scott Still Reals is work, though.

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I mean, it's just like sometimes I hear some crazy stories about people just sleeping with their clients to get these$12 million listings.

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I was gonna ask, I've heard that too, that there are some women that will do anything to get those high-end clients.

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Is that true?

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Oh, yeah.

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Um, but I that's why I pride myself in not being like that, because I'm not the girl you're gonna mess around with.

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So go get another one that will do it, but I I won't.

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But there is a story.

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Um, I was at a broker open, it was like a$15 million mansion, and that's the only time I hear rumors, okay?

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But people just come up and they want to talk in my ear about it.

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So I guess one of the girls who had the house listed, her first ever sale was$12 million because she slept with a client to get the listing.

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And then once the guy moved in, by the way, he was cheating on his wife, he divorced the wife, and that realtor moved in with him.

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No way.

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She hit the freaking jackpot.

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Yeah, she did.

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Well, I was gonna say, remember that time we were at that party and it was like a pre-Phoenix Open party back in like 2013.

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And there was women there that were literally there just to sleep with men.

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It was like a Thunderbirds party.

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They were there just to sleep with guys to get their Phoenix Open ticket.

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So it's like, if there's women willing to sleep with men for tickets to a sporting event, yeah, imagine like what they would do for a commission on like a$10 million house.

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Yeah.

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It's funny because those we were at that party and these girls came up to us and told us what the party was.

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They're like, you do know what this party's for, right?

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It's for women to come, pick which man they want, have sex with them for free tickets.

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And we're like, we were mortified because we were there, right?

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And then I thought she was kind of bitching about the situation and she was just as mortified as we were.

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But then she's like, which one are you gonna take?

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I think I'm gonna go for that one, or maybe that one.

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Which one are you gonna go home with?

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I'm like, we're gonna leave.

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It was catered by sushi rooku.

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I was like, I'm gonna go grab a plate of sushi and then we're gonna go home.

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I'm here for the food, actually.

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How did we end up going?

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How do we get bamboo to go?

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I don't know.

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You invited me.

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I think everyone has the best intentions of something.

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I invited me on like a pre-party sounds gonna be as well.

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Oh, funny.

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Every year, and then it's funny because every year I go, those trailers are still there.

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Like they're still there on the grounds, those same trailers, like the Thunderbirds trailers or whatever.

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And so every year that I go after, anytime I walk past those trailers, I'm like, oh, remember that time?

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Good old day.

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Good old days.

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What's funny though is like it's sad to me that there are some women that'll do that for what?

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$150 tickets?

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Okay,$12 million house?

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Maybe if he's good looking.

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Right, right.

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But a freaking$100 ticket.

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Yeah, yeah.

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Yeah.

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So you said that you like to travel a lot and you travel alone.

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Have you ever had like a travel romance?

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Yeah.

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So uh my friend group, we've referred to him as my UK boyfriend.

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Ooh.

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Okay.

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But I met him in Croatia when we were on this week-long yacht trip, basically just island hopping.

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But yeah, and I'm actually seeing him in two weeks.

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To England?

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Yeah.

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Have you been there before?

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No.

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Oh my god, you're gonna have so much fun.

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Where in England is he from?

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Uh is it London?

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He's like an hour outside of London.

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I don't know the town.

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It's uh it's like a smaller town, but it's oh my god, how do you like English guys?

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I I actually like them because I don't know, American men are just not it.

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Like, I just like how the the European men are so open about how they feel about you, and the US men are just like, uh I don't know, like I'm not ready for anything serious.

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But this guy still calls me like every day.

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And and it's been four months since I've How funny, he'll do into he'll call you more from the UK doing international calls and with a time difference than a bloke just down the street from you.

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Exactly.

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That's hilarious.

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It does depend though, because remember when I sent you a text or a photo, I can't remember, I had met this English guy.

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I was in bleed and he ended up being so weird.

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He was like homophobic, like started freaking out.

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He we went, um we were on the island for lobster, it was like lobster fest.

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They do this like weekend long festival because it's lobster season there.

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And so they had a Mr.

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Lobster Fest competition, and it was like a beauty pageant, but it was with men.

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And so it was like the Caribbean men, of course.

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So they're like, they're tall and they're dark and they're muscular and they're you know what I mean?

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Like dancing, and it wasn't skanky because there was families there and stuff.

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There was families with kids.

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So it was clean, and and it was, and so a lot of them when they were doing the dances, they were wearing like the the like shorts and button-down shirt sets with just like the shirts unbuttoned, you know what I mean?

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So it was like a little racy, but not, it's not like they were up there and man-thong.

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It was PG 13.

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It was PG 13.

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And we're sitting there and he starts freaking out, going, It's this is so gay.

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Does this make me gay?

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Does this am I gay for being here?

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And I looked at him and I said, No one's forcing you to be here.

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You do not have to be here right now.

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Like you can get up and leave.

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Yeah.

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And then eventually he did get up and leave.

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But what a weirdo.

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He was so weirdo.

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Most of the modern Brits are bad names.

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His masculinity was under attack.

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So how okay, this is maybe TMI, but how do you feel about uncircumcised men?

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Because most Brits are not circumcised, and most American women get freaked out at that.

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Honestly, I don't really care.

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I'm like, whatever, it does the same job.

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So long as he's clean, you know?

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That's what I was just gonna say.

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As long as it's clean, it's fine.

00:15:31.360 --> 00:15:31.519
Yeah.

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So have you ever traveled with a partner or a boyfriend and you've realized, okay, we're not a match because your travel style is different.

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Tell us.

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Yes.

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Okay, I dated this man.

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I was, oh my gosh, never again will I do this.

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But he could not keep a job, and I ended up paying for his rent for three months.

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And finally, I was like, You either kick it in the gear or I'm out.

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And he was like, I can literally be homeless and still love you, but I'm like, I'm not gonna be homeless.

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That's the issue.

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Okay, so either figure it out, but I took him to Mexico, paid for this all-inclusive resort.

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Even my family was there, and oh my gosh, the whole time, just complaining and saying, like, oh, all these people here are just so rich and da-da-da-and-stuck up.

00:16:14.799 --> 00:16:18.080
And I'm like, Okay, but you are here as well, and you didn't pay for anything.

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And then the thing about him too is he didn't like to tip.

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And I was a server at the time, that's how I was paying our bills, and that also started an argument.

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But that whole Mexico trip absolutely sucked, and I I told myself I'm ending it the moment we are back, and I did because I just regret taking him there because I could have just brought like a girlfriend or something and had more fun.

00:16:41.840 --> 00:16:44.399
Well, and like that's how you get the best service at all inclusives.

00:16:44.480 --> 00:16:52.159
It's like you throw them a good tip at the beginning of the vacation, and they basically wait on you hand in foot exactly for the rest of the time.

00:16:52.639 --> 00:16:58.799
Like and he was so soft-spoken too, so he'd go up to the bartender and just be like, Oh, can I get this?

00:16:58.960 --> 00:17:02.159
And they wouldn't pay attention to him because like say it with your chest, man.

00:17:02.320 --> 00:17:09.359
They don't know that you're saying anything, and the music's loud, and I would say it right after him, and he'd be like, Well, it's because you're white, because he wasn't white.

00:17:09.599 --> 00:17:12.559
And I'm like, No, it's because you weren't speaking up.

00:17:12.880 --> 00:17:17.599
Like they you have to look at them with intent and be like, I can get I'll get this.

00:17:17.759 --> 00:17:17.839
Yeah.

00:17:18.079 --> 00:17:18.880
And they'll do it.

00:17:19.200 --> 00:17:20.799
But oh god, it was awful.

00:17:21.200 --> 00:17:24.799
So going back to the realtor thing, have you ever been in a scary situation like at an open house?

00:17:25.039 --> 00:17:25.279
Yes.

00:17:25.440 --> 00:17:25.839
You have?

00:17:26.000 --> 00:17:26.319
Yeah.

00:17:26.480 --> 00:17:32.000
So I've had two real actually, I've had three crazy stories, and they all happen in a month of each other.

00:17:32.319 --> 00:17:37.440
But I did open house challenges, so I did 30 open houses in 30 days, and that's when it happened.

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Um, the first one was in South Scottsdale.

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I was brand new, I was putting out my signs, and this guy approached me and he was like, Hey, I just moved here.

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I don't have a realtor and I'm wanting to buy, but I'm currently at the optima.

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And I was like, Okay, like he's gotta have a little money if he's at the optima.

00:17:52.240 --> 00:17:56.720
So I give him my card, I get to the open house, and he is just blasting my phone.

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I have 40 missed messages from him.

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He's sending me pictures and videos of him throwing money on women, he's saying he could pimp out and make a lot of money, and then he goes, I know where you're at, I'm coming.

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Because all the signs point to me to go and I'm alone.

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So I lock all the doors, I call the cops, and the cops were like, Well, is he there?

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And I said, Not yet.

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But he said he's coming, and the cops go, Call us when he's there.

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Are you kidding me?

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Didn't even show up.

00:18:21.759 --> 00:18:23.680
Yeah, they didn't even do a drive-by, nothing.

00:18:23.839 --> 00:18:27.759
So I called my team lead, and he came because he was so freaked out.

00:18:28.160 --> 00:18:37.440
And yeah, like the guy drove by, but he never stopped, but still, like I could have been alone and nothing, nobody was coming for that.

00:18:37.759 --> 00:18:38.319
That's crazy.

00:18:38.400 --> 00:18:43.359
So there was a woman, I think it was in Arizona actually, arrested recently.

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Did you guys see this news story?

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No, she was arrested recently.

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Her boyfriend or whatever broke up with her.

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And so she slept with like his brother, his roommate, and his someone, someone else close to him, sent him like 65,000 text messages and then broke into his house and took a bath in his bathtub.

00:19:08.960 --> 00:19:09.920
Okay, what?

00:19:10.559 --> 00:19:13.119
That's what you do when you break in, right?

00:19:14.400 --> 00:19:15.279
Yeah, that's critical.

00:19:15.599 --> 00:19:17.680
But that's what that guy reminded me of is this crazy girl.

00:19:17.759 --> 00:19:19.039
Like, what is wrong with people?

00:19:19.440 --> 00:19:20.799
And that was in Scottsdale.

00:19:20.960 --> 00:19:22.079
You wouldn't think it happened there.

00:19:22.400 --> 00:19:24.160
What's funny is that everyone he knew slept with her.

00:19:25.039 --> 00:19:25.599
Okay, yeah, sure.

00:19:25.839 --> 00:19:27.200
And that's what and that's what she said.

00:19:27.359 --> 00:19:37.839
I guess part of the part of the news article said that she told him, she was like, and none of your friends even defended you because they were all willing to sleep with me.

00:19:38.000 --> 00:19:38.240
Yeah.

00:19:38.400 --> 00:19:41.440
Like what man is gonna say no to woman Mulow?

00:19:41.759 --> 00:19:42.240
Exactly.

00:19:42.960 --> 00:19:43.440
I know.

00:19:44.720 --> 00:19:46.720
Yeah, there's been, I don't know if you want to hear.

00:19:47.039 --> 00:19:48.079
Yeah, I want to hear the other ones, yeah.

00:19:48.240 --> 00:19:50.720
Um, I did an open house in Chandler one time.

00:19:50.880 --> 00:19:54.880
I was just setting up, and the neighbor next door wanted to come in, and I wasn't ready yet.

00:19:55.039 --> 00:19:58.559
I now have a camera at this point because I'm paranoid from the other situation.

00:19:58.799 --> 00:19:59.440
This guy comes in.

00:20:00.079 --> 00:20:08.640
Walks through the house and goes back out, immediately steps out of the house, and five cop cars pull up and slam on their brakes, coming to a screeching halt.

00:20:08.799 --> 00:20:11.119
And I'm looking out the window, like, what is happening?

00:20:11.359 --> 00:20:18.480
And they're talking to this guy with like their hands on their guns and they're going like this, like backing away, trying to calm him down.

00:20:18.799 --> 00:20:21.039
And he just walked, he was in the house with me alone.

00:20:21.359 --> 00:20:27.279
So I'm just watching this whole thing, seeing if it's gonna go down, and finally they de-escalate the situation, and they're about to leave.

00:20:27.359 --> 00:20:30.880
So I go out there and I'm like, hey, uh, that guy was in the house with me alone.

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Should I be worried?

00:20:32.240 --> 00:20:35.440
And they go, Well, he got into a fist fight.

00:20:35.599 --> 00:20:37.519
This is like Sunday morning.

00:20:37.759 --> 00:20:40.480
He got into a fist fight about someone chirping him about his lawn.

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Because he was doing lawn work.

00:20:42.480 --> 00:20:43.759
So they got into a fist fight.

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He came into my open house and then came and got arrested.

00:20:47.519 --> 00:20:50.960
And then like he came from the fist fight to the open house.

00:20:51.039 --> 00:20:51.119
Yeah.

00:20:51.759 --> 00:20:52.079
Yes.

00:20:52.799 --> 00:20:56.079
And then they the cops were like, Well, if you need us, we're one call away.

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And I'm just like, Well, I'm not gonna sell a house with five cop cars here, so I'm just gonna close up.

00:21:00.960 --> 00:21:02.319
Yeah, seriously.

00:21:02.640 --> 00:21:04.400
And then there's another one in Tempe.

00:21:04.799 --> 00:21:08.000
This homeless man tried coming in and he was being very aggressive.

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And I kind of and I was alone again, once again, and I had to really think on my feet.

00:21:12.880 --> 00:21:19.200
So I I like opened the door and I was like, We have a private showing coming, you can't come in because he was trying to force his way in.

00:21:19.359 --> 00:21:22.319
And then I looked at the wall and talked to nobody.

00:21:22.480 --> 00:21:25.599
And I was like, Hey, yeah, I know your clients are on the way.

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I'm telling him to leave.

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But I was alone.

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And I and I made it sound like it I was with a m a male coworker, so then he finally started backing away, and he was like, Oh.

00:21:34.400 --> 00:21:38.319
Well, turns out that guy was squatting in the backyard because it was a vacant house.

00:21:38.799 --> 00:21:40.559
I called the cops again, they didn't come.

00:21:40.720 --> 00:21:41.440
Oh my god.

00:21:41.680 --> 00:21:50.000
They didn't fail! I had to like run out of the house to get in my car and after locking up because he was there and they just didn't care.

00:21:50.720 --> 00:21:54.640
And then they did a drive-by later and he was, yeah, squatting in the yard.

00:21:55.920 --> 00:21:57.599
Did you tell the sellers?

00:21:58.079 --> 00:21:59.279
Did they know that there was a squat?

00:21:59.599 --> 00:22:00.160
Yeah, they knew.

00:22:00.319 --> 00:22:00.640
They knew?

00:22:00.960 --> 00:22:08.880
Yeah, well, because that's why that's how we found out, and then ever since they were doing drive-bys for the the police, we're making sure that no one was there, but yeah.

00:22:09.279 --> 00:22:10.640
Wow, that's that's crazy.

00:22:10.799 --> 00:22:14.960
They but squatters do have rights, and so it's hard.

00:22:15.440 --> 00:22:23.359
My ex owned a property in Vegas like years ago, like decades, like back when the 20 2008 crash happened.

00:22:23.920 --> 00:22:33.119
And it w I think it was an apartment that he had owned, but for whatever reason it it had sat empty for a while, and he never went to deal with it.

00:22:33.359 --> 00:22:36.480
It just like sort of stayed on his portfolio or whatever.

00:22:36.720 --> 00:22:46.079
Um and he had squatters in there, and it was so hard to get rid of them because they can't like once they're there, it's like they have and they know they have rights.

00:22:46.240 --> 00:22:46.400
Yeah.

00:22:46.720 --> 00:22:48.640
Well, Arizona's actually pretty good about it.

00:22:48.720 --> 00:22:49.599
We're pretty strict.

00:22:49.839 --> 00:22:50.079
Yeah.

00:22:50.319 --> 00:22:55.200
So it's harder here, but something like New York or other states like that, it is terrible.

00:22:55.599 --> 00:22:56.160
It's crazy.

00:22:56.559 --> 00:22:57.359
So what are you looking for?

00:22:57.440 --> 00:22:59.039
Are you looking to get married, have kids?

00:22:59.680 --> 00:23:03.519
Um, eventually, yeah, but I have yet to see a man who shows me they're worth it.

00:23:04.000 --> 00:23:04.160
Yeah.

00:23:04.480 --> 00:23:06.559
Because the dating here is just rough.

00:23:06.799 --> 00:23:08.559
It no one wants to settle down.

00:23:08.720 --> 00:23:14.079
Everyone sees another hot girl and they're like, Well, why would I settle down when I can go for this one and this one and that one?

00:23:14.240 --> 00:23:15.200
So I don't know.

00:23:15.279 --> 00:23:16.720
And the dating apps don't help at all.

00:23:16.880 --> 00:23:17.039
Yeah.

00:23:17.759 --> 00:23:19.359
Have you tried all the dating apps?

00:23:19.680 --> 00:23:20.000
Yeah.

00:23:20.240 --> 00:23:20.559
Pretty much.

00:23:20.799 --> 00:23:21.680
Except for like Raya.

00:23:21.759 --> 00:23:23.200
I kind of want to get on Raya.

00:23:23.519 --> 00:23:25.519
We have a lot of guests that want to get on Raya.

00:23:25.680 --> 00:23:25.759
Yeah.

00:23:26.000 --> 00:23:28.799
But then we have had a couple that have been on it and they say it's not anything.

00:23:29.119 --> 00:23:32.079
Yeah, we've had quite a few that are on it and they're like, it's not good either.

00:23:32.240 --> 00:23:32.319
Yeah.

00:23:33.119 --> 00:23:33.759
It's very superficial.

00:23:34.079 --> 00:23:36.240
Yeah, the whole dating app thing, not it.

00:23:36.400 --> 00:23:37.920
But I try to meet people in person now.

00:23:38.079 --> 00:23:40.640
And I bet as a realtor, you probably do meet a lot of people in the wild.

00:23:40.880 --> 00:23:41.279
Oh, yeah.

00:23:41.359 --> 00:23:42.480
Because all I'm doing is networking.

00:23:42.799 --> 00:23:48.000
I was gonna say, and if you go to networking events and stuff, you probably what are you deal breakers?

00:23:48.559 --> 00:23:48.880
Ooh.

00:23:49.039 --> 00:23:51.039
Um, like I need someone to be hardworking.

00:23:51.119 --> 00:23:52.400
I'm not gonna date a bomb again.

00:23:52.480 --> 00:23:53.359
That was awful.

00:23:53.920 --> 00:23:58.720
Um, I also like a personality, you know, I don't want them to be boring.

00:23:59.759 --> 00:24:00.960
Uh I'm trying to think.

00:24:01.119 --> 00:24:04.240
I I also like to be active, so I don't want someone who's lazy.

00:24:04.720 --> 00:24:05.519
What are your hobbies?

00:24:05.599 --> 00:24:06.720
What do you do in your free time?

00:24:06.960 --> 00:24:14.319
Um, I travel a lot, so someone who's also willing to travel or even let me go by myself and not feel like insecure about it.

00:24:14.559 --> 00:24:18.000
But um, yeah, traveling, I like to work out, pickleball.

00:24:18.240 --> 00:24:21.279
Um, I like to try new restaurants and coffee shops.

00:24:22.160 --> 00:24:23.599
Physically, what's your type?

00:24:24.000 --> 00:24:25.599
A gym bro, unfortunately.

00:24:26.079 --> 00:24:26.559
Yes.

00:24:26.720 --> 00:24:27.200
Yes.

00:24:27.440 --> 00:24:29.680
So you don't care if they post gym selfies all the time?

00:24:29.839 --> 00:24:30.000
Oh.

00:24:30.160 --> 00:24:32.000
Well, not like that kind of gym bro.

00:24:32.480 --> 00:24:32.960
I don't know.

00:24:33.039 --> 00:24:34.960
Like the thing is not a douchey gym, bro.

00:24:35.359 --> 00:24:36.319
A cool gym bro.

00:24:40.240 --> 00:24:43.519
But unfortunately, that is my type, unfortunately.

00:24:43.680 --> 00:24:43.920
Yeah.

00:24:44.160 --> 00:24:46.400
So I'm trying to get away from that.

00:24:46.720 --> 00:24:54.079
I always say I want someone who is a fat kid, so then they had to have that personality and they're humble, and then they had their glow up and they're hot now.

00:24:54.400 --> 00:24:55.359
But they're not like full of themselves.

00:24:55.599 --> 00:24:57.200
Channing Tatum was a fat kid, right?

00:24:57.279 --> 00:24:58.880
And now he's super hot.

00:24:59.200 --> 00:25:02.640
So people say he's like, he has a good personality.

00:25:02.880 --> 00:25:02.960
Yeah.

00:25:03.119 --> 00:25:04.480
I've never heard that, but I can see it.

00:25:04.720 --> 00:25:05.359
I can see that.

00:25:05.519 --> 00:25:08.720
It's like, yeah, if you can't get by on your looks, you've got to develop a personality.

00:25:09.119 --> 00:25:09.359
Yeah.

00:25:09.680 --> 00:25:16.559
That's why I think he he says he loves to eat, and that's why he said I will never do another Magic Mike movie again because I hate having to get in shape.00:25:17.119 --> 00:25:17.759


I like to eat too much.00:25:18.400 --> 00:25:18.559


Yeah.00:25:19.200 --> 00:25:19.440


Yeah.00:25:19.759 --> 00:25:20.480


That's funny.00:25:20.720 --> 00:25:25.839


So um, do you have a crazy talent that not many people know about or unique facts about yourself?00:25:26.160 --> 00:25:27.279


That's a hard question.00:25:27.519 --> 00:25:38.079


Um I okay, actually, I have a talent where I can talk to literally anyone and find something in common in like four questions.00:25:38.240 --> 00:25:44.960


That's okay so usually with open houses, I I'm able to figure out, you know, sometimes I can tell they're from the Midwest, and I just go, Oh, where are you from?00:25:45.359 --> 00:25:53.839


I was gonna say that's an easy one because so many people are like, because then they instantly trust you too because Midwest is just they're so genuine and kind and they like stick together too.00:25:54.160 --> 00:25:58.400


So I always just have a really a talent of figuring out what we have in common.00:25:59.039 --> 00:26:01.279


Have you ever walked out mid-date or ended a date?00:26:01.680 --> 00:26:02.160


Tell us.00:26:02.400 --> 00:26:07.039


Okay, this was after having a couple bad dates, and I was like, I need to get more mean.00:26:07.279 --> 00:26:11.039


Respectfully, I do, because I'm not wasting people's time anymore, I'm not wasting my time.00:26:11.279 --> 00:26:12.400


But I went on this date.00:26:12.640 --> 00:26:14.559


Turns out it again, it was a dating app.00:26:14.880 --> 00:26:19.119


Turns out he's actually a realtor, and it was like talking to a brick wall.00:26:19.279 --> 00:26:23.440


I would ask a question, it was one one-word answers, no questions back.00:26:23.599 --> 00:26:28.319


We'd be sitting there in silence because I'd I'm like, okay, is he gonna ask me something?00:26:28.640 --> 00:26:30.240


Nope, I guess I'm gonna ask another question.00:26:31.119 --> 00:26:36.160


And it was probably five or ten minutes of that, and finally I just said, You know how it goes.00:26:36.319 --> 00:26:38.240


I have a client right now, they really need me.00:26:38.720 --> 00:26:41.759


And I just left before we even ordered drinks.00:26:42.240 --> 00:26:43.440


Wow, ended that early.00:26:43.519 --> 00:26:44.319


He was that bad, huh?00:26:44.640 --> 00:26:45.680


He was he was bad.00:26:45.920 --> 00:26:47.519


At least you have a good excuse, you're a realtor.00:26:48.079 --> 00:26:52.240


I know, and he was a realtor, so he kind of understands, but he probably did see that.00:26:52.720 --> 00:26:53.839


Did he try to like protest?00:26:53.920 --> 00:26:56.720


Did he try to be like, oh, that's too bad, I wish you could stay?00:26:56.960 --> 00:26:57.519


Not at home.00:26:57.839 --> 00:26:58.720


He just goes, Okay.00:26:59.359 --> 00:27:01.440


And I was like, Alright, see ya.00:27:01.759 --> 00:27:03.039


Because this is awful.00:27:03.359 --> 00:27:04.559


Have you ever been cheated on?00:27:05.039 --> 00:27:05.279


Yes.00:27:05.519 --> 00:27:06.240


How did you find out?00:27:06.960 --> 00:27:14.400


Okay, he was this was in high school, but he was older than me, so he had gone off to college before I had graduated high school.00:27:14.640 --> 00:27:20.000


And he was back in town for the holidays, and my friend was on Tinder swiping, and she found his profile.00:27:20.400 --> 00:27:22.400


So she screenshotted it, sent it to me.00:27:22.559 --> 00:27:24.799


And you know what's even worse about this?00:27:24.960 --> 00:27:27.279


She swiped right and he swiped right on her.00:27:27.599 --> 00:27:29.039


And he knew that she swept.00:27:29.440 --> 00:27:32.480


But she did it because she wanted to start the conversation, call him out.00:27:32.880 --> 00:27:35.359


But the fact that he swiped right on her is wild.00:27:35.839 --> 00:27:38.960


So she goes, Oh, fancy seeing Taylor's boyfriend here.00:27:39.200 --> 00:27:40.160


And he just laughed.00:27:40.240 --> 00:27:40.559


That's it.00:27:40.640 --> 00:27:41.920


Like just laughing faces.00:27:42.079 --> 00:27:45.920


So I I told him about it, and I was like, What the hell is this?00:27:46.079 --> 00:27:54.880


And he goes, Oh, we were doing like a you know when you can put it on to the TV, and then like the whole group can go yes, no.00:27:55.039 --> 00:27:58.079


And he goes, We ran out of likes, so I had to open a profile.00:27:58.240 --> 00:27:58.799


Oh, whatever.00:27:59.119 --> 00:28:01.039


I was like, You had to do it.00:28:01.119 --> 00:28:02.720


Why couldn't any of the single guys do it?00:28:02.960 --> 00:28:04.880


And he's like, We ran out of likes on theirs too.00:28:04.960 --> 00:28:05.039


Oh.00:28:05.440 --> 00:28:06.799


So I'm like, okay, whatever.00:28:06.960 --> 00:28:08.400


I'm naive and dumb.00:28:08.480 --> 00:28:09.119


It's high school.00:28:09.279 --> 00:28:13.359


So I give another chance, and he opens a g another profile again.00:28:13.839 --> 00:28:15.680


So I tried calling him to break up with him.00:28:15.839 --> 00:28:17.279


He won't answer the phone.00:28:17.519 --> 00:28:18.720


He refused to answer.00:28:18.880 --> 00:28:20.319


And I was like, answered now.00:28:20.480 --> 00:28:23.039


And he goes, I'm at, I'm studying, what do you want?00:28:23.200 --> 00:28:27.920


And I was like, all right, well, we're breaking up, but I'm trying to do it over the phone and not text.00:28:28.319 --> 00:28:28.640


Oh my.00:28:28.799 --> 00:28:30.160


How have we together for?00:28:30.559 --> 00:28:32.000


Uh, three and a half years.00:28:32.160 --> 00:28:38.319


Yay! And the worst thing is, too, he kept going, oh, well, it's only to meet new people and meet new people.00:28:38.400 --> 00:28:40.640


Like, that's only that's the only reason I'm on the app.00:28:40.799 --> 00:28:44.319


And his friends were like, Oh, you don't know how hard college is, like, it's just to meet new people.00:28:44.400 --> 00:28:47.920


And I was like, You guys know damn well you're not in Tinder to meet new friends.00:28:48.240 --> 00:28:51.359


Also, when you're a freshman in college, like I assume it was his first year, yeah.00:28:51.680 --> 00:28:54.640


Living in the dorms, you don't need an app to meet new people.00:28:54.799 --> 00:28:58.319


You're literally thrown in the cafeteria you can meet people.00:28:58.559 --> 00:29:00.319


Yeah, you're on campus, all the parenting.00:29:00.960 --> 00:29:01.359


All of it.00:29:01.519 --> 00:29:03.039


So yeah, it was such a stupid experience.00:29:03.359 --> 00:29:03.759


That's crazy.00:29:03.920 --> 00:29:05.119


That was your high school sweetheart.00:29:05.279 --> 00:29:09.119


Yeah, and what's funny is he actually hit me up last Valentine's Day.00:29:09.279 --> 00:29:11.039


I haven't spoken to this man in eight years.00:29:11.200 --> 00:29:13.759


And he's like, Oh, I see you're doing so well.00:29:14.000 --> 00:29:15.680


Next time you're in town, you should let me know.00:29:15.759 --> 00:29:17.039


I'll pick you up from the airport.00:29:17.200 --> 00:29:18.480


I could show you my new house.00:29:18.960 --> 00:29:20.880


I could show you my new Tinder profile.00:29:22.079 --> 00:29:25.039


It's so weird because I'm like, where did you even come from?00:29:25.279 --> 00:29:26.160


But I don't know.00:29:26.240 --> 00:29:26.880


They always come back.00:29:27.359 --> 00:29:28.480


They always come back, ladies.00:29:28.720 --> 00:29:29.119


They do.00:29:29.279 --> 00:29:30.960


Have you had a relationship since him?00:29:31.119 --> 00:29:32.160


Like a long-term relationship?00:29:32.720 --> 00:29:34.000


Just the other guy who was a bum.00:29:34.240 --> 00:29:34.480


Okay.00:29:34.720 --> 00:29:35.599


It was a year.00:29:35.839 --> 00:29:37.359


It lasted a year and I was done.00:29:37.519 --> 00:29:38.079


I was, yeah.00:29:38.160 --> 00:29:41.759


So it's only been those two because now I'm super picky about what I want.00:29:41.920 --> 00:29:45.279


And honestly, they did show me what I don't want, so I am still grateful.00:29:46.000 --> 00:29:47.039


It's lessons, right?00:29:47.279 --> 00:29:47.680


Yeah.00:29:48.000 --> 00:29:48.720


So now I know.00:29:48.880 --> 00:29:49.039


Yeah.00:29:49.200 --> 00:29:49.759


Are you ready for it?00:29:50.000 --> 00:29:50.319


That's funny.00:29:50.400 --> 00:29:51.039


I'm ready for it.00:29:51.200 --> 00:29:54.079


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All right.00:29:59.680 --> 00:30:02.960


So our listener question this week comes from Facebook.00:30:04.319 --> 00:30:11.920


Would you date a guy who says he has been seeing slash sleeping with a married female for going on two years?00:30:12.960 --> 00:30:17.839


We had just started hanging out, and I asked if he had been sleeping with anyone recently.00:30:18.160 --> 00:30:29.119


And he said that he just cut off a female who was married because after two years he felt like she was never going to leave her husband and he was ready for someone who is serious about him.00:30:31.039 --> 00:30:35.519


Would you guys uh date someone who had been just recently?00:30:36.720 --> 00:30:39.359


I would talk to him and find out was he regretful?00:30:39.519 --> 00:30:40.240


Did he feel bad?00:30:40.400 --> 00:30:41.440


Does he have a conscience?00:30:41.599 --> 00:30:42.559


Would he do it again?00:30:42.960 --> 00:30:46.799


But maybe he really does want to settle down and be in a committed relationship.00:30:46.880 --> 00:30:52.960


And maybe she was really manipulating him, making him think that she was all about him and was gonna leave.00:30:53.200 --> 00:30:54.079


I don't know that's tough.00:30:54.400 --> 00:31:04.480


So she says, she goes, the reason why I was so torn was because when I play devil's advocate in my head, I don't think he's necessarily in the wrong.00:31:04.640 --> 00:31:12.240


Although, yes, he has no respect for another person's marriage, it's also not his responsibility to be faithful.00:31:13.759 --> 00:31:14.799


Oh, that's tough.00:31:15.039 --> 00:31:16.000


It's kind of true.00:31:16.079 --> 00:31:16.799


He's single.00:31:16.960 --> 00:31:19.039


You don't sleep with whoever he wants.00:31:19.359 --> 00:31:20.559


She, you don't know what she was telling him.00:31:20.960 --> 00:31:25.680


I know some people lie and say we're separated, we're on the rocks, we're about to separate, you know?00:31:26.160 --> 00:31:31.599


So I think depending on how he chooses to react and defend him, I could I could get past it.00:31:31.759 --> 00:31:32.319


Could you guys?00:31:32.480 --> 00:31:33.359


Oh, I don't know.00:31:33.440 --> 00:31:39.599


Because I was gonna say, you lost me at he was getting with a married woman and he knew that she she had a whole family and everything.00:31:40.079 --> 00:31:46.240


But then there's the side where it's like he pursued it for two years, like he literally wanted it so bad.00:31:46.559 --> 00:31:49.839


So uh I respect that a little bit, right?00:31:49.920 --> 00:31:50.880


Because that's commitment, right?00:31:51.119 --> 00:31:51.920


That's a two-year commitment.00:31:52.960 --> 00:31:56.880


So it shows why can't these men commit to single women?00:31:57.039 --> 00:31:57.359


Like, right?00:31:58.000 --> 00:32:00.720


But it's because they want what they can't have, and it's always like that.00:32:01.039 --> 00:32:02.400


So that's what I would be a little worried about.00:32:02.480 --> 00:32:05.920


Like, what if we got into a relationship and now he's like, well, now I want whatever.00:32:06.480 --> 00:32:07.119


So now I want something else.00:32:07.279 --> 00:32:09.839


So I want something else that it's dangerous and I can't have her.00:32:10.559 --> 00:32:12.160


That's what my concern would be, honestly.00:32:12.480 --> 00:32:28.400


Yeah, and also I feel like it does maybe create a little bit of an idea in his head because if if he now has this idea, like, oh, women cheat on their husbands because this woman cheated with me for two years, is he ever going to trust you then?00:32:28.480 --> 00:32:28.960


That's true.00:32:29.119 --> 00:32:29.759


You know what I mean?00:32:30.000 --> 00:32:33.359


So it could create some other types of issues down the line.00:32:33.599 --> 00:32:33.920


Yeah.00:32:34.160 --> 00:32:35.200


I don't know.00:32:35.599 --> 00:32:36.400


I don't know.00:32:36.559 --> 00:32:48.160


I think I think I I wouldn't completely say no to dating him, but I think I would need to like hear him out and hear like what exactly was the nature of her marriage.00:32:48.319 --> 00:32:49.759


He'd have some explaining to do.00:32:50.240 --> 00:32:52.720


And I'd also like to know if that husband was loyal.00:32:53.200 --> 00:32:53.680


You know what I mean?00:32:54.000 --> 00:32:54.079


Right?00:32:54.319 --> 00:32:55.599


Because they could have had an open marriage.00:32:56.240 --> 00:33:00.240


Like if that guy was sleeping with other people, then I'd be like, okay, it's a little different.00:33:00.319 --> 00:33:02.960


But like if the guy didn't even know that his wife was off.00:33:03.359 --> 00:33:07.119


And if they had kids, like variables.00:33:07.359 --> 00:33:08.880


Yeah, there's a lot of questions I'd be asked.00:33:08.960 --> 00:33:09.039


Yeah.00:33:09.359 --> 00:33:09.519


Yeah.00:33:09.759 --> 00:33:14.799


So we're gonna discuss this article which talks about what to absolutely not do on a first date.00:33:14.960 --> 00:33:16.319


So constantly check your phone.00:33:16.400 --> 00:33:18.559


Have you been on a first date where they're constantly checking your phones?00:33:18.799 --> 00:33:19.279


I'm like, why?00:33:19.519 --> 00:33:20.079


It's so annoying.00:33:20.240 --> 00:33:21.599


It's so disrespectful.00:33:21.680 --> 00:33:23.200


It makes me think you're not interested in me.00:33:23.440 --> 00:33:25.440


That, but also watching the sports on the TV.00:33:25.599 --> 00:33:29.759


Oh like they're just sitting there watching it and not talking to you, and they're like, wait, what?00:33:29.839 --> 00:33:30.319


What'd you say?00:33:30.799 --> 00:33:31.599


I mean, it depends.00:33:31.680 --> 00:33:34.240


If it's game seven of the World Series, it's one thing.00:33:34.559 --> 00:33:35.039


I get that.00:33:35.119 --> 00:33:36.240


Then I'd be watching two.00:33:37.039 --> 00:33:37.920


And I'm like, eh.00:33:38.640 --> 00:33:40.400


The next one is be rude to stuff.00:33:40.559 --> 00:33:42.400


Deal breaker, deal breaker, deal breaker.00:33:42.799 --> 00:33:43.200


Absolutely not.00:33:43.440 --> 00:33:44.640


Or if they don't tip well.00:33:45.200 --> 00:33:46.720


No, that's a hundred percent deal breaker for me.00:33:46.799 --> 00:33:47.680


Because I need to be a server.00:33:47.759 --> 00:33:54.319


Like what kind of bugs you to it is if they get the calculator out to determine what's you can't do 20% in your head, guys.00:33:54.640 --> 00:33:55.200


It doesn't have to be.00:33:55.279 --> 00:33:57.759


What are you gonna say, but you're worried that you're gonna lose out on a couple pennies?00:33:57.839 --> 00:33:59.519


You're gonna tip her five cents extra.00:33:59.680 --> 00:34:00.480


Like, come on.00:34:00.559 --> 00:34:01.119


Yeah.00:34:01.440 --> 00:34:02.960


Get too drunk, of course.00:34:03.440 --> 00:34:04.079


That's happened.00:34:04.160 --> 00:34:04.960


It's kind of a turn-off.00:34:05.039 --> 00:34:12.639


I mean, I've been in a situation in my 20s where I got drunk on a first set and it's mortifying for me because I I know how it looks when I'm on a date and the guy's wasted.00:34:12.880 --> 00:34:13.039


Yeah.00:34:13.199 --> 00:34:14.159


It's kind of a turnoff, right?00:34:14.239 --> 00:34:14.719


Yeah, it is.00:34:14.960 --> 00:34:15.280


100%.00:34:15.760 --> 00:34:16.719


Talk about your ex.00:34:16.880 --> 00:34:17.840


So many people do this.00:34:18.239 --> 00:34:19.199


So many people.00:34:19.360 --> 00:34:20.000


It's crazy.00:34:20.079 --> 00:34:24.239


Because now I'm like, I know you're not over this because you have talked about it for the last 20 minutes.00:34:24.320 --> 00:34:24.559


Right.00:34:24.719 --> 00:34:25.679


Why are we talking about your ex?00:34:25.920 --> 00:34:27.119


I mean, you have to a little bit.00:34:27.280 --> 00:34:33.920


I think there's a fine line between like talking about lessons you learned from an ex and like why things went wrong.00:34:34.000 --> 00:34:38.880


And you can talk about like your own personal growth, about this is this and that.00:34:39.039 --> 00:34:43.039


But if it's obsession over the ex, it's another thing.00:34:43.199 --> 00:34:43.360


Yeah.00:34:43.440 --> 00:34:44.960


I think it depends on the context with that.00:34:45.280 --> 00:34:46.559


Talk about yourself the entire time.00:34:46.719 --> 00:34:51.679


We get this a lot from women that men, it's only men that do this, we hear that men talk about themselves.00:34:52.000 --> 00:34:54.880


I think it's I think it's just because we've had a lot of female guests on lately.00:34:55.199 --> 00:34:56.000


I think women do it too.00:34:56.159 --> 00:34:56.400


Do they?00:34:56.639 --> 00:34:57.519


I think they do it too.00:34:57.679 --> 00:34:57.840


Yeah.00:34:58.000 --> 00:34:58.159


Yeah.00:34:58.559 --> 00:34:59.440


It just depends.00:34:59.599 --> 00:34:59.920


Yeah.00:35:00.239 --> 00:35:01.360


Come on too strong.00:35:01.519 --> 00:35:02.239


That's a turn off.00:35:02.719 --> 00:35:02.960


Yeah.00:35:03.119 --> 00:35:04.559


Love bombers, absolutely not.00:35:05.039 --> 00:35:08.719


For some reason, I attract love bombers, like it's I don't understand.00:35:09.280 --> 00:35:10.480


Because you're an empathetic person.00:35:11.039 --> 00:35:12.639


Are you uh do you have empathy for people?00:35:12.880 --> 00:35:16.960


Yeah, that's why they but they're like, Oh, I could fall in love with you right now.00:35:17.039 --> 00:35:17.920


Don't say that to me.00:35:18.000 --> 00:35:23.760


Yeah, because I know also they're the first ones to turn around and like go see other people and be like and then end it.00:35:24.000 --> 00:35:26.079


Every time I was love bombed by a guy, it never worked out.00:35:26.159 --> 00:35:26.400


Exactly.00:35:28.800 --> 00:35:29.199


Yeah.00:35:29.440 --> 00:35:31.679


Um, constantly check your appearance.00:35:31.840 --> 00:35:37.920


That kind of have you seen all those all those reality shows where they're on a first date and the women are like doing their hair or have you noticed that?00:35:38.000 --> 00:35:40.559


They're constantly like fixing themselves, and it's so annoying.00:35:40.719 --> 00:35:47.039


Yeah, especially a guy, like one time they would they'd go like this to see their phone and they'd just be like in front of me.00:35:47.119 --> 00:35:47.599


What are you doing?00:35:47.920 --> 00:35:48.320


What's happened?00:35:48.400 --> 00:35:48.480


Yeah.00:35:48.719 --> 00:35:49.360


What a turn off.00:35:49.679 --> 00:35:49.920


I know.00:35:50.000 --> 00:35:51.440


I feel like it's very Scottsdale.00:35:51.679 --> 00:35:52.719


So Scottsdale.00:35:52.880 --> 00:35:54.880


I gotta make sure I don't have stuff in my teeth though.00:35:55.360 --> 00:35:57.760


Yeah, that that part depends on what we're eating.00:35:57.920 --> 00:35:59.280


Okay, depends on where we are.00:35:59.440 --> 00:35:59.679


Yep.00:35:59.920 --> 00:36:00.559


Show up late.00:36:00.639 --> 00:36:02.719


I feel like that's kind of annoying and disrespectful.00:36:03.280 --> 00:36:04.880


Refuse to pay your way.00:36:05.119 --> 00:36:06.960


I feel like the girl should always offer, right?00:36:07.199 --> 00:36:07.840


I always offer.00:36:08.480 --> 00:36:09.360


I don't ever offer.00:36:09.519 --> 00:36:11.599


I offer because the answer tells me all I need to know.00:36:11.760 --> 00:36:12.320


You know what I mean?00:36:12.480 --> 00:36:13.199


That's kind of true.00:36:13.440 --> 00:36:16.960


I actually just had a date recently and I was like, oh, we could split it.00:36:17.039 --> 00:36:20.800


And he goes, No, it's fine, I'll take the check, even though you probably make way more than I do.00:36:21.679 --> 00:36:24.079


Well, don't say yes and then make me feel bad.00:36:24.719 --> 00:36:26.559


Insecurities without telling me your insecurities.00:36:26.719 --> 00:36:26.880


Right?00:36:27.199 --> 00:36:27.280


Yeah.00:36:28.960 --> 00:36:29.440


I disagree.00:36:29.599 --> 00:36:29.920


Curse.00:36:30.000 --> 00:36:30.239


Whatever.00:36:30.320 --> 00:36:31.760


In England, we swear all the fucking time.00:36:32.159 --> 00:36:32.639


I swear.00:36:33.119 --> 00:36:34.320


I swear a lot.00:36:34.559 --> 00:36:40.320


And I actually just got told, okay, this was like a year ago, but I got told I wasn't Barbie girl enough because I swore.00:36:40.960 --> 00:36:41.920


And I wasn't blonde.00:36:42.159 --> 00:36:46.960


Well, I also don't want to be on a date with someone who just like drops the F bomb every other word.00:36:47.519 --> 00:36:48.079


Every other word?00:36:48.239 --> 00:36:48.559


Yeah.00:36:48.719 --> 00:36:49.519


You know, once in a while.00:36:49.760 --> 00:36:54.719


Because I dated this Italian guy, this loud Italian guy, for a while, a couple years ago.00:36:54.880 --> 00:36:58.880


And it was, he was so rough and gruff and everything was like, fuck.00:36:59.280 --> 00:37:00.000


There's a good balance.00:37:00.400 --> 00:37:06.239


And it was that was unattractive because one, it drew attention from everybody because he was so loud.00:37:06.480 --> 00:37:06.719


Okay.00:37:06.880 --> 00:37:10.000


And then two, he was very like vulgar with his speech.00:37:10.320 --> 00:37:12.800


And I'm like, can't we just have a nice date?00:37:13.039 --> 00:37:20.320


Just the two of us without you know everyone looking at us because you are so have such a potty mouth.00:37:20.480 --> 00:37:20.639


Yeah.00:37:20.960 --> 00:37:21.840


Okay, I could see that one.00:37:22.000 --> 00:37:22.639


I think it depends.00:37:22.800 --> 00:37:23.440


It does depend.00:37:23.599 --> 00:37:24.400


Be insecure.00:37:24.480 --> 00:37:25.360


That's kind of a turnoff.00:37:25.679 --> 00:37:32.639


I've gone on dates with guys and they they're super insecure, and it's like uh lie or misrepresent yourself, of course.00:37:32.800 --> 00:37:36.079


And the last one is use a coupon on the date on the first date.00:37:36.320 --> 00:37:40.320


I've had guys do that before, and it's kind of like wait till the second date.00:37:40.639 --> 00:37:41.519


What kind of coupon?00:37:41.840 --> 00:37:42.400


Or four.00:37:42.639 --> 00:37:44.239


Because I'm gonna get one for you.00:37:44.400 --> 00:37:46.880


There's in kind, and I respect people using that app.00:37:47.199 --> 00:37:47.920


What is that app?00:37:48.000 --> 00:37:48.159


No.00:37:48.559 --> 00:37:49.119


You guys should get it.00:37:49.519 --> 00:37:49.840


In kind?00:37:50.159 --> 00:37:59.679


It's called in kind, and you get like money back on all the restaurants in Scottsdale that participates in it, but it's like Edda, Tokamadeira, all these nice ones, and you get a lot of money back.00:37:59.840 --> 00:38:01.280


It's like racketin, but for restaurants.00:38:01.519 --> 00:38:02.079


You should get it.00:38:02.159 --> 00:38:03.840


I can send you, I can send you the thing.00:38:04.400 --> 00:38:05.599


Every time I send it, yeah.00:38:05.920 --> 00:38:08.239


And now that I'm married, I use coupons all the bloody time.00:38:08.400 --> 00:38:08.719


Yeah.00:38:09.280 --> 00:38:11.199


Even if it's like 20 cents up.00:38:11.679 --> 00:38:12.239


Three kids.00:38:12.320 --> 00:38:13.440


I need to save all the money I can get.00:38:13.679 --> 00:38:14.000


Exactly.00:38:14.159 --> 00:38:14.559


That's hilarious.00:38:14.719 --> 00:38:18.000


So now we're gonna talk about the celebrity cup where we marinate in the juices of the celebrities.00:38:18.159 --> 00:38:20.639


So you know Kendra Wilkinson from Girls Next Door?00:38:20.719 --> 00:38:21.679


And you know how do you know her?00:38:22.000 --> 00:38:24.079


She was one of the Playboy Bunnies that lived with Hugh Hefner.00:38:24.159 --> 00:38:24.719


Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.00:38:24.880 --> 00:38:26.320


So she's doing real estate now.00:38:26.800 --> 00:38:27.199


What?00:38:27.360 --> 00:38:32.400


And she she did, I guess she started in 2020 and then she had a reality show, Kendra Sells Hollywood.00:38:32.639 --> 00:38:34.719


Must not have done that well, because I've never heard of it.00:38:34.960 --> 00:38:36.960


Well, and I think I've heard of it.00:38:37.039 --> 00:38:38.400


I think during COVID.00:38:38.639 --> 00:38:39.920


It was, you know what I mean?00:38:40.079 --> 00:38:44.079


Like it was right during if it was 2020, it was right when COVID happened.00:38:44.400 --> 00:38:45.519


I guess though she quit.00:38:45.599 --> 00:38:51.519


Because you know how real estate's up and down, and it does take a while to but 2020, I would have killed to start then.00:38:51.679 --> 00:38:53.679


You know how I all the people that I inspire.00:38:54.000 --> 00:38:56.719


Yeah, people were like, Yeah, I sold 40 houses on my first year.00:38:56.880 --> 00:38:57.199


What?00:38:57.360 --> 00:38:57.679


Yeah, yeah.00:38:57.760 --> 00:38:59.280


But it's because those interest rates were 2%.00:38:59.599 --> 00:39:00.320


Like that's not fair.00:39:00.800 --> 00:39:01.039


Yes.00:39:01.199 --> 00:39:07.039


I think she probably thought that with her connections, she was just gonna have like an easy.00:39:07.599 --> 00:39:13.840


I guess she had a rough start and it took her a while, and so she gave up, but then she came recently came back and she's back at it now.00:39:14.000 --> 00:39:14.239


Really?00:39:14.400 --> 00:39:16.159


And I guess she's doing doing better now.00:39:16.400 --> 00:39:20.159


Do you guys know that Clayton, Clayton from The Bachelor, is a is a realtor here?00:39:20.320 --> 00:39:21.360


Oh god, is he really?00:39:21.519 --> 00:39:22.239


I know he lives here.00:39:22.480 --> 00:39:23.519


Now he's time to real estate.00:39:23.760 --> 00:39:25.039


Yeah, you should look at his videos.00:39:25.119 --> 00:39:26.559


He just dances throughout the house.00:39:26.719 --> 00:39:27.599


Have you ever met him?00:39:27.760 --> 00:39:28.000


Yes.00:39:28.159 --> 00:39:28.719


Have you worked with him?00:39:28.800 --> 00:39:28.960


Yeah.00:39:29.199 --> 00:39:30.480


No, I haven't worked with him.00:39:30.639 --> 00:39:31.280


Oh, just met him.00:39:31.360 --> 00:39:31.519


Yeah.00:39:31.920 --> 00:39:32.960


How was he in person?00:39:33.360 --> 00:39:35.599


His whole personality is that he was on The Bachelor.00:39:35.760 --> 00:39:36.239


Oh, really?00:39:36.400 --> 00:39:37.199


Yeah, I can see that.00:39:37.599 --> 00:39:39.119


The whole personality on that.00:39:39.280 --> 00:39:39.519


Yes.00:39:39.840 --> 00:39:41.119


Have to ride his 15 minutes.00:39:41.280 --> 00:39:42.639


Because didn't he get far?00:39:42.880 --> 00:39:43.920


He was the bachelor, though.00:39:44.159 --> 00:39:45.199


Oh, he was The Bachelor.00:39:45.519 --> 00:39:45.760


Okay.00:39:45.840 --> 00:39:47.599


I don't watch The Bachelor franchise.00:39:47.920 --> 00:39:49.199


But okay, so he was The Bachelor.00:39:49.280 --> 00:39:51.519


Oh, so that gives him a big head.00:39:51.679 --> 00:39:51.840


Yeah.00:39:51.920 --> 00:40:02.320


So I basically, okay, I just made a video recently kind of adding him a little bit, but um, he started taking these dance classes, and now because he's a real He's like dancing throughout the house, and that's like his thing.00:40:02.480 --> 00:40:06.480


Well, that's like my thing too, but I took 15 years of dance.00:40:06.639 --> 00:40:12.639


So there was one video where he's doing the Sid test, it's like slide and Dougie, and he's giving the tour of the house.00:40:12.719 --> 00:40:18.400


But I did another one where it started with his video stitched, and then I did it, and I was like, Here's how you really dance.00:40:18.559 --> 00:40:21.039


And it's like me flipping and doing turns.00:40:21.599 --> 00:40:22.000


Good for you.00:40:22.159 --> 00:40:25.119


Yeah, and he commented, he's like, Yeah, I can't compete with that.00:40:25.360 --> 00:40:27.519


But but he refused to share it.00:40:27.679 --> 00:40:31.440


Because I I tagged him and I also invited him as collaborator because he's in it.00:40:31.519 --> 00:40:33.199


He refused to that's funny.00:40:34.079 --> 00:40:35.199


I think he was a little offended.00:40:35.360 --> 00:40:39.119


What is up with all the ex-bachelor bachelorette people being realtors?00:40:39.280 --> 00:40:42.800


Because I know Ari is, Clayton is, Courtney Robinson is.00:40:42.960 --> 00:40:44.960


I was on The Bachelor and I'm a realtor.00:40:45.119 --> 00:40:46.480


You were back in the day.00:40:46.639 --> 00:40:47.440


Like you were probably so young.00:40:47.519 --> 00:40:48.159


Ben Flannery.00:40:48.320 --> 00:40:48.719


I know that.00:40:48.960 --> 00:40:51.519


I think it's just because the network is so big.00:40:51.679 --> 00:40:53.920


They think they have a lot of friends and family.00:40:54.239 --> 00:40:56.000


Well, because they get so many followers from that too.00:40:56.960 --> 00:40:59.280


But that doesn't mean because he hasn't really sold many houses.00:40:59.519 --> 00:41:01.760


And he's been doing it for like a year and a half.00:41:02.159 --> 00:41:07.039


And yeah, if you look up his record, like he he sold like maybe four, I think.00:41:07.440 --> 00:41:07.760


That's it.00:41:08.000 --> 00:41:10.960


Yeah, and they've said that about like the selling sunset cast.00:41:11.360 --> 00:41:12.000


They don't sell houses.00:41:12.480 --> 00:41:17.440


If you actually, if you look at their real estate records, they don't actually sell that many houses.00:41:17.599 --> 00:41:19.440


There are some agents, I think.00:41:19.760 --> 00:41:20.239


Very few.00:41:20.719 --> 00:41:27.280


But yeah, most of them that are on the TV show side of it, they don't actually sell a ton of houses.00:41:27.519 --> 00:41:29.039


Well, I feel that's tough because what do they say?00:41:29.119 --> 00:41:31.039


One in three people has their real estate license.00:41:31.199 --> 00:41:32.159


Like everyone knows about it.00:41:32.400 --> 00:41:32.719


Everyone does.00:41:32.960 --> 00:41:33.519


It's very competitive.00:41:33.760 --> 00:41:35.199


Yeah, but there's so many bad ones.00:41:35.519 --> 00:41:37.440


Oh my god, I would say 90% of them are terrible.00:41:37.840 --> 00:41:38.639


90%, yeah.00:41:39.199 --> 00:41:41.280


Because the the threshold to get in is not hard.00:41:41.519 --> 00:41:41.840


Like you take.00:41:43.920 --> 00:41:45.360


I think you should have a college degree.00:41:45.599 --> 00:41:48.960


And I just feel like people are just it's a free-for-all, man.00:41:49.039 --> 00:41:51.440


Like, people need to be more regulated in this in this industry.00:41:51.920 --> 00:41:52.639


It's ridiculous.00:41:52.960 --> 00:41:54.480


It's shocking how bad real estate agents are.00:41:54.639 --> 00:42:00.239


Like they don't communicate, their grammar, their language is poor, they don't know the contract, they don't fill out the contract right.00:42:00.559 --> 00:42:05.599


And it's like literally the basics that you would think is common sense, it's not common.00:42:06.639 --> 00:42:07.440


It's crazy.00:42:07.760 --> 00:42:11.280


Now it's time to get to know you with Zoyo, sponsored by Zoyo, your neighborhood yoga.00:42:11.440 --> 00:42:15.599


And if you want to pick the top card and answer the question, answer at your own wrist.00:42:15.920 --> 00:42:16.079


Okay.00:42:16.239 --> 00:42:19.199


So it says, What is the oh wow.00:42:19.599 --> 00:42:22.320


What is the dirtiest porn you've ever Oh, sorry.00:42:22.480 --> 00:42:22.960


Oh wait.00:42:23.440 --> 00:42:27.760


No, no, no, do not do it.00:42:28.559 --> 00:42:30.960


Some of them are too dirty, so we put other portions in.00:42:31.440 --> 00:42:32.880


Okay, I thought you were adding on to it.00:42:33.199 --> 00:42:33.440


Okay.00:42:34.559 --> 00:42:37.920


But you know what's like one answer the first one if you feel comfortable.00:42:38.239 --> 00:42:39.039


I'm not answering that.00:42:40.159 --> 00:42:41.360


I'm not answering that.00:42:42.079 --> 00:42:45.599


Okay, so the question is, what was the last thing that made you cry?00:42:45.840 --> 00:42:47.119


It's a lot more innocent.00:42:47.280 --> 00:42:48.079


There's so much hard.00:42:48.320 --> 00:42:50.800


It goes from the dirtiest porn you've ever seen to what's the last thing?00:42:51.039 --> 00:42:54.400


The last thing that made me cry is the dirtiest porn I've ever seen, okay?00:42:54.639 --> 00:42:55.840


It was so bad I cried.00:42:56.559 --> 00:42:57.760


I felt bad for the actors.00:42:58.239 --> 00:43:00.320


Oh my gosh, I don't even know.00:43:00.559 --> 00:43:02.320


I honestly don't cry a lot.00:43:02.480 --> 00:43:02.639


No?00:43:02.880 --> 00:43:05.280


Yeah, because no, no man deserves my tears on the top.00:43:05.679 --> 00:43:06.079


Good answer.00:43:06.239 --> 00:43:09.679


Have you have you cried about something that's not man related though?00:43:10.400 --> 00:43:12.000


I really don't cry.00:43:12.159 --> 00:43:15.280


Like I cried watching Frankenstein, the new Frankenstein.00:43:15.360 --> 00:43:15.679


I don't know why.00:43:15.760 --> 00:43:16.480


It wasn't like it was sad.00:43:16.639 --> 00:43:17.760


I just felt bad for the city.00:43:17.920 --> 00:43:19.440


It was probably like a movie, honestly.00:43:19.840 --> 00:43:23.039


It was probably a movie, but I can't even think of the movie on the top of my head.00:43:23.280 --> 00:43:24.639


Yeah, I can't remember the last time I cried.00:43:24.880 --> 00:43:25.199


I don't know.00:43:25.280 --> 00:43:26.159


I'm not a crier.00:43:26.320 --> 00:43:26.800


I don't know.00:43:27.039 --> 00:43:32.880


That's how I know when I'm like that time of the month is coming, because I'll be watching The Housewives or something.00:43:33.119 --> 00:43:38.320


And one of them has survived the most non-aggressive type of breast cancer or something.00:43:38.400 --> 00:43:40.480


Like they've literally had a biopsy and that's it.00:43:40.639 --> 00:43:41.039


Or something.00:43:41.119 --> 00:43:45.360


It's it's the most minimal health scare ever.00:43:45.519 --> 00:43:54.320


And I'm like, I don't know if it's because I'm a mother now or because I'm older, but I cry like during the most stupid movies.00:43:54.400 --> 00:43:56.320


Like I was watching, have you seen the kissing booth?00:43:56.400 --> 00:43:57.199


I love the kissing booth.00:43:57.599 --> 00:43:57.840


I love it.00:43:58.000 --> 00:44:01.760


I was watching it with my daughters and I was crying, and my daughter's like, Mom, are you crying?00:44:02.000 --> 00:44:04.079


Like who cries during the kissing booth?00:44:04.320 --> 00:44:04.639


That's funny.00:44:04.880 --> 00:44:05.679


That is a good movie, though.00:44:06.400 --> 00:44:07.679


That sounds like a hallmark movie.00:44:07.840 --> 00:44:08.719


It's it's actually pretty good.00:44:08.800 --> 00:44:10.480


It's a Jacob, what's it, Elordi?00:44:10.559 --> 00:44:11.599


He's in the New Frankenstein.00:44:11.840 --> 00:44:12.320


I love him.00:44:12.559 --> 00:44:13.599


He's a tall glass of water.00:44:14.320 --> 00:44:14.880


Six foot five.00:44:15.119 --> 00:44:16.880


He's originally from Dean Under, Australia.00:44:17.039 --> 00:44:17.119


Oh.00:44:21.280 --> 00:44:22.239


Do you have any other questions?00:44:22.559 --> 00:44:23.679


No, do you have any other questions?00:44:23.920 --> 00:44:25.360


Uh anything else you want to add?00:44:25.440 --> 00:44:26.239


Any other crazy stories?00:44:26.480 --> 00:44:27.760


Where's your favorite place for a date?00:44:27.840 --> 00:44:28.960


What's your ideal first date?00:44:29.039 --> 00:44:30.400


Oh gosh, that's so hard.00:44:30.639 --> 00:44:32.000


Um, I don't know.00:44:32.159 --> 00:44:35.039


I always just love like nicer restaurants.00:44:35.280 --> 00:44:36.719


Of course, like every every girl.00:44:36.960 --> 00:44:42.400


But like Global Ambassador or maybe something like Elefante, Moxie's, something like that.00:44:42.480 --> 00:44:43.039


I don't know.00:44:43.599 --> 00:44:46.639


Something where it's actually good and it's not a hole in the wall.00:44:46.800 --> 00:44:47.280


Yeah.00:44:47.519 --> 00:44:49.519


If we're actually vibing, then it's good.00:44:49.840 --> 00:44:56.719


Um, another one I wanted to add was in our friend group, we always have nicknames for guys based on what they've done, right?00:44:56.960 --> 00:44:59.280


So we have this guy named Humping Boy.00:44:59.679 --> 00:45:02.800


Because on the first day, he humped me like a dog.00:45:03.199 --> 00:45:04.960


And it was, he did it twice.00:45:05.199 --> 00:45:05.599


Why?00:45:06.079 --> 00:45:09.519


The first time, this was like three months ago, by the way.00:45:10.000 --> 00:45:15.519


The first time, he just like hugged me from behind and he was like thrusting, okay?00:45:15.760 --> 00:45:16.719


Like humping me.00:45:16.960 --> 00:45:19.519


And and we were just in public in a parking lot.00:45:19.679 --> 00:45:20.000


What?00:45:20.079 --> 00:45:21.840


And I was like, Oh, what are you doing?00:45:22.000 --> 00:45:24.639


Uh let's just go inside because we're going to the movie.00:45:24.880 --> 00:45:25.920


And he's like, What?00:45:26.000 --> 00:45:28.079


We're literally clothed, it's fine line.00:45:28.400 --> 00:45:29.840


And I was like, This is so weird.00:45:30.000 --> 00:45:35.519


And then when uh we left, he also hugged me in front this time and he starts humping me.00:45:35.599 --> 00:45:35.840


Oh yeah.00:45:36.320 --> 00:45:38.800


He deserves his nickname for humping man.00:45:38.880 --> 00:45:40.079


He's like a little horny dog.00:45:40.400 --> 00:45:41.199


Is this the first date?00:45:41.360 --> 00:45:41.679


Yes.00:45:41.920 --> 00:45:42.239


What?00:45:42.719 --> 00:45:43.039


First date?00:45:43.519 --> 00:45:43.840


That is so.00:45:44.159 --> 00:45:47.039


But he was three drinks in, so maybe he was feeling it or something.00:45:47.280 --> 00:45:49.760


But yeah, he was like, and he wouldn't let go either.00:45:49.920 --> 00:45:51.440


But yeah, rubbing his dick on me.00:45:51.679 --> 00:45:52.320


Three drinks in.00:45:52.400 --> 00:45:52.639


That's it.00:45:52.800 --> 00:45:54.239


Can you imagine when he's like six drinks in?00:45:54.480 --> 00:45:54.719


I know.00:45:55.039 --> 00:45:55.760


Has a couple shots.00:45:56.079 --> 00:45:56.480


No, yeah.00:45:56.880 --> 00:45:59.039


So then do you change their names in your phone?00:45:59.119 --> 00:46:00.960


Like if you have their number saved.00:46:01.360 --> 00:46:02.239


Sometimes.00:46:02.480 --> 00:46:03.440


Sometimes I do.00:46:03.519 --> 00:46:07.199


Like it'll be their name, and then in parentheses, right after it's humping man.00:46:07.280 --> 00:46:07.440


Yeah.00:46:07.679 --> 00:46:10.320


Or like this one was called Fish Boy.00:46:10.719 --> 00:46:12.480


I don't even know why I gave him that nickname.00:46:12.559 --> 00:46:13.920


But sometimes they just do something.00:46:14.079 --> 00:46:15.519


Well, and that's how it sticks.00:46:15.920 --> 00:46:20.000


Because my girlfriends are like, I don't know what, like, who's Jake, who's you know, Josh.00:46:20.239 --> 00:46:21.679


And they're like, oh, Humping Man?00:46:22.159 --> 00:46:22.239


Yeah.00:46:22.320 --> 00:46:23.199


It's easier to remember.00:46:23.760 --> 00:46:31.280


I was going on a date with this guy once, and I was showing my friend his uh Instagram profile, and she was like, Oh, he's hot.00:46:31.519 --> 00:46:37.440


But she was like, He looks like you might need a shot of penicillin after after that.00:46:37.599 --> 00:46:40.320


And so his nickname was Penny, so we called him Penny.00:46:40.480 --> 00:46:44.079


So we like text, I'd be like, I'm going out for coffee with Penny this morning.00:46:44.320 --> 00:46:45.360


Oh my God.00:46:46.400 --> 00:46:47.519


Oh my gosh.00:46:48.239 --> 00:46:48.559


Yes.00:46:48.800 --> 00:46:50.000


I think I got them all out.00:46:50.639 --> 00:46:52.239


I wrote them down because I was like, I can't forget.00:46:52.639 --> 00:46:58.480


Yeah, I've had some unhinged, I've had some pretty unhinged nicknames for guys that I'm that I'm dating.00:46:58.719 --> 00:46:58.880


Yeah.00:46:59.039 --> 00:46:59.280


Yeah.00:47:00.000 --> 00:47:00.159


Yeah.00:47:00.320 --> 00:47:03.599


Well, thank you so much for joining us this week on the meat market, and thank you so much, Taylor.00:47:03.679 --> 00:47:08.000


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